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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don’t you just love it when you send a message that fits someone’s profile, they read it then either delete and/or block or they just read and don’t respond.

I’ve notice that there is a lot of that on here and I’m getting sick of it

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend


"Don’t you just love it when you send a message that fits someone’s profile, they read it then either delete and/or block or they just read and don’t respond.

I’ve notice that there is a lot of that on here and I’m getting sick of it "

It could be that they are just not attracted to you, ticking boxes is one thing but there has to be some physical attraction aswell. Also they have no obligation to reply to you i belive it even says in the site rules to take no reply as a polite no thankyou and move on. Many don't reply as they just get abusive messages in return when they do as rejection often seems to offend. I have been on this site since 2014 and have had hundreds of messages deleted and or blocked, it is the way it is. As for read and no reply that's just the same they don't have to reply they may be busy with life or working or any number of other things but the basics of it is they don't owe you a reply if they don't want to communicate with you just move on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I know it must be frustrating but I'm not sure there's an answer to your problem. The site FAQS do say that no response means not interested and a lot of people will abide by that.

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By *ilkey69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Totally agree it's only polite just to say no.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Totally agree it's only polite just to say no."

This is a genuine question and I don't necessarily disagree but would an inbox full of no thanks messages be better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally agree it's only polite just to say no.

This is a genuine question and I don't necessarily disagree but would an inbox full of no thanks messages be better?"

Maybe not. I understand where people are coming from it’s just the fact that it doesn’t feel right. I get that no reply means no thanks but still at least something would be better than nothing

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By *j1966TV/TS
over a year ago

leicester

Always 2 sides to a story. I get lots of messages and reply to very few as they don’t read my profile. If they did read it they would see what I’m after the age group and not to just “hey fancy a fuck” type message

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Don’t you just love it when you send a message that fits someone’s profile, they read it then either delete and/or block or they just read and don’t respond.

I’ve notice that there is a lot of that on here and I’m getting sick of it "

Best read the rules.

No reply means no thanks.

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By *ortherncouple0Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Don’t you just love it when you send a message that fits someone’s profile, they read it then either delete and/or block or they just read and don’t respond.

I’ve notice that there is a lot of that on here and I’m getting sick of it

Best read the rules.

No reply means no thanks. "

We try to reply to a good few even when we say No thanks etc, however they then reply back pretty much pleading. So it pee's me off and I then ignore messages until Im in a good mood again

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Don’t you just love it when you send a message that fits someone’s profile, they read it then either delete and/or block or they just read and don’t respond.

I’ve notice that there is a lot of that on here and I’m getting sick of it

Best read the rules.

No reply means no thanks.

We try to reply to a good few even when we say No thanks etc, however they then reply back pretty much pleading. So it pee's me off and I then ignore messages until Im in a good mood again"

Exactly.

And if they are not pleading they become abusive.

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

Couples I know get well over 100 replies a week. You cannot expect them to reply to every message, surely?

What is the point of flogging dead horses. Move on and hope you get a bite on the next one. If they are interested you will get a reply..

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By *ortherncouple0Couple
over a year ago

North West

And the block button comes out to play

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By *ortherncouple0Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Couples I know get well over 100 replies a week. You cannot expect them to reply to every message, surely?

What is the point of flogging dead horses. Move on and hope you get a bite on the next one. If they are interested you will get a reply.."

This

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