FabSwingers.com forum: Separating wheat from chaff

By *SA blk fun OP Man
over a year ago

Redhill

Ok so it's a problem as old as time, and yes I expect a lot of flaming for this.

How do find the genuine like minds and ignore the dreamers, time wasters and pic collectors?

I used to simply exchange pictures - but Facebook and the internet has kinda ruled that out as valid.

Now I try to speak early on the phone - but for newbies or some couples that can make them uncomfortable too early.

So the question remains - what have you found as the best and most reliable way to locate the genuine couples from the rest?

Couples feel free to add your two penneth.

By *appyprivateMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

I used to msn or chat with them first and then arrange to meet up somewhere in a pub, or somewhere public - have a drink and have a chat.

If it was going ok and the vibe was she wasn't going to hack my bits off - then onto the next encounter/stage/woods we go.

If it wasn't working out, or I thought they were time wasters, I'd thank them for their time, have another drink with them, and head off.

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Meet them for a drink. Not always 100% successful and I do get left sat on my tod in a pub from time to time, but as I always take my Kindle out with me it just means I am sat in the pub with a 'book' and pint. Fine by me!

By *appyprivateMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

Hey, it's one way to separate the two! Or make sure your not the one there first :op

Separating wheat from chaff - what works for you