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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would it be possible to ask , to be honest I don’t know how to ask my question & putting it across the right way , I’ve always wanted to have a meet from here but I don’t know how to approach the subject without sounding like a complete idiot, if a guy wore bags all the time due to a long term medical situation, how would it make you feel ? one for the female members would that put you off ? Guys how you feel about it if it was the opposite way round ?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It wouldn’t put me off, as long as I found the person attractive and liked their personality. In the same way as I wouldn’t be put off by a wheelchair, or a prosthetic, or scarring. Those things have no bearing on whether I like a person or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It wouldn’t put me off, as long as I found the person attractive and liked their personality. In the same way as I wouldn’t be put off by a wheelchair, or a prosthetic, or scarring. Those things have no bearing on whether I like a person or not."

Thankyou for responding.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I first met my partner with a broken knee, the wheelchair, crutches and zimmer frame, were only temporary.

I did use a recreation her metal implant as an icebreaker: I'm brave/daft enought to do that.

The look on her face was priceless, well worth it.

We are still together. Poor girls she's had enough trauma! LOL She's wearing me out (that's karma for you)

So keep things open, the subject not the bag and only the genuine ones will hang around.

Bad breath, poor hygiene and a rotten attitude will always put people off.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I first met my partner with a broken knee, the wheelchair, crutches and zimmer frame, were only temporary.

I did use a recreation her metal implant as an icebreaker: I'm brave/daft enought to do that.

The look on her face was priceless, well worth it.

We are still together. Poor girls she's had enough trauma! LOL She's wearing me out (that's karma for you)

So keep things open, the subject not the bag and only the genuine ones will hang around.

Bad breath, poor hygiene and a rotten attitude will always put people off.

Good luck.

Thankyou

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

When me and my other half were at our local naturist club, I noticed an old girl, say 60+ walking around with what looked like a pencil case stuck to her hip, like a clutch hand bag. It was white with blue flowers on it. Quite subtle and tasteful, not like me then!

So why not get yourself a funky cover, or 2 or 3. Etsy and Redbubble are good for these as well as the usual suspects (Ebay and Amazon).

Considering how many people are handcrafting reusable face masks at the moment; now would be the best time to shop around and get your favourite design. This will be a great ice/taboo breaker. Good for confidence boosting too.

I just saw one that said "Shit happens", this thing is keeping you alive, use dead pan humour to its best effect.

If that one is not to your liking, then there's loads to choose from.

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