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Why this Asian guy loves white women!

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

From the outset, I’d like to say that I honestly believe all races are equal. I am attracted to and have dated other races apart from white women. However, my preference is white women and here are some of the reasons why:

CONTRAST IN SKIN and HAIR TONES: despite quite a few white lovers, I still get excited by the contrast my dark skin makes with fair. Especially at night, where white skin make an especially lovely contrast. It’s a true coffee and cream fantasy and blonde hair and blue/green eyes especially excite me as I see them as polar opposites and opposites attract for me!

TABOO/FORBIDDEN FRUIT ELEMENT: Interracial sex and relationships seem to be generally accepted in this day and age and I’ve encountered very little racism on here. It’s still sad it exists though with George Floyd etc. It’s therefore nice to see a black guy with a white woman or an Asian girl with a white guy that shows the breaking down of racial barriers.

Growing up, I always admired white women, but felt they were unobtainable. I found out in my teens this wasn’t the case after receiving interest from them. But sex and dating still feels exciting with white women. I find it especially exciting to go with a white woman who had never considered an Asian lover before and I was there first!

There’s also the rebellious side for me. I love the idea of winding up racists of any race by letting them know an Asian man like me and a shire woman are hot for sex. I’ve snogged a few partners in pubs and bars and I suspect people will know we’ll get up to far more in private!

SEX AND WHITE WOMENS FEET: So bear with me on this one! Generally being around Asian women from a young age, and they tend to cover themselves up, cute, well kept female feet became an area of fetish for me. Attractive white feminine feet are therefore a turn on for me and I love the contrast and feel of them on my erogenous zones.

Then there is sex in general. I’ve found white partners to be far more liberal and adventurous. I adore my cock sucked for example and it’s a huge plus if a woman is keen to do that I’ve found white lovers generally are.

Does the above make sense? I’d love to hear your thoughts! x

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown

So.

To all the people who shout up that " No Asian Guys" is rascist.

What are your opinions on this guy's choice.

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

Hmm interesting. If I see that on someone’s profile, I get a bit disappointed, but it’s totally there choice.

I tend to block them though, so I don’t make the mistake of messaging them or looking at there profile again

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We all have our own choices and I can fully understand and respect others choices. Interracial sex isn't everybodys cup of tea but we like tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have our own choices and I can fully understand and respect others choices. Interracial sex isn't everybodys cup of tea but we like tea. "

We agree totally and support freedom of choice.

But many on here don't.

Funny enough, they are being REALLY quiet now.

OP. The choice is yours. Good luck now.

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

Thanks Stef and others. Interracial sex with white females is what I go for. Not everyone’s turn on and some people are against the idea. As with most things that’s there choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a fetish for any particular race/colour/body type - it’s about attraction, intelligence and sex appeal for me.

So if I get an interesting message from a guy, whoever they are, I will read their profile and decide if I want to consider them. The only thing that really doesn’t attract me is a very hairy man or a long straggly beard - I have told men before that this has turned me off them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a white guy who loves Asian women !!

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

Good for you Tom! I’m sure you’ll find some nice ones on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gf has a kink about fucking asian men,I guess its what you like.im more than cool with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Stef and others. Interracial sex with white females is what I go for. Not everyone’s turn on and some people are against the idea. As with most things that’s there choice."

Freedom of choice is what we are all about, and exactly how it should be.

Funny how all the people who keep shouting that freedom of choice/attraction is racist have all gone quiet now.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Interesting and thought-provoking post, thank you for sharing. I can definitely see where you're coming from with the contrast in skin tones.

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"My gf has a kink about fucking asian men,I guess its what you like.im more than cool with it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I’m about to say is a bit strange but even tho I struggle a lot to find mates for NSA or a relationship because of my skin colour. I end up with white women and face more judgment and racism from girls from race lol

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

Ha! I’ve had that in the past. Then again, I’ve known Asian guys who get enraged at the sight of an Asian girl with a white or black guy.

Live and let live I say

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

I’m very glad I’ve posted this. I’ve made a couple of very appealing and genuine connections as a result!

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Sexual preference is sexual preference. And your unpicking of why you think you desire sex with pale women is very interesting, thanks OP.

The issue is that the term "IR" (interracial sex) is awful. Can it not just be that you love having sex with women who look a certain way? So if you love having sex with women with pale skin or that you think are white then that's just a personal choice. Especially as you gave a few examples of couples that are quite common. It's not "interracial sex" everytime I have sex with my partner because a) we are invisible in porn and b) I also don't view him as "Oh he has a different cultural heritage to me, therefore his sexual behaviour will be like so or I find this more kinky simply because of that.

I am an equal opportunities employer when it comes to what race my playmate identifies as. But I used to get disgusting messages and real life interactions that were reductionist. I'm not a fetish. And I also don't know what it is like to "have sex with a black girl" because I haven't either. In the last few years ppl have been more respectful or if they saw me as some sort of tick box or thought that Nubian people were a monolith, they kept it to themselves.

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

I can see how the term interracial can be offensive to some people, you are right. Some probably do think I fetishise those with fair skin and that’s also true to a point.

It doesn’t however cloud my judgement in terms of racial equality. I see people by their merits. Not their skin colour. Probably going off on a tangent there!

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By *_the_impalerMan
over a year ago

canterbury

This is probably the most unracist pastime ever

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread. I am 57 and always, dated Asian and black women.Never had a white girlfriend. Married to a beautiful black lady. The ex was black. 3 children between them. Just my preference. I find them very attractive. More exotic Would be the word iam looking for. Nothing racial about it or fetish rubbish.. Feel your boots young man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha! I’ve had that in the past. Then again, I’ve known Asian guys who get enraged at the sight of an Asian girl with a white or black guy.

Live and let live I say "

It's the same when black men see a black girl with a white man. Alot of them can't handle it, yet they are quite happy to play with white girls. Horses for coarses and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All lives matter

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By *ittermolassesMan
over a year ago

manchester

A lot to unpack there. Where to begin?

I’m intrigued why you feel you have to tell everyone that. What was the point?

Do you not think you see them as most attractive because that’s what you have been fed by the media and apparently swallowed.

Yes, racism “etc” iS a huge problem and that is why things like this are an issue. Fancy wtf you like, but maybe think that is it really necessary to shout, it perpetuates a myth and can be damaging. For example, I got told in my office that I was “too black” to be attractive. Strangely enough, I’ve never heard of someone being called “too white”. So, yeah, saying this kind of thing, isn’t really necessary, it’s the pre programmed, factory setting,unimaginative attitude to have. I liken it to having a smart phone straight from the box vs one that has all your apps and photos. Yes, they DO the same thing, but one is far more interesting.

So, I’m happy that you are in the majority. But I’ll never understand why people put themselves in boxes like this….

Enjoy the white skin. Shame you have literally wiped out the majority of the world.

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By *dysseusukMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Interesting thread. I am 57 and always, dated Asian and black women.Never had a white girlfriend. Married to a beautiful black lady. The ex was black. 3 children between them. Just my preference. I find them very attractive. More exotic Would be the word iam looking for. Nothing racial about it or fetish rubbish.. Feel your boots young man. "

So true Michael. The term interracial does fetishise it when we should just be talking about a particular attraction, in the same way you might be attracted to a blonde or brunette, or a lady is attracted to a dad bod or a a gym fit!

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By *dysseusukMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"A lot to unpack there. Where to begin?

I’m intrigued why you feel you have to tell everyone that. What was the point?

Do you not think you see them as most attractive because that’s what you have been fed by the media and apparently swallowed.

Yes, racism “etc” iS a huge problem and that is why things like this are an issue. Fancy wtf you like, but maybe think that is it really necessary to shout, it perpetuates a myth and can be damaging. For example, I got told in my office that I was “too black” to be attractive. Strangely enough, I’ve never heard of someone being called “too white”. So, yeah, saying this kind of thing, isn’t really necessary, it’s the pre programmed, factory setting,unimaginative attitude to have. I liken it to having a smart phone straight from the box vs one that has all your apps and photos. Yes, they DO the same thing, but one is far more interesting.

So, I’m happy that you are in the majority. But I’ll never understand why people put themselves in boxes like this….

Enjoy the white skin. Shame you have literally wiped out the majority of the world. "

"Too" white people are typically called 'gingers' but that's just banter, although I'm sure it pains many of them...

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

If you read my first post you’ll note that I like women of all races. Would I date a white woman solely for being white? Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying white woman are ‘easy’? Shocking

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

There’ll always be racism just like there’s always be good and bad and black and white. Just be the best version of yourself and see each person for who they are and their qualities and you’ll never be accused of being racist love seeing different races together, make up of society could be better yes, but then again… it could be worse. Let’s not promote apartheid

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

lol exactly

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.


"Ha! I’ve had that in the past. Then again, I’ve known Asian guys who get enraged at the sight of an Asian girl with a white or black guy.

Live and let live I say "

I was married to a woman of Asian origin for 15 years and to my knowledge never received any abuse.

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By *rankie bricksMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Interested in thread

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By *anjkuk OP   Man
over a year ago

Heald Green

Cool, what’s that?

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By *ajnranMan
11 weeks ago

Cheadle

Interesting read! Both my partner and I also love white women and couples for similar reasons! x

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
11 weeks ago

SA3


"Interesting read! Both my partner and I also love white women and couples for similar reasons! x"

Shame mine isn’t ready to swap yet, I’d love to watch her contrast with you! Your partner is out of my league though!

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By *amieLDN22Man
11 weeks ago

London

Always find it odd people who exclusively date a certain race. I like to select from the whole table rather than restrict myself to a single boring dish. I like to sample everything. Oh the joys of life.

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By *rankie bricksMan
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

White husband, find the original thread interesting for similar reasons to OP

Willing and interested in chatting

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