FabSwingers.com forum: Sauna Etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. Bit of a newbie type question from a non-newbie-ish...

Once Covid is over (it will happen some day!!), and saunas reopen, I’m v v keen to go to one. Thing is, I’m nervous about what actually happens. I have visions of walking around with a permanent horn looking like a complete knob.

Can anyone tell me more about what actually happens? Will I be jumped or likely not jumped?

Looking at Tropics in Portsmouth, if that helps.

Thanks!!

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By *ugeload_atxMan
over a year ago

Goatstown

I don't know this helps but under the Stories & Fantasies forum, there is a thread titled "First gay sauna"

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/716654

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go along. You will usually be given a towel to wrap around you (unless it's a naked day). Just walk around slowly and acquaint yourself with the venue. One odd thing you may encounter is that it can be very quiet.. With no one talking to each other. Often there is music being played to fill the silence. You may find that other guys are just wandering around as well. As you pass them in the corridors they may run a hand over your towel or backside as an indication they are interested. If you are interested just stop and let them make the next moves. Ie they will probable reach under your towel to feel your cock etc. You can do the same back if you want and maybe they will ask you to go to a private cabin. If you don't want to play with them, just politely move their hand away and say no thanks. Don't get rude or aggressive.. There's no need. If they know you're not interested they will just move on. Similarly you can be the one to make the first move on any guy you fancy... And again if he isn't interested don't make a big deal about it just say OK and move on. If you enjoy sucking cock find where the gloryholes are and use them. In the actual sauna rooms you are expected to sit naked. But oddly enough in my experience if there are a lot of guys in there no-one seems keen to make a first move. However if there is action going on between a few guys others are usually welcome to join on. Similarly if there's a large room or area where guys are having fun in public, it's acceptable to stand and watch and wank and often you will be encouraged to join in. The larger the group having fun the more acceptable it is for you to just join in without being asked .. And the Ask won't usually be verbal but a look or a nod or a wave beckoning you to join the group. Don't be shy. Remember everyone is there for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Guys - once we are allowed to socialise again I’ll be there! Nervously but there!!! Anyone from Portsmouth who fancies coming along feel free to get in touch!!!

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By *piral36Man
over a year ago

South west

First time I was at a naked spa I was worried I'd have a constant horn, after 10 min it feels really natural to be naked, the slightest contact from someone else and yes instant horn but that's when its needed lol

Never been to a gay sauna but I'm guessing its slightly more forward than a mixed spa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you’re in there within minutes someone will make a move. I was nervous first time, have been known now just to get my cock out and wait for a mouth to descend.

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By *reenline49Man
over a year ago

Melbourn

"Just go along. You will usually be given a towel to wrap around you (unless it's a naked day). Just walk around slowly and acquaint yourself with the venue. One odd thing you may encounter is that it can be very quiet.. With no one talking to each other. Often there is music being played to fill the silence. You may find that other guys are just wandering around as well. As you pass them in the corridors they may run a hand over your towel or backside as an indication they are interested. If you are interested just stop and let them make the next moves. Ie they will probable reach under your towel to feel your cock etc. You can do the same back if you want and maybe they will ask you to go to a private cabin. If you don't want to play with them, just politely move their hand away and say no thanks. Don't get rude or aggressive.. There's no need. If they know you're not interested they will just move on. Similarly you can be the one to make the first move on any guy you fancy... And again if he isn't interested don't make a big deal about it just say OK and move on. If you enjoy sucking cock find where the gloryholes are and use them. In the actual sauna rooms you are expected to sit naked. But oddly enough in my experience if there are a lot of guys in there no-one seems keen to make a first move. However if there is action going on between a few guys others are usually welcome to join on. Similarly if there's a large room or area where guys are having fun in public, it's acceptable to stand and watch and wank and often you will be encouraged to join in. The larger the group having fun the more acceptable it is for you to just join in without being asked .. And the Ask won't usually be verbal but a look or a nod or a wave beckoning you to join the group. Don't be shy. Remember everyone is there for the same thing. "

Good advice here and I'd certainly agree with all the comments.

Enjoy the fun once you lose your initial apprehension. You'll go back time & time again...I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume we're not talking about the sauna at the local leisure centre here?!

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

Do not piss on the coals to make steam..

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