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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys I know my profile says I'm in a relationship but I need help. It feels like my girlfriend doesn't want sex with me no more. I try to be intimate with her every day, I constantly flirt with her, I touch her up, I kiss her in the right places, I Complemt her, but nothing gets her in the mood. Every thing was great then it just stopped. Last time we had fun I couldnt keep it up during penetration but was had as a rock thought oral and teasing. Any help is appreciated.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

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"Hi guys I know my profile says I'm in a relationship but I need help. It feels like my girlfriend doesn't want sex with me no more. I try to be intimate with her every day, I constantly flirt with her, I touch her up, I kiss her in the right places, I Complemt her, but nothing gets her in the mood. Every thing was great then it just stopped. Last time we had fun I couldnt keep it up during penetration but was had as a rock thought oral and teasing. Any help is appreciated. "

Well theres not much about you on your profile. Perhaps shes got wind that you would cheat on her?

You say you are ample..perhaps that puts her off you and you are a smoker...perhaps that puts her off you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys I know my profile says I'm in a relationship but I need help. It feels like my girlfriend doesn't want sex with me no more. I try to be intimate with her every day, I constantly flirt with her, I touch her up, I kiss her in the right places, I Complemt her, but nothing gets her in the mood. Every thing was great then it just stopped. Last time we had fun I couldnt keep it up during penetration but was had as a rock thought oral and teasing. Any help is appreciated.

Well theres not much about you on your profile. Perhaps shes got wind that you would cheat on her?

You say you are ample..perhaps that puts her off you and you are a smoker...perhaps that puts her off you?"

We agree. Maybe she has found out that you are on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys I know my profile says I'm in a relationship but I need help. It feels like my girlfriend doesn't want sex with me no more. I try to be intimate with her every day, I constantly flirt with her, I touch her up, I kiss her in the right places, I Complemt her, but nothing gets her in the mood. Every thing was great then it just stopped. Last time we had fun I couldnt keep it up during penetration but was had as a rock thought oral and teasing. Any help is appreciated. "

Maybe by trying to be intimate every day, she feels pressured. Have you asked how she is in general? If there's anything troubling her? Anything she wants to talk about? She probably needs to feel like you want and need her in other ways too.

If you have a bath, why not run her a nice one with s bath bomb or her favourite bubble bath? Candles, her favourite music, a fluffy towel. Reassure her that you're doing this to help her relax and not as a prelude to sex. Suggest a snuggle on the sofa afterwards watching something, listening to music, talking or being there in silence, enjoying the shared space. DO NOT INITIATE ANY FORM OF SEXUAL INTIMACY. If it does happen, let her lead it from the outset. Be gentle unless she lets you know she wants it differently.

Lots of people need to feel that they're wanted for more than sex and that's so important to remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her and sort it out. Be patient and work on it or end it. Hopping in here is not the answer.

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