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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, was wondering if anyone could help me understand something. I have recently made arrangements to meet a couple after covid is dealt with but have been given a rule by the couple I don't understand.

Apparently no kissing or touching is allowed during sex.

I understand the no kissing part but have asked them to elaborate twice about the no touching. However I just got issued the same rule like it was self explanatory and then they ignored that part of my message the second time.

I obviously don't want to pester them about this or they may not want to meet at all. Also they have said they are okay with hardcore sex so it is not a mutual wanking type meet; thank god or I wouldn't be meeting them.

But I don't understand what is meant by no touching. What am I missing, how do you fuck without touching?

If anyone knows please let me know because I am scratching my head.

I have a few ideas, such as no sensuality, but other than that I am at a loss. Any help would be appreciated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do they mean no men touching each other? If they won't explain don't meet them, they should be happy to tell you you simply can't go ahead with something if you don't know what's involved. It's not possible to have sex with someone without touching them

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I guess it means no sexual touching, fingering, hugging, or squeezing breasts, they just want your cock nothing else.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

As above, if they won't explain something that's actually far from self explanatory, I would not meet them.

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

Agree with the above... their attitude already seems off!! They can’t be bothered replying to your question! Do you think the meet will go well!?

I’d put the little brain away, think about it and give itva swerve!!

Honest opinion !!

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By *ossdinCouple
over a year ago

CROYDON/GATWICK/BEXHILL

We'd avoid at all costs, sounds dodgy

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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago

North Wales

Are you sure they just want you there to watch while they are having sex, I had a message the other week from a couple, they wanted me to just watch them having sex and see how things go she may suck my cock, but no touching .

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi, was wondering if anyone could help me understand something. I have recently made arrangements to meet a couple after covid is dealt with but have been given a rule by the couple I don't understand.

Apparently no kissing or touching is allowed during sex.

I understand the no kissing part but have asked them to elaborate twice about the no touching. However I just got issued the same rule like it was self explanatory and then they ignored that part of my message the second time.

I obviously don't want to pester them about this or they may not want to meet at all. Also they have said they are okay with hardcore sex so it is not a mutual wanking type meet; thank god or I wouldn't be meeting them.

But I don't understand what is meant by no touching. What am I missing, how do you fuck without touching?

If anyone knows please let me know because I am scratching my head.

I have a few ideas, such as no sensuality, but other than that I am at a loss. Any help would be appreciated."

Don’t over complicate it, asking daft questions will put them off, get round there after COVID and get her fucked !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi, was wondering if anyone could help me understand something. I have recently made arrangements to meet a couple after covid is dealt with but have been given a rule by the couple I don't understand.

Apparently no kissing or touching is allowed during sex.

I understand the no kissing part but have asked them to elaborate twice about the no touching. However I just got issued the same rule like it was self explanatory and then they ignored that part of my message the second time.

I obviously don't want to pester them about this or they may not want to meet at all. Also they have said they are okay with hardcore sex so it is not a mutual wanking type meet; thank god or I wouldn't be meeting them.

But I don't understand what is meant by no touching. What am I missing, how do you fuck without touching?

If anyone knows please let me know because I am scratching my head.

I have a few ideas, such as no sensuality, but other than that I am at a loss. Any help would be appreciated.

Don’t over complicate it, asking daft questions will put them off, get round there after COVID and get her fucked ! "

I don't think its daft to ask how he can have sex with someone without touching them. That's telepathy at its finest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it means no sexual touching, fingering, hugging, or squeezing breasts, they just want your cock nothing else."

That is what a woman did to me I used to meet. Little kissing it took me nearly 2 years to get to hug her. No touching her breasts either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP as tempting as it is in order to secure a meet, don’t compromise yourself.

If they are not willing to discuss what they are expecting from you, it doesn’t bode well.

What happens if your idea of not touching is a million miles away from theirs?

I don’t think it’s unreasonable for you to know what the boundaries are.

Hope it works out.

V

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Sounds very odd. I had all the same thoughts as others above, but also wondered: if its the guy doing the writing (and it tends to be), it might be perfectly obvious *to him* that he means "no touching me".

I'd definitely be asking then to clarify - and not just 'what does no touching mean' as that just begs for the obvious answer. 'd be asking exactly what and who I am not expected to touch and saying that for safety's sake I wouldn't meet unless that were absolutely clear. For all we know they might mean the antique china tea set on display in the living room...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your replies. I will try to clear up a few quandries you have.

1) The male half of the couple in question has clearly stated "The guy must not touch or kiss my wife while having sex with her" as a rule.

2) I sent a link of some rough porn, saying that's the kind of thing i would like to do with his wife and he said that was okay.

3) I said I am looking forward to fucking his wife after covid is over and he said "ok".

4) I will ask him to clarify the rules once more when arranging the meet properly.

5) I obviously won't be meeting if he gives a less than encouraging confirmation that we are on the same page regarding the rules and expectations.

6) I am not going to overthink this too much nor pester them until making arrangements after covid.

Thank you for your insights. Part of me may have been overacting but I just wanted to respect their rules without pissing them off.

Be well,

Ste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"after covid is dealt with"

LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for your replies. I will try to clear up a few quandries you have.

1) The male half of the couple in question has clearly stated "The guy must not touch or kiss my wife while having sex with her" as a rule.

2) I sent a link of some rough porn, saying that's the kind of thing i would like to do with his wife and he said that was okay.

3) I said I am looking forward to fucking his wife after covid is over and he said "ok".

4) I will ask him to clarify the rules once more when arranging the meet properly.

5) I obviously won't be meeting if he gives a less than encouraging confirmation that we are on the same page regarding the rules and expectations.

6) I am not going to overthink this too much nor pester them until making arrangements after covid.

Thank you for your insights. Part of me may have been overacting but I just wanted to respect their rules without pissing them off.

Be well,

Ste

OP, that’s a whole lot more information than you originally gave!

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