FabSwingers.com forum: Me my mental health

By *odybuilder OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Dose anyone accept mental health ie ptsd few people said would not meet me due to this i would like to see how many people would either

Pass

Fuck

Flirt

Please be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dose anyone accept mental health ie ptsd few people said would not meet me due to this i would like to see how many people would either

Pass

Fuck

Flirt

Please be honest "

That's really sad and ignorant of other people. Mental health is no reason to not meet someone unless u know for a fact they are a danger to u.

Do u disclose to people before you meet them you suffer with your mental health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck with a hot body like that, we could discuss mental health after. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id definitely fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be kind and try to understand ptsd. And not judge..but if they was abusinve or took steroids which can make someone aggressive and on edge..body builders can do that

..I would avoid.

Im male and for a female that would be more itimidating. I dont think you should ever be judged for ptsd tho unless..you become aggresive? Not many people know much about it inc me. I would suck u off tho ha

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By *itznBobz2018Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Op as the straight male I would pass. However I would say your a good looking guy. Maybe need to go to the gym a bit more. Only kidding. People shouldnt judge you on somthing that's happened in yours past mental health affects a lot of people in different ways

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By *ealArtfulDodgerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Id definitely fuck you

And me you Rose

Great thread guys n gals and Mental Health is NO Joke and YES that is from personal experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you believe the governments figures the reporting of Mental Health issues have gone up 800% since lockdown, not really discussed in the public forum either by social media or the press... and something that really can't be addressed by flirt or fuck type questions, but good to talk about in public never suffer in silence.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Depends how understanding they are and how much it affects your relationship with them. I personally don't want any drama so not sure if I would get involved if I knew it might cause drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is not one person on this thread who has not, is not or will not experience mental ill health.

Anyone thinks otherwise is deluded... See what I did there

OP you are who you are with an abvious story so just keep your head high and go forward, those who would Diss you on this basis aren't worth your time anyway.

Kudos to you for speaking about it, huge problem with men bottling up and feeling ashamed.

Very very best wishes

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By *ishygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Dose anyone accept mental health ie ptsd few people said would not meet me due to this i would like to see how many people would either

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I’m sorry to hear of your mental health but assuming we clicked, I’d fuck you.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

im a long term sufferer of mental health problems (depression, anxiety, agoraphobia) and i dont look for meets because of it, in the unlikely event that an attractive woman wanted to meet me, even for a social only meet, chances are i would politely refuse, even if they knew about my issues.

so why am i on fab i hear you ask, to try to take my mind off my issues and have some kind of social interaction where i feel comfortable. the forums can be a surprisingly supportive place too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people who don't want to meet you because of it, aren't the type of people you want to meet.

That's how I think about it. Lots of people have struggled and continue to struggle with there mental health, myself included. If someone didn't want to meet me because of it, that's there loss.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Someone having PTSD would not put me off at all. In fact one of my very first swinging friends had it.

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By *odybuilder OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"Id definitely fuck you

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i would too

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By *odybuilder OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"Depends how understanding they are and how much it affects your relationship with them. I personally don't want any drama so not sure if I would get involved if I knew it might cause drama "
thank you for your kind words guys xxxx

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By *odybuilder OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"Someone having PTSD would not put me off at all. In fact one of my very first swinging friends had it."
thank you so so much means a lot xx people sometimes are horrible quick to judge xx

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By *odybuilder OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"Dose anyone accept mental health ie ptsd few people said would not meet me due to this i would like to see how many people would either

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Means a lot thank you i would too

Please be honest

I’m sorry to hear of your mental health but assuming we clicked, I’d fuck you. "

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By *odybuilder OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"There is not one person on this thread who has not, is not or will not experience mental ill health.

Anyone thinks otherwise is deluded... See what I did there

OP you are who you are with an abvious story so just keep your head high and go forward, those who would Diss you on this basis aren't worth your time anyway.

Kudos to you for speaking about it, huge problem with men bottling up and feeling ashamed.

Very very best wishes

Thank you means so so much x

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"There is not one person on this thread who has not, is not or will not experience mental ill health.

Anyone thinks otherwise is deluded... See what I did there

OP you are who you are with an abvious story so just keep your head high and go forward, those who would Diss you on this basis aren't worth your time anyway.

Kudos to you for speaking about it, huge problem with men bottling up and feeling ashamed.

Very very best wishes

So so true

Over the years I have employed several people, some of whom have had some fairly serious mental health issues, only once did it cause a problem at work, and it wasn’t a problem that we couldn’t get over ( it meant me travelling alone for a trip that was planned which involved 14 hours driving each way, because said employee had anxiety and couldn’t travel) prior to that trip I had no idea he had a problem, cute rly employee has PTSD having served in Northern Ireland in a less stable time

Point is people shouldn’t judge

Well done for talking about it, hopefully people can be honest with you

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By *odybuilder OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Ok so ptsd and mental Hel is massive here let me give u insight to the people that block or ignore me cos I have this Heath I am ready to meet and be nice to even get a meet

Not my fault i killed to protect this country not my fault I’m not well I don’t freak out I’m just very axiorty guy

So for once be nice to meet and even cuddle ?? feel the love or cuddle

Thank you guys for messaging this is keeping me sane x

Still carry on the game it’s nice to know who would

Smash ??

Pass

Or fuck

Me x

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By *cottishcubsMan
over a year ago

"Ok so ptsd and mental Hel is massive here let me give u insight to the people that block or ignore me cos I have this Heath I am ready to meet and be nice to even get a meet

Not my fault i killed to protect this country not my fault I’m not well I don’t freak out I’m just very axiorty guy

So for once be nice to meet and even cuddle ?? feel the love or cuddle

Thank you guys for messaging this is keeping me sane x

Still carry on the game it’s nice to know who would

Smash ??

Pass

Or fuck

Me x"

Sadly you don’t bat for my team but your yeah I’d do the full lot haha!

On a serious note though I’ve struggled in the past with mental health, and never seen anyone about it Incase it went on my medical records. Living alone through lockdown has been brutal so can’t imagine how you’re feeling. Won’t let me pm you but if you need someone to listen I’m here mate. Stay strong you got this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had that a few times where people have said "no way im meeting you, your to f####d up" sorry, but cant help my past, doesnt make anyone anyless of a person then anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever posted this before I would pass Completely. Necause its obviously a huge issue that cant be resolved from one forum or afew feedbacks.

No one cares about ptsd unless it impacts them in some way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are damn ignorent and think you can catch mental health problems off of someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say gwt help in a nice way because you have posted this before..as a topic and it was definately you.

Obviously you tell everyone you have ptsd for them to.judge you by it...look into what ur ptsd effect others or work on it.

I would meet a ptsd person but wouldnt if they post often about it. Its obviously a big issue and your a _odybuilder..thats imtimidating. If you have issues you worry about. How does ptsd effect pwople you meet?..is the real topic.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"I would say gwt help in a nice way because you have posted this before..as a topic and it was definately you.

Obviously you tell everyone you have ptsd for them to.judge you by it...look into what ur ptsd effect others or work on it.

If the OP has posted about this before then he is getting help, because he is talking about it... the fundamentals of therapy.

He isn't telling everybody he has PTSD so they can judge him, he will already be judging himself, and he will be worried about how his PTSD effects others and what they think of him... his anxiety.

Maybe his PTSD is a big issue, but its his issue am I'm sure he's dealing with it the best way he can, he should be shown compassion not discrimination.

So what if he's a _odybuilder, have you considered that going to the gym is therapeutic for him, giving him something to do and escape from his own personal demons.

Just because he has PTSD & is a body builder it doesn't mean he is going to have the stereotypical movie reaction and turn into the Hulk and trash everything in site if he gets angry. Chances are it will be the opposite and he will go quiet and become emotional, maybe even cry.

Clearly you have never suffered from PTSD, depression and anxiety, and have no idea how much of a disability it can be, or how bad the mental torture is.

To the OP, you have shown great strength by sharing the issues you struggle with. its a great shame that fighting for our country came with such a high price at your personal expense. Stay safe and stay strong

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By *ntcovMan
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

Never forget people, we ALL have mental health...all the time.

I work in that field and there's a common misconception that 'mental health' is only when someone is experiencing bad times with theirs... definitely not the case, there's good mental health and poor mental health, and anything on the scale between.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

I would warn against hanging your hopes on this site. If you find rejection hard to deal with or have body issues there is a danger of being dragged deeper down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have replied in this forum d*unk and was harsh because the forum kwpt coming up and I thought it re posted over again..it was the same post..my bad I made a mistake.

I would say dont worry that you have ptsd or worry what others think, The decent people will be completely fine with it! And its a weighg off your shoulders to be open dont worry, dont let it hinder you! x everyone has insecurities about many things ptsd is one of yours. X take careI would smash

extra time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say gwt help in a nice way because you have posted this before..as a topic and it was definately you.

Obviously you tell everyone you have ptsd for them to.judge you by it...look into what ur ptsd effect others or work on it.

If the OP has posted about this before then he is getting help, because he is talking about it... the fundamentals of therapy.

He isn't telling everybody he has PTSD so they can judge him, he will already be judging himself, and he will be worried about how his PTSD effects others and what they think of him... his anxiety.

Maybe his PTSD is a big issue, but its his issue am I'm sure he's dealing with it the best way he can, he should be shown compassion not discrimination.

So what if he's a _odybuilder, have you considered that going to the gym is therapeutic for him, giving him something to do and escape from his own personal demons.

Clearly you have never suffered from PTSD, depression and anxiety, and have no idea how much of a disability it can be, or how bad the mental torture is.

I have suffered depression..i live with it, have knowledge of mental illness and anxiety.

I thought it kept getting posted over and over again..but it didnt my mistake. I didnt realised forums dont seem to delete. I wish the guy the best and he has nothing to worry about, I only mentioned being a _odybuilder because it can be imtimidating..its a touchy subject and not much is known to most people. Iv heard a little about it. And lets be honest..its not a walk in the park! It sounds hard to deal with. Which is a shame and not the persons fault they deal with that, wish I could cure them of bad experiences. Its too complicated for a random person to comment on.

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