FabSwingers.com forum: Maspalomas Sept 2017

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could anyone offer some advice regards to how to approach another couple who are playing in the dunes. We will be exploring the dunes next Sept. It will be my wife's first experience. She is not afraid to strip off but unsure about taking it further.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Could anyone offer some advice regards to how to approach another couple who are playing in the dunes. We will be exploring the dunes next Sept. It will be my wife's first experience. She is not afraid to strip off but unsure about taking it further.

If a couple are playing, openly, in the dunes, maybe you could do similar with your wife, nearby, but not right ' on top' of them and see what their reaction is. If they are comfortable with you being there, they are likely to continue playing, if not, they are likely to stop playing. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, we will try that and see what happens

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Thanks for the advice, we will try that and see what happens

Good luck. Also try the meeting bars in the evening, no pressure and some nice couples. Imagine bar in the Cita centre is very popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again many thanks for the advice. My wife is nervous dipping her toes into the swinging scene. Any advice for her

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Again many thanks for the advice. My wife is nervous dipping her toes into the swinging scene. Any advice for her

Don't be nervous. No one is pushy there. As I said, if you go to imagine bar, you will meet some lovely friendly people there. The owners are particularly helpful and can advise on clubs there. They often go, as a group to a club, so you can join them and see what you think. A good club for 'nervous' people, is fun 4 all, in the cita centre, it is a nightclub for swingers, but some people do play there as well. Just enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went for the first time in Feb. We went to the dunes and found a nice quiet place to undress and sunbathe. The guys there are respectful and will only approach if encouraged. Michelle had lots of fun and we recommend the place. Be security aware though and don't take lots of cash or valuables to the dunes, as we heard there can be baddies about, mainly in the evening though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again thanks for the advice. Fingers crossed we will both have fun. I don't want to pressure her into anything she don't want to do. So lets see what happens. Roll on next Sept.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice. Looking at your pics your wife had some fun.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Again thanks for the advice. Fingers crossed we will both have fun. I don't want to pressure her into anything she don't want to do. So lets see what happens. Roll on next Sept."

I think once you are in the atmosphere, you will both feel relaxed. You can go to these clubs and just socialize and then if she feels comfortable, can maybe have some fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when are you there in September we are over from the 8th till 22nd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We will be there from the 15th till 29th of Sept.17. Might see you there.

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