So as single male - living in India for last few months gave me a chance to see the people in lifestyle here. Well, tbh I struggled to find any in the beginning through swingers websites - so posting any messages about you wanting to meet with people for socials did not work, I tried finding out socials meet in for people in Bengaluru area - nothing to avail. So finally I decided to follow my passion, dancing, so after 2 months, I decided to visit an upmarket nightclub. Well that club was amazing and very well kept, DJ was great too, playing Punjabi, Bollywood mix with EDMs beats…liquor was flowing everywhere, and everyone was in kind of in very relaxed and exciting zone, dancing a bit flirt, and no one was bother if you had touched someone’s partner in those moments, off course you say sorry, but yes everyone was in ecstasy of music and alcohol, so here I met a guy who was regular to those place, we did some nice dance moves, both appreciated each other, later he found me at the bar, started talking about anything and everything, that is when I realised he was open to talk about lifestyle, so I shared my situation, he said, dude you would be lucky if you could find anyone through website forget about tinder or grinder - all are useless apps here, best way to start in this lifestyle is to go and have full body massage at any good spa. I was like why and how would it help me with my quest, so he said, there you take the “full package” you get all sorts of things done including a good massage, funny isn’t it? Spa is supposed to be for massage, anyways, so he recommended a few and said first visit all of them, once you feel comfortable with one, then talk to the manager and ask for full service, so I followed his instructions. So this spa which I selected finally was quite nice, doesn’t look cheap at all. When I was checking Spa facilities, I saw they have cubicles with lock from inside, and all of them were sound proof, ambience in each room was on Egyptian theme, after I was comfortable with the amenities, I went back to reception, to my surprise, there was another couple standing before me talking about massage for female, but needed for male masseuse. Manager immediately said, yes it can be done, and asked if they want the “full package”. Female said yes. So after 2 mins there appeared a man in his mid twenties, gym fit, roughly 5/8 fete hight, he was good in speaking English, that made that couple a bit more comfortable, after initial courtesy, they went in a couples room along with that man. Now it was my turn, I also asked for the full package, initially a beautiful girl appeared, she said hi, and then took me to my cubicle, I was asked to remove all the cloths and wear a paper thin underpants that they provided, so did a really good massage for almost 40 mins, during this time she didn’t speak much, although I tried but she was hesitant somehow, anyways my massage was done, she asked me to stay in the cubicle, so I did, after 5 mins there appeared another girl, she was amazingly beautiful, wearing just lingerie, beautiful body, and must be in mid twenties, now she was there as full package, well well..Will no go into the details..later once we are finished, I asked her about my situation and I was looking for people in the lifestyle, or swingers, to my surprise, she said she knew many couples who frequently visit their spa and are into swinging..although they will not meet strangers due to security issue unless they are introduced by someone..so I said yeah I could understand…later I asked her if she can help me with it…she asked me about my telegram ID - so this is most important - people in the lifestyle initial talk using telegram app. She said because you are living abroad and have been in lifestyle, she could try with a couple who were in a well paying jobs but do throw parties over a few weekends, i said ok. Later after 5 days she introduced me to this couple in mid forties, very well read and travelled. They invited me to a barista on a weekday, I went and talked to them, we clicked and liked each other. Later I got my first party invite - and that’s how I figured out a route to Indian swingers lifestyle. I have my own vivid experiences since then, but overall it’s going good 👍🏼 |
