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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always been a bit of a Sub Male sexually. We have played around with chastity devices before for short periods but never lasted more than a week. J always thought it cruel to not allow me to cum. However recently found a really good book to show her. She has now read it and fully understands. So as of today I'm now only allowed to cum or speak about sex etc. On her say so. No device yet as it about me now controlling myself. I will be rewarding if I am more thoughtful in our relationship.

Jaydees will be attended 3-4 times per year on her say so. Sexy underwear will be bought on her say so.

I'm very excited and at last have the dominant sexual wife I've always wanted.

What are peoples thoughts on this type of relationship?

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

r

Love it hope goes well for the pair of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love it hope goes well for the pair of you "

It will im sure. I have already been given 2 lists. 1 regarding sexual contact with her and 1 saying what I have to do to earn rewards.

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

r

Oh nice I've drawn up a contract for Mistress and I to restart our flr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She drew up ours. She is the boss. I would not be allowed to draw up any type of contract. That would be me making the decision not her.

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

r

She needs to look at it and make amendments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever floats your boat. If you like being a sub, enjoy! Personally I like my man to be in charge in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What ever floats your boat. If you like being a sub, enjoy! Personally I like my man to be in charge in the bedroom "

Each of us are different. Which is good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She needs to look at it and make amendments "

There would be no ammendments. She states what she wants her contract is the law. I do not have a choice or a say in what she wants. There is no give or take. She is the dom she makes the rules.

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

r

Yes that's true but she needs to make it what she wants I've written down ideas for her to think about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes that's true but she needs to make it what she wants I've written down ideas for her to think about "

The only idea I was allowed was to show her a book on control. Other than that its all her.

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By *ountryfansCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon

What was the book please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well its day 3 of being a Sub to my wife. I have not been allowed to cum for 4 days now although I've been teased and made to make her cum on several occasions.

The list of rules are getting longer with each day. Examples are my cock must be permanently shaved. I have to have my nipples made painful daily. I must call her mistress or princess at all times.

Early days bit she is getting stronger in her mind and her demands are getting harsher.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

It's fantastic to hear how you both are enjoying it. As it only works of you both enjoy it.

Can I ask what the name of the book was?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Sounds very weird, apart from always calling her princess, that’s nice. But weird is much better than normal anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds very weird, apart from always calling her princess, that’s nice. But weird is much better than normal anyway "

I have always had sub tenancies now i get to live the life of a sub permanently. My mistress has informed me in the future she will get herself a lover and I will never be allowed to cum inside her again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Total humiliation today. Arrived home from work today to informed that I had not made the bed correctly. I was informed that I would now have to take my Mistress upstairs and make her cum 5 times. The last time was with my cock. After the first 4 times she was in very happy. Given permission to put my cock in her after a few strokes she told me to stop it was having no affect. I was informed that my cock is too small and I was useless. She needs a large fat cock not mine. I will no longer be allowed to have sex with her her final word. I was then told as I'm a useless sissy to wear her knickers and bra to cook her dinner and give her a massage later. I put the bra and knickers on and she stood there laughing at me. I feel worthless.

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By *issy and hotCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

what's the name of the book OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife’s always in control well so we lead them to believe for an easy life

Just remember

Happy wife happy life

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Total humiliation today. Arrived home from work today to informed that I had not made the bed correctly. I was informed that I would now have to take my Mistress upstairs and make her cum 5 times. The last time was with my cock. After the first 4 times she was in very happy. Given permission to put my cock in her after a few strokes she told me to stop it was having no affect. I was informed that my cock is too small and I was useless. She needs a large fat cock not mine. I will no longer be allowed to have sex with her her final word. I was then told as I'm a useless sissy to wear her knickers and bra to cook her dinner and give her a massage later. I put the bra and knickers on and she stood there laughing at me. I feel worthless. "

Are you still happy you showed her the book OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Total humiliation today. Arrived home from work today to informed that I had not made the bed correctly. I was informed that I would now have to take my Mistress upstairs and make her cum 5 times. The last time was with my cock. After the first 4 times she was in very happy. Given permission to put my cock in her after a few strokes she told me to stop it was having no affect. I was informed that my cock is too small and I was useless. She needs a large fat cock not mine. I will no longer be allowed to have sex with her her final word. I was then told as I'm a useless sissy to wear her knickers and bra to cook her dinner and give her a massage later. I put the bra and knickers on and she stood there laughing at me. I feel worthless.

Are you still happy you showed her the book OP? "

Not when I'm laughed at and belittled no.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"Total humiliation today. Arrived home from work today to informed that I had not made the bed correctly. I was informed that I would now have to take my Mistress upstairs and make her cum 5 times. The last time was with my cock. After the first 4 times she was in very happy. Given permission to put my cock in her after a few strokes she told me to stop it was having no affect. I was informed that my cock is too small and I was useless. She needs a large fat cock not mine. I will no longer be allowed to have sex with her her final word. I was then told as I'm a useless sissy to wear her knickers and bra to cook her dinner and give her a massage later. I put the bra and knickers on and she stood there laughing at me. I feel worthless.

Are you still happy you showed her the book OP?

Not when I'm laughed at and belittled no. "

So not worked out as you wanted then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting to hear what the book was...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello guys anyone want a slave to wank on cam do as I’m told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's the name of the book OP "

I would like to know aswell x

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

It sounds great and i'm a little jealous.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I'd love to find another couple local enough to explore this dynamic with them. I've done it in the past and loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds great and i'm a little jealous."

Why? I remember reading your posts/profile in the past and you enjoy playing their way also don't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's the name of the book OP

I would like to know aswell x"

I'm starting to suspect this is all a pleasant dream for the op, and there is no magic book. But happy to be proved otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still waiting to hear what the book was..."

The Dominant Wife Rule Book by Misress Jessica Available online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Total humiliation today. Arrived home from work today to informed that I had not made the bed correctly. I was informed that I would now have to take my Mistress upstairs and make her cum 5 times. The last time was with my cock. After the first 4 times she was in very happy. Given permission to put my cock in her after a few strokes she told me to stop it was having no affect. I was informed that my cock is too small and I was useless. She needs a large fat cock not mine. I will no longer be allowed to have sex with her her final word. I was then told as I'm a useless sissy to wear her knickers and bra to cook her dinner and give her a massage later. I put the bra and knickers on and she stood there laughing at me. I feel worthless.

Are you still happy you showed her the book OP?

Not when I'm laughed at and belittled no.

So not worked out as you wanted then?"

Its a lot harder than I thought it would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still waiting to hear what the book was...

The Dominant Wife Rule Book by Misress Jessica Available online."

Thanks

Fyi for those interested I found the book on page 1 of Google to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to be in a similar relationship

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

r

We've begun ours and am locked in chastity cage for next 5 days

Sissy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've begun ours and am locked in chastity cage for next 5 days

Sissy "

Such a great feeling being locked away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A new day. Well we woke early i kissed her gently to wake her and made her tea in bed. I'm at the point of explosion however Mistress teased my nipples until I was so horny. Then go make me more tea. After that Mistress teased me alittle more off she went to the toilet on returning she pulled the covers back and stated.. "its not even hard you are pathetic and so is your cock.. i hope my new dildo arrives soon as I need to feel something in my pussy as that pathetic thing is not going in." Maybe I've been good enough today to be allowed to cum tonight.. i dought it.

She has just ordered a strap on seems like its my turn to receive anal.

I am definitely being turned into her play thing and her sissy.

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By *issy and hotCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Any updates on your new life style

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Odd, she is letting you post this on your couple profile if she is in charge I'm thinking!

Jo

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"It sounds great and i'm a little jealous.

Why? I remember reading your posts/profile in the past and you enjoy playing their way also don't you "

I'm single now and my ex kind of guilt tripped me on wanting to fuck other guys even though he said he was ok with it initially. I'd love to be with someone who enjoys me getting with others and let me humiliate them about it.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Omg and just read he is bringing her brews in bed, living the dream.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any updates on your new life style "

Its been an adventure so far. She has now taken to whipping me on a daily basis. Also I now no longer have any male underwear i have to wear knickers every day. I have to fuck her with a strap on and not my cock. I'm also being humiliated on a daily basis.

My nipples are really sore. I have the best life ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Odd, she is letting you post this on your couple profile if she is in charge I'm thinking!

Jo"

She actually does not know i post on here I do that in secret if she knew I would lose my phone privilege.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always been a bit of a Sub Male sexually. We have played around with chastity devices before for short periods but never lasted more than a week. J always thought it cruel to not allow me to cum. However recently found a really good book to show her. She has now read it and fully understands. So as of today I'm now only allowed to cum or speak about sex etc. On her say so. No device yet as it about me now controlling myself. I will be rewarding if I am more thoughtful in our relationship.

Jaydees will be attended 3-4 times per year on her say so. Sexy underwear will be bought on her say so.

I'm very excited and at last have the dominant sexual wife I've always wanted.

What are peoples thoughts on this type of relationship? "
women rule I'm all for it............ i appreciate I'm a bit late answering...... sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Omg and just read he is bringing her brews in bed, living the dream. "

That has to happen every morning. Once she is up I have to make the bed. I am controlled throughout the day. I am now having to wear female underwear daily. I am humiliated constantly and I have not been allowed to cum for 5 days. She even sent me out shopping yesterday while she lay in bed using her vibrator on herself and sent me a video. I absolutely love my life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always been a bit of a Sub Male sexually. We have played around with chastity devices before for short periods but never lasted more than a week. J always thought it cruel to not allow me to cum. However recently found a really good book to show her. She has now read it and fully understands. So as of today I'm now only allowed to cum or speak about sex etc. On her say so. No device yet as it about me now controlling myself. I will be rewarding if I am more thoughtful in our relationship.

Jaydees will be attended 3-4 times per year on her say so. Sexy underwear will be bought on her say so.

I'm very excited and at last have the dominant sexual wife I've always wanted.

What are peoples thoughts on this type of relationship? women rule I'm all for it............ i appreciate I'm a bit late answering...... sorry "

She rules me 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always been a bit of a Sub Male sexually. We have played around with chastity devices before for short periods but never lasted more than a week. J always thought it cruel to not allow me to cum. However recently found a really good book to show her. She has now read it and fully understands. So as of today I'm now only allowed to cum or speak about sex etc. On her say so. No device yet as it about me now controlling myself. I will be rewarding if I am more thoughtful in our relationship.

Jaydees will be attended 3-4 times per year on her say so. Sexy underwear will be bought on her say so.

I'm very excited and at last have the dominant sexual wife I've always wanted.

What are peoples thoughts on this type of relationship? women rule I'm all for it............ i appreciate I'm a bit late answering...... sorry

She rules me 100%"
and so she should

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always been a bit of a Sub Male sexually. We have played around with chastity devices before for short periods but never lasted more than a week. J always thought it cruel to not allow me to cum. However recently found a really good book to show her. She has now read it and fully understands. So as of today I'm now only allowed to cum or speak about sex etc. On her say so. No device yet as it about me now controlling myself. I will be rewarding if I am more thoughtful in our relationship.

Jaydees will be attended 3-4 times per year on her say so. Sexy underwear will be bought on her say so.

I'm very excited and at last have the dominant sexual wife I've always wanted.

What are peoples thoughts on this type of relationship? women rule I'm all for it............ i appreciate I'm a bit late answering...... sorry

She rules me 100%and so she should "

I'm a sissy now in our relationship.

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By *issy and hotCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

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By *issy and hotCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

We've just got this book fem reading it first , also got one on sissyfication well down that road already .

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

if only

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By *issy and hotCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Looks like she found out what he's been posting

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By *h86Man
over a year ago

Glos

Probably taken him away for a good spanking now!!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I hope so.

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