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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious as of late we have found that we are struggling to find people that are free to meet 9:30pm onwards...

If we wanted days or 6pm or weekends it would be great.. lol but while we do occasionally meet in the day its rare due to normal life getting in the way...

Now I realise that the time we meet makes It difficult for those playing away to meet...so guessing that is why there are many less men to choose from at that time of night.

So what time do you like to meet...

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet in the evenings, after 8pm, rarely meet in the day. Just because work and lectures normally get in the way-plus im more in the mood in the evenings and that way you spend the whole day building up to it hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can only really meet Friday or Saturday evenings due to work and family commitments (I look after our grandchildren in the week). If we meet couples a social meet is possible weekday evenings, but that's about it. We did have a daytime/midweek meet once and it was really enjoyable but maybe because it was so different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest evenings are the best time for me as well after all we all have to work dont we eh

My problem is finding people to meet in the evenings as well

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Usually during the day as my adult children live with me but they're at work/uni during the day. That's why I only meet men that can accommodate so I can do evenings/over nights.

It's not easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only meet in the evenings or at weekends as I work office hours, Mon-Fri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

evenings and mainly weekend ones at that, life gets in the way otherwise. though it's fun to mix it up when possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What amazes me though is the amount of times people think that because you are online here you must be looking for a meet rightaway. My goodness if they could see the state of me slobbing out in jeans etc don't think they'd want to meet us lol. When they ask that, we know they haven't bothered even looking at our profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol@ The because your online you must want to meet now... We have hugely busy lives... We have limited time... And Have sadly of late lost our regular guys... Not easy to replace lol

But my phone keeps me logged in most of the time... If not my laptop does... But I'm rarely looking for a meet.

The other hard bit is the asking if they can stop over due to us meeting late...

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We generally meet at weekends and in the evenings

We have limited time where we are together to play and are sometimes like ships that pass in the night

The assumption that because im online therefore im free to play now anywhere across the country regardless of the time is often made

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

daytime between 12:31 and 12:32pm which allows them time to undress and perform, plus light a post orgasmic cigarette...

Wolf

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I can meet pretty much any time, but I wont meet in a morning because it takes me until lunch time to be able to string a coherent sentence together, and for the pillow creases to disappear. Not a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are only ever able to meet on Friday or saturda nights, due to work and family and other real life stuff we have on.

very occasionally we may have a free bank hol or something, but it is rare.

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By *ucktruckCouple
over a year ago

derby

We meet in the eweekday venings usually 9pm onwards due to our jobs. We can't do weekends as Ian works in the evenings then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are only ever able to meet on Friday or saturda nights, due to work and family and other real life stuff we have on.

very occasionally we may have a free bank hol or something, but it is rare."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only able to meet ocasional Friday evenings, due to work, family and having a social life.

Hardly meet, but, I do like friendships and meeting the same people regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both work shifts and find that mid week day time is best for us at the moment

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Evenings .. Usually after 8.00 / 8.30 ish ... or weekends..

I don't do daytime meets during the week, due to a full time job... which has caused me to receive some amount of abuse from those who think that because I'm having a browse on here on my way to work, that I must must must be wanting to meet them....

I wasn't aware of the "if you come online you have to meet everyone who mails you there and then rule"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can meet pretty much anytime, my week changes from day to day and so we just work something out.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

weekends for us, and even then, only the odd 1.

unless either of us has a holiday, and Ems ex has the kids. then maybe summat in the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer evening meets, day times are just not good for me, i can only do over night meets saturday night due to having a 11 year old so if i meet week evening i have to get back in order to sort her school stuff and take her to school in the moring but she stays at her dads saturday night so i can stay out as long as i like, thro the week i prefer meets to be from about 6pm and no later than 1am so the guy must be local which also cuts down your chances of meeting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am having great Cinema meets during the day.For some reason, it is getting more popular

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