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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the point of verificating someone via webcam? Yes it proves they are who they say they are but doesn't prove they are not a timewaster or as single as they say they are!

Also what is the point in verificating someone when they hide them on their profiles?

People say they only tend to meet those that are Verified....but if you can not read what others have put how do you know that people have actually meet them and that they aren't just phone or webcam verified??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using one initiative to find out for himself/herself, rather than to rely on the words and testimonies of others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And how does reading them prove they are not "timewasters" ?? Just because someone turned up for one person doesnt mean they will for others.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Ask to view them. I hide mine because who I meet is my business and nobody elses. But if they wanted proof that it was by meet then I would gladly let them read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using one initiative to find out for himself/herself, rather than to rely on the words and testimonies of others?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Ask to view them. I hide mine because who I meet is my business and nobody elses. But if they wanted proof that it was by meet then I would gladly let them read them."

I should also add. Only potential meets I would let read them, not just any tom dick or harry!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some people are only here to cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think every time you arrange to meet someone, there is a certain amount of risk that they won't turn up, for a number of reasons. Verifications just prove they exist on cam or that they turned up previously. They are not a lifetime guarantee for future behaviour

We don't like the details of our meets to be visible by all so we decided from the start to keep ours hidden.

Don't forget, we all have choices. If hidden verifications put you off, either speak to the people that you are interested in and see whether they want to share their or simply avoid those profiles.

Mrs W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask to view them. I hide mine because who I meet is my business and nobody elses. But if they wanted proof that it was by meet then I would gladly let them read them."

Totally agree here. Mine are always available to potential meets but as already stated above, it's my business and I get to choose who I share them with.

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

At least verifictions are a clue that they arent a bloke pretending to be a couple, and that they probably arent just a pic collector.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it all HELPS to make up ur mind about the person involved, but shouldn't be taken as the definitive answer

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I think every time you arrange to meet someone, there is a certain amount of risk that they won't turn up, for a number of reasons. Verifications just prove they exist on cam or that they turned up previously. They are not a lifetime guarantee for future behaviour "

Completely agree. I have only experienced one timewaster ie someone who arranged to meet and then didnt turn up without letting me know.

He was verified.

By me.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"What is the point of verificating someone via webcam? Yes it proves they are who they say they are but doesn't prove they are not a timewaster or as single as they say they are!

Also what is the point in verificating someone when they hide them on their profiles?

People say they only tend to meet those that are Verified....but if you can not read what others have put how do you know that people have actually meet them and that they aren't just phone or webcam verified??"

Use you judgement...a web veri can at least prove the fem exists, phone veris are no longer allowed, as for hiding them, many people prefer to keep who they have private.

i ignore veris, i dont let other people decide who i am going to meet.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think every time you arrange to meet someone, there is a certain amount of risk that they won't turn up, for a number of reasons. Verifications just prove they exist on cam or that they turned up previously. They are not a lifetime guarantee for future behaviour

Completely agree. I have only experienced one timewaster ie someone who arranged to meet and then didnt turn up without letting me know.

He was verified.

By me."

I know you've written that before but it still makes me giggle.

I can't understand why people take the words of total strangers when deciding who to take to their bed...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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Completely agree. I have only experienced one timewaster ie someone who arranged to meet and then didnt turn up without letting me know.

He was verified.

By me.

I know you've written that before but it still makes me giggle.

I can't understand why people take the words of total strangers when deciding who to take to their bed... "

Its my claim to fame!

But a good illustration of taking verifications with a pinch of salt me thinks...

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"At least verifictions are a clue that they arent a bloke pretending to be a couple, and that they probably arent just a pic collector."

Not so - I saw a verification for a couple and on reading it, it was only the man who had been see on cam so once he hides it he can quite happily pose as a couple if he so wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's nice to know someone is verified, but I don't need to read "sucked his cock till he came down my throat" or "he was great at fingering my wet pussy and I came loads"

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By *horleytwoCouple
over a year ago

chorley

We only meet those with veri's that we can view and we prefere it if they have already met someone we know and trust.

We won't meet guys who haven't played with couples before as experence has taught us these are the most likely to either let us down or be unable to perform so its a usefull tool for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just share verifications with anyone I want to meet, not any Tom, Dick or Harry and keep my profile hidden mostly as men seem to think anytime I am online, I should want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's nice to know someone is verified, but I don't need to read "sucked his cock till he came down my throat" or "he was great at fingering my wet pussy and I came loads"

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The webcam verification are good to show that single women really are single women and not some dude.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"At least verifictions are a clue that they arent a bloke pretending to be a couple, and that they probably arent just a pic collector.

Not so - I saw a verification for a couple and on reading it, it was only the man who had been see on cam so once he hides it he can quite happily pose as a couple if he so wishes "

i hope u reported the profile, you are only meant to veri couples if u have seen both .

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"At least verifictions are a clue that they arent a bloke pretending to be a couple, and that they probably arent just a pic collector.

Not so - I saw a verification for a couple and on reading it, it was only the man who had been see on cam so once he hides it he can quite happily pose as a couple if he so wishes

i hope u reported the profile, you are only meant to veri couples if u have seen both ."

Yeh I did but I think they are still on here as a couple - they may well be a couple - but as you say nobody should be verifying a couple if they have only seen the one

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I am only cam and fone verified.. does that mean im a timewaster ..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


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People say they only tend to meet those that are Verified....but if you can not read what others have put how do you know that people have actually meet them and that they aren't just phone or webcam verified??"

If you use the Advanced search you can search for people who have meet verifications.

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