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"yes we have and it lasted over 3 years " Oh wow  how close did ye get?? | |||
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"For many (true) cuckolds, rather than simply voyeurs, this is the ultimate aim. Many voyeurs here put themselves down as cuckold without understanding the true dynamic." Suppose such a spectrum of cuckolding though. Different degrees interest certain people more I think? | |||
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"For me I have been in a couple of cuckold relationships. For it to work the male significant other has to make his partner or cuckoldress think and feel like a goddess, valued, desired, loved and wanted and to offer the emotional support she needs after a meet so there is no chance the wife’s feelings will gravitate to the Bull. She will develop feelings for a regular Bull but will realise that although the Bull gives her something she isn’t getting from the Cuckold, the Bull more often than not isn’t her type that she would want a full on relationship with. He gives her the rough sex, the larger penis etc. The other vital aspect is the woman chooses what to do, when to do it and with whom she chooses to do it. If she is doing it to satisfy the cuck then that puts him in control in many ways, where as people like me like the lack of control. Obviously for safety reasons the cuck should be able to express his thoughts and feelings but ultimately if she chooses to have a relationship with her wealthy boss, the cuck accepts this! Only my thoughts and obviously I am not suggesting what other people have doesn’t work for them! Hope everyone is keeping well and spirits are keeping high xx peace and love fellow Fab people xx " Yeah definitely agree with nearly all that! Especially the part of making her feel like a goddess | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him." Do I smell some porkie pies from you??? Your profile says you are looking for discreet meet but then you are saying you are cucked by your wife? Strange! | |||
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"For me I have been in a couple of cuckold relationships. For it to work the male significant other has to make his partner or cuckoldress think and feel like a goddess, valued, desired, loved and wanted and to offer the emotional support she needs after a meet so there is no chance the wife’s feelings will gravitate to the Bull. She will develop feelings for a regular Bull but will realise that although the Bull gives her something she isn’t getting from the Cuckold, the Bull more often than not isn’t her type that she would want a full on relationship with. He gives her the rough sex, the larger penis etc. The other vital aspect is the woman chooses what to do, when to do it and with whom she chooses to do it. If she is doing it to satisfy the cuck then that puts him in control in many ways, where as people like me like the lack of control. Obviously for safety reasons the cuck should be able to express his thoughts and feelings but ultimately if she chooses to have a relationship with her wealthy boss, the cuck accepts this! Only my thoughts and obviously I am not suggesting what other people have doesn’t work for them! Hope everyone is keeping well and spirits are keeping high xx peace and love fellow Fab people xx " Really loved the way you explained this and sounds like an ideal situation xx | |||
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"Yes. Twice. One guy for 3 years, another for 7 years. " 7 years! Wow!!! | |||
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"We have a special friend " Oh, I'm intrigued!!! | |||
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"Wifechad a bf last year. He thought she was cheating. Massive turn in when she tells you she has feelings for him. Goes from just sex to a lot more" Hotwife openly tells her hubby....she prefers my cock.... | |||
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"I bet he loves hearing that" Part of thier turn on between them when keeping him in his sexual place...... Same as hes sometimes allowed to watch or listen... Often she goes home with cum running on inside of her thighes and knickers.....she ll let him finger so he can feel.. Thats there thing but not complaining | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him." Bullshit | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him. Bullshit "  thought so too | |||
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"I experienced this in a previous relationship. My partner told me that she wanted a relationship with the bull and I was happy to agree.They saw each other for nearly 3 years.During this time I was rarely allowed to touch her and really experienced all the emotions of being a cuckold.It was incredibly intense and rewarding. Mike" Wow 3 years! What sort of impact did it have on the relationship? | |||
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"Strange as it might sound I believe that it had a positive impact upon our relationship.I think that all 3 of us gained enormously from the experience. This sort of thing isn't for most couples and it's very difficult to find the right guy but when you do it's an amazing experience." So true, difficult for some to understand no doubt but we know exactly what you mean x | |||
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"Have any cuckold couples started off just playing with a bull and over time it developed more into a boyfriend/lover than just a bull? Interested to see how common this is and how it developed " Yes, the Mrs has met one gent on a few occasions now and they clearly enjoy one another | |||
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"With any guy we plan to have more than one meet with we always look very closely at what could happen to make sure things don't get out of control. My wife went on holiday without me a few years ago and had some fun with a barman then when she got home he started messaging her constantly and even calling her at all times of the day and night. She had to block him on all contact means in the end. Just a good job if was not a local guy" I knew and know very clearly it is joint shared fun......, i get on well with them both and feel very fortunate that they choose to include me in thier fun.... I get the fun, the part time gf on tap and none of the grief..(meant in a cheeky way) | |||
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"Yes I had a lover for 3 years or more we were very close. I wanted him every night. " We are very close.......however she is his wife and that will always remain and never change were im concerned....... | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him." Damn man. You are a cuck | |||
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"We are all going away after Covid 19 for a night in a spa hotel." One room or two booked | |||
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"Wifechad a bf last year. He thought she was cheating. Massive turn in when she tells you she has feelings for him. Goes from just sex to a lot more" ..a divorce?!  | |||
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"We've had 3 guys who have been more than just normal meets. Would be nice to meet a fourth. But the relationships are never straight forward, it's not as easy road to travel..." What have ye found difficult about them??? | |||
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"We've had 3 guys who have been more than just normal meets. Would be nice to meet a fourth. But the relationships are never straight forward, it's not as easy road to travel... What have ye found difficult about them???" Balance. | |||
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"We would like to have a special friend who we could trust and was clean. Fantasy to enjoy bareback sex with two men together. Probably near impossible but always on look out." That is why I want to find just one couple. Once trust is established I think bareback would be possible. | |||
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"Wifechad a bf last year. He thought she was cheating. Massive turn in when she tells you she has feelings for him. Goes from just sex to a lot more ..a divorce?! "It did get messy in a relationship threatening way but weirdly the turn on knowing feelings were involved was massive for us both | |||
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"Wifechad a bf last year. He thought she was cheating. Massive turn in when she tells you she has feelings for him. Goes from just sex to a lot more ..a divorce?!
It did get messy in a relationship threatening way but weirdly the turn on knowing feelings were involved was massive for us both"think | |||
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"We would like to have a special friend who we could trust and was clean. Fantasy to enjoy bareback sex with two men together. Probably near impossible but always on look out." That person will come along for sure, most likely when you least expect it... Hot wife wanted to experience the very same......we started slowly with her hubby watching too start.....then another time she called him in and began to give him a bj and i enter from behind..... Then built up from there....she does lose more of her inhibitions when he s not present and explore more.... | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him. Do I smell some porkie pies from you??? Your profile says you are looking for discreet meet but then you are saying you are cucked by your wife? Strange!" No porkies here - my wife likes extra cock & I encourage it as I enjoy it so much (more Hotwife rather than Cuck). However she doesn’t like the idea of me playing with women & therefore I set a singles profile up on here to have discrete fun with single females or couples. | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him. Bullshit " Totally true & I love it - why be so rude? | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him. Bullshit thought so too"What would I gain from making this up?!? | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him. Damn man. You are a cuck" Hotwife & I love it | |||
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"maybe im odd but as part of a cuckold couple ive never developed feelings for a bull/guy other than my husband i still love him and that love dont and wont get shared i have no desire for that,, all i want is sexual friendships with a few other guys and sexual fun and be naughty when ever i want .... cuck is 100% cuck ie we dont ever have penative sex and i treat him a a cuck sexually 24/7 ...not all cuckold couples want the same and i think its heading down the road of poly if your wanting full on relationships" exactly how it is for us also, i am no longer allowed ejeculation, pleasure my wife with my tongue & toys when she demands & she brings lovers to her bed when she wants full sex which is often, it works for us, i love & worship my wife totally & without question her pleasure is what counts most to me | |||
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"For many (true) cuckolds, rather than simply voyeurs, this is the ultimate aim. Many voyeurs here put themselves down as cuckold without understanding the true dynamic." This is an interesting opinion. Always felt that I was cuckold but the more reading I’ve done I’m sure I lean more to voyeurism x | |||
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"wife had full time.e boyfriend for around 7 months they worked together so met before during and after work almost every night went for nights away romantic trips basically everything lovers do Would love to repeat it properly again " Lucky so and so, I'd love that with your wife mmmmm | |||
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"wife had full time.e boyfriend for around 7 months they worked together so met before during and after work almost every night went for nights away romantic trips basically everything lovers do Would love to repeat it properly again Lucky so and so, I'd love that with your wife mmmmm" | |||
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"Oh you be getting your turn soo you know wife had full time.e boyfriend for around 7 months they worked together so met before during and after work almost every night went for nights away romantic trips basically everything lovers do Would love to repeat it properly again Lucky so and so, I'd love that with your wife mmmmm" So can't wait to meet your wife again mmmm | |||
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"Oh you be getting your turn soo you know wife had full time.e boyfriend for around 7 months they worked together so met before during and after work almost every night went for nights away romantic trips basically everything lovers do Would love to repeat it properly again Lucky so and so, I'd love that with your wife mmmmm So can't wait to meet your wife again mmmm" | |||
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"Would love and probs hate this at the same time " Adds to the pleasure when its like that | |||
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"The cuckold life enhances our relationship in many ways. Cuck knows the best sex I have had in our 35 plus years together has not been with him and he has come to terms with that; finding it incredibly arousing. He wants me to have a Bull/Boyfriend. If right it works for all 3 in the relationship. Finding the perfect Bull though is not always easy; fun looking but 1 special Bull would be our desire. "Good point guys we totally agree and really looking for our special friend x | |||
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"wife had full time.e boyfriend for around 7 months they worked together so met before during and after work almost every night went for nights away romantic trips basically everything lovers do Would love to repeat it properly again " Well done guys. We want similar relationship x | |||
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"wife had full time.e boyfriend for around 7 months they worked together so met before during and after work almost every night went for nights away romantic trips basically everything lovers do Would love to repeat it properly again Well done guys. We want similar relationship x" Would love to find a hotwife to date and have as my girlfriend....its always the logistics! | |||
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"Would love this. A reliable single male that was local that my wife could meet regularly for fun and then come home to tell me all about it. We did have one regular male who became arrogant and failed to turn up when agreed or just wouldn’t make contact, for some knowing the difference between being a ‘bull’ and being an arrogant idiot seems to be difficult to distinguish. We are still searching and hopefully will find the right person eventually. "This is spot on. There are those that are arrogant and fail to make the effort and then there are those that simply talk and cant deliver. One day, we may find that genuine interesting unselfish special play friend. | |||
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"Yes, my wife started seeing her personal trainer as a bit of a fwb but it's blossomed into a full on relationship still going strong 4 and half years later" Its all so hit and miss , Am looking for a local cpl, They are looking for single guy or woman and everyone is missing out , Need a direct line lol | |||
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"Have any cuckold couples started off just playing with a bull and over time it developed more into a boyfriend/lover than just a bull? Interested to see how common this is and how it developed " Yes , the lady in my pics now been meeting 10 years | |||
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"Manchester bull? " Me? I live in Yorkshire and Aries. | |||
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"I'm predominantly a bull and love cuckold couples I'm always more interested in the more long term cuckold couples as I believe it developers into something different and better, like a bf gf relationship. Some want that some don't" That's exactly what my wife and her fella have now, a proper girlfriend boyfriend relationship | |||
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"I have been lucky enough to meet some lovely couples. Only a few want to build a relationship with the bull. I have a long term relationship with a couple and we all enjoy it very much. The important thing is to respect both of them and ensure you are meeting their needs. His wife is my girl and hes is my cuckold. It works for us 3." You're a very lucky trio!! | |||
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"We are all going away after Covid 19 for a night in a spa hotel. One room or two booked" One room | |||
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"I met a couple regularly for over a year and it got to the boyfriend stage. Was a huge turn on for us all. We would go on cinema dates, meals, nights in hotel etc. Takes ALOT of trust though from all parties involved " did the three of you go out or just you and her? | |||
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"When I was seeing a cougar who was married, it became something more overtime - extra naughty. Got to the point where the husband took walks whilst me and her were spending time together" Its a massive turn on knowing emotions and feelings are involved and not just sex | |||
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"My wife left me 11 years ago, for her bull ( well he was more her lover , but she cuckolded me on her return) . She was seeing him for 2 years and things progressed to the point where feelings developed and she didnt feel the need to have me doing clean up duties anymore...and the rest is history. " Ive been cumming in my lover for years, hubby still cleans up | |||
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"This happen with us. My wife now sees him regularly - stays at his, go out together as a couple, weekends away. It’s taken everything to a new level & I really enjoy her spending time with him. Do I smell some porkie pies from you??? Lol Your profile says you are looking for discreet meet but then you are saying you are cucked by your wife? Strange!" | |||
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"relationships. For it to work the male significant other has to make his partner or cuckoldress think and feel like a goddess, valued, desired, loved and wanted and to offer the emotional support she needs after a meet so there is no chance the wife’s feelings will gravitate to the Bull. She will develop feelings for a regular Bull but will realise that although the Bull gives her something she isn’t getting from the Cuckold, the Bull more often than not isn’t her type that she would want a full on relationship with. He gives her the rough sex, the larger penis etc. The other vital aspect is the woman chooses what to do, when to do it and with whom she chooses to do it. If she is doing it to satisfy the cuck then that puts him in control in many ways, where as people like me like the lack of control. Obviously for safety reasons the cuck should be able to express his thoughts and feelings but ultimately if she chooses to have a relationship with her wealthy boss, the cuck accepts this! He is so right my wife needed the feeling of being dominated by an alpha bastard occasionally but it could have made her feel cheap and dirty but my complete acceptance and encouragement helped her to accept and enjoy this side of her personality and as I got used to it my acceptance became sincere" Well said .. Agree 100% with this | |||
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"relationships. For it to work the male significant other has to make his partner or cuckoldress think and feel like a goddess, valued, desired, loved and wanted and to offer the emotional support she needs after a meet so there is no chance the wife’s feelings will gravitate to the Bull. She will develop feelings for a regular Bull but will realise that although the Bull gives her something she isn’t getting from the Cuckold, the Bull more often than not isn’t her type that she would want a full on relationship with. He gives her the rough sex, the larger penis etc. The other vital aspect is the woman chooses what to do, when to do it and with whom she chooses to do it. If she is doing it to satisfy the cuck then that puts him in control in many ways, where as people like me like the lack of control. Obviously for safety reasons the cuck should be able to express his thoughts and feelings but ultimately if she chooses to have a relationship with her wealthy boss, the cuck accepts this! He is so right my wife needed the feeling of being dominated by an alpha bastard occasionally but it could have made her feel cheap and dirty but my complete acceptance and encouragement helped her to accept and enjoy this side of her personality and as I got used to it my acceptance became sincere Well said .. Agree 100% with this" Yes agree fully! x | |||
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"We've had 3 guys who have been more than just normal meets. Would be nice to meet a fourth. But the relationships are never straight forward, it's not as easy road to travel..." I think you bring up or out a further issue of how if you had three important guys at the same time, how to balance the relationship between all three. Some good posts here. Thank you all | |||
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