FabSwingers.com forum: Name and shame

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should there be a section to name and shame people who still want to meet

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

No, but you should report them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Just report and block them.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Anybody who arranges a meet via fab should be reported and removed. End of.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should there be a section to name and shame people who still want to meet"

YES!!! I am honestly sickened by the amount of people that still want to meet. I've reported 3 today but nothing seems to be done about it. I understand admin are busy but maybe naming and shaming is more of a deterrent.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Report but then will admin really do anything to them?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I reported a guy earlier and his account has been suspended.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

His name is on my status

Lets see how on board the trolls are

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"I reported a guy earlier and his account has been suspended. "

Nope, his account has now been totally removed

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"His name is on my status

Lets see how on board the trolls are

Sadly that will get you a ban

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Naming and shaming is absolutely wrong for everything here and will affect your site use. Everyone is different and some types of people are more liable to be poorly treated, which could include abusive posts about them.

If you have a preference for anything, just be grateful for anything that makes your search for others easier.

If people break site rules, blocks and reports work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab rules means the site cant be used for illegal activity, as meeting is now technically illegal they can boot them if they choose.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"His name is on my status

Lets see how on board the trolls are

You're not allowed to name and shame

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"No. Just report and block them. "

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

This was a post by Fab Admin. I copied and pasted it here.....

25 March 2020:

Just to provide clarity. Please report anyone still actively looking for meets, this is not acceptable on Fab at this moment in time. 99.9% of people are fully supporting this but there is the occasionally straggler.

Update 26th March 2020:

No one should be arranging physical meets at this moment. This will be treated as a breach of Fab Terms of Service at this time.

Yes to online hookups for when this is over. Yes to cams, online chats, photos and videos.

We have updated the site and removed all meets functionality, in solidarity with the NHS.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"His name is on my status

Lets see how on board the trolls are

Sadly that will get you a ban"

Worth it

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"His name is on my status

Lets see how on board the trolls are

"
you’ve probably gone and got yourself a ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should there be a section to name and shame people who still want to meet"

"cococouple, wanted to meet me for a ffm last night. Said no thanks, not appropriate timing in the light of covid19. They were very persitant to the point of being abusive"

*note to admin, this did not happen, using this as an example!*

Now OP and others who think naming and shaming is a good thing to do, I have never met any of you and probably never will, can you now see how easily this can be abused from my example above?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Should there be a section to name and shame people who still want to meet

"cococouple, wanted to meet me for a ffm last night. Said no thanks, not appropriate timing in the light of covid19. They were very persitant to the point of being abusive"

That is a fucking lie

*note to admin, this did not happen, using this as an example!*

Now OP and others who think naming and shaming is a good thing to do, I have never met any of you and probably never will, can you now see how easily this can be abused from my example above?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should there be a section to name and shame people who still want to meet

"cococouple, wanted to meet me for a ffm last night. Said no thanks, not appropriate timing in the light of covid19. They were very persitant to the point of being abusive"

That is a fucking lie

*note to admin, this did not happen, using this as an example!*

Now OP and others who think naming and shaming is a good thing to do, I have never met any of you and probably never will, can you now see how easily this can be abused from my example above?

Prove it’s a lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im getting many from all over the country wanting to meet i just drop them straight on the block list with no replies and they are staying there forever like the rest .... report ..block ... keep them blocked if a dangerous virus wont stop them from looking then nothing will ...

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By *hiteknight82Man
over a year ago

falmouth

reward ones who dont meet with video calls ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"reward ones who dont meet with video calls ha"

??? no one has to reward anyone no one owes anybody anything

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"reward ones who dont meet with video calls ha"

Reward people for not potentially killing others, not being idiots and being sensible and not selfish? Erm...

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"His name is on my status

Lets see how on board the trolls are

Sadly that will get you a ban

Worth it"

So to ban you is worth it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Admin always take action on reports. My next post will show how.

Meeting while we're in lockdown is against fab terms and conditions (as is naming and shaming) therefore reporting is the right thing to do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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