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Sensual Sex or Rough Sex?

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Which one do you prefer? Or are you like me that can mix the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a mixture but prefer rough and hard most of the time.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

SENSUAL

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I like a mixture but prefer rough and hard most of the time. "

More power

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By *teve999Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I always thought women preferred sensual but time has taught me lots and lots just want to be fucked hard and told what to do

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I always thought women preferred sensual but time has taught me lots and lots just want to be fucked hard and told what to do"

Many still love the sensual, but I would say after a rough session

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By *ncognito!Woman
over a year ago

falkirk

Both

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By *TkitkatWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Slow and sensual for as long as possible then rough and slutty!

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Definitely a good mix of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a time and place for each.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both prefer slow and passionate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more on the rough side but a mix can be good with the right gal

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I'm more on the rough side but a mix can be good with the right gal "

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By *isa830211Woman
over a year ago

sheffield

Rough and ready please!

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Rough and ready please! "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like both, but if I had to choose one, I'd choose rough sex

Mrs

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Both! Start of sensual then gradually get rougher

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

I mix of the two.. Sometime I love a long sensual sex sesh love the build up and connection... Other times... Its more of a I need sex.. Now.. And I want a rough and passionate session.. Where I can get enough quick enough.

I like being taken control of ans told what to do...

But sometimes its nice to be the instigator.. Wearingsome sexy undies and sending pics whilst he's at work or whilst we are at the bar heheh.

So I guess it depends what mood I'm in haha

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Both! Start of sensual then gradually get rougher"

Turn up that pressure on them

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By *irtyMatt25Man
over a year ago

Northampton

This sounds like a great balance. And would be the best fun to keep on switching with the person. Keeps everyone on their toes!

I like to instigate it usually but find it just as much fun by someone else takinfg control. But happy rough or sensual. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who your playing with and the mood....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly rough for me with slow teasing now and then

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Depends on who your playing with and the mood...."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual always .

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Sensual always ."

Sensual with a good playlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mixture, if you dont know what yo expect. It makes it more fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who your playing with and the mood....

I agree "

I guess some people bring out the naughty....

Others the nice!

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We both prefer slow and passionate "

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

Iv never had sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which one do you prefer? Or are you like me that can mix the two "

Both, either mixed or at different times.

If there were a gun to my head though and I had to choose, I'd say rough sex.

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It depends, with hubby I would probably say slow and sensual however if it’s someone we’re meeting then I’m not really into soft sensual sex I much prefer a hard, rough fuck being called a slut, told what to do etc

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Depends on who your playing with and the mood....

I agree

I guess some people bring out the naughty....

Others the nice!"

I've definitely experience that. Some may take it personal but it's just having a good connection

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Iv never had sensual "

Oh dear! Your missing out

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By *ueandbillCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

both........ obviously

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By *zzy69Woman
over a year ago

The Lake District


"Iv never had sensual

Oh dear! Your missing out"

Totally agree - you definitely should give it a try

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

A good mix of both but it depends on the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy foreplay (and lots of boob & nipple play). So I lean more towards sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both... Not always together tho... Depends who I am with and the mood at the time

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Iv never had sensual

Oh dear! Your missing out

Totally agree - you definitely should give it a try "

Wonder if it would bore me ..

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Mood depending definitely a mix and a rewind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood, but enthusiastic more than rough..I don't like leaving marks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv never had sensual "

You are missing the fun then

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Depends on the mood and the partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which one do you prefer? Or are you like me that can mix the two

Both, either mixed or at different times.

If there were a gun to my head though and I had to choose, I'd say rough sex."

I think using ‘if having a gun to the head you had to choose one or other is good!’

In my case would be slow and sensual with lots of teasing, kissing and prolonged oral!

Do like the odd bit of spontaneous rough and dirty sex tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely rough and slutty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both depending on mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with sensual, finish with rough. Best way to have fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning sex is usually sleepy and sensual.

Any other time it can be either. I tend to be the dominator so veer to the more aggressive forms of sex.

Miss V

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Start with sensual, finish with rough. Best way to have fun xxx"

200 % agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gotta know when to fuck her brains out and when to make love to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me baby I’m always horny and dominant especially if the girl really really turns me on

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

depends on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood and who I'm with. The joy of having a couple of FBs who have different preferences x

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Both! Normally in the same session!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

A mix of both x

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Anyone has their own playlist for sensual sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I settled down with my gorgeous K I used to do a fair bit of play with single ladies and couples. At first i used to be quite sensual with the ladies thinking that's what they wanted. Turns out most of them wanted me to ride the living fuck out of them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure this has been said further up but why one or the other? Can sensual sex not be rough? Can rough sex not be sensual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't always have to fuck her hard

In fact sometimes that's not right to do

Sometimes you got to make some love

And fuckin' give her some smooches too

Sometimes you've got to squeeze

Sometimes you've got to say please

Sometimes you got to say hey

I'm gonna fuck you, softly

I'm gonna screw you gently

I'm gonna hump you, sweetly

I'm gonna ball you discreetly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't always have to fuck her hard

In fact sometimes that's not right to do

Sometimes you got to make some love

And fuckin' give her some smooches too

Sometimes you've got to squeeze

Sometimes you've got to say please

Sometimes you got to say hey

I'm gonna fuck you, softly

I'm gonna screw you gently

I'm gonna hump you, sweetly

I'm gonna ball you discreetly"

I'm reading that to the voice of Leon from Curb

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Which one do you prefer? Or are you like me that can mix the two "

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both!! Viv xx

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By *X Mr Kipling XxMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Sensual mainly but that can change and depends on the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual. Slowly explore each others bodies. Concentrate on every touch. Feel every sensation. Deep and slow.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Which one do you prefer? Or are you like me that can mix the two "

Absolutely both! Why would you not want both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't always have to fuck her hard

In fact sometimes that's not right to do

Sometimes you got to make some love

And fuckin' give her some smooches too

Sometimes you've got to squeeze

Sometimes you've got to say please

Sometimes you got to say hey

I'm gonna fuck you, softly

I'm gonna screw you gently

I'm gonna hump you, sweetly

I'm gonna ball you discreetly

I'm reading that to the voice of Leon from Curb "

Haha it was originally spoken in the voice of Jack Black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't always have to fuck her hard

In fact sometimes that's not right to do

Sometimes you got to make some love

And fuckin' give her some smooches too

Sometimes you've got to squeeze

Sometimes you've got to say please

Sometimes you got to say hey

I'm gonna fuck you, softly

I'm gonna screw you gently

I'm gonna hump you, sweetly

I'm gonna ball you discreetly"

On par with Closer and Crazy Bitch for romantic lyrics...beautiful songs x

Viv x

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire


"Which one do you prefer? Or are you like me that can mix the two "
adore both

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I see no reason to limit yourself to one or the other...... both can be fantastically intense and satisfying. Enjoy them both and mix them up!

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Both. Sensual then rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't always have to fuck her hard

In fact sometimes that's not right to do

Sometimes you got to make some love

And fuckin' give her some smooches too

Sometimes you've got to squeeze

Sometimes you've got to say please

Sometimes you got to say hey

I'm gonna fuck you, softly

I'm gonna screw you gently

I'm gonna hump you, sweetly

I'm gonna ball you discreetly

On par with Closer and Crazy Bitch for romantic lyrics...beautiful songs x

Viv x"

And then I'm gonna love you completely

And then I'll fucking fuck you discreetly

And then I'll fucking bone you completely

But then

I'm gonna fuck you haaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrd

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By *inkykat dirtydogCouple
over a year ago

Cov

Rough

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Rough "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

You can very much have both at once and it's all the better for it if you both like it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want no rough stuff

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Start with one, finish with the other x

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By *ittleREDridingWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

That’s like asking do you wanna keep your left leg or your right

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"That’s like asking do you wanna keep your left leg or your right "

I'll keep the right lol

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By *ightasiandelightCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The correct mix can give the best rewards

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By *aznlouCouple
over a year ago

co durham

Depends on the mood

L

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Rough and naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on the mood.

I love sensual, unhurried sex with a lot of foreplay.

But sometimes I just want a good, hard fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which one do you prefer? Or are you like me that can mix the two "

mostly rough and hard... have to feel that power,passion, craziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s like asking do you wanna keep your left leg or your right "

My favourite response yet

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Sensual with a rather wicked tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We tend to start off sensual but that book tends to get thrown aside quickly especially if we're alone. Sensual as possible (not always achieved) if not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both depending on situation better though if it starts off sensual and ends up with a wreaked house

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Most certainly prefer both, especially when its a longer session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough

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By *ezhuddzMan
over a year ago

HUDDERSFIELD

Rough deep and hard

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're probably on the rough side of the road

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Rough ways always! The sensual comes after the sex is out of the way.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Definitely a preference for sensual , but still like rough.

Rough is much easier ,it’s just a workout , sensual requires a lot more thinking and chemistry

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't have a preference, a bit of both works for me

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Rough "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Assertive sensual sex is stunning.

L decided she was bi too it.

I’ve seen her turn a few ladies with it too.

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By *lackCherry...Woman
over a year ago

North East

Depends on my mood. I love both

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By *erlinhgvMan
over a year ago

Liverpool / London

Both but do like a bit of rough fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a bit of both depending on the mood I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to mix the two together

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Sensual with a moment of roughness

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By *edbottomheelsWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I love starting with rough, passionate, hard sex... then moving onto a sensual, intense, deep, slow fuck... both have to have a lot of kissing that’s what makes it! I’m so fucking horny!

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Very much depends on the person and the vibe up to that point. You can usually tell how its going to play out but there are surprises every now and again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I’m in. But I like both. Even when I’m rough I like to be passionate

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Both! Start of sensual then gradually get rougher

Turn up that pressure on them "

Build up makes it better! Prefer a marathon to a sprint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both for definite.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

It depends on the person and mood, but generally both

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I love starting with rough, passionate, hard sex... then moving onto a sensual, intense, deep, slow fuck... both have to have a lot of kissing that’s what makes it! I’m so fucking horny! "

Wow! Your itinerary is lit

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By *edbottomheelsWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I love starting with rough, passionate, hard sex... then moving onto a sensual, intense, deep, slow fuck... both have to have a lot of kissing that’s what makes it! I’m so fucking horny!

Wow! Your itinerary is lit"

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By *rcool67 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I love starting with rough, passionate, hard sex... then moving onto a sensual, intense, deep, slow fuck... both have to have a lot of kissing that’s what makes it! I’m so fucking horny!

Wow! Your itinerary is lit

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

I prefer slow and sensual x

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

both are great in their own way

I have my hubby for slow sensual loving sex and lovers / meets for good hard somtimes rough raw sex

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Mix it up and go with the flow!! ??

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

My wife likes me to be sensual with her after I've just fucked her hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take the rough with the smooth so the saying goes

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

Definitely both.... depending on my mood

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Have the ability to use both techniques, and a few other tricks besides, and you can keep smiles on faces whatever the mood that takes you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their merits and it depends how it goes as to what happens

My absolute preference though is sensual or slower. You can use far more technique to create something better than banging away I’d say. Just because it’s slow doesn’t mean it can’t have a rough or dominant aspect to it.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Entirely mood dependant, I love both

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