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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so you get chatting to what you think is a couple and they have photos of a lady in underwear in various states of undress so you think you are talking to a couple but the more you talk to them the person who said they are the female you realise that you are actually talking to a guy so my question is where did he get all those photos from has he stolen them from another couple on FAB and is this something that happens on a regular occasion as this has happened quite a few times now?

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By *ndebs47Couple
over a year ago

Bury

We are a couple , but Mr is most active on here , and with good reason , as many (not all) are directed at Mrs and Mrs only , and you only get one shot at this , so he will answer disrespect with an enhanced version. It is amusing and annoying in equal measures, those who bother to read about us have no problems, other than time and location.... as in we ,sadly have very little,and no we can’t get to Aberdeen this evening !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the art of cat fishing you can get pics from anywhere. I’ve even seen guys update their profile with new pics of the same woman, it’s so sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we do notice that anytime anyone messages most of them are always directed at me female and yes they've never read our profile and forget that we are a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are a couple , but Mr is most active on here , and with good reason , as many (not all) are directed at Mrs and Mrs only , and you only get one shot at this , so he will answer disrespect with an enhanced version. It is amusing and annoying in equal measures, those who bother to read about us have no problems, other than time and location.... as in we ,sadly have very little,and no we can’t get to Aberdeen this evening !!!!!"

I don't mind chatting to the male part of the couple as long as they are upfront to start with it's when they pretend to be the female part of the couple or a single bloke pretending to be a couple I find most weird and worrying when they have other people's pictures

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By *ewfun400Couple
over a year ago

Romford

We have tried to find a couple to play with on cam and then maybe same room fun later - we have talked to many couples only to find when we go on cam that the female is somehow absent...bed, work,out, just never there! I know that it is quite often the m that does most speaking- same with us- but be upfront! Happy to speak to one or the other but be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's mainly me that checks messages here (Mr) as MrsE got annoyed with all the people that hadn't read or profile, directed messages to her only and constantly nag for meets...

Altho she does come on here and chat to/check out the men

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By *ndebs47Couple
over a year ago

Bury


"We have tried to find a couple to play with on cam and then maybe same room fun later - we have talked to many couples only to find when we go on cam that the female is somehow absent...bed, work,out, just never there! I know that it is quite often the m that does most speaking- same with us- but be upfront! Happy to speak to one or the other but be honest!"
when it comes to camming it’s mainly her with good reason lololol though I do join her ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is so common these days. They all seem to have no problem getting photo verified aswel.

For me this is equal to the thousands of gay men willing to put on a wig and a dress so they can label themselves TS/TV and con guys into going to meet them. I've learned to laugh off the surprise of a beard, deep voice and hairy chest

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

There are guys on her as couples , with those partners/wife’s pics. They never meet because the female either doesn’t know or knows and doesn’t want to meet.

We’ve been told a few times to just come round , Mrs will say no if he asks her but just come she will soon change her mind when you get your cock out.... BLOCK

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

This is SO sad,

At least us trannys are honest about pretending to be women !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so you get chatting to what you think is a couple and they have photos of a lady in underwear in various states of undress so you think you are talking to a couple but the more you talk to them the person who said they are the female you realise that you are actually talking to a guy so my question is where did he get all those photos from has he stolen them from another couple on FAB and is this something that happens on a regular occasion as this has happened quite a few times now? "

They get them off of the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been had a few times on here , photo less profiles , who message you , you say I don’t chat to faceless profiles, they then say they can send photos in what’s app etc, so you give them the benefit of the doubt, only to be sent photos stolen from the web , sad sad people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We gave up on fab twice before because of the fakes but the way we approach it now works great for us and highlights all those that can’t be arsed to spend three minutes to read our profile.

Now I just string those fakes and time wasters along and make it stress free for my wife.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what site you join, there always individuals who enjoy getting people to chat while pretending to be someone else, be it a male pretending to be a couple or a female.

The challenge is seeing how long they can string you along before the gullible twig all is not as it seems before they block or close the account and look for the next victim.

Some even pretend to be young girls and do it for a good reason, to catch low life individuals who aim to prey on and meet young girls for under legal age sex.

It is life on the internet, not all is as it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it’s always the men talking and once in a while a female will which is refreshing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men pretending to be women tend to chat with a 'male voice '

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"No matter what site you join, there always individuals who enjoy getting people to chat while pretending to be someone else, be it a male pretending to be a couple or a female.

The challenge is seeing how long they can string you along before the gullible twig all is not as it seems before they block or close the account and look for the next victim.

Some even pretend to be young girls and do it for a good reason, to catch low life individuals who aim to prey on and meet young girls for under legal age sex.

It is life on the internet, not all is as it seems."

There is loads of men pretending to be women on here, some I suspect believe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had some guy from here add my Snapchat and started sending me videos of him and his "woman". Kept asking for an actual pic but he just couldn't find one. Quite clearly just a dude who's trying to see some dick by downloading some porn and passing it off as his own lol. Why can't guys just state their intentions instead of doing shit like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men pretending to be women tend to chat with a 'male voice '"

... and their sex hole doesn’t self lubricate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you just hate when that happens. Total waste of my time.

I (mrs) do most of the chatting on here, I get so pissed off with fake couples profiles

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Surely this is where the verification work ? Most men pretending to be a couple or women won’t have many or no verifications ? Look at or verifications would that leave any doubt that we are a couple ?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Surely this is where the verification work ? Most men pretending to be a couple or women won’t have many or no verifications ? Look at or verifications would that leave any doubt that we are a couple ? "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Men pretending to be women....

Yeah what about it?

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area


"[Removed by poster at 25/03/20 10:50:09]"

And from the correct account!

Bear tends to do a lot if our admin and initial conversation due to the amount of timewasters and fakes. He's more cynical about new contacts so sorts the wheat from the chaff. He also has more free time to use up

If things progress then we try and move to a four way chat on kik/WhatsApp so that the chances of everyone being genuine are higher. No shared whatsapp/kik accounts tolerated.

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By *edchanceCouple
over a year ago

burntwood


"Surely this is where the verification work ? Most men pretending to be a couple or women won’t have many or no verifications ? Look at or verifications would that leave any doubt that we are a couple ? "

Totally agree , the verifications work very well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is SO sad,

At least us trannys are honest about pretending to be women !!! "

Speak for yourself about using the word Tranny !!!

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"Surely this is where the verification work ? Most men pretending to be a couple or women won’t have many or no verifications ? Look at or verifications would that leave any doubt that we are a couple ?

Totally agree , the verifications work very well . "
. If you actually read verifications they say a lot should stop most people getting fooled by the fakers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you just hate when that happens. Total waste of my time.

I (mrs) do most of the chatting on here, I get so pissed off with fake couples profiles "

Can't you tell pretty quickly when it's just a horny guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you just hate when that happens. Total waste of my time.

I (mrs) do most of the chatting on here, I get so pissed off with fake couples profiles

Can't you tell pretty quickly when it's just a horny guy?"

I'm getting better at it now haha

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"so you get chatting to what you think is a couple and they have photos of a lady in underwear in various states of undress so you think you are talking to a couple but the more you talk to them the person who said they are the female you realise that you are actually talking to a guy so my question is where did he get all those photos from has he stolen them from another couple on FAB and is this something that happens on a regular occasion as this has happened quite a few times now? "

Also happens with some single lady profiles. There are some unique "tells" that the photos are fake.

One particular user had a club profile as well but created a female profile to lure single men to attend the club.

Played along for a bit and then offered a social meet and the games started

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"This is so common these days. They all seem to have no problem getting photo verified aswel.

For me this is equal to the thousands of gay men willing to put on a wig and a dress so they can label themselves TS/TV and con guys into going to meet them. I've learned to laugh off the surprise of a beard, deep voice and hairy chest"

Does this actually happen? It's almost insulting to us that spend an awful lot of time to keep our bodies, skin etc in shape then it takes two hours to get ready for a meeting for a 10 minute blow job.

Or you're meeting the wrong kind of girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely this is where the verification work ? Most men pretending to be a couple or women won’t have many or no verifications ? Look at or verifications would that leave any doubt that we are a couple ?

Totally agree , the verifications work very well . . If you actually read verifications they say a lot should stop most people getting fooled by the fakers "

We thought that until we realised the only verification they had must have been made by themselves on a separate account. We do now tho only accept friends who we have meet or have more than 2 verifcations

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