FabSwingers.com forum: Call me!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you've chatted to someone on here. You've mailed them, sent them your number, arranged a chat on the phone. They sound ok so you meet for coffee. Texted to sort the meet out, had the coffee and decided to sort out a meet for fun.

Texting after that to keep in touch while the meet is arranged.

But what about calls? Is it for them to call you out of the blue at different times in the day? Personally I think it's rude. I'd never start calling someone I'd only met once. They are a meet, not a friend....

Would you think it was ok for someone to be calling you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever by arrangement first, that sort of behaviour would worry me slightly, particularly at this early stage in proceedings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not keen on anyone ringing me so I always say so as have had someone ring me in the day whilst I was at work, very difficult to chat in an open plan office

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm ..... no

If they turn into a friend after time yes I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call to set up a meet and that's that. Prefer not to have chit chat. Lol

So yes I'd find it rude if they just kept ringing me.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just want to say, it's someone I met off a similar site, not off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is rude phone calls should always be by arrangement. I had the same, phone call to arrange a met etc next morning I woke up at 7am to 12 missed calls

and they kept ringing.....and ringing.... So I don't give my number out now lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

if the meet is set up and text more than a confirmation we cancel.

ppl who are in constant contact tend not to turn up in our opinion, we are here to fuck not chat or hold hands while someone builds confidence.

If someone phoned out of the blue,unless for some kind of emergency, they would get told that it was totally inappropriate and that the meet was off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if the meet is set up and text more than a confirmation we cancel.

ppl who are in constant contact tend not to turn up in our opinion, we are here to fuck not chat or hold hands while someone builds confidence.

If someone phoned out of the blue,unless for some kind of emergency, they would get told that it was totally inappropriate and that the meet was off"

we have a cheep pay as you go phone and only give that number out and normaly its switched off and theres is no answer service on it and we only have the phone on to arange meets and swtich it off after the meet till the next one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a 2nd phone just for meets too. Just in case someone turns out to be a bit nutty. Had a text at 12.45am the other night but luckily that phone was off.

Also had a text yesterday from a bloke I met a year ago and haven't heard from since. Weird.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I have a 2nd phone just for meets too. Just in case someone turns out to be a bit nutty. Had a text at 12.45am the other night but luckily that phone was off.

Also had a text yesterday from a bloke I met a year ago and haven't heard from since. Weird.

that happens to us, to b honest we dont mind that, life happens, we have had a few meets with ppl we just lost touch with then they sent a random hi hows it going text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why people who 'play' should have a play phone. You control when it's on etc, tell people you have a play phone and it's not always on, but feel free to leave texts etc...

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