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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?"

do they how do you know that then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure your going to offend a few larger people on here with your OP!

I am sure you will get your answer soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be slim and now I'm fat ...... I don't take offence just a larger dress size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be slim and now I'm fat ...... I don't take offence just a larger dress size. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooooeer run for the bunker !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, how do you know that? Have you been in both situations?

I don't get offended when my GP tells me to lose weight. I find it more embarrassing actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how fat you mean.

Do you mean the majority of Britain or just the ones that stay glued to the jeremy kyle show and hop on their tricked out chariot of doom to sign on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ooooeer run for the bunker ! "

going to join you, if you don't mind! Hard hat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure your going to offend a few larger people on here with your OP!

I am sure you will get your answer soon! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ooooeer run for the bunker !

going to join you, if you don't mind! Hard hat? "

lock door behind ya x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what I am today cos got 2 new tops size 12 and a new jacket but size 16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?"

Skinny people do! Haven't you seen anorexics kicking off on tv and having to be force fed?

(Forgive me if its a reaction thread you have started just let me know and i will leave you to your kit kat chunkie agenda)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do t give a twats backside to be honest, worse is when u can't fit on a fairground ride and have to get of lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like ur s.o.h lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ron lol can't believe u ent offended any one with ur Muslim forum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?"

Nothing worse than a sweeping generalisation, well apart from one so ill informned that it borders on the ignorant...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was in the papers yesterday Jesus did I write the head line in the daily mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ron lol can't believe u ent offended any one with ur Muslim forum lol"

Not offended im not fat but im not stupid either geezer. Just do a forum search on bbw or fat. As for the docs they use the word obese not fat and have done for a decade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?"

can i phone a friend on this one?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?

do they how do you know that then ?"

if you are listening in to the private conversations people have with their doctor i think you really should stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ron lol can't believe u ent offended any one with ur Muslim forum lol

Not offended im not fat but im not stupid either geezer. Just do a forum search on bbw or fat. As for the docs they use the word obese not fat and have done for a decade. "

can't say obese now tho that's the point as they mite offend but still can call some one skinny tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ron lol can't believe u ent offended any one with ur Muslim forum lol

Not offended im not fat but im not stupid either geezer. Just do a forum search on bbw or fat. As for the docs they use the word obese not fat and have done for a decade. can't say obese now tho that's the point as they mite offend but still can call some one skinny tho"

now you are closer as the original article was over the term obese being classed as offensive which the fuck it is as its a medical terminology. I would hazard a bet docs dont call think people skinny either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ron lol can't believe u ent offended any one with ur Muslim forum lol

Not offended im not fat but im not stupid either geezer. Just do a forum search on bbw or fat. As for the docs they use the word obese not fat and have done for a decade. can't say obese now tho that's the point as they mite offend but still can call some one skinny tho"

Are you making this up?

Since when can you not call someone obese? It's a medical term ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?

Skinny people do! Haven't you seen anorexics kicking off on tv and having to be force fed?

(Forgive me if its a reaction thread you have started just let me know and i will leave you to your kit kat chunkie agenda) "

im so glad you put that because i had a sister that died of anorexia 15 years a go, actually to be technical noone dies of anorexia she died of kidney falier due to being anorexic and i spent a lot of time on the psychiatric wards with her and i can assure you 100% skinny people do indeed kick up more of a fuss being told to gain weight than fat people do being told to loose it

no idea where the OP gets her statistics from but she obviously dont know anyone whos every been skinny enough to be told to gain weight by a doctor

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"I used to be slim and now I'm fat ...... I don't take offence just a larger dress size. "

It's when you take affence to wear you know you have a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?

Skinny people do! Haven't you seen anorexics kicking off on tv and having to be force fed?

(Forgive me if its a reaction thread you have started just let me know and i will leave you to your kit kat chunkie agenda)

im so glad you put that because i had a sister that died of anorexia 15 years a go, actually to be technical noone dies of anorexia she died of kidney falier due to being anorexic and i spent a lot of time on the psychiatric wards with her and i can assure you 100% skinny people do indeed kick up more of a fuss being told to gain weight than fat people do being told to loose it

no idea where the OP gets her statistics from but she obviously dont know anyone whos every been skinny enough to be told to gain weight by a doctor"

. Yes the doctor told my sister she's to thin and needs to put weight on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?

Skinny people do! Haven't you seen anorexics kicking off on tv and having to be force fed?

(Forgive me if its a reaction thread you have started just let me know and i will leave you to your kit kat chunkie agenda)

im so glad you put that because i had a sister that died of anorexia 15 years a go, actually to be technical noone dies of anorexia she died of kidney falier due to being anorexic and i spent a lot of time on the psychiatric wards with her and i can assure you 100% skinny people do indeed kick up more of a fuss being told to gain weight than fat people do being told to loose it

no idea where the OP gets her statistics from but she obviously dont know anyone whos every been skinny enough to be told to gain weight by a doctor. Yes the doctor told my sister she's to thin and needs to put weight on"

and your basing a whole nation of fat and thin people by her reaction?

lets see if she does gain weight, thats the real test

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?

Skinny people do! Haven't you seen anorexics kicking off on tv and having to be force fed?

(Forgive me if its a reaction thread you have started just let me know and i will leave you to your kit kat chunkie agenda)

im so glad you put that because i had a sister that died of anorexia 15 years a go, actually to be technical noone dies of anorexia she died of kidney falier due to being anorexic and i spent a lot of time on the psychiatric wards with her and i can assure you 100% skinny people do indeed kick up more of a fuss being told to gain weight than fat people do being told to loose it

no idea where the OP gets her statistics from but she obviously dont know anyone whos every been skinny enough to be told to gain weight by a doctor. Yes the doctor told my sister she's to thin and needs to put weight on

and your basing a whole nation of fat and thin people by her reaction?

lets see if she does gain weight, thats the real test "

. It was two years back she is now 11 stone

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?"
. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it safe to come out yet ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday "

ok i didnt see the artical ..so was there a referace to skinny people too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it safe to come out yet ?"

no not yet! Popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday

ok i didnt see the artical ..so was there a referace to skinny people too ?"

. In the letters what people had wrote back some thin or skinny people where saying they don't get offended when they have been called thin or skinny

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

severely over weight or under weight people have a problem with food and or weight gain they need help! not belittling or made fun off.

I am a little over weight and struggling with getting it off.

Anyone who has the strength to cut their weight to a health weight and keep it off need applauding

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday

ok i didnt see the artical ..so was there a referace to skinny people too ?. In the letters what people had wrote back some thin or skinny people where saying they don't get offended when they have been called thin or skinny"

ok was just curious as to why you titled your post fat people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it safe to come out yet ?

no not yet! Popcorn? "

please....and a cock with ice i mean xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday

ok i didnt see the artical ..so was there a referace to skinny people too ?. In the letters what people had wrote back some thin or skinny people where saying they don't get offended when they have been called thin or skinny

ok was just curious as to why you titled your post fat people "

. Should of put obese people then

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday

ok i didnt see the artical ..so was there a referace to skinny people too ?. In the letters what people had wrote back some thin or skinny people where saying they don't get offended when they have been called thin or skinny

ok was just curious as to why you titled your post fat people . Should of put obese people then"

fat?obese? thin? skinny ....just woender why u chose fat when were obviously discussing both ?

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

As one of the resident fat folk in these here parts, I can tell you that I definitely do not get offended by my gp telling me that I am obese and need to lose weight...because it is true....I am not stupid or blind...I am what I am...so no not all fat folk get upset...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday "

Because everything the Daily mail writes is 100% accurate and never, ever designed to cause debate and controversy...

It's a medical term OP. Do you honestly believe doctors will call people fat (which is a subjective opinion) rather than obese. The suggestion is laughable. Maybe next week pyschiatrists will stop refering to patients by their conditions and just call them mad. Because that is the level of logic displayed in this suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The title of the thread 'Fat Folk' had me thinking of fat Morris dancers and real ale anoraks with fiddles, drums and penny whistles

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday

Because everything the Daily mail writes is 100% accurate and never, ever designed to cause debate and controversy...

It's a medical term OP. Do you honestly believe doctors will call people fat (which is a subjective opinion) rather than obese. The suggestion is laughable. Maybe next week pyschiatrists will stop refering to patients by their conditions and just call them mad. Because that is the level of logic displayed in this suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ron lol can't believe u ent offended any one with ur Muslim forum lol

Not offended im not fat but im not stupid either geezer. Just do a forum search on bbw or fat. As for the docs they use the word obese not fat and have done for a decade. "

norreven, they more likely say you are over or under your BMI.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i was morbidy obese

Clinicly obese

Now borderline/obese.overweight

Cant weigt for him to say over weight.

He aslo said that i was an extrememley healthy girl for any age.

If you have a problem whether being very underweight or very overweight and it is causing you problems then it is up the doctor to tell you about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i was morbidy obese

Clinicly obese

Now borderline/obese.overweight

Cant weigt for him to say over weight.

He aslo said that i was an extrememley healthy girl for any age.

If you have a problem whether being very underweight or very overweight and it is causing you problems then it is up the doctor to tell you about it"

glad to see you back xxx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"can i ask the op is this topic more about fat people or skinny people ?. It's about the doctors who have been told not to call fat people obese as in the daily mail yesterday

Because everything the Daily mail writes is 100% accurate and never, ever designed to cause debate and controversy...

It's a medical term OP. Do you honestly believe doctors will call people fat (which is a subjective opinion) rather than obese. The suggestion is laughable. Maybe next week pyschiatrists will stop refering to patients by their conditions and just call them mad. Because that is the level of logic displayed in this suggestion.

"

It was on the BBC this morning. They trot out this fat woman, seen her before who was very offended at being called obese.

I don't get offended in the least. I get offended when doctors talk down to me assuming I'm some thick hoochie mama.

Op you must be disappointed with the responses so far...no one biting.

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Depends how fat you mean.

Do you mean the majority of Britain or just the ones that stay glued to the jeremy kyle show and hop on their tricked out chariot of doom to sign on? "

Oi! 'Jezza K' is a legend. An annoying legend perhaps, but he has fun :D

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By *exy milf 1962Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I can sooooo agree with ppl that HAVE experienced obesity to a clinical level

I too have struggled with my weight since the birth of our 2nd child 15yrs ago now!!!

Having lost 3 children,we were overjoyed to at long last, get our 2nd child here "fit n healthy" after 11yrs of trying But nothing comes that easy ~ and i was eventually diagnosed with severe Europhic Post Natal depression when he was 3yrs old~ and 5stone heavier!!!

The medication i was placed on ~ worked immediately and although it's took another 10yrs,i'm finally at a place where I'm now "wanting" to lose the weight NOT some1 telling me i must!

No matter HOW MANY PPL say ya need to,it HAS TO COME FROM WITHIN!!! Then and only THEN will ya succeed x

Unless you've been in that possition

yourself,it's so hard to understand xx Gud luck and keep the Gr8work up to ALL who are wanting to be fitter n far more healthier in life xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fat... I just had too much personality for a skinny body

*wobbles away*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the ' say something that gets everyone on their high horse' thread

Then sits back and watches everyone comment and get really angry with it

Ahhhh .... bless ...

There is a medical term for people like this ... well actually its not that medical

Sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because, as the tone of your original post suggests, there's a negativity against fat people that there isn't against skinny people. Due to media and advertising and promoting what acceptable beauty standards are.

Personally, I love a bbw.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah the ' say something that gets everyone on their high horse' thread

Then sits back and watches everyone comment and get really angry with it

Ahhhh .... bless ...

There is a medical term for people like this ... well actually its not that medical

Sad"

. Put the forum ue around 1 am then had to go to bed and get up for work did u think I was gonna sit up al night ff,s,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And proof of what? Was it us who wrote the article , we was asking the question why do fat people get offended as the doctors can't say obese any more ff,s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the OP is doctor who just likes to tell people they are fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?"

I should imagine that in addition to some of the very valid points raised above, there is also the fact that there is far more social stigma attached to the word 'fat' than there is to the word 'skinny'

For some time now, 'fat' is a word that is often traded as (or as part of) an insult.

I can't quite decide whether your opening statement was based on ignorance or devilment.

Either way, I am glad to see that no one has been provoked by it.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Mrs would take offence to being called fat/obese whatever because for most of her life she refused to see herself as such, basically in denial.

Over the last couple of years or so she has lost 4.5 stone and now calls herself fat, which sounds daft but the difference is she has faced up to the fact she was/is overweight which is how she has been able to do something about it.

Perhaps even more ironic is that she has always found overweight people unattractive even if they were not as overweight as herself.

I am not overweight and never have been but I did have a period of being underweight and it pissed me off if someone pointed it out because I knew there was a problem but I didn't want reminding of it.

Otherwise I've often been called skinny but that's usually from overweight people so I take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am glad my doctor told me i had to lose weight, because i wouldnt of bothered to otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?

I should imagine that in addition to some of the very valid points raised above, there is also the fact that there is far more social stigma attached to the word 'fat' than there is to the word 'skinny'

For some time now, 'fat' is a word that is often traded as (or as part of) an insult.

I can't quite decide whether your opening statement was based on ignorance or devilment.

Either way, I am glad to see that no one has been provoked by it."

he he defo devilment. I am a bit over my bmi but I didn't get offended when the doc told me. However, I did when she told me to stop eating peanut butter sarnie!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Ron lol can't believe u ent offended any one with ur Muslim forum lol

Not offended im not fat but im not stupid either geezer. Just do a forum search on bbw or fat. As for the docs they use the word obese not fat and have done for a decade. can't say obese now tho that's the point as they mite offend but still can call some one skinny tho

now you are closer as the original article was over the term obese being classed as offensive which the fuck it is as its a medical terminology. I would hazard a bet docs dont call think people skinny either. "

This is just the pc brigade gone mad again. I'm fat and have no issue with someone telling me as ling as its in a constructive manner.

Messages from Dick heads who think they are better than me ased on the fact I am fat is what I have an issue with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get offended when I go to the doctors and get told to lose weigh for a simple reason. I swim 2.5 km 3 times a week. My blood pressure is fine my cholesterol is in normal ranges and my heart has been checked and is fine too. I don't smoke and never have. I also drink rarely. I eat lots of fruit and vegetable but admittedly I like the chocolate and cakes too.

What I do object to is when I go to the doctors for a sore throat and get lecture on my weight. Especially when I see that self same doctor standing round the corner from the surgery puffing on a cancer stick.

I pay no attention to these stupid articles in newspapers about statistics on this and that because someone else will always produce another statistic saying the exact opposite.

Its about selling newspapers, which I no longer buy for the reason that in my opinion are full of sensationalist crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont actually think anyone of sound mind gets offended when being told anything by a doctor, people know their doctor has their best interests at heart and will discuss everything in a professional and mature manner, most of us respect our doctors we wouldnt go to them if we didnt, so tho a lot of 'fat' people maybe happy with being over weight and may not want to loose weight that does not mean they are offended when a doctor tells they they could do with shedding a few pounds, they are more likely to walk out thinking...yeah they're right but it dont bother me

I think this thread is more a case of hungry trolls

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Obese is a medical term, fat isnt. How can anyone get offended by something that is true. Would you get offended if you where told you had high blood pressure or was deaf or anything else.

However i am very concerced by the new anerexia term. We assume that anerexia is someone so underweight with eating disorder that it can endanger there life.

Apparently doctors are now using it as a term for people that have been "off" there food for a while and loosing wweight because of it, whatever size they are

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

The OP did explain half way down the thread what they meant and came back to answer.

Ok the OP wasn't as clear until they answered again....but there is no need to try and humilate people about spelling or what is in their post.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I havent seen the article, so if doctors are not going to be allowed to called "fat" i say fat loosly because it depends on how "fat" you are whether the term obese describes you. What othe word they going to use cause whatever they use its going to mean the same things and those that are going to get huffy over obese will still get huffy over whateve term is used in its place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obese is a medical term, fat isnt. How can anyone get offended by something that is true. Would you get offended if you where told you had high blood pressure or was deaf or anything else.

However i am very concerced by the new anerexia term. We assume that anerexia is someone so underweight with eating disorder that it can endanger there life.

Apparently doctors are now using it as a term for people that have been "off" there food for a while and loosing wweight because of it, whatever size they are"

can't speak for now days but anyone under a BMI of 20 is classed as medically under weight they didnt used to class you as being anorexic anorexic till your BMI fell under 17, but anorexia has always been a state of mind not a body weight, maybe now days they are just picking up on it earlier and not leaving people will they are under a BMI of 17 till they give them help, you can be anorexic at 20 stone its just going to take you a lot longer to look it than someone who has the same state of mind at 10 stone, of course not everyone whos is off their food for a while will be anorexic but i think its good they are picking up on it before people get to the point people are damaging their bodies

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Why is it straight away people jump to the offensive when a thread is started that maybe refers themselves but not personally ?

Maybe your insecure and the thread topic has hit a nerve ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hitting a nerve ??? No nerve hit here i no what i am and what i look like, so nothing took personally here. But ppl can get affended .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"And proof of what? Was it us who wrote the article , we was asking the question why do fat people get offended as the doctors can't say obese any more ff,s."

Perhaps had you expalined what you were asking came from the newspaper artical and not an opinion of yourself people would have answered you diffrently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually there are alot of "skinny people" that get very offended when people tell them they need to put weight on.... some of them have (under)eating disorders, some don't...

and i don't get offended when my doctor tells me i need to loose weight... i know i'm over weight... i know its bad for my health.... and i know i have an (over)eating disorder... not really much gonna change over night about that.

people will be offended by all sorts... but if you like the way you look and someone tells you its not right.. of course your gonna be offended or at the very least a little annoyed

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It was in the papers yesterday Jesus did I write the head line in the daily mail "

Ahhhh you got it from the Daily Snail eh? Says it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG I new this thread Wud cause this when it appeared last night. To those of you who are over or under body weight and dealing with it keep it up xxx those who have done it congrats and we'll done. Those of you facing this challenge you have my very best wishes for success. The shit stirrers shud butt out xxx

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

I can't stand really fat people. Like MORBIDLY OBESE... Unless you have something wrong with you which is causing you to be a whale just bloody stop eating.. People need to be educated on what a healthy diet is from a young age...

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I can't stand really fat people. Like MORBIDLY OBESE... Unless you have something wrong with you which is causing you to be a whale just bloody stop eating.. People need to be educated on what a healthy diet is from a young age..."

Uh uh......and on, let me get me coffee and settled whilst I watch you be obliterated

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I can't stand really fat people. Like MORBIDLY OBESE... Unless you have something wrong with you which is causing you to be a whale just bloody stop eating.. People need to be educated on what a healthy diet is from a young age..."

laughing pretty fat ass off

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"OMG I new this thread Wud cause this when it appeared last night. To those of you who are over or under body weight and dealing with it keep it up xxx those who have done it congrats and we'll done. Those of you facing this challenge you have my very best wishes for success. The shit stirrers shud butt out xxx "

Well said

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"It was in the papers yesterday Jesus did I write the head line in the daily mail

Ahhhh you got it from the Daily Snail eh? Says it all really "

yup...i stepped out when i saw where they were getting their "facts from.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I can't stand really fat people. Like MORBIDLY OBESE... Unless you have something wrong with you which is causing you to be a whale just bloody stop eating.. People need to be educated on what a healthy diet is from a young age..."

I actually agree with your last statement about people should be educated on healthy eating. Ive lost a considerable amount of weight.

However, if i was a size 30 or a size 10 you certainly wouldnt be the kind of person id want to interact with. How can you really really dislike someone just by looking at them. Now if your sexual preferences are not for large people that is your preference but to say you really really dont large large people just in day to day life is weird.

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

I would obviously accept fat people individually. Like when i meet fat people i don't hate them. But i just can't understand how you can let yourself get that fat.

When you were halfway there surely you would think fuck this, about time i do something about this.

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Some time weight gain is due to several reasons. Disability and depression are two when they come together its just a downward spiral

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????


"Some time weight gain is due to several reasons. Disability and depression are two when they come together its just a downward spiral "

I know. I mentioned this if you take the time to read.

Also as for over-eating. The answer is just stop. If you adapt ones diet you can avoid being fat and still eat like a horse. People are just ignorant and lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it safe to come out of my shelter yet

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Some time weight gain is due to several reasons. Disability and depression are two when they come together its just a downward spiral

I know. I mentioned this if you take the time to read.

Also as for over-eating. The answer is just stop. If you adapt ones diet you can avoid being fat and still eat like a horse. People are just ignorant and lazy."

Sits back with my platefull of food and observes

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I would obviously accept fat people individually. Like when i meet fat people i don't hate them. But i just can't understand how you can let yourself get that fat.

When you were halfway there surely you would think fuck this, about time i do something about this."

Have you ever stopped and asked someone morbidly obese why they have got themsleves to that level. As i said i agree that people need to be educated about their health but on the flip of the coin people need to be educated that all Morbidly obese people are not like that cause there just fat lazy fuckers that cant just "get a grip" on themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some time weight gain is due to several reasons. Disability and depression are two when they come together its just a downward spiral

I know. I mentioned this if you take the time to read.

Also as for over-eating. The answer is just stop. If you adapt ones diet you can avoid being fat and still eat like a horse. People are just ignorant and lazy."

some of what you say i really do not agree with but to say people are ignorant and lazy is way way out of line, as said before there are many reasons why some people are over weight and most of them medical i think your bang out of order on that one

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????


"I would obviously accept fat people individually. Like when i meet fat people i don't hate them. But i just can't understand how you can let yourself get that fat.

When you were halfway there surely you would think fuck this, about time i do something about this.

Have you ever stopped and asked someone morbidly obese why they have got themsleves to that level. As i said i agree that people need to be educated about their health but on the flip of the coin people need to be educated that all Morbidly obese people are not like that cause there just fat lazy fuckers that cant just "get a grip" on themselves"

Put a side the ones who have issues.. I am talking about the fat people who are fat because they have too many takeaways and have biscuits for breakfast. Or do these not exist? Are you telling me all obese people have issues lol. Apart fromt he main one that they are a fat bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok.. you want to know a reason why people let themselves get fat... its ....

Depression,

Bullying,

Lack of Self Esteem

Lack of Motivation/Reason to improve.

the de-motivational spiral (basically when people say shit like i hate fat people, fat people will often eat because it comforts them... thus gaining more weight and demotivating themselves further)

Emotionally connected eating habits

and the list goes on..

There are very few people who start off a size 8 and say i want to weight 30 stone in 3 years...

And there are also very few people who are fat because of miseducation or a lack of education on what is and isn't healthy...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I would obviously accept fat people individually. Like when i meet fat people i don't hate them. But i just can't understand how you can let yourself get that fat.

When you were halfway there surely you would think fuck this, about time i do something about this.

Have you ever stopped and asked someone morbidly obese why they have got themsleves to that level. As i said i agree that people need to be educated about their health but on the flip of the coin people need to be educated that all Morbidly obese people are not like that cause there just fat lazy fuckers that cant just "get a grip" on themselves

Put a side the ones who have issues.. I am talking about the fat people who are fat because they have too many takeaways and have biscuits for breakfast. Or do these not exist? Are you telling me all obese people have issues lol. Apart fromt he main one that they are a fat bastard."

Im not going to argue down to your level.

Issues, is a very big word. Personally i would say its only a small percentage of very over weight people that cant loose weight due to health reasons. But i would say majority of overweight people are overweight due to "issues"

Abuse,

No self worth

Lack of education

No role models

Esalating out of control

Some form of mental health problems.

Neglect.

IF you took time out and interviewed 100 very overweight people i bet you would find a very very small minority are that large just because they are "fat bastards"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some peope turn to drink and drugs when they cannot handle what life throws at them, others self harm, and some even stop eating and become anorexic or bulimic. These are treated as addictions and mental heath conditions. Alternatively others turn to food. What people seem to forget is that food can become an addiction too. However unlike drink and drugs you can physically live without both of them. Food you can't so the temptation is always there.

You wouldn't go up to someone with anorexia and say to them just bloody eat would you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define 'fat' and define 'thin'.

Everyone has their own idea of what they think is 'fat' and 'thin'....

If you are not referring to yourself then why do you give a shit anyway??? LOL

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Have to say that on some level I agree with Spartan. I am very educated on what to eat and how to exercise, I just chose not to do these. I have phases where I will try to lose weight but they are never very successful.

I have medical conditions that cause me to put on weight and I put it on as Brown abdominal fat which is harder to shift, bit it can be shifted. I don't feel the need to blame these conditions for the size I am, because I know if I was so strict with myself I could shift it, I just don't want to live a life obsessed with food!

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

Welll you used neglect and abuse as examples of what might relate to being fat. That is just ridiculous IMO... Don't worry she is fat because she was abused as a kid. While she attacks the chinese takeaway.

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By *ucky_LadsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kidderminster+ surrounding areas.


"The OP did explain half way down the thread what they meant and came back to answer.

Ok the OP wasn't as clear until they answered again....but there is no need to try and humilate people about spelling or what is in their post. "

but people do!,and will continue to do so!.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

"

And if you want to show you have too much time on your hands, find someone whose posts you don't like and stalk them on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would obviously accept fat people individually. Like when i meet fat people i don't hate them. But i just can't understand how you can let yourself get that fat.

When you were halfway there surely you would think fuck this, about time i do something about this.

Backpedal faster there!

No-one knows why people overeat, whether its because they have a deepseated emotional problem, a physiological problem, or just like chips. So there's no one quick fix for everyone who is overweight.

However, most healthy adults can lose weight eventually. You will always be an uneducated, unfeeling idiot.

Uneducated and unfeeling idiot? Bit rich for someone who is slamming somebodies opinion. Surely somebody as educated as yourself wouldn't have to resort to such antics.

Your opinions are just that - yours. But I stated uneducated because you've obviously not read up much about it. To you, fat = lazy and without control, whereas any halfway decent Google would explain to you that it isn't always the case.

You are a young male, so losing weight and keeping it off is relatively easy. An older woman finds it a LOT harder to lose weight and maintain that weight due to their body make up and changing hormones. But to you that would be an excuse, not reality, and of course overweight women must all be salad dodgers.

Having read your replies to several threads I have come to the conclusion that you lack empathy. There are several syndromes out there that have that as a symptom but if I follow your logic I must only conclude that you are, indeed, an unfeeling idiot.

Maybe this is true. But you see however stupid you may find my opinion i accept yours and without calling you an idiot. ALl i keep hearing is why do you think they are fat etc... Well if you have issues such as mental health problems extreme hunger hehehehee.

What i am trying to say is, there are some people who are just fat because they eat too much, have a shit diet and do not exercise. I also think that there is alot more of these people than what alot of you think... All i am hearing is basically "all fat people have issues" it is just not always the case.

Just out of interest what are you basing your facts on? Do you have evidence to back your argument up"

Was wondering the same......

There are many people who find it hard to lose weight due to health related issues....whether that be physical or mental and it is their business....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Welll you used neglect and abuse as examples of what might relate to being fat. That is just ridiculous IMO... Don't worry she is fat because she was abused as a kid. While she attacks the chinese takeaway. "

Abuse comes in many forms and you are right it was just ONE example i gave.

As i said before i agree with you people need to be educated about healthy food but its people like you that need to be far more educated

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

"

Asking a question that seems was in the news ( one poster quoted the BBC ) isn't trolling.

Maybe take time to read the thread.

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

I need to be educated? On sympathising with fat people who eat too much? As a person i personally can't understand physically having to eat too much because i got "abused" or "neglected"

That is just an excuse.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I know this subject always ends up heated....but, get your point across without being personal or abusive please, or you may find you can't post for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

And if you want to show you have too much time on your hands, find someone whose posts you don't like and stalk them on the forums

"

Surely that can't be levelled at me ?

I have only used the forums for around 4 days

Hardly time to stalk anyone or to be taking 'sides' for or against people.

However, there are levels of ignorance that deserve comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welll you used neglect and abuse as examples of what might relate to being fat. That is just ridiculous IMO... Don't worry she is fat because she was abused as a kid. While she attacks the chinese takeaway. "

Im just heading out the door so don't have time to write the essay i want to so for now i will just say this...

What a load of bollocks!!

Love (obese) Kat

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By *ucky_LadsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kidderminster+ surrounding areas.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

How many tonned tanned adonis's manage to stay that way through out their lifes? not many lets see how they look 10/15 yrs down the line plenty of evidance to back this up out here too

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

And if you want to show you have too much time on your hands, find someone whose posts you don't like and stalk them on the forums

Surely that can't be levelled at me ?

I have only used the forums for around 4 days

Hardly time to stalk anyone or to be taking 'sides' for or against people.

However, there are levels of ignorance that deserve comment.

"

Only been on for 4 days yet have seen enough of one posters comments to call him out and warn people off him?? Hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

Asking a question that seems was in the news ( one poster quoted the BBC ) isn't trolling.

Maybe take time to read the thread."

I wasn't suggesting the OP was trolling for definate and indeed referred to as much in an earlier post on this thread.

The other gentlemans comments, however, I do feel are deliberately contentious.

Forgive the misunderstanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

And if you want to show you have too much time on your hands, find someone whose posts you don't like and stalk them on the forums

Surely that can't be levelled at me ?

I have only used the forums for around 4 days

Hardly time to stalk anyone or to be taking 'sides' for or against people.

However, there are levels of ignorance that deserve comment.

Only been on for 4 days yet have seen enough of one posters comments to call him out and warn people off him?? Hmmmmm

"

I did not warn anyone off him.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

And if you want to show you have too much time on your hands, find someone whose posts you don't like and stalk them on the forums

Surely that can't be levelled at me ?

I have only used the forums for around 4 days

Hardly time to stalk anyone or to be taking 'sides' for or against people.

However, there are levels of ignorance that deserve comment.

Only been on for 4 days yet have seen enough of one posters comments to call him out and warn people off him?? Hmmmmm

I did not warn anyone off him."

Ok

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Welll you used neglect and abuse as examples of what might relate to being fat. That is just ridiculous IMO... Don't worry she is fat because she was abused as a kid. While she attacks the chinese takeaway. "

I think sometimes excuses are made for everything.

Sometimes there is just the reason of a person eats too much or the wrong things.

I don't need educating on it as I know the gorgeous nice stuff I would rather eat isn't as healthy as the stuff I would rather not eat.

I eat the wrong things, admit it and make no excuses for it....if I want to do something about it I would use willpower, but I am happy as I am for now.

I think unless there is a definite medical reason of why someone is overweight, then all the excuses in the world can be overcome if you really want to.

Now I get what you are saying, I just think your first post wasn't worded very well with the hating of big people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did say this would get everyone on their high horse

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think sometimes excuses are made for everything.

Sometimes there is just the reason of a person eats too much or the wrong things.

I don't need educating on it as I know the gorgeous nice stuff I would rather eat isn't as healthy as the stuff I would rather not eat.

I eat the wrong things, admit it and make no excuses for it....if I want to do something about it I would use willpower, but I am happy as I am for now.

I think unless there is a definite medical reason of why someone is overweight, then all the excuses in the world can be overcome if you really want to.

Now I get what you are saying, I just think your first post wasn't worded very well with the hating of big people.

"

I think that you have it very well put here. (shhhhh about me agreeing with you though)

Cali

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Welll you used neglect and abuse as examples of what might relate to being fat. That is just ridiculous IMO... Don't worry she is fat because she was abused as a kid. While she attacks the chinese takeaway.

I think sometimes excuses are made for everything.

Sometimes there is just the reason of a person eats too much or the wrong things.

I don't need educating on it as I know the gorgeous nice stuff I would rather eat isn't as healthy as the stuff I would rather not eat.

I eat the wrong things, admit it and make no excuses for it....if I want to do something about it I would use willpower, but I am happy as I am for now.

I think unless there is a definite medical reason of why someone is overweight, then all the excuses in the world can be overcome if you really want to.

Now I get what you are saying, I just think your first post wasn't worded very well with the hating of big people.

"

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did say this would get everyone on their high horse

"

Im too fat and lazy to bother climbing up

PASS THE BACON BUTTIES!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And please dont use the term FAT

I prefer 'Dimensionally Superior'

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"And please dont use the term FAT

I prefer 'Dimensionally Superior'"

hahahhaha luv it

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

Whoever said i should watch how i present my arguement incase i get a timeout... Well, i would just like to argue that i have shared my opinion defended it and i am probably the only person who has not called the people who don't have the same opinion of me an idiot.

If that is worthy of a time out then so be it. I agree i probably could have worded things better. But fuck it. Why should i. This is a forum and it was a topic where people was always going to have different opinions.

I am not a fake person who will only say things which i think people will like. I said what i felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And please dont use the term FAT

I prefer 'Dimensionally Superior'"

am loving that

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"To the OP

If in future you wish to troll, just check out Spartans posts

If you want to piss people off and alienate yourself amongst an online community, then as Punch would say 'that's the way to do it'

Asking a question that seems was in the news ( one poster quoted the BBC ) isn't trolling.

Maybe take time to read the thread.

I wasn't suggesting the OP was trolling for definate and indeed referred to as much in an earlier post on this thread.

The other gentlemans comments, however, I do feel are deliberately contentious.

Forgive the misunderstanding."

Forgive mine, I misread your post

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Whoever said i should watch how i present my arguement incase i get a timeout... Well, i would just like to argue that i have shared my opinion defended it and i am probably the only person who has not called the people who don't have the same opinion of me an idiot.

If that is worthy of a time out then so be it. I agree i probably could have worded things better. But fuck it. Why should i. This is a forum and it was a topic where people was always going to have different opinions.

I am not a fake person who will only say things which i think people will like. I said what i felt."

Everyone is entitled to their oponions on here but we dont all go out of our way by offending people by calling them the likes of FAT BASTARDS juts to get out point of view across

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By *_and_MCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn

mmmm doughnuts!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

I think that you have it very well put here. (shhhhh about me agreeing with you though)

Cali "

Don't worry, I don't think anyone saw

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Whoever said i should watch how i present my arguement incase i get a timeout... Well, i would just like to argue that i have shared my opinion defended it and i am probably the only person who has not called the people who don't have the same opinion of me an idiot.

If that is worthy of a time out then so be it. I agree i probably could have worded things better. But fuck it. Why should i. This is a forum and it was a topic where people was always going to have different opinions.

I am not a fake person who will only say things which i think people will like. I said what i felt."

My post wasn't intended for you....it was for the posts I removed that were personal and bordering abuse because of your post.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Whoever said i should watch how i present my arguement incase i get a timeout... Well, i would just like to argue that i have shared my opinion defended it and i am probably the only person who has not called the people who don't have the same opinion of me an idiot.

If that is worthy of a time out then so be it. I agree i probably could have worded things better. But fuck it. Why should i. This is a forum and it was a topic where people was always going to have different opinions.

I am not a fake person who will only say things which i think people will like. I said what i felt.

Everyone is entitled to their oponions on here but we dont all go out of our way by offending people by calling them the likes of FAT BASTARDS juts to get out point of view across "

Being tactless in a general sense isn't bannable.

If people are offended or take things personally then maybe just avoid that persons posts.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Whoever said i should watch how i present my arguement incase i get a timeout... Well, i would just like to argue that i have shared my opinion defended it and i am probably the only person who has not called the people who don't have the same opinion of me an idiot.

If that is worthy of a time out then so be it. I agree i probably could have worded things better. But fuck it. Why should i. This is a forum and it was a topic where people was always going to have different opinions.

I am not a fake person who will only say things which i think people will like. I said what i felt.

Everyone is entitled to their oponions on here but we dont all go out of our way by offending people by calling them the likes of FAT BASTARDS juts to get out point of view across

Being tactless in a general sense isn't bannable.

If people are offended or take things personally then maybe just avoid that persons posts."

I didnt ask for the person to be banned i said he could have got his point of view across without the need to call people names

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

Well if i have upset any larger people out there i apologise.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Well if i have upset any larger people out there i apologise. "

You didn't offend me ( but then I am not easily offended ) but saves you saying sorry next time, maybe word your posts better as I said on my other post, it didn't come across well.

( thats from me as a member, not telling you what you can post )

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????


"Well if i have upset any larger people out there i apologise.

You didn't offend me ( but then I am not easily offended ) but saves you saying sorry next time, maybe word your posts better as I said on my other post, it didn't come across well.

( thats from me as a member, not telling you what you can post )"

Well i didn't set out to intentionally bother anybody. But my opinion obviously remains the same... least i added some spice and rice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder.... given that the majority off women have some issues over weight and body image (i myself feel overweight a bit) just how much spartan has done here on this thread to increase his chance of a meeting....Ive been on fab over a year now but only been visiting forums for about 2 weeks....I LOVE IT HERE as its given me so much more insight than profiles ever did into peoples true beauty (inner beauty) you do look good spartan....just like that sticky cream bun all us women love sooooo much.... but your more unhealthy and toxic to women with your attitude and opinion...I suggest u go stare into a mirror a while as you clearly love yourself. I wud not meet u if u were last man on the planet !

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

I can totally understand that sugar tits. You would be shocked if you seen my inbox. I reckon for a single guy on here i get quite alot of offers. Probably don't know i am abit of a dick though.

But hey, least i have personality. kinda

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By *ubbliciousWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Why is it fat people get offended when the doctors tell them they are fat and need to loose wait and skinny people don't get offended when the doctor says you need to put weight on ?

Nothing worse than a sweeping generalisation, well apart from one so ill informned that it borders on the ignorant...

"

Well said. What an ignoramus!

I don't find it offensive when my Dr ADVISES me to lose weigh, I find it offensive when pillocks think they have the right to comment on my size or weight. Mind your own damned business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi Spartan aint your doctor told you to stop abusing the steroids yet???

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????

I would share my opinion with people in person too.. What are they gonna do really... They could possibly hit me but i mean then they just look a total tit.

As for the steroids,,, behave i have a chest like a prepubescent girl. Might start taking them soon though now im back on the gym. tell me that story again please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not fat god gave me airbags because im precious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You would be shocked if you seen my inbox. I reckon for a single guy on here i get quite alot of offers"

yet only webcam veris

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????


"You would be shocked if you seen my inbox. I reckon for a single guy on here i get quite alot of offers

yet only webcam veris"

Only joined 8 weeks ago. Sorry i haven't had chance to fuck the whole of fab yet. Some us can actually get laid away from fab.. So i am in no rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not fat god gave me airbags because im precious "

Mine went off already.. thats why i look like this :P

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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This this has runs it's course now.

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