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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport

Hello all

Firstly hope you are all well and staying safe during the current shit storm we are going through!

I was hoping to get some advice in how to bring up the subject of swinging to my quite vanilla wife! I would love to try it and personally get turned on by the thought of my wife with another guy/lady (dont think she is bi) but I know she is very vanilla in the bedroom department!

Not sure how I could bring it up without causing her huge offence and causing an argument!

Any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated

Thanks

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Why don't you show her your profile on here and see what she thinks

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Tell her you belong to a really nice website where there's loads of kinky people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me have a chat with her...takes the pressure off of you

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Just tell her that she could do some carpet munching, she might be up for it xx

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Start flirting with her, text messages, buy her nice sexy clothes,underwear.

Start slow introduce some kink, watch movies together.

Not just for a wank.

It's a journey

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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport

I already do most of that, I often send her sexy pics but she just ignores them!

I've bought her sexy underwear previously and she only wore it once!

I spoil my wife rotten but get very little in return, hence why I'm on this site (although I've had fuck all lick on here either )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I already do most of that, I often send her sexy pics but she just ignores them!

I've bought her sexy underwear previously and she only wore it once!

I spoil my wife rotten but get very little in return, hence why I'm on this site (although I've had fuck all lick on here either )"

Maybe you need to discover what switches her on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered divorce!

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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport


"Have you considered divorce!"

Yes, but to be fair I do love her to bits, she is a great woman just boring as fuck in the bedroom!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Are you sure that she is not getting it from someone else, maybe she is already on here? Have you tried a local search?? X

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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport


"I already do most of that, I often send her sexy pics but she just ignores them!

I've bought her sexy underwear previously and she only wore it once!

I spoil my wife rotten but get very little in return, hence why I'm on this site (although I've had fuck all lick on here either )

Maybe you need to discover what switches her on?"

We have been together years and I've tried just about bloody everything to switch her on!

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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport


"Are you sure that she is not getting it from someone else, maybe she is already on here? Have you tried a local search?? X "

Definitely not on here and doubt she is getting elsewhere as she doesn't go out enough for that to happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all

Firstly hope you are all well and staying safe during the current shit storm we are going through!

I was hoping to get some advice in how to bring up the subject of swinging to my quite vanilla wife! I would love to try it and personally get turned on by the thought of my wife with another guy/lady (dont think she is bi) but I know she is very vanilla in the bedroom department!

Not sure how I could bring it up without causing her huge offence and causing an argument!

Any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated

Thanks"

This is a hard one dude (no pun intended)

Hope you both manage to find what you are seeking.

It can be really hard when one person has a higher sex drive than the other.

Keep us posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you considered divorce!

Yes, but to be fair I do love her to bits, she is a great woman just boring as fuck in the bedroom!"

What if she finds you boring and therefore doesn't bother anymore?

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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport


"Have you considered divorce!

Yes, but to be fair I do love her to bits, she is a great woman just boring as fuck in the bedroom!

What if she finds you boring and therefore doesn't bother anymore?"

Ok, that's an interesting twist on my dilemma!

Although I dont see myself as boring, to be fair I'm the one on here looking for advice on swinging!

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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport


"Hello all

Firstly hope you are all well and staying safe during the current shit storm we are going through!

I was hoping to get some advice in how to bring up the subject of swinging to my quite vanilla wife! I would love to try it and personally get turned on by the thought of my wife with another guy/lady (dont think she is bi) but I know she is very vanilla in the bedroom department!

Not sure how I could bring it up without causing her huge offence and causing an argument!

Any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated

Thanks

This is a hard one dude (no pun intended)

Hope you both manage to find what you are seeking.

It can be really hard when one person has a higher sex drive than the other.

Keep us posted.

"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I already do most of that, I often send her sexy pics but she just ignores them!

I've bought her sexy underwear previously and she only wore it once!

I spoil my wife rotten but get very little in return, hence why I'm on this site (although I've had fuck all lick on here either )"

Flogging a dead horse fella, dare say others will shout me down, been there had that tee shirt, eventually had enough after years without a decent shag, time to face facts tbh!

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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport

It's already starting to feel that way to be honest!

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Probably need advice from a relationship councillor rather than a swing site

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By *iscreetmarried99 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff/newport


"Probably need advice from a relationship councillor rather than a swing site"

To be fair my relationship is pretty perfect, the only complaint is the lack of fun in the bedroom! Apart from that we have a very healthy relationship

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