FabSwingers.com forum: Improving my profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey ladies and gents, I'm after some help, just on how I can improve my profile, to make myself more appealing to others.. Ive been told Im pretty good looking (yes I know that's down to the other persons opinions) and that I have a big cock (and I know it's not a 2ft python) and I've been told I'm a decent respectful bloke... Just after a few pointers - be nice

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You need to say a bit more about yourself in the profile, either say a bit more about what you're looking for or just let your personality out on the profile. Mine is a bit weird but it is an insight into the person.

Also, you might want more pics of you & less of your f-buddy. Unless you want it to be a couples profile? Cos that's kinda what it looks like. Women aren't going to want to meet you based on pics of some other chick having fun, you know?

Maybe highlight some of your qualities as a person but avoid sounding boastful.

Hope some of that helps, none of it is meant as an insult or put down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi - well you asked so here goes!

Saying you want to get into swinging as you're bored of the 'dating scene' makes it sounds like you're looking to use this as a way of finding an easy shag - not good.

The profile doesn't tell people much about you or your likes/dislikes. Too brief and not a good 'shop window'.

The pics are far more focused on her (I assume your FB) than you - apart from the usual cock pics. Try a bit of variety - not saying plaster your face over your profile - but at the end of the day it's yours, not hers!

You've been on over a year and only have one webcam veri from another guy - makes it appear you may have just requested someone to just to get you that little green tick! people view meet in person much more favourably that phone (no longer available) and webcam. A cam veri just proves you're the right sex - tells people nothing about you. Why not verified by a girl/couple as it says straight on your profile?

On that note - having TV's in your friends list will confuse some as to your actual sexual orientation and may put some off.

Sorry if this sounds negative in any way - just my honest opinion and meant to be constuctive criticism.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the tips, I will put then into good use.. I suppose I should stop accepting every Tom, dick and tranny that friend requests me.. As for the webcam thing, mine is now knackered... Purchasing a new one could be key

Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need a couples profile you cant just advertise as fuckbuddies without her details,..you also have lots of men on your friends list? bi? if so put it down as not doing so can put some couples and single women off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps I'm better of ditching the friend list and the fuck buddy part... I'm not bi, but not frightened to be in close proximity of a cock..... What you reckon about binning of the friends and fuck buddy parts

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally I reckon your friends list should be people you've met, plan to meet or regularly talk to. Adding everyone means you havent a scooby who's looking at your private pics. It's ok to have a couple of guys as friends on here. It could be folk you chat to or have met at group or social stuff. But do have a clearout of folk you don't actually talk to.

You could leave one pic of your f-buddy if you like (and she's ok with it) but make another profile as a couple if you want to meet together & state on your profile that this profile is for meeting you alone, if they want to meet you with your fb then refer them to the couples profile. Again, only with her consent to do so.

Ditch the "want to get into" cos its been a year or more. Replace with comments about you, interests you have (music, travel or whatever). Although people are here for sex, they want it to be with a person, not a machine. Show your personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate the input guys. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi - well you asked so here goes!

Saying you want to get into swinging as you're bored of the 'dating scene' makes it sounds like you're looking to use this as a way of finding an easy shag - not good.

The profile doesn't tell people much about you or your likes/dislikes. Too brief and not a good 'shop window'.

On that note - having TV's in your friends list will confuse some as to your actual sexual orientation and may put some off.

Sorry if this sounds negative in any way - just my honest opinion and meant to be constuctive criticism.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profile done guys.. I've set up another forum page.. Cheers again

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Now that is a vast improvement. A bit more about you, a bit of humour etc, well done. Obviously you're not utterly guaranteed meets, but I definitely think you've got a bit more chance now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for the tips guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Andy

Did not see your profile before you changed it but just wanted to say how nice it is seeing somebody that asks for advice actually listening to the advice and doing something about it

Good luck

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