FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies- do you cum?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One for just the ladies, for obvious reasons.

Do you/ can you cum on meets?

I only cum on my own, never on a meet. I hate it when people say "I'll make you cum I'm great at it, women always do" blah blah. Yep well I don't. It doesn't bother me and I still have lots of fun.

So.... Ladies...... Do you cum?!

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"One for just the ladies, for obvious reasons.

Do you/ can you cum on meets?

I only cum on my own, never on a meet. I hate it when people say "I'll make you cum I'm great at it, women always do" blah blah. Yep well I don't. It doesn't bother me and I still have lots of fun.

So.... Ladies...... Do you cum?!

Sometimes

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

Are you differentiating between cumming and orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do cum given the opportunity, but it doesn't help if the man humps me for ten minutes and then buggers off outside for a cigarette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do cum given the opportunity, but it doesn't help if the man humps me for ten minutes and then buggers off outside for a cigarette.

Who'd do that? That's shocking.

I have to admitt ive only ever cum with two people I've met whilst swinging, still had a lot of fun though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not very often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be devastated if i knew the woman im with didnt cum ...has for humping for ten min and go for a cigaret ...serious guys ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened but we're not naming names.

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By *ubbliciousWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"One for just the ladies, for obvious reasons.

Do you/ can you cum on meets?

I only cum on my own, never on a meet. I hate it when people say "I'll make you cum I'm great at it, women always do" blah blah. Yep well I don't. It doesn't bother me and I still have lots of fun.

So.... Ladies...... Do you cum?!

I'm actually sick of the line-I have made every woman cum blah blah blah. I always tell them you WILL NOT make me cum. It just won't happen. Even my ex partner who I was with for 6 years only managed it on the odd occasion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be truthful i have been on meets where i haven't cum.

i don't like the idea of sex as being all about cumming its not the destination its the journey

I think in order for sex to be fulfilling it has to be as much about being mentally turned on as it is about being physically turned on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can make any woman cum

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

Em alsways cums, but never cums off (orgasm) its something we only do together (not through choice, its just we doubt anyone would be interested in doing what needs doing for her to orgasm as it doesnt involve 'sexual contact'.

she cums very easily, with the right encouragement, which doesnt involve pummeling her pussy into submission, which one bloke tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always no ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always.. rarely with sex.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't orgasm that easily, especially with someone new- as I'm usually concentrating too much on trying to please them!

but there are a few memorable exceptions, I'm happy to say. Usually involving tongues and fingers though! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cum loads on meets, but only through penetration, guess i'm lucky

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

So nice to hear others dont cum/orgasm..was beginning to feel a freak.

I have only ever orgasmed with my OH. Doesnt mean I dont enjoy sex or get pleasure from it tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nice to hear others dont cum/orgasm..was beginning to feel a freak.

I have only ever orgasmed with my OH. Doesnt mean I dont enjoy sex or get pleasure from it tho."

Yes- I get a lot of pleasure too, even without an orgasm! You're not a freak, hun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always and very rarely with penetration.

Have always had lots of fun though

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Always guess thats one of the benefits of an ultra sensitive clit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone new...not often...after a few meets more easily...with regular quite often...but never a guarantee but always have fun......NOW HOW MANY HAVE FAKED IT TO PLEASE A GUY ?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"someone new...not often...after a few meets more easily...with regular quite often...but never a guarantee but always have fun......NOW HOW MANY HAVE FAKED IT TO PLEASE A GUY ?

Shouldn't the questions be - Who hasn't faked it to please a guy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have never faked it. If they are humping away and I get bored I usually do something to make them cum. After that they aren't bothered anymore and just leave.

None of us are freaks, it seems pretty common. Apart from the lucky few that can.

As for the blokes that say they 'can make any woman cum'.... I avoid them as they are annoying. And actually disrespectful in a way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nice to hear others dont cum/orgasm..was beginning to feel a freak.

I have only ever orgasmed with my OH. Doesnt mean I dont enjoy sex or get pleasure from it tho."

I think men struggle to comprehend how much us women can enjoy the sex without actually having an orgasm

cali

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

I can enjoy sex without cumming and I think sex is about mutual respect passion, and giving ad well as reciving pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can squirt/gush but to cum find it hard to do on a meet,but between me and Ad i can loads.think it down to letting go .

sam x

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"I do cum given the opportunity, but it doesn't help if the man humps me for ten minutes and then buggers off outside for a cigarette.

Wouldn't happen with me - I don't smoke Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously is cuming the most important thing?

Surely the pleasure of the whole experience outways the orgasm???

Or am I in the minority?

Don't get me wrong it's great to achieve an orgasm but its not the be all and end all !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cum when out at a meet, but it sometimes takes a while..

I've cum at parties but only after lots of other fun and only with the fb I'd gone with as he knows how I like it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've cum when out at a meet, but it sometimes takes a while..

I've cum at parties but only after lots of other fun and only with the fb I'd gone with as he knows how I like it lol "
. I've yet to squirt at a meet/party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can make any woman cum

when you call her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can squirt/gush but to cum find it hard to do on a meet,but between me and Ad i can loads.think it down to letting go .

sam x"

to me meeting having fun with people not all about cuming .there still been fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife never cums on meets but still loves it she only cums when we play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nice to hear others dont cum/orgasm..was beginning to feel a freak.

I have only ever orgasmed with my OH. Doesnt mean I dont enjoy sex or get pleasure from it tho.

I think men struggle to comprehend how much us women can enjoy the sex without actually having an orgasm

cali "

Not all of us! I've not cum on as many meets as I have!

Sometimes i'm too preoccupied making sure my company does - other times i've held back too much (particularly if they're doing a wonderful job and I want to prolong the enjoyment!) and reached the point when it's just not going to happen.

Doesn't mean by any stretch of the imagination i've not enjoyed myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See for me if a guy didnt cum, I would find it a very disappointing meet lol but then I do make it clear that I am expecting a facial or covering in some way before I even meet.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One for just the ladies, for obvious reasons.

Do you/ can you cum on meets?

I only cum on my own, never on a meet. I hate it when people say "I'll make you cum I'm great at it, women always do" blah blah. Yep well I don't. It doesn't bother me and I still have lots of fun.

So.... Ladies...... Do you cum?!

its very rare i cum when on a meet, i can make myself cum no problem but i think the thing with swinging is because your meeting multiple partners noone really knows your body or what you like so hardly any guys i meet make me cum, when it does happen its great but to be honest i dont expect it anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seriously is cuming the most important thing?

Surely the pleasure of the whole experience outways the orgasm???

Or am I in the minority?

Don't get me wrong it's great to achieve an orgasm but its not the be all and end all !

Yes, I agree with you totally and apparently so do lots of other people. It means nothing to me as I just don't cum/ orgasm with anyone else, but I really enjoy the fun.

Think I agree with Cali that I like a bloke to cum, or else I feel I've failed somehow. I know that's double standards on my part though!

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Think I agree with Cali that I like a bloke to cum, or else I feel I've failed somehow. I know that's double standards on my part though!

Trying not to come across as big headed.

I don't promises multiple orgasms and waterfall but I try to make a woman feel satisfied.

As I believe mutual satisfaction is better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women secrete a substance when they are aroused (wet) but it is not come it is a natural lubrication. They do not come in the sense of a man because their equivalent organ is the clit but it does not have any balls and does not produce semen.

The other liquid a woman may eject from her vagina is the legendary squirt or gush.

None of these have to accompany orgasm. Orgasm is the very best feeling but no, you don't always reach orgasm, especially if the guy is over exited or inexperienced or selfish.

When I do orgasm they often last a few minutes and I sometimes get replicas/tremors? shortly following as I relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nice to hear others dont cum/orgasm..was beginning to feel a freak.

I have only ever orgasmed with my OH. Doesnt mean I dont enjoy sex or get pleasure from it tho.

I think men struggle to comprehend how much us women can enjoy the sex without actually having an orgasm

cali

Not all of us! I've not cum on as many meets as I have!

Doesn't mean by any stretch of the imagination i've not enjoyed myself!

awwwwww poor little spermatazoids got knackered and swam back to their pouch for recouperation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had orgasms on every meet I've had,either through penetration,oral or being masturbated.

Once I start it gets easier as the night goes on I must be lucky that way,although several of the women we've met seem to do the same.

I'd be disappointed if the guy/woman I was having sex with didn't orgasm though,I'd feel I'd let them down or not turned them on enough.

XXX

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Im actually still waiting for the first guy to make me cum......i also hate guys who say " I wont dissapoint and im good as making women cum"....That is so totally untrue

Most are out there for their own pleasue it seems as they shag and buger off dont even ask if ive enjoyed it or not.......some do but rarely

xxxx

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Exactly. Full sex in itself gives a fantastic feeling. Cumming is a bonus if it happens.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"One for just the ladies, for obvious reasons.

Do you/ can you cum on meets?

I only cum on my own, never on a meet. I hate it when people say "I'll make you cum I'm great at it, women always do" blah blah. Yep well I don't. It doesn't bother me and I still have lots of fun.

So.... Ladies...... Do you cum?!

yes...but then i can come very easily...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One for just the ladies, for obvious reasons.

Do you/ can you cum on meets?

I only cum on my own, never on a meet. I hate it when people say "I'll make you cum I'm great at it, women always do" blah blah. Yep well I don't. It doesn't bother me and I still have lots of fun.

So.... Ladies...... Do you cum?!

yes...but then i can come very easily...

You're so lucky! Actually on my own it can take me less than a minute even starting from 'cold'!

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