FabSwingers.com forum: rough sex

By *oonytoon OP Man
over a year ago

derby

Being a lover of all things sexual I like both rough ie.. Scratching biting dirty talk holding by the throat hair pulling hard fast etc.. And sensual ie.. Stroking kissing etc.. Ideally mixing the two together so my question is what do people prefer both in a swinging situation and a personal one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood and who im with, there are some things i love that i wouldnt do with people off here as some things need a certain amount of trust and i dont get that trust with people i meet thro swinging, as most of my meets are one off's so ive never built up a friendship of trust with any guy ive met off here

But i love everything with the right person, everything has its time and place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love rough sex but wouldnt want some random person holding me by the throat. As the previous poster said its trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't/can't do sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy and pref rought sex and play...as with other posters trust is massively important xxx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Not something i would entertain with anyone except my OH

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By *oonytoon OP Man
over a year ago

derby

I see rough sex as more impersonal but as you've all stated there needs to be trust so does that not cancel out the impersonal part of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see rough sex as more impersonal but as you've all stated there needs to be trust so does that not cancel out the impersonal part of it lol "

depends who your doing it with

not all sex is done with random strangers off sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rought sex does not mean close intimacy is not possible xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont do nicey nicey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough sex is that having sex when playing golf and your balls go in the "rough"?

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be strange as I like long, slow, sensual sex.

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

Lots of both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely hate rough sex, I don't ever indulge either in a personal relationship and certainly not a swinging one.

Neither myself or my OH enjoy being rough, my OH certainly couldn't do that to amy woman. I dislike hair pulling, being pinched or slapped and certainly wouldn't allow anyone to call me names.

So the sex I indulge in is always sensual and erotic rather than rough and painful

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

swinging a bit rough, but not too rough...

thats for Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be strange as I like long, slow, sensual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rougher the better especially with a man who has a huge cock for good measure lol

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Mmm love rough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely hate rough sex, I don't ever indulge either in a personal relationship and certainly not a swinging one.

Neither myself or my OH enjoy being rough, my OH certainly couldn't do that to amy woman. I dislike hair pulling, being pinched or slapped and certainly wouldn't allow anyone to call me names.

So the sex I indulge in is always sensual and erotic rather than rough and painful

We'll be round later.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Rather not have sensual sex on a meet, rather save that for my OH. Do like a ellimant of rough sex, the more we have got to know someone the rougher I like it. My OH likes sensual sex on a meet so if we get a couple who are like us one likes rough one like sensual then we hit the jackpot. As for the trust we never play alone so my OH is always there to watch over things x

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I don't/can't do sensual."

I can't do rough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly prefer sensual but with the right man and in the right situation love rough messy sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Rougher sex can be very sensual and passionate with someone that knows what they're doing and understands you well

To have a combination of both is very erotic for me

Any hint of rough for the sake of enjoying the fact it may actually be hurting me could result in pain for the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both, a lot. When its just us it depends on mood and when swinging, depends who we are with and what everyone wants at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best rough sex I have ever had was the bucking bronco

Hard fast doggy style the put arms around the neck n whisper your mot as good as your sister .... Ride em cowboy

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I absolutely hate rough sex, I don't ever indulge either in a personal relationship and certainly not a swinging one.

Neither myself or my OH enjoy being rough, my OH certainly couldn't do that to amy woman. I dislike hair pulling, being pinched or slapped and certainly wouldn't allow anyone to call me names.

So the sex I indulge in is always sensual and erotic rather than rough and painful

I completely agree, as I hate rough sex, either with Cookies or anyone else. Not into pain, although a wee slap on the bum / boob is nice during sex.

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

this thread just shows that variety is the spice of life evrey one is different and enjoys differing ways

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By *unstuffMan
over a year ago

North Cumbria/Edinburgh

Very much like both..

Depending on the partner/s

and the mood of us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely hate rough sex, I don't ever indulge either in a personal relationship and certainly not a swinging one.

Neither myself or my OH enjoy being rough, my OH certainly couldn't do that to amy woman. I dislike hair pulling, being pinched or slapped and certainly wouldn't allow anyone to call me names.

So the sex I indulge in is always sensual and erotic rather than rough and painful

We'll be round later.

Ooo sounds like my lucky day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this thread just shows that variety is the spice of life evrey one is different and enjoys differing ways

Amen to that!

Wolf

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Personally I think there's rough and rough .... etc ... some can be way too much, but a little bit of giddiness is good .... so for me personally no pinching, slapping, throat grabbing, but more a light playful smack on backside and firm thrusting with the giddy side of sex is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on sandpaper

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By *ickeyandrewsMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Definitely slow and sensual. That way there's so much time to enjoy all the little tiny intimate aspects.

I remember when I was 18, kissing my then girlfriend for what we thought was about 3 mins, neither of us could believe it when we looked at the clock and realised we'd been snogging for nearly 20 minutes. I was nearly late for work because of that lol.

No slow and sensual everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bit of both.

Variety IS the spice of life after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like rough sex, I wank with sandpaper

Joke lol

Shaz likes it sensual to start with then rough as she starts getting close to orgasm.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough sex can be risky with strangers. I pulled a girl in a club who liked it rough and reported me to the police the following day!! Thankfully she told her sister that it was a heat of the moment thing and she actually consented and her sister went straight to the police and saved me from being tarred (and charged) with a life ruining accusation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will take the rough with the smooth so to speak, got to be about the moment and giving the lady what she wants

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