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For Couples - How did that first conversation about 'swinging' happen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

this has bugged me for a while now, and i think of past relationships, where i wondered, if she would have been into meeting other couples / girls / guys.

How do you bring that up? Did your partner tell you one day 'i wanna see you have sex with other guys and / or girls??

or, 'i've been thinkin a lot and i wanna sleep with another woman / man'

Do most people secretly want it, but they're afraid to bring it up? would love to know what experience couples have of it. who said it first?? you or your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it was a slow progression from bedroom fantasy conversations about how horny it would be to see another man fucking my wife to actually doing it. ...... So glad we did had a great time so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it was a slow progression from bedroom fantasy conversations about how horny it would be to see another man fucking my wife to actually doing it. ...... So glad we did had a great time so far."

very similar here...from dirty sex chat along to reality xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how did the first meet go? was it above or below what you expected?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us the first meet was everything. We met a fantastic guy... (Udome2 if the ladies are interested) ... who was really laid back and non pushy. We were so nervous that had it gone badly then we would never have tried again.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

you fuck...you say horny things...you share fantasies...you fuck even more cos the fantasies turn you on...then one day u decide to make the fantasy real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he mentioned he had been chatting with a friend - about fantasies ..........

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By *tra vidaCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Willing told me on our first date that he was a swinger. Naive as I was, I wasn't sure what it was all about but had an idea,so reserved judgement. I diligently went home and did my research and was excited as I realised that, what ever happened, I was going to have an exciting experience with him. Since then Willing has taken me on a very erotic journey which I will be forever grateful for.

I would say that if they are right for you then they will accept and enjoy the journey with you.

Wet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it was when i told my husband i had slept with other women and then wanting the best of both worlds

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

You be suprised how many ladies would love to. An ex girfriend of mine was giving. Me a hand job and casually mentioned here friend had a three some bloody hell are you after one. Yes. Also another ex. Wanted to sleep with a girl. One time went on a date and subject got round to sex and I spoke candidly about how I love three somes. So there you go. Current lady at present want to get her into spanking and s and m. Memo listen to your ladies more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You be suprised how many ladies would love to. An ex girfriend of mine was giving. Me a hand job and casually mentioned here friend had a three some bloody hell are you after one. Yes. Also another ex. Wanted to sleep with a girl. One time went on a date and subject got round to sex and I spoke candidly about how I love three somes. So there you go. Current lady at present want to get her into spanking and s and m. Memo listen to your ladies more "

Yeah i feel like i've missed some great opportunities.

is there a perception of swinging or cuckolding even, that it isn't normal to think or feel that way so might be less inclined to act on it?

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

when we were in bed and told him i wanted to go with a woman , had not done it for about 20 years and wanted to try again

glad we did .

mmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Good luck when you ask you next partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started the way most of the people in here said. We were watching porn one night a group one and said to each other do you fancy it. Mrs said I want to try with a woman and Mr said he would like to see how he felt in an MMF threesome perhaps try something with the guy. The rest is history, Mrs is bi (past curious) and Mr is straight.

For us it has nothing to do with cuckold. We have tried 3somes, 4somes and moresomes all of them together, it has been amazing fun so far.

Would like to agree with something else that was said, if our first meet hadn't been great we would have probably stopped too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it was a slow progression from bedroom fantasy conversations about how horny it would be to see another man fucking my wife to actually doing it. ...... So glad we did had a great time so far.

very similar here...from dirty sex chat along to reality xxx"

Three minutes before I became single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through swinging, so bringing the subject up wasn't really an issue for us. Falling in love was completely unexpected though, and scared us both, but after a lot of talking we decided to go with it.

It has been a learning curve for both of us, as neither of us had been in a swinging relationship before. The key for us has been to talk, talk and talk some more, openly, about everything.xx

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I agree with a few posts above.

For us, we used to always fantasise about having 3sums, and Cookies got hard when I would relate my past FF experiences.

It just developed from there. We had a threesome with a close friend before we joined fabs.

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