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"I read them, yes. To get an idea of the kind of person someone is. If I look at the person leaving them, the only thing likely to put me off is if they clearly have unprotected sex. Or if the profile of a straight man has sexual verifications from a man or a TV/TS. That's a put off for me too to be honest, if I could get a meet haha " You could always start a thread asking for profile feedback if you want some help. | |||
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"Ever look at others veri's and not message due to Insecurity? " Subconsciously and unsubconsciously i do. Maybe out of my own insecurities. But knowing their sexual history can be off putting. I really don't like bareback sex photos as it makes me think how often they do unprotected sex and are they testing themselves often enough? | |||
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"I like to see if we have mutual friends x" When i look at a man's verifications, often or not, however inexperienced fabber they are, the same women keep popping up on their verifications. Either it's a small community fabbing or them women really get about!! | |||
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"Always, can say lots more than the profile. Big red flag if most are from hidden profiles, usually fake accounts " Well said, so many fake veris. So many gullible people | |||
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"Always, can say lots more than the profile. Big red flag if most are from hidden profiles, usually fake accounts Well said, so many fake veris. So many gullible people " really omg who'd have thought, i love a flake mind | |||
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"Ever look at others veri's and not message due to Insecurity? " No, I look because I'm nosey. There's also an Amazon-style thought process that goes on, as in "If you enjoyed shagging this person/couple, you may also enjoy shagging..." Please don't crucify me! That's only tongue-in-cheek. | |||
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"Insecurity is probably the wrong word, but if their entire veri list is slim, leggy 6” blondes, it might make me re-think whether I’d really be their type...an assumption maybe but in a self preserving way! " Could just be a coincidence after all, they must be chatting to you for a reason | |||
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"Ever look at others veri's and not message due to Insecurity? " Yes definitely look - one to see if they are real people (fakes have no veris) and second to see if they met single men - if they dont, they no need to contact. It saves a lot of time | |||
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"Very, very rarely. I use the system for the purpose that it was intended, to confirm that the person is real and will turn up" I don’t think the purpose is solely to ensure people are real or turn up, single ladies need to know a person is a safe meet, I always look back at veris and prefer those with several good veris than perhaps one which may not be legit | |||
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"If your insecure then address them issues. I like sex. I like both naturally and protected. But it's down to yourself. I simply don't judge others. Wether they fuck men or women. As long as they don't fuck animals or children. It's about connections. Do I connect with the person on a humanity level. Do they have a good soul. Are they kind hearted. They could be big or skinny. Black or white. Insecurities are within us all. It's how you address them. (daily) Yes I look at veris. Just because im a nosy cow. Peace ?? " Its nothing to do with the person themselves, we all look for those qualities. Yes we have to address insecurities but it isnt something that can change overnight. Im in a better place now than ever but still will get insecure at some veris and thats enough for me to not be interested as it doesnt make me comfortable with the person. I find many i am comfortable with. | |||
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"We do check out verifieds to be honest, and if they have more then 5 we kind of think.. probs out of our league experience wise. and move on! we're new to this and 'intimidated' isn't the right word, it's not that.. it's just everyone should be there to have a great time. and I feel the experience gap could hinder that " No that's not true, I prefer couples with less experience because it's intimidating enough to meet two people on my own | |||
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