FabSwingers.com forum: Chicken out

By *lexa OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton

Have you ever had someone just chicken out on you? I was messaging a young guy last night and we agreed to meet tonight so phone numbers were exchanged. It was all very amicable then he suddenly blocked me! What? He was very young admittedly but why couldn't he just say he'd changed his mind?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Because he's very young and you scared him

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I agree. The least he could have done was ring you and said,

'I feel like chikening tonight, chikening tonight, chikening tonight!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar thing happen to me.

I had been messaging a guy for ages and we swapped numbers and were texting. We arranged to meet and 15 minutes before ho texted to say he'd be a little late......so late I'd still be waiting!!!

I wish he'd just let me know that he'd changed his mind rather than leave me standing on a dark road, alone at night. What a wally!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had someone just chicken out on you? I was messaging a young guy last night and we agreed to meet tonight so phone numbers were exchanged. It was all very amicable then he suddenly blocked me! What? He was very young admittedly but why couldn't he just say he'd changed his mind?

Perhaps he was fake -

I had something similar the other week - although I don't believe she was fake because I'd seen her on cam in the chatroon - at least her body anyway (am I being naive here? - although this user went a bit further and deleted her profile - didn't realise I had that effect on people lol

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

nope - nothing on you pics to frighten him

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

The thought is sometimes far more alluring than actually meeting for some people

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By *lexa OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton

"I had a similar thing happen to me.

I had been messaging a guy for ages and we swapped numbers and were texting. We arranged to meet and 15 minutes before ho texted to say he'd be a little late......so late I'd still be waiting!!!

I wish he'd just let me know that he'd changed his mind rather than leave me standing on a dark road, alone at night. What a wally!!"

It just makes you feel like you've been led up the garden path. It's so uneccesary. We've all made our excuses from time to time but to have all that banter then blocked or doesn't turn up! At least I found out before I'd actually left home!

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By *ntelligent Gent.Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I've had it happen - but you got to respect her, some people can emotionally deal with recreational and relative immediacy of the sex and others can't.

Just a tip - don't book the hotel before you know she can deal with it! lol D'oh!

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By *lexa OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton

"The thought is sometimes far more alluring than actually meeting for some people

True.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it happen - but you got to respect her, some people can emotionally deal with recreational and relative immediacy of the sex and others can't.

Just a tip - don't book the hotel before you know she can deal with it! lol D'oh!

never had a hotel meet go wrong

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By *lexa OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton

"nope - nothing on you pics to frighten him

Thank you

And it was him that messaged me to start with !

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By *ubbyandwifeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We had the same happen to us he said to us he is coming so we book the hotel but he did not turn up not even phone or text us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for the oldies like my self they rarely chicken out.

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By *lexa OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton

"Go for the oldies like my self they rarely chicken out. "

I agree. I didn't want to tar all young guys with the same brush but I think older guys are more reliable.

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By *ntelligent Gent.Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I've had it happen - but you got to respect her, some people can emotionally deal with recreational and relative immediacy of the sex and others can't.

Just a tip - don't book the hotel before you know she can deal with it! lol D'oh!

never had a hotel meet go wrong

I ain't got your tits J! You know that

cheeky !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it happen - but you got to respect her, some people can emotionally deal with recreational and relative immediacy of the sex and others can't.

Just a tip - don't book the hotel before you know she can deal with it! lol D'oh!

never had a hotel meet go wrong

I ain't got your tits J! You know that

cheeky !

u havent got my bossiness either

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london

Find that there are loads of fake profiles on here do this, three weeks a woman contacted us saying how much she likes us and wanted to meet, spoke to to her online and on the phone and agreed to meet in a bar, then came the radio silence since then till now. She's still putting up post asking for meeting. What cheek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering if it was the same young guy that did exactly the same to us. We don't normally meet guys under the age of 35, but from the pics and the chat, decided to give him a break and agreed to meet. Should have known better really, he is now on our block list.. and we really won't meet younger from now on, regardless how mature they come across

Devil

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I had a similar thing happen to me.

I had been messaging a guy for ages and we swapped numbers and were texting. We arranged to meet and 15 minutes before ho texted to say he'd be a little late......so late I'd still be waiting!!!

I wish he'd just let me know that he'd changed his mind rather than leave me standing on a dark road, alone at night. What a wally!!"

Not being funny but why on earth would you agree to meet a total stranger on a dark road?!! Are you nuts?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a fair point Miss_Tress but it was dark because it was 8pm in December not because it was lonely. On the contrary, it was a busy road; I'm not that daft!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to us in the past too. Young guy, very keen, wanted to come over to our hotel and all the arrangements were made and then it all went quiet..... Oh well, move on.

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By *udiguyMan
over a year ago

harrogate

its the old .. "wank guilt" seems like a good idea till they knock one out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. The least he could have done was ring you and said,

'I feel like chikening tonight, chikening tonight, chikening tonight!'

Ha ha ha ha. That actually did make me laugh out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly - very young, got all excited about the meet, had a quick tug so he didn't fire off any warning shots the second he arrived - but then his mum wouldn't drive him as he's not tidied his room and he had no bus fare?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an occupational hazard on here some people like the idea and then seem to get nervous which is a shame but at the end of the day he was the one who missed out on having a great meet with you. I tend to look at verifications as well as they would show if people had turned up to meets xx

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By *lexa OP Woman
over a year ago

southampton

"I agree. The least he could have done was ring you and said,

'I feel like chikening tonight, chikening tonight, chikening tonight!'

Ha ha ha ha. That actually did make me laugh out loud"

Doesn't take much. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sure we have all had it at some point, everytime i get a guy cancel on me i wonder if hes just got cold feet and to nervous to go thro with it

it happens, we are all different and people handle things different

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I had a group meet arranged with three guys i'd played with before coming, two that i'd met for coffee and one who i hadn't met at all. it ended up with just me and the three i already knew.

three profiles were gone the following day.

ffs who meets for coffee then pesters for a group meet and doesn't show??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot of single men, by the sound of it. Just one more thing spoiling it for the rest of us.

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