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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We do, in fact we never meet in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here never been to a club, intact wife is out on a solo meet now having a drink in a hotel bar

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "
oh no..the build up is half the fun..that nervous sexual tension..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "
We always like to meet socially and see if there's any attraction and if there is we then look forward to the build up to a play meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do. Clubs are not an option for us at the moment.

Mrs

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We do, very rarely meet or play in a club

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've never been to a club. Love a social meet x

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

We haven't met anyone in clubs, always a social.

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Shame you are down south

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah just been reading your posts

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Thats what we like. The whole build up to sexy fun

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Thats what we like, nice social, get to know people. Makes the fun so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats what we like, nice social, get to know people. Makes the fun so much better"

If you hit Reply+Quote, we'll know who you're responding to

Mrs

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Dont think iv mastered where im answering on this forum yet. 1st time posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont think iv mastered where im answering on this forum yet. 1st time posting"

Welcome to the forums

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "

I do both. It depends on the circumstances. Sometimes a club is cheaper than a hotel and suits better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like meeting for drinks before but our problem is our busy jobs will leave us off work on a random weekday when everyone else is at work or not able to meet

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Thats what we like, nice social, get to know people. Makes the fun so much better

If you hit Reply+Quote, we'll know who you're responding to

Mrs"

Ahhh thanks

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Dont think iv mastered where im answering on this forum yet. 1st time posting

Welcome to the forums

Mrs"

Trying a different approach as putting on dates are bot working. Either people dont read the profile or dont wand a drink first

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We like meeting for drinks before but our problem is our busy jobs will leave us off work on a random weekday when everyone else is at work or not able to meet"

Same when you have a hubby who works shifts

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By *exyfuncouple74Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We love to meet couples but sometimes it can be such hard work. Finding mutual attraction between four people is not always easy.

We often find ourselves ending up at a club simply as a last resort because of the let downs, or simply no responses to meets we put up. Or maybe it's just us LOL!

Always up for meeting couples in a local pub and then moving on to play quickly if everyone comfortable.

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By *ex4u4 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We love to meet couples but sometimes it can be such hard work. Finding mutual attraction between four people is not always easy.

We often find ourselves ending up at a club simply as a last resort because of the let downs, or simply no responses to meets we put up. Or maybe it's just us LOL!

Always up for meeting couples in a local pub and then moving on to play quickly if everyone comfortable.

"

Better meeting for a drink, than all can relax, no pressure.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We do but time is limited. And most couples round here want to meet women not couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey ??

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "

I do meet privately, simply because I have tried Clubs in the past but found them difficult to navigate!

That is, no matter how much club owners or staff protest that everyone is 'open' and that cliques don't exist, those very same issues DO exist!!

Even for myself, in being perfectly adept in being able to communicates to people, trying to get through that "Wall of Silence" in clubs is notoriously difficult, and often, intimidating.

Hence, why I give clubs a miss.

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Always socials.

Clubs are past news for me..nasty places

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By *ezzie_xWoman
over a year ago

london

I like to have a drink with someone first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to have a drink with someone first "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "

We're happy to meet for a drink and social first to make sure all involved are happy to take things furter in the future..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet socially first at least once. I prefer sexual friendships so for me there's no rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meet in clubs

Prefer the social first more relax

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We regularly have private meets (mostly meeting single guys for a threesome). We meet for a drink at a local pub and then go back to our flat for sex.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Occasionally I'll meet for a social coffee if I have the time, & most of those I've met in clubs I'll meet outside too.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"We regularly have private meets (mostly meeting single guys for a threesome). We meet for a drink at a local pub and then go back to our flat for sex. "

Fab profile guys and photos , your verifications say a lot as well love to meet when your back from your travels x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet as a couple first. If all goes well,,,, then love the thrill of playing on my own, then sharing the details

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Prefer meeting for a drink and a chat and then if alls well back to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like meeting up for drinks and seeing how the night goes

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Been a while since I enjoyed either

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By *r blue eyes123Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

Never been to a club so i can’t say on that . Luv to meet socially first with a couple and chat then just see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont meet in club. We used to only do solo meets. Being let down and ghosted a bit so now meet at group socials

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We do, in fact we never meet in clubs."

Same here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hard and fast rules for me ... really depends on the lead up and what the dynamic is. What the other party want ... just go with the flow and all juicy Lucy...

Understand why other people have set parameters ...

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By *orkyguyMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

Meeting for drinks be it coffee or stronger have a laugh n relax if a spark there the build up to fun is great x

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By *r blue eyes123Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

I’ve never seen a group social advertised in my area sounds like a good idea

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We very rarely (if ever these days) meet outside a club.

Mrs H finds the meet for a drink and see how it goes routine very clinical and she's never been comfortable with it. In a club she is much more relaxed.

On the odd occasion we do meet privately it is always with someone we've previously met in a club.

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By *ral AddictsCouple
over a year ago

Swinton


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "

Social is a must! No social no meet!

We learnt the hard way how good some people are at photoshop. Safe to safe we didn’t play. We wouldn’t put ourselves in that situation again.

The social is sometimes the best bit, meeting new friends x

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

We have done 1 private meet 17 yrs ago, after we met them at a party. Since then only clubs, but tend to non swap nowadays. Socials are non important to us. If you click in a club have a good time then home that is OK for us, but we are more into same room non swap fun in clubs now when we do go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've unfortunately had to deal with fake profiles, couples who seem nice but end up being pushy arse holes in person or just generally people we have had no spark with.

At least at the club we can enjoy the hottub if we don't have a good meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer the clubs as can social and if things go brilliantly, rooms are there to be used.

Don't like the message ping pong any more nor arranging to meet in a bar and be let down. Plus I find meeting in a club is less pressure for me (Mrs) I can relax more and have a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to club. Always meet up socially first for a drink.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We do, in fact we never meet in clubs."

Us either..

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We definitely meet privately and meet for drinks ,prefer this to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love to meet couples but sometimes it can be such hard work. Finding mutual attraction between four people is not always easy.

We often find ourselves ending up at a club simply as a last resort because of the let downs, or simply no responses to meets we put up. Or maybe it's just us LOL!

Always up for meeting couples in a local pub and then moving on to play quickly if everyone comfortable.

"

Think you just hit the nail on the head.

But always do a social 1st.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd like to do more private meets, but so many fantasists out there who mess you about, so it's a waste of time so we always just go to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "

I don't, I only meet in my local club. It works for me, i's where I feel most comfortable and it makes sense from a safety perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "

We do. Love the flirting and build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "

Yes only way i meet. Dont do clubs have been to afew in the past but find them abit tacky.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

First couple I met, had a drink with them first. At a later date they invited me round to theirs. We had a great time. That’s a good memory.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Love a social meet away from clubs and go to these as a normal regular guy.

Club meets are far more fun as a girl though.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love the excitement of meeting people in a pub. Surrounded by people who are unaware of the circumstances. I also like the moment you start talking about Fab and you have to lean in and the volume of your conversation drops.

I had just this type of meet a couple of Saturdays ago with a couple. The only problem was the pub was packed and it was difficult to find a spot to chat properly.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first

We do. Love the flirting and build up "

This is what it’s all about for me. Build up. Flirting. Anticipation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still meet up socially first in private which I prefer

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We dont actually have a club nearby. Not one in the county. So we do privately when we can find meets

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We still enjoy a social although more often than not it has lead to play lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been to a club. Love a social meet x"

This

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not much of club scene here, so I would always have a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to meet for a social and happy to host

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love private meets, always happy for a social as well

We both enjoy the social aspect of Fab just as much as the naughtiness

Mrs

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London


"Do couples/sgls still meet for drinks, flirt, sexy fun. Seems like everyone just goes to clubs these days....or dont want to meet for a drink first "

No there are 'non-play' socials organised here and there in pubs. I went to a Croydon social in Feb and there's a London Bridge one next week and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like going to single private meets. Not done one for a while after being ghosted twice on the trot.

We have been going to organised group socials like Cardiff,Brigend and Newport. At least then when they dont turn up still have good night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always choose a social rather than a club first. However, it's far simpler to combine the two. A club provides plenty of options should you like, or dislike one another.

Everyone is in a rush to fuck nowadays. Keep sifting through the shit and you'll find a diamond ??

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

We always have a social first ,check we still want to go further which if we have done our homework to get to this stage we usually do ,but i still love a wee flirt before a meet even with regulars ,adds to the excitement etc ...

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By *tag and HellcatCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

If meeting for the first time and its outside of a club its a social event only for us ... its hard to tell if theres a physical attraction until you meet up in person ... if its there we would arrange another meet up .. our preference would be to find singles/couples for regular encounters rather than one offs because we enjoy the social aspect as well as the play

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