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"The amount of people that put "safe sex only" on their profile but have pics and videos of them fucking bareback is crazy..." That's a solid observation son... Solid observation. | |||
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"The amount of people that put "safe sex only" on their profile but have pics and videos of them fucking bareback is crazy... That's a solid observation son... Solid observation." They will be teamed up with their wives, husbands, regular lovers and other close partners..... | |||
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"The amount of people that put "safe sex only" on their profile but have pics and videos of them fucking bareback is crazy... That's a solid observation son... Solid observation. They will be teamed up with their wives, husbands, regular lovers and other close partners....." Or they dont care. | |||
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"I mean you can kinda tell if its with the same person in the pics but the majority of the ones ive seen are with multiple different partners." That cannot be. EVERYONE on ""Fab"" plays by the rules..."" | |||
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"The amount of people that put "safe sex only" on their profile but have pics and videos of them fucking bareback is crazy..." They will be regular partners who get tested! | |||
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"I admit that I do bareback... with my husband and suspect that is quite common. " It is if you want to have babies .. or have menopause, take birth control or had vasectomy- IUS/IUD Which one are you? | |||
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"The amount of people that put "safe sex only" on their profile but have pics and videos of them fucking bareback is crazy..." Let them do their thing, and you do yours. No need for judgement then... | |||
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"The amount of people that put "safe sex only" on their profile but have pics and videos of them fucking bareback is crazy... They will be regular partners who get tested! " Yes this. It’s a lot about context too. I have had regular partners at the time I have put up photos. They may not be the same person as two years before; during those two years, I will have been tested around 8 times. I play safe with new and casual partners and continue to be tested every three months. How often are others tested? | |||
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"I admit that I do bareback... with my husband and suspect that is quite common. " | |||
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"Between consenting adults I have no issue. The issue I do have is when people say safe sex only but they aren’t honest about having bb sex with their regular or special friends. I don’t care how often they are tested. I just want the information so I can make an informed decision about whether to meet them or not. " Does this mean you don’t practice safe sex? I’m not judging it you don’t. | |||
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"Q for bi guys: Is there a difference in your thinking re going bb with men than going bb with women?" None. Why should there be? | |||
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"Q for bi guys: Is there a difference in your thinking re going bb with men than going bb with women?" Strangely for me yes I am less worried when with a female partner I know no reason to be but I naturally do worry more with other guys | |||
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"Between consenting adults I have no issue. The issue I do have is when people say safe sex only but they aren’t honest about having bb sex with their regular or special friends. I don’t care how often they are tested. I just want the information so I can make an informed decision about whether to meet them or not. Does this mean you don’t practice safe sex? I’m not judging it you don’t." We have 2 reg couples and have had so for last 12 years and we do bb we have never asked them if they also fuck bb with others, wife loves cum | |||
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"Q for bi guys: Is there a difference in your thinking re going bb with men than going bb with women? None. Why should there be?" I agree but I know I think differently and wondered if I was alone in that thinking! | |||
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"So who takes precautions with oral sex? Or do you think oral is safe? " No sex is 100% safe, but some is safer than others. Bare oral is safer by a long way than bare vaginal. Which is safer than bare anal. All types of sexual contact become safer the more barriers that are put in place. The ultimate barrier is abstenance (sorry about the spelling). Risk is made up of 2 elements The odds of something occuring The level of impact if it does occur. So taking the buggies (Hiv or hepititus) The impact remains a constant, so people have to weigh up the odds of transmission occurring. Most people find the risks of transmission too high so employ a barrier for anal and vaginal sex with non-long term partners. The level of transmission for oral is what most people are happy to accept. Individuals will hold varying different assessments of the risk and have different responses. But very few know the actual numbers and know them for all potential diseases. So most just make a best guess. | |||
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"Q for bi guys: Is there a difference in your thinking re going bb with men than going bb with women? None. Why should there be?" | |||
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"well said that lady !!!! Oral sex is just as risky yet everyone does it in Clubs and Privately all the common STI's can be transmitted orally. Sure you reduce the risk by wearing them for full sex, but that is all. If you only have sex with circumsized guys the HIV risk is way down. That’s utter bollocks. There is a tiny reduction in risk, but only if they don’t have anal sex. If you are worried about HIV Statistically it’s safer to have unprotected with a HIV positive man who is on medication than sex using condoms with a man who’s HIV status you don’t know. " | |||
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"So who takes precautions with oral sex? Or do you think oral is safe? " I don’t (take precautions with oral). But I try to be particular about who I play with. If I know someone is always careful when they play it makes me more comfortable to put his cock in my mouth. If I can see that he barebacked someone on a first meet, for example, then I’m not letting it anywhere near me with a condom on otherwise, because our ideas on what is acceptable don’t marry up. I try to only play with people who I think take a similar approach to risk as me. Not fool proof, but we all have to draw our line in the sand. | |||
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