FabSwingers.com forum: Advice/messaging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone up for looking at my profile and suggesting stuff to make it better

I have been nice when I message people but I have had no replies. Either way, any help is good

Maybe I'm just not their type but I'd still like to know what to improve to try gain more attention.. Fairly new here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair you only joined 7 days ago its such a short space of time to get to know someone my advice would be don't messege to many people in such a short space of time use the forums get to know people or even go to a club and get yourself verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to make your profile a little happier and positive.

People look for fun and sexy ...it looks a little needy.

Good luck

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's all very negative sounding, try not to just focus on what's gone wrong for you, and make it a bit more light hearted.

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By *artin1605Man
over a year ago

colchester

Just need to chill out & it will happen? Concentrate on positive rather than negative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could do with better pictures and change straight(fab straight) to bi-curious as you want to meet men either who dress as women or are changing from men to women as that can be off putting.

Most wouldn’t care for your sob story so lighten up the text a bit.

And be patient and we wish you the very best of luck on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, sorry but even if you were my type I'd run a mile from all the negativity.

Sorry but on here, its looks first and profile second for a lot of people, certainly is for us.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Very negative profile its like you looking for pity sex rather than explaining what you bring to the table sexually

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Delete your status op v negative

Just because you think you fit someone's criteria,doesn't mean they will want to meet you.

You need to sell yourself to others and make them want to meet you,your profile doesn't tell anybody what you can offer a meet.

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You're a good looking guy! But your profile has got a negative vibe. Turn it around with what you have to offer!

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Best of luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone up for looking at my profile and suggesting stuff to make it better

I have been nice when I message people but I have had no replies. Either way, any help is good

Maybe I'm just not their type but I'd still like to know what to improve to try gain more attention.. Fairly new here"

You need to "sell yourself" better. Take a re-read of your profile, look at things from someone else's point of view. Would you contact someone with a description like yours? Probably not...

Focus on the good things about you, what you have to offer, what you enjoy.

Lastly - it takes time, its a swingers site, not a guaranteed hook up site.

Good luck

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