FabSwingers.com forum: I'll take you for coffee

By *oan of DArc OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's one of the worst excuses for the lack of a decent profile.

Seriously do these guys think women/couples have time (or inclination) to meet every guy with a crap profile who invites them for a coffee promising we "won't be disappointed"?!

Ahhh...and breathe

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's almost like they are human beings

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I dont meet with people who I havent at least chatted with and have an interest in. Then it's usually a no play social to make sure they are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do a coffee social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would do a coffee social!"

Get your coat you've pulled

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Men like this are totally deluded

I mean, at least offer cake too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they don't say "you won't be disappointed" we might take them up for an offer. Some people just can't express themselves or not good at communicating online but are brilliant face to face.

Mrs

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Easy just to chill, having a great weekend in good company, not fussed who else we might meet had a great smooch about the shops this morning lots of coffee/cake breaks lunch out nice chilled afternoon, no set dinner plans and then its time to see what the night has to offer.

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Ive offered to meet for a coffee before (admittedly, nobody has accepted as yet) but sometimes when I read a profile I can get a sense for somebody who would be equally unresponsive to a “When can we meet up for sex” approach.

Tbh my success rate is very low on both approaches, so what would I know

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

I offer Coffee, tea, drink or meal depending how the chat is going or if it is a repeat date etc.

Never in the opening message if that is what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Witherspoon £1.35 a cup free refills

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I’m always up for disappointing people over coffee.

But seriously, I would never say something like “you won’t be disappointed” I mean that opens up all sorts of variables. I have had some very good coffee meets where the coffee itself is disappointing.

I remember meeting up with a g/f I hadn’t seen since school. We went to a wee coffee shop locally and, when asked what I wanted, I asked for a latte. The response was “you want a milky coffee then?” Ok, so I know a latte does technically have a large percentage of milk but what I got was just a coffee drowned in milk. So that was disappointing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have took a flask

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Irish coffee next time?

Certainly when it's cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men like this are totally deluded

I mean, at least offer cake too

And biscuits!

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Nobody has ever offered to take us for coffee. I feel shunned

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Nobody has ever offered to take us for coffee. I feel shunned

Dundee is just bit to far off...!!! Otherwise I would be there like a shot....!

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

"Nobody has ever offered to take us for coffee. I feel shunned

Dundee is just bit to far off...!!! Otherwise I would be there like a shot....!"

Aw thanks

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

In another life, did used to visit but those days are long gone....!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We frequently meet men for coffee, it's a nice social occasion and can lead to more on later meets

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"We frequently meet men for coffee, it's a nice social occasion and can lead to more on later meets"

Again Hastings is a bit far, in the opposite direction......!!

Need someone near Manchester or Liverpool...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always happy to meet for a coffee

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I'm always happy to meet for a coffee

Yet another one miles away......!!!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Men like this are totally deluded

I mean, at least offer cake too

And biscuits!"

Yes, and soon!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I'm always happy to meet for a coffee

Or beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always happy to meet for a coffee

Or beer "

Shush you

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By *oan of DArc OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I offer Coffee, tea, drink or meal depending how the chat is going or if it is a repeat date etc.

Never in the opening message if that is what you mean."

That's absolutely what I mean, the issue isn't meeting someone socially who interesting and I've had dialogue with, it's the expectation from some guys who've made little effort that the offer of a coffee will somehow sway in their favour!

Why would any woman spend half a day getting prepared and meeting a total stranger socially who doesn't tick the basic boxes when there are so many lovely men here who do?!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Bugger, wish I hadn’t given up drinking coffee.

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