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"I'm due a lashing, but I'm having to wait until next week for it now. ![]() ![]() ![]() Same here, not into extreme pain but don't mind my bum cheeks stinging ![]() | |||
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"I've just this minute finished making a second flogger.....can't wait to test it out on Peach ![]() You make your own floggers? Now that must require great skill | |||
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"I like being spanked, flogged and paddled but I don't call it punishment." Think it depends on the scenario. I like to combine it with role play quite often where the word "punishment" or "discipline" is appropriate | |||
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"Who else likes being punished? Find it quite hard to find people that wish to administer discipline beyond a standard spanking. I like paddle, tawse, cane etc " I love it ![]() | |||
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"I've just this minute finished making a second flogger.....can't wait to test it out on Peach ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like being spanked, flogged and paddled but I don't call it punishment." I have no interest in punishing people unless in the context of a D/S relationship where punishment has been discussed and agreed for breaches of the relationship's rules. In which case 50 lines or a time with their nose against the wall is probably more painful. A punishment caning or spanking should only be given where it has been agreed beforehand as a punishment within the relationship negotiation and merited by the circumstances but those are not fun and need a lot of aftercare,tlc and lotion! Funishment is a thing for some people, although not for me. Give me someone who just enjoys various forms of impact or sensation without having to dress it up. For me it is not about role play but building the scene and the tension within the scene...is the thing. Be a spankee and proud. ![]() | |||
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"My ex used to give me the silence treatment when I did something wrong That was the best punishment I could hope for" Sometimes POF you are seriously funny! | |||
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"Cane is a tad harsh if you have not used one before. No, is a great punishment for a pleading masochist." I do let people use the cane on me but only if they know how to use one. Too many pretenders out there that haven't got a clue and could cause serious harm. | |||
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"I like being spanked, flogged and paddled but I don't call it punishment. I have no interest in punishing people unless in the context of a D/S relationship where punishment has been discussed and agreed for breaches of the relationship's rules. In which case 50 lines or a time with their nose against the wall is probably more painful. A punishment caning or spanking should only be given where it has been agreed beforehand as a punishment within the relationship negotiation and merited by the circumstances but those are not fun and need a lot of aftercare,tlc and lotion! Funishment is a thing for some people, although not for me. Give me someone who just enjoys various forms of impact or sensation without having to dress it up. For me it is not about role play but building the scene and the tension within the scene...is the thing. Be a spankee and proud. ![]() Well.....you nearly killed the thread but it seems to have scraped by and recovered ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Always prefer the intimacy of a hand" I use my hands for intimate actions and my tools for the hitting ![]() | |||
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"Cane is a tad harsh if you have not used one before. No, is a great punishment for a pleading masochist. I do let people use the cane on me but only if they know how to use one. Too many pretenders out there that haven't got a clue and could cause serious harm. " It does make pretty patterns though. | |||
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"Always prefer the intimacy of a hand I use my hands for intimate actions and my tools for the hitting ![]() You’re just scared you’d hurt yourself ![]() | |||
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"I like using my cane." Can't beat a good thwack from a cane ![]() | |||
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"Always prefer the intimacy of a hand I use my hands for intimate actions and my tools for the hitting ![]() ![]() What, on little old you? I doubt that, unless your vagina has shark teeth ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Always prefer the intimacy of a hand I use my hands for intimate actions and my tools for the hitting ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well it’s got a good grip, could suck you in that’s for sure | |||
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"Always prefer the intimacy of a hand I use my hands for intimate actions and my tools for the hitting ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That's kegel exercises for you ![]() | |||
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"Funishment ![]() ![]() Absolutely agree, 100% | |||
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"Funishment ![]() ![]() Lol, I think I have heard a certain lady with vampire teeth use that line. ?? | |||
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"Who else likes being punished? Find it quite hard to find people that wish to administer discipline beyond a standard spanking. I like paddle, tawse, cane etc " I think if you want more than a standard spanking this isn't the tight site. I'm into it all on the heavy side. I like the cane, as well but I also take the prison strap and the birch | |||
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"I like a riding crop ![]() ![]() ![]() I would love to have seen that....I see you have the boots as well ![]() | |||
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"I like a riding crop ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Of course.. Both are in my public gallery ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like a riding crop ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() its a nice feeling when you been whipped with one don't you think | |||
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"I like a riding crop ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I do like a woman in Jodhpurs and riding boots. It's a very sexy look ![]() | |||
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"Who else likes being punished? Find it quite hard to find people that wish to administer discipline beyond a standard spanking. I like paddle, tawse, cane etc " I love it and after I always say thank you | |||
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"Who else likes being punished? Find it quite hard to find people that wish to administer discipline beyond a standard spanking. I like paddle, tawse, cane etc I love it and after I always say thank you" Good girl ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like a riding crop ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes!! God i love it | |||
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"Who else likes being punished? Find it quite hard to find people that wish to administer discipline beyond a standard spanking. I like paddle, tawse, cane etc I think if you want more than a standard spanking this isn't the tight site. I'm into it all on the heavy side. I like the cane, as well but I also take the prison strap and the birch " What is a prison strap?? | |||
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"You're all so away ![]() ![]() Mmmmm my favourite sound is a belt being unbuckled and then i get really wet watching it being slowly pulled out. I get dizzy when it is placed near to me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Who else likes being punished? Find it quite hard to find people that wish to administer discipline beyond a standard spanking. I like paddle, tawse, cane etc " Oh yes please ![]() | |||
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"My old headmaster use to cane me. I do wonder all these years later, if he got a hard on seeing my red naked buttocks. I never did piss on his grave." He was buried at sea! | |||
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"Got a guy coming to see me on Thursday night who is going to use a variety of implements on me which will include a plimsoll. That'll be a first for me, never had that before, seems so harmless but I'd imagine delivers quite a sting. " Lucky you. A plimsoll? Ouch ![]() | |||
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"Got a guy coming to see me on Thursday night who is going to use a variety of implements on me which will include a plimsoll. That'll be a first for me, never had that before, seems so harmless but I'd imagine delivers quite a sting. Lucky you. A plimsoll? Ouch ![]() I don't know. Will it hurt? I guess so. I hope so ![]() | |||
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"Got a guy coming to see me on Thursday night who is going to use a variety of implements on me which will include a plimsoll. That'll be a first for me, never had that before, seems so harmless but I'd imagine delivers quite a sting. Lucky you. A plimsoll? Ouch ![]() ![]() Hehe ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like being spanked, flogged and paddled but I don't call it punishment. I have no interest in punishing people unless in the context of a D/S relationship where punishment has been discussed and agreed for breaches of the relationship's rules. In which case 50 lines or a time with their nose against the wall is probably more painful. A punishment caning or spanking should only be given where it has been agreed beforehand as a punishment within the relationship negotiation and merited by the circumstances but those are not fun and need a lot of aftercare,tlc and lotion! Funishment is a thing for some people, although not for me. Give me someone who just enjoys various forms of impact or sensation without having to dress it up. For me it is not about role play but building the scene and the tension within the scene...is the thing. Be a spankee and proud. ![]() Should we RTFM ? 50 lines? Seriously ? She would be crawling up the walls.... | |||
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"I like being spanked, flogged and paddled but I don't call it punishment. I have no interest in punishing people unless in the context of a D/S relationship where punishment has been discussed and agreed for breaches of the relationship's rules. In which case 50 lines or a time with their nose against the wall is probably more painful. A punishment caning or spanking should only be given where it has been agreed beforehand as a punishment within the relationship negotiation and merited by the circumstances but those are not fun and need a lot of aftercare,tlc and lotion! Funishment is a thing for some people, although not for me. Give me someone who just enjoys various forms of impact or sensation without having to dress it up. For me it is not about role play but building the scene and the tension within the scene...is the thing. Be a spankee and proud. ![]() lol?? D/S relationships are individual so no need to RTFM! However, if you do want to read something Jay Wisemen's SM101 A Realistic Introduction has a section on punishment. In short pleasurable acts should not be used for punishment and kept for fun. If the sub loves caning or spanking there is no point doing that to punish them. Making them do something trivial, menial or a withdrawal or treats concentrates the mind better. But it is individual to each sub. | |||
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"I like being spanked, flogged and paddled but I don't call it punishment. I have no interest in punishing people unless in the context of a D/S relationship where punishment has been discussed and agreed for breaches of the relationship's rules. In which case 50 lines or a time with their nose against the wall is probably more painful. A punishment caning or spanking should only be given where it has been agreed beforehand as a punishment within the relationship negotiation and merited by the circumstances but those are not fun and need a lot of aftercare,tlc and lotion! Funishment is a thing for some people, although not for me. Give me someone who just enjoys various forms of impact or sensation without having to dress it up. For me it is not about role play but building the scene and the tension within the scene...is the thing. Be a spankee and proud. ![]() I do agree, spanking is fun and I enjoy it immensely. But when I’m in control it’s never something I use as punishment. Punishment should reflect the misdemeanour, it enables them to focus on what it was they did wrong and learn | |||
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"Cane is a tad harsh if you have not used one before. No, is a great punishment for a pleading masochist. I do let people use the cane on me but only if they know how to use one. Too many pretenders out there that haven't got a clue and could cause serious harm. " I expect il be caning your submissive little arse again sometimes soon x | |||
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"Cane is a tad harsh if you have not used one before. No, is a great punishment for a pleading masochist. I do let people use the cane on me but only if they know how to use one. Too many pretenders out there that haven't got a clue and could cause serious harm. I expect il be caning your submissive little arse again sometimes soon x" Oooohh yes definitely, it's been too long xx | |||
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"I am quite happy to wield a cane or flogger if the person is enjoying it" When we are all allowed out again, I’d love you to wield a can on my ass... | |||
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"I love a bit of pain. I have my own profile on a separate site to find that though. There's so many who think it's easy to administer and have no idea about the possible risks. Char" This. I use pain as an enhancer Normally and primary Pleasure mechanism for masochists. I am on the other site too. I do pain and after care | |||
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"I do! Photos end up rejected though ![]() This is a shame, I would love seeing photos like that on fabs | |||
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"I do! Photos end up rejected though ![]() So would I ![]() | |||
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"Who else likes being punished? Find it quite hard to find people that wish to administer discipline beyond a standard spanking. I like paddle, tawse, cane etc " I’ve used whips, paddles, canes, straps, floggers etc... it’s a tricky subject as the harsher they get the more dangerous to receiver but also the person administering in some cases. As with all tools, knowledge is a very useful, personally I think clubs should stop at floggers and paddles, anything more can invite trouble x | |||
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"Cant beat leaving a good red handprint on a bare backside ![]() You are not wrong! And LisaBelle loves a good spanking x | |||
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"Who else likes being punished? Find it quite hard to find people that wish to administer discipline beyond a standard spanking. I like paddle, tawse, cane etc " I love using a cane and flogger. | |||
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