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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can't believe how hard it is proving getting free time to match up with the people you want to meet!

Anyone else find the same problems?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Constantly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm pretty much free most evenings and weekends, because I'm sad and dont actually have a life.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Can't believe how hard it is proving getting free time to match up with the people you want to meet!

Anyone else find the same problems? "

Yes, too often! Too many things (and people) to juggle. And too many porkies pies to tell family members who might babysit

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes we find it very difficult. Despite being retired we can't do short notice and certain times are out for us too. We had to cancel a meet recently too due to ill health.

We're the original time wasters

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Yes we find it very difficult. Despite being retired we can't do short notice and certain times are out for us too. We had to cancel a meet recently too due to ill health.

We're the original time wasters "

Hope you self flagellated suitably and attended confession?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes we find it very difficult. Despite being retired we can't do short notice and certain times are out for us too. We had to cancel a meet recently too due to ill health.

We're the original time wasters

Hope you self flagellated suitably and attended confession?! "

I prefer it when someone else flagellates me

I'll go to confession if it works the way it did on Fleabag

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Yes we find it very difficult. Despite being retired we can't do short notice and certain times are out for us too. We had to cancel a meet recently too due to ill health.

We're the original time wasters

Hope you self flagellated suitably and attended confession?!

I prefer it when someone else flagellates me

I'll go to confession if it works the way it did on Fleabag "

After my experience on Saturday, am totally with you on the flagellation. And get on your knees (just watch yourself on the way down )

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes we find it very difficult. Despite being retired we can't do short notice and certain times are out for us too. We had to cancel a meet recently too due to ill health.

We're the original time wasters

Hope you self flagellated suitably and attended confession?!

I prefer it when someone else flagellates me

I'll go to confession if it works the way it did on Fleabag

After my experience on Saturday, am totally with you on the flagellation. And get on your knees (just watch yourself on the way down ) "

I can get down there, it's getting back up that I might have a problem with

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Yes we find it very difficult. Despite being retired we can't do short notice and certain times are out for us too. We had to cancel a meet recently too due to ill health.

We're the original time wasters

Hope you self flagellated suitably and attended confession?!

I prefer it when someone else flagellates me

I'll go to confession if it works the way it did on Fleabag

After my experience on Saturday, am totally with you on the flagellation. And get on your knees (just watch yourself on the way down )

I can get down there, it's getting back up that I might have a problem with "

Some very lovely club people helped me up off my knees after doing some oral-based party game dares. I'm sure the Priest would be happy to help

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes we find it very difficult. Despite being retired we can't do short notice and certain times are out for us too. We had to cancel a meet recently too due to ill health.

We're the original time wasters

Hope you self flagellated suitably and attended confession?!

I prefer it when someone else flagellates me

I'll go to confession if it works the way it did on Fleabag

After my experience on Saturday, am totally with you on the flagellation. And get on your knees (just watch yourself on the way down )

I can get down there, it's getting back up that I might have a problem with

Some very lovely club people helped me up off my knees after doing some oral-based party game dares. I'm sure the Priest would be happy to help "

If I was on my knees before that priest I wouldn't want to get up.

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport


"Yes we find it very difficult. Despite being retired we can't do short notice and certain times are out for us too. We had to cancel a meet recently too due to ill health.

We're the original time wasters

Hope you self flagellated suitably and attended confession?!

I prefer it when someone else flagellates me

I'll go to confession if it works the way it did on Fleabag

After my experience on Saturday, am totally with you on the flagellation. And get on your knees (just watch yourself on the way down )

I can get down there, it's getting back up that I might have a problem with

Some very lovely club people helped me up off my knees after doing some oral-based party game dares. I'm sure the Priest would be happy to help

If I was on my knees before that priest I wouldn't want to get up. "

That's definitely worth 3hell Marys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!!! Same!!! Spontaneous works best for me. Planning can be frustrating for this reason. Love it when a plan just falls together easily! I find it easier to meet immediately rather than plan ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We struggle to get time together due to childcare let alone trying to manage anyone else’s expectations.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in conversation with a couple for months now and although I've met for a social we haven't been able to arrange a playing meet as yet.

Good job they're patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, as we're only free when everyone else is working.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have that problem as well

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I find it a nightmare!

I live 50 miles from Newcastle, so I post meet dates in advance so I can make arrangements to stay in a hotel if I need to.

Pinning people down to results in them contacting me on the day saying let's meet in an hour's time.

Takes me 2 hours to get ready let alone travel,

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so.

Aside from the fact we don't live together, we live a few hours drive apart which means there's no last minute stuff unless we're together at the time which can go from a few days at a time a couple of times a month to once in a few months.

We both work and neither of us really know what we're working until last minute kind da thing. B can get a call and need to be in another country the next day for a few days or weeks, and I get my rota up to 2 weeks in advance but more often than not it changes anyway.

The only time we can guarantee we can make it is if we both have holiday booked at the same time, but even then you're governed by illness etc, which luckily neither of us get too often

P

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