FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

reaction

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what do you think your family's reaction would be if they knew you swung ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what do you think your family's reaction would be if they knew you swung ? "

Not good. With men, a lot bloody worse!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shocked ,,n they found out ,,2yrs ago ,

we vry realy speak now lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sa fun bradfordMan
over a year ago

bradford/leeds

was looking on here afew months ago and my sister was on the site and had looked at me! we both saw pics we should of not realy seen.. we havent spoke about it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"was looking on here afew months ago and my sister was on the site and had looked at me! we both saw pics we should of not realy seen.. we havent spoke about it."
and how did your meet go lol joking!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"shocked ,,n they found out ,,2yrs ago ,

we vry realy speak now lol "

Chris,s son knows (19) and my brother know (21) and both were uneasy for a week or 2....then asked questions and are now ok... No one else is aware within immediate family xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"shocked ,,n they found out ,,2yrs ago ,

we vry realy speak now lol

Chris,s son knows (19) and my brother know (21) and both were uneasy for a week or 2....then asked questions and are now ok... No one else is aware within immediate family xxx"
what questions did they ask ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"shocked ,,n they found out ,,2yrs ago ,

we vry realy speak now lol

Chris,s son knows (19) and my brother know (21) and both were uneasy for a week or 2....then asked questions and are now ok... No one else is aware within immediate family xxxwhat questions did they ask ?"

My brother was more concerned for my safty and if I was being pushed to do things I did not want to....after reassurance he seemed fine....Chris,s son was more how do I get involved etc xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sa fun bradfordMan
over a year ago

bradford/leeds

lol she deleated her account after being on 30mins

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't be invited into their homes. Those that might wouldn't offer me a drink in their glasses, disposable only. They wouldn't eat from me.

They'd think I'd clearly lost my mind and needed help.

My kids would feel the same too, that's why I've told my sister if I pop of my clogs first there's a suitcase she has to dispose of. She said she would, with the proviso I leave her money to cover her therapist and for having the contents erased from her memory.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be invited into their homes. Those that might wouldn't offer me a drink in their glasses, disposable only. They wouldn't eat from me.

They'd think I'd clearly lost my mind and needed help.

My kids would feel the same too, that's why I've told my sister if I pop of my clogs first there's a suitcase she has to dispose of. She said she would, with the proviso I leave her money to cover her therapist and for having the contents erased from her memory. "
lol that is one good sister

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be invited into their homes. Those that might wouldn't offer me a drink in their glasses, disposable only. They wouldn't eat from me.

They'd think I'd clearly lost my mind and needed help.

My kids would feel the same too, that's why I've told my sister if I pop of my clogs first there's a suitcase she has to dispose of. She said she would, with the proviso I leave her money to cover her therapist and for having the contents erased from her memory. "

Is there no single member of your family who would be understanding ? or maybe even a secret swinger themselves xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be invited into their homes. Those that might wouldn't offer me a drink in their glasses, disposable only. They wouldn't eat from me.

They'd think I'd clearly lost my mind and needed help.

My kids would feel the same too, that's why I've told my sister if I pop of my clogs first there's a suitcase she has to dispose of. She said she would, with the proviso I leave her money to cover her therapist and for having the contents erased from her memory. "

Crikey yeah if I pop my clogs I don't know who'll be looking through my toy bag....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol she deleated her account after being on 30mins "
but you stayed you dirty git lol what happened to you is my worst nightmare.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me at all to be honest! I'm a single adult who makes time for my kids at the wkends but also needs some me time and fun!

I suppose it is diff for couples/fems tho, as they might have kids/family whom they wouldn't want to know about their lifestyle! But as for single guys, i think maybe a lot wouldn't bother about it!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me at all to be honest! I'm a single adult who makes time for my kids at the wkends but also needs some me time and fun!

I suppose it is diff for couples/fems tho, as they might have kids/family whom they wouldn't want to know about their lifestyle! But as for single guys, i think maybe a lot wouldn't bother about it! "
I'm single guy and I'd be horrified if family knew.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me at all to be honest! I'm a single adult who makes time for my kids at the wkends but also needs some me time and fun!

I suppose it is diff for couples/fems tho, as they might have kids/family whom they wouldn't want to know about their lifestyle! But as for single guys, i think maybe a lot wouldn't bother about it! I'm single guy and I'd be horrified if family knew."

why? Dont you go to the boozer/clubs and pick gals up? Is it more acceptible to pick them up there than on a site? Maybe i'm missing something here but i see no difference in picking up a gal from said pub or arranging a meet from here! (apart from bein half pissed at end of night, lol)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me at all to be honest! I'm a single adult who makes time for my kids at the wkends but also needs some me time and fun!

I suppose it is diff for couples/fems tho, as they might have kids/family whom they wouldn't want to know about their lifestyle! But as for single guys, i think maybe a lot wouldn't bother about it! I'm single guy and I'd be horrified if family knew.

why? Dont you go to the boozer/clubs and pick gals up? Is it more acceptible to pick them up there than on a site? Maybe i'm missing something here but i see no difference in picking up a gal from said pub or arranging a meet from here! (apart from bein half pissed at end of night, lol) "
yeah i do,but they don't know about it either and if they knew I'd done mmf etc they would find that very odd.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my sister knows I'm on here, her new boyfriend is an ex fabber too.. she's been asking questions so I think I'll be looking out for their couples profile in due course.. my mum knows I've" swung"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I wouldn't be invited into their homes. Those that might wouldn't offer me a drink in their glasses, disposable only. They wouldn't eat from me.

They'd think I'd clearly lost my mind and needed help.

My kids would feel the same too, that's why I've told my sister if I pop of my clogs first there's a suitcase she has to dispose of. She said she would, with the proviso I leave her money to cover her therapist and for having the contents erased from her memory.

Is there no single member of your family who would be understanding ? or maybe even a secret swinger themselves xxx"

When sex has been discussed oral is disgusting, anal...well words like "sodomites" are used. They don't get undressed in front of their partners...can't see them taking part in greedy girl events.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my brother knows as he's a swinger to but rest of family would disown me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me at all to be honest! I'm a single adult who makes time for my kids at the wkends but also needs some me time and fun!

I suppose it is diff for couples/fems tho, as they might have kids/family whom they wouldn't want to know about their lifestyle! But as for single guys, i think maybe a lot wouldn't bother about it! I'm single guy and I'd be horrified if family knew.

why? Dont you go to the boozer/clubs and pick gals up? Is it more acceptible to pick them up there than on a site? Maybe i'm missing something here but i see no difference in picking up a gal from said pub or arranging a meet from here! (apart from bein half pissed at end of night, lol) yeah i do,but they don't know about it either and if they knew I'd done mmf etc they would find that very odd."

Ye, maybe the mmf thing! But i'm sure they wouldn't be surprised a single guy has fem friends!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my brother knows as he's a swinger to but rest of family would disown me"
so is he on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what do you think your family's reaction would be if they knew you swung ? "

Mine aren't bothered in the slightest.

Cali

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what do you think your family's reaction would be if they knew you swung ?

Mine aren't bothered in the slightest.

Cali "
don't most of yours swing anyway cali ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wifes parents and family know. They were a little shocked when they found out she was bi and thought we shouldn't marry. When she mentioned she had already been witb a lady they asked what i thought and she said i joined in lol and they just replied with a oh.

My parents are no longer here but would have said as long as im happy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what do you think your family's reaction would be if they knew you swung ?

Mine aren't bothered in the slightest.

Cali don't most of yours swing anyway cali ?"

Out of the 7 siblings... Not one does. Out of 6 kids.. one does. My parents did... My aunts and uncles... Nope not one.. out of 32 cousins on one other does.

I'm the wayward member.. but they don't mind.

Cali

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what do you think your family's reaction would be if they knew you swung ?

Mine aren't bothered in the slightest.

Cali don't most of yours swing anyway cali ?

Out of the 7 siblings... Not one does. Out of 6 kids.. one does. My parents did... My aunts and uncles... Nope not one.. out of 32 cousins on one other does.

I'm the wayward member.. but they don't mind.

Cali "
do you think you got into it because parents did it ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Cali do you think you got into it because parents did it ?"

Nope.. didnt know my parents were until I told my mum I was.. I just knew my parents were very touchy feely, yet my mum was shockingly harsh on me about sexual things. Like telling me that only really horrible nasty girls played with themselves when I asked her about why it felt good to touch myself in certain places.

It was made clear that sex was something bad...

cali

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Cali do you think you got into it because parents did it ?

Nope.. didnt know my parents were until I told my mum I was.. I just knew my parents were very touchy feely, yet my mum was shockingly harsh on me about sexual things. Like telling me that only really horrible nasty girls played with themselves when I asked her about why it felt good to touch myself in certain places.

It was made clear that sex was something bad...

cali "
what a hypocrit lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top