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By *igcuddlycars OP   Man
over a year ago

nomadiclife

I'm curious as to the best message starters I'm still getting acquainted to the world of swinging outside I can pull fine but inside I struggle any tips or advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For people to get involved in a conversation there must be the initial interest. This comes from viewing the profile text and pictures (apart from the obvious preferences).

If you feel you have represented yourself the best you could then you just need a lot of patience.

Otherwise - looking at your current status - this site is probably not for you.

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By *igcuddlycars OP   Man
over a year ago

nomadiclife

Its definitely for me I love the lifestyle I'm just trying to get the messaging more interesting if im honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to send a private message - this is why you started a thread.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

Initial impressions... You've been here over three years and have a silhouette as a profile pic!

You have a dreadfully boring profile. For a "100% Exhibitionist" you have no exhibitionist pics. Seriously? in the last three years the only exhibitionist pic you can think of is to lie in your bedroom, pull your jeans down a bit and stick your knob in the air?

Your verified by people that are hidden and may or may not actually exist.

You have a ridiculous status of "This site seems to be dying a death any other site reccomendations"

Yet you somehow believe it's the messages you've been sending that put people off?

At some point in the last three years you must surely have realised that the women you look for are going to be more interested in more than just a message? No profile pic, no look. When we look we want to be enticed. your profile isn't enticing, so I would guess that the messages you send aren't either. If they are, then that first look at your profile is what is letting you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's going to be different for every person. It depends on what they write on their profile.If I see a gorgeous woman's profile who lives locally but her profile text doesn't engage / intrigue or entertain me then I have no business or interest in messaging. If I see an interesting / witty forum post / profile narrative by a lady 400 miles away I'm much more likely to message her regardless of her profile photos. The chances of ever meeting face to face might be slim to none but I don't see the point in messaging for the sake of it if there's nothing about the person's personality that intrigues me.

But if your looking for a blanket cover all message formula to ensure you notch up your bedpost like a family of woodpeckers' favourite tree trunk ?....then forget about Fab and try something like ' Hello, I'd like to book an appointment please' on escorts.co.uk/bookings

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