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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them" Now I’m confused | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them Now I’m confused That's code for I want to fuck a woman but if there's nothing else I'd fuck a guy lol " No. It’s how many guys feel. They want to play with a cock but don’t fancy what it’s attached to. | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them Now I’m confused " I "get" what he's saying - for a lot of guys it's the physical act of sex with another guy that is the attraction rather than the other guy themselves as such - sure there has to be a physical attraction at some level but it's not "fancying" in the same way as they might "fancy" a woman | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them Now I’m confused That's code for I want to fuck a woman but if there's nothing else I'd fuck a guy lol No. It’s how many guys feel. They want to play with a cock but don’t fancy what it’s attached to. " T'was a joke | |||
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"Hi guys was wondering what your thoughts were. I’m a 18 year old what i think straight guy. I’ve only ever been with woman before and kinda have an attraction sucking a convincing TV, but not a guy. However, i’m too nervous to actually meet a guy/TV incase i hate it. Any advice? thanks x " Young man, a convincing TV is still gonna be a guy.....lol and im not micky taking just your differentiating made me smile. Take your time there is no rush at any age ...... youve had these thoughts ....they are not bad thoughts......just normal erotic thoughts...you will act on them when you are ready and if you choose the right partner you will enjoy it. You will be nervous and probs have little tremours in your body ...but that will be fear of the unknown and adrenalin fuelled excitement. You will know when xx | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them Now I’m confused " Was this from the lady or the guy ?? | |||
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"Maybe the femininity of a tv is part of his attraction. What you should consider and worry about is being happy and enjoying the sexual acts. As long as it's consensual and both sides enjoy it does it really matter? Trying to define yourself will be difficult if you haven't experienced it. Like saying you don't like spinach but never had it then do you really know you don't like it? Enjoy your youth be curious, try things that take your interest, go on an adventure. Practice safer sex and regular tests for peace of mind. Go to lgtbq+ friendly nightclubs and swingers clubs. Explore, discover and express yourself." Also just realised most clubs operate over 21 policy but nightclubs usually don't | |||
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"OP try looking for a bi couple. Must be a few near where you live who would welcome the attention of a young fella and be sensitive to your desires." I think that's a great idea. I myself describe myself as bi-curious because I hardly ever look at guys. However I am a very enthusiastic cock sucker which is why I often gravitate towards couples with bi or bi-curios males. I'm still on my un-rushed exploration of my sexuality. If that to some makes me fully bi its not something I'm going to stress about. I'm just here to have fun at a pace that works for me. | |||
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"To be fair this site is full of confused, deluded or self-denying gay and bisexual men. Well meaning people on here with good intentions push for the ‘no labels’ approach but it fuels confusion and denial. The OP is only young so natural going through phases and confusion. I would say though that a genuine straight male would not in any way, shape or form be interested in another male, whether that was his form or the epitome of a man which is his penis. Saying you are not attracted to males but want to suck the epitome of one is painfully contradictory. Either way you are going to be on the bisexual spectrum as a minimum. Men on this site need to stop wasting their lives in denial, loads are bisexual but cannot bring themselves to admit it to themselves. You are a long time dead, don’t waste your lives and grow some balls like the rest of us and face what you really are " This if you're into penis, you're at least bi. | |||
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"Hi guys was wondering what your thoughts were. I’m a 18 year old what i think straight guy. I’ve only ever been with woman before and kinda have an attraction sucking a convincing TV, but not a guy. However, i’m too nervous to actually meet a guy/TV incase i hate it. Any advice? thanks x Young man, a convincing TV is still gonna be a guy.....lol and im not micky taking just your differentiating made me smile. Take your time there is no rush at any age ...... youve had these thoughts ....they are not bad thoughts......just normal erotic thoughts...you will act on them when you are ready and if you choose the right partner you will enjoy it. You will be nervous and probs have little tremours in your body ...but that will be fear of the unknown and adrenalin fuelled excitement. You will know when xx " I agree x | |||
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"Echoing what everyone else says, don't rush anything. Take your time and just roll with things. I'd not worry about labels either, you are what you are and when it comes to sexuality still evolving, there are loads of different genres of sexuality, if you get hung up on which catagory you fit into you will give yourself unnecessary stress. " I think it is more stressful to NOT understand what you are, therefore labels are logical. The OP is clearly on the bi spectrum and nothing wrong with that. The bi spectrum is wide but he is definitely on it. Lets help the lad by giving him a starting point | |||
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"Echoing what everyone else says, don't rush anything. Take your time and just roll with things. I'd not worry about labels either, you are what you are and when it comes to sexuality still evolving, there are loads of different genres of sexuality, if you get hung up on which catagory you fit into you will give yourself unnecessary stress. I think it is more stressful to NOT understand what you are, therefore labels are logical. The OP is clearly on the bi spectrum and nothing wrong with that. The bi spectrum is wide but he is definitely on it. Lets help the lad by giving him a starting point " What have you got in mind? | |||
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"Echoing what everyone else says, don't rush anything. Take your time and just roll with things. I'd not worry about labels either, you are what you are and when it comes to sexuality still evolving, there are loads of different genres of sexuality, if you get hung up on which catagory you fit into you will give yourself unnecessary stress. I think it is more stressful to NOT understand what you are, therefore labels are logical. The OP is clearly on the bi spectrum and nothing wrong with that. The bi spectrum is wide but he is definitely on it. Lets help the lad by giving him a starting point What have you got in mind? " That was my starting point, he is on the bi spectrum clearly. | |||
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"Hi guys was wondering what your thoughts were. I’m a 18 year old what i think straight guy. I’ve only ever been with woman before and kinda have an attraction sucking a convincing TV, but not a guy. However, i’m too nervous to actually meet a guy/TV incase i hate it. Any advice? thanks x " First things first. Lots of this debate could become very political about definitions of gay, or bu. Some of that gets couched in language that suggests you have a duty to declare what you are, as if any of us actually knows that. None of this is new. One of the best books on the topic is a heartfelt love story about a man who was aromantic, who suddenly fell utterly in love with a woman late in life - if you ever get the chance to read Surprised by Joy by C S Lewis, or to watch Shadowlands (in which ANthony Hopkins acts beautifulY) you'll see that lots of thigns we think as novel, like fluidity of presentation or aromanticism, are nothing new. Anyway, back to you and cocks. In another era you might well have found the answer to your questions by standing at the urinals in a public loo and waiting to see what happens. That was unsafe, in lots of ways, but it's how generations of guys resolved these issues. The back row of certain cinemas was another place. There are lots of labels for how you feel right now, but they're other people's labels. I'm with the other posters who reckon that there are enough places, like clubs or mixed saunas, where you can go at your own pace. I also think that you would be safer there than with an arranged meet with a guy - whisper it quietl for fear of upsetting people, but not everyone you arrange a one on one meet with will be as sympathetic or as caring as the posters on here - there's a definite risk factor involved. Good luck though, and enjoy exploring - you neve r know, you might make someone very happy with their cock in your mouth... | |||
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"Hi guys was wondering what your thoughts were. I’m a 18 year old what i think straight guy. I’ve only ever been with woman before and kinda have an attraction sucking a convincing TV, but not a guy. However, i’m too nervous to actually meet a guy/TV incase i hate it. Any advice? thanks x " I have turned up to meets where straight guys want to find out and 90% are fine after some kissing/touching, the 10% you can just chill chat with and become friends. Find an understanding TV/s and you'll be fine, you are who you are and you like what you like so no need for labels Xx | |||
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"Hi guys was wondering what your thoughts were. I’m a 18 year old what i think straight guy. I’ve only ever been with woman before and kinda have an attraction sucking a convincing TV, but not a guy. However, i’m too nervous to actually meet a guy/TV incase i hate it. Any advice? thanks x I have turned up to meets where straight guys want to find out and 90% are fine after some kissing/touching, the 10% you can just chill chat with and become friends. Find an understanding TV/s and you'll be fine, you are who you are and you like what you like so no need for labels Xx" They are not straight are they, it is another male’s body they are feeling up not a female, honest brutal reality. Genuine straight men would never entertain the idea | |||
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"Hi guys was wondering what your thoughts were. I’m a 18 year old what i think straight guy. I’ve only ever been with woman before and kinda have an attraction sucking a convincing TV, but not a guy. However, i’m too nervous to actually meet a guy/TV incase i hate it. Any advice? thanks x I have turned up to meets where straight guys want to find out and 90% are fine after some kissing/touching, the 10% you can just chill chat with and become friends. Find an understanding TV/s and you'll be fine, you are who you are and you like what you like so no need for labels Xx They are not straight are they, it is another male’s body they are feeling up not a female, honest brutal reality. Genuine straight men would never entertain the idea" | |||
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"Hi guys was wondering what your thoughts were. I’m a 18 year old what i think straight guy. I’ve only ever been with woman before and kinda have an attraction sucking a convincing TV, but not a guy. However, i’m too nervous to actually meet a guy/TV incase i hate it. Any advice? thanks x I have turned up to meets where straight guys want to find out and 90% are fine after some kissing/touching, the 10% you can just chill chat with and become friends. Find an understanding TV/s and you'll be fine, you are who you are and you like what you like so no need for labels Xx" Each to their own but if you want sex with men, you want the whole package - no pun intended lol | |||
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"I dont fancy men at all but i love sucking on a big cock now and again. " At least you are not deluded thinking you are straight still | |||
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"I dont fancy men at all but i love sucking on a big cock now and again. " You’re not alone | |||
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"I dont fancy men at all but i love sucking on a big cock now and again. At least you are not deluded thinking you are straight still " Think im past the bicurious stage also lol. | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them" Same here I'm happy to have sex with a guy but dont in any way find them attractive | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them Now I’m confused That's code for I want to fuck a woman but if there's nothing else I'd fuck a guy lol No. It’s how many guys feel. They want to play with a cock but don’t fancy what it’s attached to. " Or maybe just like fucking a guys arse. Relationship with a man Eeeew no Fuck his arse Yes please | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them Same here I'm happy to have sex with a guy but dont in any way find them attractive " I suspect when people say this they kind of thing they cannot be gay or bi, or it lessens the reality of it for them. However I think sex and genital play is THE biggest indication of sexuality, if genitals get you going that is a sure sign. | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them Same here I'm happy to have sex with a guy but dont in any way find them attractive I suspect when people say this they kind of thing they cannot be gay or bi, or it lessens the reality of it for them. However I think sex and genital play is THE biggest indication of sexuality, if genitals get you going that is a sure sign. " I think you over think As a bi man i could live in a relationship with a woman But not a man Im happy to fuck both though | |||
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"Lots of guys are into sex with guys but dont fancy guys. Sounds odd but id be one of them Same here I'm happy to have sex with a guy but dont in any way find them attractive I suspect when people say this they kind of thing they cannot be gay or bi, or it lessens the reality of it for them. However I think sex and genital play is THE biggest indication of sexuality, if genitals get you going that is a sure sign. I think you over think As a bi man i could live in a relationship with a woman But not a man Im happy to fuck both though " I think more need to over think on here as they are so confused or deluded | |||
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"Hi guys was wondering what your thoughts were. I’m a 18 year old what i think straight guy. I’ve only ever been with woman before and kinda have an attraction sucking a convincing TV, but not a guy. However, i’m too nervous to actually meet a guy/TV incase i hate it. Any advice? thanks x " Don’t put too much pressure on yourself Only do what you feel comfortable doing. And look after your health, both mental and physical. | |||
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"The OP is only 18 and as been using this site for over a year. Surely not. " Spotters badge | |||
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"Don't worry about it is the main thing, be intrigued and adventurous and honest with yourself. If I had a dollar for every straight guy that's fucked me..... In fact I only seem to serve the straight ones these days and they are straight, zero interest in men as men just like yourself and some of them want to try sucking cock too but their preference is dominantly hetero sexual. There are no rules babe just have fun and enjoy the ride x" They are most definitely NOT straight, sorry | |||
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"Don't worry about it is the main thing, be intrigued and adventurous and honest with yourself. If I had a dollar for every straight guy that's fucked me..... In fact I only seem to serve the straight ones these days and they are straight, zero interest in men as men just like yourself and some of them want to try sucking cock too but their preference is dominantly hetero sexual. There are no rules babe just have fun and enjoy the ride x They are most definitely NOT straight, sorry " 100% not straight. It really baffles me how many gay and bi people actually believe that they have had sex with straight men. | |||
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"Don't worry about it is the main thing, be intrigued and adventurous and honest with yourself. If I had a dollar for every straight guy that's fucked me..... In fact I only seem to serve the straight ones these days and they are straight, zero interest in men as men just like yourself and some of them want to try sucking cock too but their preference is dominantly hetero sexual. There are no rules babe just have fun and enjoy the ride x They are most definitely NOT straight, sorry 100% not straight. It really baffles me how many gay and bi people actually believe that they have had sex with straight men. " Makes me cringe those individuals but don’t worry I am often around to shake reality into them no matter how much they protest | |||
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"Don't worry about it is the main thing, be intrigued and adventurous and honest with yourself. If I had a dollar for every straight guy that's fucked me..... In fact I only seem to serve the straight ones these days and they are straight, zero interest in men as men just like yourself and some of them want to try sucking cock too but their preference is dominantly hetero sexual. There are no rules babe just have fun and enjoy the ride x" I think you need to re examine what straight sexuality is. 100% not straight if they like dick in any way shape or form. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, but from message I get on here a lot of gay guys want straight dick, but if your getting it they are not straight! Sometimes I feel it verges on grooming! | |||
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"Don't worry about it is the main thing, be intrigued and adventurous and honest with yourself. If I had a dollar for every straight guy that's fucked me..... In fact I only seem to serve the straight ones these days and they are straight, zero interest in men as men just like yourself and some of them want to try sucking cock too but their preference is dominantly hetero sexual. There are no rules babe just have fun and enjoy the ride x I think you need to re examine what straight sexuality is. 100% not straight if they like dick in any way shape or form. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, but from message I get on here a lot of gay guys want straight dick, but if your getting it they are not straight! Sometimes I feel it verges on grooming! It is not just gay but bi men too, they are all an embarrassment the ones that beg for straight dick, proper show up. Lethal around me though because I will slap reality into them and also reject them myself over it. Fools." Yeah good for you. I don’t understand what’s wrong with just admitting your bi, gay, straight, pan. I think it must be a power thing wanting “straight cock” or not admitting to being bi or gay, it’s almost seen as say for example a straight man bagging a lesbian, again they are not a lesbian they are bi. | |||
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"Not really sure where the fish aspect came into it then haha. Another question. If a full straight Alpha Male receives a blowjob from a lady, and kisses them during/after said blowjob, surely they're technically in contact with whatever remaining penis presence is available... Thereby making them a little bit Bi." Are you trolling lol | |||
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"Not really sure where the fish aspect came into it then haha. Another question. If a full straight Alpha Male receives a blowjob from a lady, and kisses them during/after said blowjob, surely they're technically in contact with whatever remaining penis presence is available... Thereby making them a little bit Bi." Just come out pal it’s ok. We support you | |||
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"Don't worry about it is the main thing, be intrigued and adventurous and honest with yourself. If I had a dollar for every straight guy that's fucked me..... In fact I only seem to serve the straight ones these days and they are straight, zero interest in men as men just like yourself and some of them want to try sucking cock too but their preference is dominantly hetero sexual. There are no rules babe just have fun and enjoy the ride x I think you need to re examine what straight sexuality is. 100% not straight if they like dick in any way shape or form. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, but from message I get on here a lot of gay guys want straight dick, but if your getting it they are not straight! Sometimes I feel it verges on grooming! It is not just gay but bi men too, they are all an embarrassment the ones that beg for straight dick, proper show up. Lethal around me though because I will slap reality into them and also reject them myself over it. Fools." Your opinion is just that...your opinion,it doesn't mean you are necessarily right. | |||
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