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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do guys hide the fact they like to suck cock?

Just because guys are orally bi does not mean they can't play stright if the opposite guy wishes too.

All is it they lie just to get a meet , then change there minds

Guys be honest gets you much futher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soooo right!

get 10 or so messages a day saying, 'would love to suck your cock'...go look at profile and it says straight!

God loves a tryer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes , the guys do lie depending on wot a woman likes, some women wont meet bi guys, so he lies and says he is totally straight and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree but I think there is still a whole stigma for straight guys in a couple, a lot of them think a bi-guy is going to suddenly jump on them in the middle of a meet so if a guy can play straight, its often easier to just put 'straight'....thats what I used to do but I just kep it as bi-curious now, seems to cover a lot of bases! Lol!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"All is it they lie just to get a meet , then change there minds

Guys be honest gets you much futher"

We're a male cpl, I'm bi my OH is gay, we only meet M/F cpls where the male partner is bi, we've had several requests for a meet from M/F cpls yet there profile states male is straight.

If peeps can't be honest on a profile, what chance have we got of them being on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All is it they lie just to get a meet , then change there minds

Guys be honest gets you much futher

We're a male cpl, I'm bi my OH is gay, we only meet M/F cpls where the male partner is bi, we've had several requests for a meet from M/F cpls yet there profile states male is straight.

If peeps can't be honest on a profile, what chance have we got of them being on a meet?"

Some biguys don't have the luxury of being able to be open about it as you and I have to say that, you, as someone with first hand knowledge of the stigma attached to the gay community should know precisely WHY some biguys cannot be open about it.

This site is freely available to anyone who stumbles across it/goes looking for it (coz they know their mate Dave is ladding it up shagging every night) and when they track down good old Dave's profile, what do they find? "Oh fuck! Dave likes cock! Can't wait to tell the lads!"

Am I getting through here?

If a straight guy in a couple cannot handle a biguy being around him then he should make it clear on their profile, it's not up to the biguy to declare himself as he isn't the one with the prejudice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest on your profile, if you like cock say so give the females your swinging with the choice to say YES or NO. to whether they want to go with a bi guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first started meeting people and still a bit niave to a lot of stuff we wouldnt really have met a bi guy in a couple or not but the bi fem thing was taken almost as read that if you did meet a couple the chances the women would have fun together were about 90%, The men would either watch or join in when required.

Now as we met a few more and our interests changed and more open J wanted to watch some gay guy porn just to see something different, fast forward a few months and we met our first bi guy at first we didnt know if he was just going to jump hubby or settle for a quick bit of fun with J.

Luckily for us we met a very easy guy to get along with and said if hubby didnt want to go any further than just holding his cock to see how it felt that was fine, J was getting very turned on by watching 2 guys play with each others cocks in front of her that when our friend asked if he could suck hubby it felt so natural (if thats right) that we didnt give it a second thought, so he sucked hubby and then to J's amazement hubby then tried it himself and now after about 3 meets with other bi guys we cant work out why we thought there would be something to get worried about.

After all said and done its just another form of sex with others and an awful lot of women on sites like these tend to be bi instead of straight and no-one bats an eye at those adverts??

Go out and have fun is our motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi - I have been orally bi but don't advertise as it puts some couples off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all bi guys should stay in the closet.... and if they could look for the silver sling backs I have lost... much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think all bi guys should stay in the closet.... and if they could look for the silver sling backs I have lost... much appreciated.

Would that be Bi, or just downright camp ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think all bi guys should stay in the closet.... and if they could look for the silver sling backs I have lost... much appreciated.

Would that be Bi, or just downright camp ?

camp dear, me dear .... no dear.

alpha male here....

a... always

l... looking 2

p... probe

h... hairy

a... ass..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kidding of course.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not what they do turns us off so much as the fact they are lyers....

Simples....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not what they do turns us off so much as the fact they are lyers....

Simples....

Yep yu are what you are why lie about it?the truth always comes out in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep yu are what you are why lie about it?the truth always comes out in the end

Wasn't a confession Craig.. pmsl..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep yu are what you are why lie about it?the truth always comes out in the end

Wasn't a confession Craig.. pmsl..

what? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys say if it says bi on thier profile it puts straight couples off meeting them,but it can work the other way it can put bi couples off meeting them if they put "straight" on profiles, then say but i am bi in the mail, just be honest who and what you are.Also being bi does not mean ur going to pounce on a straight guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"guys say if it says bi on thier profile it puts straight couples off meeting them,but it can work the other way it can put bi couples off meeting them if they put "straight" on profiles, then say but i am bi in the mail, just be honest who and what you are.Also being bi does not mean ur going to pounce on a straight guy

Yep totally agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am defo gonna jump all str8 guys.... I canna control myself .... sorry lads.

from a 28 waist to a 54 waist..

from no man moobs to 48FF cups..

from a micro penis to a whopper..

from blond hair right thro color spectrum to black..

from size 3 dainty feets to size 15..

from baldie to hair like rapunzel...

with glasses, contacts or spec free..

in uniform or out...

washed to the unwashed...

I just canna control myself.... am gagging for them all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am defo gonna jump all str8 guys.... I canna control myself .... sorry lads.

from a 28 waist to a 54 waist..

from no man moobs to 48FF cups..

from a micro penis to a whopper..

from blond hair right thro color spectrum to black..

from size 3 dainty feets to size 15..

from baldie to hair like rapunzel...

with glasses, contacts or spec free..

in uniform or out...

washed to the unwashed...

I just canna control myself.... am gagging for them all...

Yeah gets me like that too pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I`m bi and profile states that, but we got bi guys who says they are st8.

i met a few good st8 guys over several yrs some have let me give them a BJ and have enjoyed being sucked and not given back wicth i respect there feelings

lets loose the feeling that a bi guy is going to grab a cock without askin WE WILL ASK FRIST AND AND RESPECT YOUR WISHES AND FEELINGS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I`m bi and profile states that, but we got bi guys who says they are st8.

i met a few good st8 guys over several yrs some have let me give them a BJ and have enjoyed being sucked and not given back wicth i respect there feelings

lets loose the feeling that a bi guy is going to grab a cock without askin WE WILL ASK FRIST AND AND RESPECT YOUR WISHES AND FEELINGS

Yep only trouble with that mate is things wont change

Its been like that for ever and always will be

Pity though cause some miss out on what could be really great meets due to the fact that they think the male will jump em

Thing is their are a few bi guys that let the side down and do try it with straight males i have seen it happen myself and its sooooo wrong

Once again the minority spoil it for the majority xx

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By *lphamaleMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I think there is still a whole stigma for straight guys looking to meet couples, a lot of couples think a bi-guy is going to suddenly jump on them in the middle of a meet so if a guy can play straight, its often easier to just put 'straight'. After all, if you are orally Bi or not, surely this has to be with the right person and everyone on here does not list all aspects of what they are or are not in to. I take the view that your profile is just the starting point and most meets you have some chat going before you get together, if you do have any hang ups or requests these should be discussed before hand, Is that not all part of the flirting. And at times the best bit finding out about each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not what they do turns us off so much as the fact they are lyers....

Simples....

your so right theres nothing worse than liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am bi and open about it as my user name shows but often get turned dowb for being bi even though i explain that its purley for sex i dont find men or cocks a turn on and would happily play straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi curious and would love to suck cock but there appears to be a shortage of non pushy males out there and an even bigger shortage of couples with a bi man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am defo gonna jump all str8 guys.... I canna control myself .... sorry lads.

from a 28 waist to a 54 waist..

from no man moobs to 48FF cups..

from a micro penis to a whopper..

from blond hair right thro color spectrum to black..

from size 3 dainty feets to size 15..

from baldie to hair like rapunzel...

with glasses, contacts or spec free..

in uniform or out...

washed to the unwashed...

I just canna control myself.... am gagging for them all...

Quoted for truth. I have over 9000 meets lined up per day. As soon as one leaves my room another comes in. There is a queue all the way down my street of men. Good times!

The semen sustains me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bi and dont mind admiting it my mrs plays straight but ive seen her play fem fem i love women and dont find men attractive at all but in the moment things happen if they dont they dont works both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not what they do turns us off so much as the fact they are lyers....

Simples....

your so right theres nothing worse than liars

I think the problem lies with how some people on here view bi guys and whether they actually see themselves as bi or just kinky...wanting to watch another guy play doesnt automatically make him bi...is there a criteria bi men and women have to fall into to be classified? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the problem lies with how some people on here view bi guys and whether they actually see themselves as bi or just kinky...wanting to watch another guy play doesnt automatically make him bi...is there a criteria bi men and women have to fall into to be classified? xx"

I would go with if the person has reached orgasm via same sex stimulation (or opposite sex if they are homosexual 'base') then they are bi. If they wish to try it or have attempted but wish to try again then they are bi-curious. If it didn't work for them then its fine to flag as straight/gay again.

Just my opinion and nothing set in stone like the fabulous taste of marmite that will soon replace all other flavourings

Oh and after that you have the kinsey scale to deal with lol http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion and nothing set in stone like the fabulous taste of marmite that will soon replace all other flavourings

Oh and after that you have the kinsey scale to deal with lol http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale"

And I just had to have a look grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"im bi and dont mind admiting it my mrs plays straight but ive seen her play fem fem i love women and dont find men attractive at all but in the moment things happen if they dont they dont works both ways

Nice tats you have

ya Mrs ain't 2 bad either

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"is there a criteria bi men and women have to fall into to be classified? xx

Not unreasonable though I'd say that orgasm might not be strictly necessary. There's still some unfortunate people out there who don't cum from certain types of play or don't cum that easily regardless. Thankfully I'm not in the latter category myself but I do fit in the former.

Perhaps, would like to orgasm instead?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Thing is a single guy is shot down if he admits it and the same if he doesn't.

A lot of men are cock phobic so wont entertain a guy who might, heaven forbid, touch his dick so he keeps quiet. Then if he admits it, he is bombarded by almost ever gay or bi male for miles so as I say, the poor single guy can't win.

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Thing is a single guy is shot down if he admits it and the same if he doesn't.

I don't think it's that bad. I've not been bombarded.

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

"Thing is a single guy is shot down if he admits it and the same if he doesn't.

i'm not adeverse to playing with a couple who has a bi male as long as he respects that i have bounderies and doesn't atempt to over step them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is a single guy is shot down if he admits it and the same if he doesn't.

I don't get single male emails anymore but don't have the filter on either

I think they are somehow intimidated by the fact I have a MM couple profile up lol

I did used to get quite a lot beforehand though, mainly from horny one liner feckers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am orally Bi and pround if it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my 1st mail from a guy yesterday!

Just what on my profile suggests to a guy that I might be interested in meeting him??

If he has a brain, it's obviously not in his head!

Blocked and reported him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my 1st mail from a guy yesterday!

Just what on my profile suggests to a guy that I might be interested in meeting him??

If he has a brain, it's obviously not in his head!

Blocked and reported him!"

Probably because you say on your profile you are open to new things and trying new experiences ????!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You reported him? Not over reacting at all there then. Feeling a bit sensitive?

Here's what you do when you receive a message and you're not interested.

Step 1: Delete message.

Step 2: Block user if you wish to receive no further messages.

Step 3: Don't report people for having the audacity to drop you a line to say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my 1st mail from a guy yesterday!

Just what on my profile suggests to a guy that I might be interested in meeting him??

If he has a brain, it's obviously not in his head!

Blocked and reported him!"

Exactly why did you report him - ? For sending a message to you ?

A tad dramatic perhaps ? Over egging the pudding just a wee bit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bi-male, one half of a bi-couple but I don't call myself bi, but bi-curious. Why? I don't really fancy guys, I just like cocks so am I truly bi? I don't think so, but I don't think "curious" is accurate either. It has been said before, but I think the time has come to introduce a new "category" as a selectable option on the profile page. I would like to suggest "bi-flexible", or "bi-friendly".

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Exactly why did you report him - ? For sending a message to you ?

A tad dramatic perhaps ?"

I agree, to much ott

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Does it really matter if the guy is bi or straight? If he is willing to meet a straight couple, it stands to reason that for the particular meet he is gonna play straight and not bi. Why be prejudiced against him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it really matter if the guy is bi or straight? If he is willing to meet a straight couple, it stands to reason that for the particular meet he is gonna play straight and not bi. Why be prejudiced against him?"

but surely the couple also have a choice, just like the guy eh?.

we all have choices, just because a bi person chooses to 'play' straight doesn't mean others have to see hi,, they have a choice also, surely.

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

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We have however had it the other way around. Agreed to meet a orally bi guy. He made it clear he was orally bi and would want to give and receive during our 3-some. No problem it is something Katee and I had discussed, she wanted to see me do it and I was willing to give it a go.

Then he decided he didn't want to meet because although he may be bi which we accepted. He wasn't willing to see us unless he could wear his stockings and suspenders, not something we were interested in.

So he gave up what could have been a great evening for the sake of what he wanted to wear. Ah well there's always someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have however had it the other way around. Agreed to meet a orally bi guy. He made it clear he was orally bi and would want to give and receive during our 3-some. No problem it is something Katee and I had discussed, she wanted to see me do it and I was willing to give it a go.

So he gave up what could have been a great evening for the sake of what he wanted to wear. Ah well there's always someone else."

or you gave it up for the sake of something he wanted to wear.

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

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but surely the couple also have a choice, just like the guy eh?.

we all have choices, just because a bi person chooses to 'play' straight doesn't mean others have to see hi,, they have a choice also, surely."

You miss what I am saying I think. If a guy states on his profile he is bi then couples can make an informed choice. I think the original question was why do they hide the fact?

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

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"or you gave it up for the sake of something he wanted to wear.

Not really shagarooney. Everything was arranged up front. it was only when he sent a further message 3 days later saying that he would be wearing lingerie things fell apart. If he had stated that at first we would have said no straightaway. It's not something that turns either of us on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but surely the couple also have a choice, just like the guy eh?.

we all have choices, just because a bi person chooses to 'play' straight doesn't mean others have to see hi,, they have a choice also, surely.

You miss what I am saying I think. If a guy states on his profile he is bi then couples can make an informed choice. I think the original question was why do they hide the fact?"

I don't think I'm missing the point at all, my comment was aimed at why be prejudiced towards him, we all have choices, are we to accept people we find repulsive (looks wise) just because they seem nice people?. we all have choices it's as simple as that, we are all here to get what we want, doesn't mean we have to play with anyone we wouldn't feel comfortable with.

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