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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think so x

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Any relationshipship can be formed through anything. It just takes two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging? "

Take me on a date OP and we can talk about it!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve seen singles on here get together so it happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging?

Take me on a date OP and we can talk about it!! "

Good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did!

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

There's many of us wanting to find perfect partner and requests have been made for interest to be added and a forum category for it.

For now best chance to find people open to relationships is via profile information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what I’m looking for!

Lots of people have gotten together on here.

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By *ornycouple44Couple
over a year ago

St austell


"That’s what I’m looking for!

Lots of people have gotten together on here."

Definitely you be a hotwife in a swinging relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s what I’m looking for!

Lots of people have gotten together on here."

I'm on my way

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England


"That’s what I’m looking for!

Lots of people have gotten together on here."

The mind is baffled. Where have you been looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging? "

We did

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Definitely happens...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping to find one! Have included it on my profile.

Very difficult being honest about it on dating sites without attracting the wrong attention...

I think it should be an option to tick so it's something that can be searched and ticked in preferences.

Xxx

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Would love to find a relationship on here and would still consider swinging together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to have this too. Maybe it'll happen, maybe it won't, time will tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of 4 people who are now married and yes from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know of 4 people who are now married and yes from this site"

I know one longterm couple who met on here!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Yes, it does happen. I'm looking!

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Hi OP, hubby and I met at clubf, we met and married with in 8 months. We still thoroughly enjoy the lifestyle although there were teething problems as we adjusted to swinging as a couple. But we always chat on the way to a meet etc and go over rules and boundaries (which never change), this means no arguments or problems and we love exploring the lifestyle together

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By *ad Influence..Couple
over a year ago

Port Talbot

We met on here x

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

Didn’t meet in here but met at Swingers Club and we married last year

So yes you can meet through swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s what I’m looking for!

Lots of people have gotten together on here."

Really ?

Why have you blocked single guys then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see a reason why not. You’d have one thing in common at the very least.

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By *rs Pony n Mr PeachyCouple
over a year ago

Widnes

I met someone on a similar site in 2012 - we have now been married for over 5 years and life is fantastic xx

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging? "

I'm always open to the idea of a relationship coming from fab, I have had a couple of my ex's come from here and I'm going on a date with someone from here this week. I think if you're open and honest about what you want it can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone on a similar site in 2012 - we have now been married for over 5 years and life is fantastic xx"

You're giving the rest of us hope! X

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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

I’m looking so fingers crossed

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I would love to find a cuckold hotwife relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

You be lucky to even get a one word reply to a message on here you’re better off down the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging? "

I hope so too. Feel free to take me on a date too

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By *imits2pushMan
over a year ago

lichfield

I can’t speak for swing, but I exclusively date through the bdsm scene, it’s part of who i am, so can’t date vanilla.

Though it certainly does make finding that special girl harder when trying to date within a niche community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely possible

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

YES!

Miss Devil and The Beast is the couples's profile, that I am proud to be part of. Been together since Autumn 2018,

A FAB success story.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Still looking and waiting

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It happens, good luck and hope you find what you are looking for OP. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one last Yr.. 9m.. Met on fab

Lovely til he ghosted me.

Love long term lifestyle partner..

Full commitment.

So single.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes it is. We didn't find each other but we have heard of a few couples that met on here.

Anything is possible.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging? "

My husband and I started swinging on and off 23 years ago. Originally because I had fantasies about other women and of both myself and my husband being with them. Turned out he had similar ones and wanted to see me with other men as well.

We started our journey together and until recent years (mostly due to raising our children and making out family our number one priority) it was a mostly casual and rare thing...but we both loved it. We are just trying to get as much fun in now before we are too old (though we hope that is a few years away still).

All I'm saying here is neither of us where swingers when we met. We fell in love and formed a strong bind before it was even a thing. We've been open and honest from the start and whilst like every couple, we have had our ups and downs, we are stronger together and swinging is a bonus to our relationship, not a necessity. If one of us asked the other to

stop tomorrow, we would. No questions asked.

In our time on the scene we have seen a few couples form from the lifestyle and just as many split up. We've seen (on a 2 occasions) two married swinger couples split up so one of half of each can form a new relationship.

I dont want to tell you it's not possible because it is. It's just not that easy. People on here are not officially looking for romance (as far as I know) but it could happen. If anything you should build a solid relationship first with who ever you meet then introduce the idea...or at least tell them from the get go about your passions as a swinger.

If they're on board, great. If not, be prepared to give it all up if you care for them enough. If you don't care enough, best to end it there, move on and keep looking.

When it comes to love, make sure your partner is the most important thing, not swinging.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging?

My husband and I started swinging on and off 23 years ago. Originally because I had fantasies about other women and of both myself and my husband being with them. Turned out he had similar ones and wanted to see me with other men as well.

We started our journey together and until recent years (mostly due to raising our children and making out family our number one priority) it was a mostly casual and rare thing...but we both loved it. We are just trying to get as much fun in now before we are too old (though we hope that is a few years away still).

All I'm saying here is neither of us where swingers when we met. We fell in love and formed a strong bind before it was even a thing. We've been open and honest from the start and whilst like every couple, we have had our ups and downs, we are stronger together and swinging is a bonus to our relationship, not a necessity. If one of us asked the other to

stop tomorrow, we would. No questions asked.

In our time on the scene we have seen a few couples form from the lifestyle and just as many split up. We've seen (on a 2 occasions) two married swinger couples split up so one of half of each can form a new relationship.

I dont want to tell you it's not possible because it is. It's just not that easy. People on here are not officially looking for romance (as far as I know) but it could happen. If anything you should build a solid relationship first with who ever you meet then introduce the idea...or at least tell them from the get go about your passions as a swinger.

If they're on board, great. If not, be prepared to give it all up if you care for them enough. If you don't care enough, best to end it there, move on and keep looking.

When it comes to love, make sure your partner is the most important thing, not swinging.

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It's important to be on similar wavelengths with a partner

And couples who you refer to ending relationships to make a new have had a monogamous attitude as if they can't have to meaningful relationships at the same time. Yet swinging is a form of polyamory in itself. If people can get past the ideas drilled into us from young children that there's only 1 love and can only be 1 at a time people wouldn't feel the need to breakdown relationships because they think they love someone else more. No love is the same each person you love is unique so why try to weigh up how much you love a person compared to another.

What I'm looking for is difficult to find I probably never will find someone who is on my wavelength or close to it with mutual attraction.

Relationships where you compromise a significant part of yourself will never last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actively looking trying to find that mutual attraction to have a swinging relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my partner right here on the forums.

We are moving in together In October. So yes I'd say you definitely form relationships on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t speak for swing, but I exclusively date through the bdsm scene, it’s part of who i am, so can’t date vanilla.

Though it certainly does make finding that special girl harder when trying to date within a niche community."

Have you got a like-minded, single, older brother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had one last Yr.. 9m.. Met on fab

Lovely til he ghosted me.

Love long term lifestyle partner..

Full commitment.

So single. "

Likewise in 2018 but for 8 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely something I'm interested in.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Would be brilliant doubt it will happen. Keep dreaming

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"It's important to be on similar wavelengths with a partner

And couples who you refer to ending relationships to make a new have had a monogamous attitude as if they can't have to meaningful relationships at the same time. Yet swinging is a form of polyamory in itself. If people can get past the ideas drilled into us from young children that there's only 1 love and can only be 1 at a time people wouldn't feel the need to breakdown relationships because they think they love someone else more. No love is the same each person you love is unique so why try to weigh up how much you love a person compared to another.

What I'm looking for is difficult to find I probably never will find someone who is on my wavelength or close to it with mutual attraction.

Relationships where you compromise a significant part of yourself will never last.

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I'm going to let you into on of our secrets.

We actually would have a polyamorous relationship with the right person or persons. Its something we discussed long ago as we never believed you can only love one person. Yaaay for not caring all that much about what society thinks is right or wrong I guess. After all, if you can love your family, friends or pets it is completely possible to be in love with more than one person.

Love is...well..love. You can't quantify it. Emotions are not easy and you are 100% right. No love is the same. My husband (bless him) still breaks down from the loss of our dog a few years ago. He fell in love with a dog at first sight. I loved her and miss her to but..he loved that dog to the point he would have taken a bullet for her (though I came first if needed be lol). Point is, love is complicated (and obviously not always sexual in this scenario). We can love anyone or anything in the right situation and we think that's beautiful and not something to avoid. It's something to embrace and cherish and if it is between two, three or four consenting adults it has bugger all to do with anyone else.

But maybe we are a little hippy and love in for some peoples tastes so we will keep it physical I guess as it never actually happened to us (and probably never will) but we would not have shy'd away from it had it happened.

As for what you are looking for, I hope you find the love and freedom you need. We did, we just did not know it all those years ago so you could too. Plus you should have your pick of people. You're gorgeous

Just saying.

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By *linkyMalinkyWoman
over a year ago

South Somerset

It would be nice but realistically I don’t know if I could handle someone I loved fucking other people.

But I don’t want to stop the lifestyle. It’s a problem

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"It's important to be on similar wavelengths with a partner

And couples who you refer to ending relationships to make a new have had a monogamous attitude as if they can't have to meaningful relationships at the same time. Yet swinging is a form of polyamory in itself. If people can get past the ideas drilled into us from young children that there's only 1 love and can only be 1 at a time people wouldn't feel the need to breakdown relationships because they think they love someone else more. No love is the same each person you love is unique so why try to weigh up how much you love a person compared to another.

What I'm looking for is difficult to find I probably never will find someone who is on my wavelength or close to it with mutual attraction.

Relationships where you compromise a significant part of yourself will never last.

I'm going to let you into on of our secrets.

We actually would have a polyamorous relationship with the right person or persons. Its something we discussed long ago as we never believed you can only love one person. Yaaay for not caring all that much about what society thinks is right or wrong I guess. After all, if you can love your family, friends or pets it is completely possible to be in love with more than one person.

Love is...well..love. You can't quantify it. Emotions are not easy and you are 100% right. No love is the same. My husband (bless him) still breaks down from the loss of our dog a few years ago. He fell in love with a dog at first sight. I loved her and miss her to but..he loved that dog to the point he would have taken a bullet for her (though I came first if needed be lol). Point is, love is complicated (and obviously not always sexual in this scenario). We can love anyone or anything in the right situation and we think that's beautiful and not something to avoid. It's something to embrace and cherish and if it is between two, three or four consenting adults it has bugger all to do with anyone else.

But maybe we are a little hippy and love in for some peoples tastes so we will keep it physical I guess as it never actually happened to us (and probably never will) but we would not have shy'd away from it had it happened.

As for what you are looking for, I hope you find the love and freedom you need. We did, we just did not know it all those years ago so you could too. Plus you should have your pick of people. You're gorgeous

Just saying."

Thank you it's lovely of you to say and much appreciated

I have found people I could have a relationship with but wasn't what they wanted mainly they don't want a relationship or my nature puts them off.

I've lived in monogamous relationships I was miserable. I carried on for their sake I was making them happy but forsaking my own happiness.

Add in complications of the whole of me as a person brings it's difficult to find the match and I don't think it's fair on anyone if I accepted someone for the sake of not being alone. I need to accept them and they need to accept me I don't want someone to compromise themself just so I'm happy.

It doesn't help if personalities clash it's a no go from that start no matter how interested a person is in having a relationship.

I think your relationship is built on strong foundation you're the perfect people for each other. My motto is there's no such thing as a perfect person, but there is such a thing as perfect for you.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging? "

Yes x

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


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Thank you it's lovely of you to say and much appreciated

I have found people I could have a relationship with but wasn't what they wanted mainly they don't want a relationship or my nature puts them off.

I've lived in monogamous relationships I was miserable. I carried on for their sake I was making them happy but forsaking my own happiness.

Add in complications of the whole of me as a person brings it's difficult to find the match and I don't think it's fair on anyone if I accepted someone for the sake of not being alone. I need to accept them and they need to accept me I don't want someone to compromise themself just so I'm happy.

It doesn't help if personalities clash it's a no go from that start no matter how interested a person is in having a relationship.

I think your relationship is built on strong foundation you're the perfect people for each other. My motto is there's no such thing as a perfect person, but there is such a thing as perfect for you. "

Nothing to appreciate. Honesty is the best policy and not being true to ourselves or others is when we hurt ourselves as much as those we care for. If you cant be happy in yourself, how can you make others happy?

Obviously no, I do not know you as a person but I'm already seeing a smart, thoughtful and insightful individual. For a start, you can write more than one line comments (no offence anyone). Given the usual "fancy a shag" low effort nonsense on here, that actually stands out. That is special in its own right.

Maybe one day our paths will cross in a club somewhere and we can have a chat. You actually seem special and thoughtful and I like that. An honest heart on your sleeve is rare but at least you seem to embrace it. I wish there was more people like that out in the world. Might be a better place.

Glad I'm not the only open minded new age babe on here as well (or whatever label people think applies). Nothing wrong with being happy and loving people.

As for my husband and I, we are perfect for each other and us. All relationships take work but 98% paradise is still paradise (Neither of us believe any other relationship is 100% perfect because we are not and we got damn close).

Also..who does not want a guy who actively eggs them on to have sex with Johnny Depp look a likes? My husband did that...god I love him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connecting with someone can happen anywhere, so why not here x

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"

Thank you it's lovely of you to say and much appreciated

I have found people I could have a relationship with but wasn't what they wanted mainly they don't want a relationship or my nature puts them off.

I've lived in monogamous relationships I was miserable. I carried on for their sake I was making them happy but forsaking my own happiness.

Add in complications of the whole of me as a person brings it's difficult to find the match and I don't think it's fair on anyone if I accepted someone for the sake of not being alone. I need to accept them and they need to accept me I don't want someone to compromise themself just so I'm happy.

It doesn't help if personalities clash it's a no go from that start no matter how interested a person is in having a relationship.

I think your relationship is built on strong foundation you're the perfect people for each other. My motto is there's no such thing as a perfect person, but there is such a thing as perfect for you.

Nothing to appreciate. Honesty is the best policy and not being true to ourselves or others is when we hurt ourselves as much as those we care for. If you cant be happy in yourself, how can you make others happy?

Obviously no, I do not know you as a person but I'm already seeing a smart, thoughtful and insightful individual. For a start, you can write more than one line comments (no offence anyone). Given the usual "fancy a shag" low effort nonsense on here, that actually stands out. That is special in its own right.

Maybe one day our paths will cross in a club somewhere and we can have a chat. You actually seem special and thoughtful and I like that. An honest heart on your sleeve is rare but at least you seem to embrace it. I wish there was more people like that out in the world. Might be a better place.

Glad I'm not the only open minded new age babe on here as well (or whatever label people think applies). Nothing wrong with being happy and loving people.

As for my husband and I, we are perfect for each other and us. All relationships take work but 98% paradise is still paradise (Neither of us believe any other relationship is 100% perfect because we are not and we got damn close).

Also..who does not want a guy who actively eggs them on to have sex with Johnny Depp look a likes? My husband did that...god I love him!

"

I can't help but feel appreciation for your words. It's rare to be acknowledged as a person, I also agree I'm special but it's the special case kind of special that probably requires a stint in the asylum while wearing sequined straitjacket in a purple padded room. I'm honest to the point of being brutally honest but it's my understanding that in order to make a decision it requires to be based on all the information. Can't have an informed choice without honesty, everything we do is about choices

I am who I am flaws and all and to find someone who loves me despite my flaws and accepts me and the complexities of mutual feeling which for me isn't as hard to do, it's the needle in the haystack.

I'd enjoy meeting you both a chance to chat, it's nice to know like minded people be it platonic or more. I rarely take trips to any clubs at the moment given financial restrictions. Will improve in the coming months so I wouldn't say never.

I agree about paradise, as everyone knows paradise has it storms, it's how you weather the storms out.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


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I can't help but feel appreciation for your words. It's rare to be acknowledged as a person, I also agree I'm special but it's the special case kind of special that probably requires a stint in the asylum while wearing sequined straitjacket in a purple padded room. I'm honest to the point of being brutally honest but it's my understanding that in order to make a decision it requires to be based on all the information. Can't have an informed choice without honesty, everything we do is about choices

I am who I am flaws and all and to find someone who loves me despite my flaws and accepts me and the complexities of mutual feeling which for me isn't as hard to do, it's the needle in the haystack.

I'd enjoy meeting you both a chance to chat, it's nice to know like minded people be it platonic or more. I rarely take trips to any clubs at the moment given financial restrictions. Will improve in the coming months so I wouldn't say never.

I agree about paradise, as everyone knows paradise has it storms, it's how you weather the storms out.

"

It's lovely you feel anything from my words. I'm only talking how I see fit. You're a person and should be treated as such. I'd like to hope I treat everyone the same but thank you. Your words are kind as well.

As for you, special kind of special is still special. Nothing to fear by that.Everyone needs a stint in a padded room in my opinion. Trust me, I've been there. I think everyone has. They just don't all admit it. Honest is good as well. I wish more people where.

As for choices and information... spend any time with my husband and you'll see what overthinking is. I'm glad he's who he is. I love the fact he's the most open book and maybe a bit neurotic at times.. I think that's really important in the world. Lies are not pleasant. The truth might not always be nice either but better to pull certain band aids off sooner rather than later in my opinion.

I hope we do bump into you at some point as well. You come across as sweet, honest and open. Not always what you get on here so it's nice when you see it. Should we ever see you (and who knows) I will most certainly come and say hello.

If you want to chat again, please feel free to message (though be warned, I love to chat). If not, I truly hope you find the happiness you desire and wish you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So hope for me still

Thanks for the replies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is, you just find a couple who are open to the idea of poly relationships.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

We met through swinging and have been very happily married for 6yrs now. We know a lot of couples who have done the same

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is, you just find a couple who are open to the idea of poly relationships. "

Now that's a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking for my woman so hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would be a perfect relationship, no need to breach the topic, and you know they're gunna be fire in bed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would be a perfect relationship, no need to breach the topic, and you know they're gunna be fire in bed!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met through swinging and have been very happily married for 6yrs now. We know a lot of couples who have done the same

Mrs x"

There is hope for us all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through swinging, this is our 4th year together too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met through swinging and have been very happily married for 6yrs now. We know a lot of couples who have done the same

Mrs x

There is hope for us all! "

Feel free to be part of our poly constellation

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I met my partner right here on the forums.

We are moving in together In October. So yes I'd say you definitely form relationships on here. "

Mines just moved in too, good luck to you both. Xx

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford


"That’s what I’m looking for!

Lots of people have gotten together on here."

I deffo love a relationship with you as long as you don't mind me nicking your lingerie now and again x

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm pretty sure that people have got together on a permanent basis on here... I'm not going to hold my breath for me personally though.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Of course. Anywhere is a place to find a relationship. Just don’t work too hard to find it. See how things go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course. Anywhere is a place to find a relationship. Just don’t work too hard to find it. See how things go."

I've got to say you are simply gorgeous!

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It is entirely possible to find a relationship through swinging, I met my other half through this site and site and lifestyle almost seven years ago and been together ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a recent break up its made me realise I want to find someone in the lifestyle.... Is it possible to find a relationship from swinging?

My husband and I started swinging on and off 23 years ago. Originally because I had fantasies about other women and of both myself and my husband being with them. Turned out he had similar ones and wanted to see me with other men as well.

We started our journey together and until recent years (mostly due to raising our children and making out family our number one priority) it was a mostly casual and rare thing...but we both loved it. We are just trying to get as much fun in now before we are too old (though we hope that is a few years away still).

All I'm saying here is neither of us where swingers when we met. We fell in love and formed a strong bind before it was even a thing. We've been open and honest from the start and whilst like every couple, we have had our ups and downs, we are stronger together and swinging is a bonus to our relationship, not a necessity. If one of us asked the other to

stop tomorrow, we would. No questions asked.

In our time on the scene we have seen a few couples form from the lifestyle and just as many split up. We've seen (on a 2 occasions) two married swinger couples split up so one of half of each can form a new relationship.

I dont want to tell you it's not possible because it is. It's just not that easy. People on here are not officially looking for romance (as far as I know) but it could happen. If anything you should build a solid relationship first with who ever you meet then introduce the idea...or at least tell them from the get go about your passions as a swinger.

If they're on board, great. If not, be prepared to give it all up if you care for them enough. If you don't care enough, best to end it there, move on and keep looking.

When it comes to love, make sure your partner is the most important thing, not swinging.

"

Couldn’t agree with this post more. We had been together in an exclusive relationship for 8 years before this was discussed. Have enjoyed being on the scene now for 2.5 years lots of fun and laughter along the way. And we are so secure in our relationship but I do feel that’s because we had time with just the two of us to build a bond and trust.

It’s probably not impossible to meet someone on here but like any relationship openness and communication is key xx

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

no chance i had one did not lost long

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Well, I am looking. If the right person came along I would go for it....!!

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

This is what i am looking for, ideally a vixen who wants me to be their stag.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral


"That’s what I’m looking for!

Lots of people have gotten together on here."

I would to message you but you have blocked single males x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a lady on fab that's looking for the same thing as me. I also know a couple that met on fab and are getting married in August. We have all become great friends ..I know a few people that have met on fab and are now in solid strong relationships. So yes OP It is possible to meet someone on fab

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate

I have had two long term relationships over a period of 10years from Fab and am still hoping for another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met Inked on here. I was absolutely determined not to fall for anyone and just have fun. Then just three months into joining I met Inked, and that was that. Fell for him hook, line and sinker. That was 27 months ago, and I still get butterflies at the thought of him x

Viv x

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

I would like an open or cuck relationship with a lady x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes it's possible

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"We did! "

So did we x storm x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We did. Now very happily married

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

We met in the chatrooms 7 years ago, it’s our 5th wedding anniversary in May!

You can meet a life partner just about anywhere

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