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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive always been what i thought was straight but i also have an interest in joining in with a bi couple, playing with both and tgirls. Does this necessarily mean im bi and does it put females off meeting bi guys as im interested in all 3?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound bisexual to me not straight. Nothing wrong with it, embrace it and stay honest, women will respect you more for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have an interest then you are curious. Once you start playing and enjoying it, you'll be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably means you are bi curious. Some women and couples will be put off because of your bi interests, but if you’re honest about your desires you’ll find people who are compatible with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have an interest then you are curious. Once you start playing and enjoying it, you'll be bi."

I actually think i will enjoy it, thats why i didnt say curious.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich


"If you have an interest then you are curious. Once you start playing and enjoying it, you'll be bi."

Well said.

And o gosh your pretty x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just go for it. I was straight and became bi. Nothing wrong with it. You’ll be surprised at how many ladies prefer bi men to straight men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have an interest then you are curious. Once you start playing and enjoying it, you'll be bi.

Well said.

And o gosh your pretty x "

Thanks

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Go for it, and yes some be put off but honesty is always the best policy. We all have choices and preferences just respect others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess i just have to wait for that opportunity to arise

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You have to decide for yourself, asking for guidance on here may confuse you as people will give conflicting advice.

Once you change your status from straight to bi a number of women will not be interested and some will block you as they believe you maybe a higher risk with sti's.

Some will also think you are not the 'masculinity fantasy' that they seek out..

On the other hand some will be attracted to a ' 21st century man ' who explores all possibilities and is perhaps a little more honest with themselves.

When we make changes on here, we win some and we lose some. For some the issue is very important and for others it's not such a big deal.Over to you and I hope you find the right path for your journey...Whatever makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to decide for yourself, asking for guidance on here may confuse you as people will give conflicting advice.

Once you change your status from straight to bi a number of women will not be interested and some will block you as they believe you maybe a higher risk with sti's.

Some will also think you are not the 'masculinity fantasy' that they seek out..

On the other hand some will be attracted to a ' 21st century man ' who explores all possibilities and is perhaps a little more honest with themselves.

When we make changes on here, we win some and we lose some. For some the issue is very important and for others it's not such a big deal.Over to you and I hope you find the right path for your journey...Whatever makes you happy."

Thanks

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"Ive always been what i thought was straight but i also have an interest in joining in with a bi couple, playing with both and tgirls. Does this necessarily mean im bi and does it put females off meeting bi guys as im interested in all 3?"

Meet a guy for fun and find out first hand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive always been what i thought was straight but i also have an interest in joining in with a bi couple, playing with both and tgirls. Does this necessarily mean im bi and does it put females off meeting bi guys as im interested in all 3?

Meet a guy for fun and find out first hand"

That's the confusing part, i wouldn't really say i was into playing with guys alone or one on one,just tgirls and couples.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"Ive always been what i thought was straight but i also have an interest in joining in with a bi couple, playing with both and tgirls. Does this necessarily mean im bi and does it put females off meeting bi guys as im interested in all 3?

Meet a guy for fun and find out first hand

That's the confusing part, i wouldn't really say i was into playing with guys alone or one on one,just tgirls and couples."

Got to try it to know. I wasn’t that convinced I’d like it till I tried

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By *ondscotMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I thought I was straight for most my life. Then I was fortunate enough to meet a couple through a more bdsm avenue that presented me with some choices. I went down the rabbit hole and I’m so glad I did. So far, I have only played with bi couples, but my confidence is building all the tine. Try not to feel boxed in by labels. Go with your instincts, only do what you feel right about and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am bi and I am not embarrassed about it.

But I still get called sick on here because of it. But that's life

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard


"You have to decide for yourself, asking for guidance on here may confuse you as people will give conflicting advice.

Once you change your status from straight to bi a number of women will not be interested and some will block you as they believe you maybe a higher risk with sti's.

Some will also think you are not the 'masculinity fantasy' that they seek out..

On the other hand some will be attracted to a ' 21st century man ' who explores all possibilities and is perhaps a little more honest with themselves.

When we make changes on here, we win some and we lose some. For some the issue is very important and for others it's not such a big deal.Over to you and I hope you find the right path for your journey...Whatever makes you happy.

Thanks"

Agree with this entirely!

I too do not find men per se attractive but fellow CD or Trans women I do find attractive. It is confused further by the fact that you will get plenty of attention of "straight" male profiles. Tread with care and find out what's best for you.

Good luck xx

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Ive always been what i thought was straight but i also have an interest in joining in with a bi couple, playing with both and tgirls. Does this necessarily mean im bi and does it put females off meeting bi guys as im interested in all 3?"

I enjoy a bi mmf, though I am yet to experience it fully. There are a few threads about this if you want to read them. Plenty of interest out there for bi mmf or more

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Ive always been what i thought was straight but i also have an interest in joining in with a bi couple, playing with both and tgirls. Does this necessarily mean im bi and does it put females off meeting bi guys as im interested in all 3?"

You're bi curious for now. Bi if you start doing it repeatedly.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"Ive always been what i thought was straight but i also have an interest in joining in with a bi couple, playing with both and tgirls. Does this necessarily mean im bi and does it put females off meeting bi guys as im interested in all 3?

I enjoy a bi mmf, though I am yet to experience it fully. There are a few threads about this if you want to read them. Plenty of interest out there for bi mmf or more "

Best fun ever

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By *-Rated CoupleCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I was the same. I wanted to be straight because it was "normal" but I kept having urges towards playing with cocks. I've no real attraction towards men, just the D Lables are messy, so just do you and enjoy it!

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By *xNeversayneverxxMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth

I'm in the same position been what people class as straight all my life but always fantasised about a bi threesome yet to do it yet so any help??what to do etc. think I'm just greedy lol

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley


"Ive always been what i thought was straight but i also have an interest in joining in with a bi couple, playing with both and tgirls. Does this necessarily mean im bi and does it put females off meeting bi guys as im interested in all 3?"

Forget the label and enjoy the life sometimes I will play with the guy in a mfm meet sometimes not I don't fancy guys and wouldn't meet a guy on his own but as part of a couple it's great.

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By *oopsnotagainMan
over a year ago

Necastle


"I was the same. I wanted to be straight because it was "normal" but I kept having urges towards playing with cocks. I've no real attraction towards men, just the D Lables are messy, so just do you and enjoy it! "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does make me chuckle when men on here say they have no attraction to other men, only the penis, which is actually the epitome of a man. Definitely not straight, even if you dont fancy the rest of the male form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does make me chuckle when men on here say they have no attraction to other men, only the penis, which is actually the epitome of a man. Definitely not straight, even if you dont fancy the rest of the male form "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of being pigeon holed......

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I thought I was BI for many years, turns out I am just a perv.

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I think that there is a certain amount of the bi strait in everyone, I think I've been bi all my life, but until last year never really explored that side. Been married 3 times, and hurt 3 times, so thought why not try with men, haven't looked back.

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I think that there is a certain amount of the bi strait in everyone, I think I've been bi all my life, but until last year never really explored that side. Been married 3 times, and hurt 3 times, so thought why not try with men, haven't looked back.

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