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Is the tradition Swinger becoming a thing of the past?

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By *hiteMagicMike OP   Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

I personally think the club or party side better yet, the more publicly confident swinger, THAT DOES go to clubs and private party’s, the out and about socialite Swinger is becoming a thing of the past. I’d say late 30’s and under favour the riskier impromptu, and at the drop of a hat kinda meet in a dark and dodgy alleyway or dogging in some secluded nature reserve miles out in the country. So so sooo dangerous! Honestly now. If yr reading this.... just think about that time you looked back on the night before and thought..... shit the bed, I shouldn’t of done that... I’ve done it... it’s like everyone keeps the kinky side of them secret, embarrassed even, then because of this, end up sneaking out and not telling anyone that there off to meet a stranger for NSA NQA sex. Nobody wants to know anything about who they rendezvous with in order to keep the kink a secret. Seems cold and dark and seedy. The swinging scene I used to know and was introduced in too couldn’t have been any further from the latter and this saddens me. Common people. Shake your heads in a prickly bush and sort yr self out! Be honest. Be truthful about what you know your comfortable with and don’t over sell yr self. That randomer you’ve arranged to meet could have taken you literally when u said you like the idea of being spit roasted. Extinguisher at the ready

xx I hope this all makes sense and has an effect on at least one individual.

This is my first real post in a forum so please go easy on me.

Also please share your thoughts and - good / bad / indifferent / as if I actually did that - life story’s and experiences.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Who's shit the bed?

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By *hiteMagicMike OP   Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Just in case it’s not meant as a funny..... it’s an expression

FYI lol.

• I got Shit faced last night.

• A bird in the hand is worth more than two in a bush.

And so on. Man I’m board!!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Ok

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Just in case it’s not meant as a funny..... it’s an expression

FYI lol.

• I got Shit faced last night.

• A bird in the hand is worth more than two in a bush.

And so on. Man I’m board!!"

* bored

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By *hiteMagicMike OP   Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Lol. Fukin useless at spelling my sweet. Glad u got me back xxxX I came across as a bit of a nob I think. Wasn’t intentional xx

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't think swingers are a thing of the past. However, I do think think that fab is not really a swinger's site any more. Lots of people just treat it like a sex-at-the-drop-of-a-hat site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging can be sex at the drop of a hat swinging can be whatever anybody wants it too be .... 27 years swinging and very rare we have socials very rare we go to a club but we still swing

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"I personally think the club or party side better yet, the more publicly confident swinger, THAT DOES go to clubs and private party’s, the out and about socialite Swinger is becoming a thing of the past. I’d say late 30’s and under favour the riskier impromptu, and at the drop of a hat kinda meet in a dark and dodgy alleyway or dogging in some secluded nature reserve miles out in the country. So so sooo dangerous! Honestly now. If yr reading this.... just think about that time you looked back on the night before and thought..... shit the bed, I shouldn’t of done that... I’ve done it... it’s like everyone keeps the kinky side of them secret, embarrassed even, then because of this, end up sneaking out and not telling anyone that there off to meet a stranger for NSA NQA sex. Nobody wants to know anything about who they rendezvous with in order to keep the kink a secret. Seems cold and dark and seedy. The swinging scene I used to know and was introduced in too couldn’t have been any further from the latter and this saddens me. Common people. Shake your heads in a prickly bush and sort yr self out! Be honest. Be truthful about what you know your comfortable with and don’t over sell yr self. That randomer you’ve arranged to meet could have taken you literally when u said you like the idea of being spit roasted. Extinguisher at the ready

xx I hope this all makes sense and has an effect on at least one individual.

This is my first real post in a forum so please go easy on me.

Also please share your thoughts and - good / bad / indifferent / as if I actually did that - life story’s and experiences. "

I completely agree

It wasn't too long ago the tv/ts who was murdered meeting a couple through fab.

I remember nearly 3 years ago was meant meet a guy socially at a local pub but before he got to me hes asking to go for a drive in his van, then he's telling me all the stuff that's going to happen in his van. I told him turn around go home a social is a social and I wasn't getting in his van. He wasn't happy at all but tough shit.

Guys expect a lot of things on there

I was gullible giving people the benefit of the doubt. Now I don't trust anyone. I always tried see best in people, have a bit of faith in them. Well on here it's dangerous lesson to learn and that took too many lessons to learn it.

I rarely ever meet now even my last was a social with a guy I met socially 2.5 years ago. I just don't trust anyone.

If people dont want to earn trust I'm not going waste my time or risk my safety they need to prove their worth for the effort and anxiety I have to go through.

If it weren't for the fact I love sex, lots of it and being polygamous I wouldn't be here. Now I just need to find the right people.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Everyone has there own interpretation of swinging. We have only ever met in clubs and that was by chance if we clicked and played at that moment with them. We were there for the experience and not to make long term friends. It worked for us, and felt the safest way. Would never have invited a man to our home, with kids living there all be it grown up late teens. Wife going quiet on the scene now so not a thing to worry about. We all do what we feel works for us on here.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Everyone has there own interpretation of swinging. We have only ever met in clubs and that was by chance if we clicked and played at that moment with them. We were there for the experience and not to make long term friends. It worked for us, and felt the safest way. Would never have invited a man to our home, with kids living there all be it grown up late teens. Wife going quiet on the scene now so not a thing to worry about. We all do what we feel works for us on here.

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By *hiteMagicMike OP   Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"I personally think the club or party side better yet, the more publicly confident swinger, THAT DOES go to clubs and private party’s, the out and about socialite Swinger is becoming a thing of the past. I’d say late 30’s and under favour the riskier impromptu, and at the drop of a hat kinda meet in a dark and dodgy alleyway or dogging in some secluded nature reserve miles out in the country. So so sooo dangerous! Honestly now. If yr reading this.... just think about that time you looked back on the night before and thought..... shit the bed, I shouldn’t of done that... I’ve done it... it’s like everyone keeps the kinky side of them secret, embarrassed even, then because of this, end up sneaking out and not telling anyone that there off to meet a stranger for NSA NQA sex. Nobody wants to know anything about who they rendezvous with in order to keep the kink a secret. Seems cold and dark and seedy. The swinging scene I used to know and was introduced in too couldn’t have been any further from the latter and this saddens me. Common people. Shake your heads in a prickly bush and sort yr self out! Be honest. Be truthful about what you know your comfortable with and don’t over sell yr self. That randomer you’ve arranged to meet could have taken you literally when u said you like the idea of being spit roasted. Extinguisher at the ready

xx I hope this all makes sense and has an effect on at least one individual.

This is my first real post in a forum so please go easy on me.

Also please share your thoughts and - good / bad / indifferent / as if I actually did that - life story’s and experiences.

I completely agree

It wasn't too long ago the tv/ts who was murdered meeting a couple through fab.

I remember nearly 3 years ago was meant meet a guy socially at a local pub but before he got to me hes asking to go for a drive in his van, then he's telling me all the stuff that's going to happen in his van. I told him turn around go home a social is a social and I wasn't getting in his van. He wasn't happy at all but tough shit.

Guys expect a lot of things on there

I was gullible giving people the benefit of the doubt. Now I don't trust anyone. I always tried see best in people, have a bit of faith in them. Well on here it's dangerous lesson to learn and that took too many lessons to learn it.

I rarely ever meet now even my last was a social with a guy I met socially 2.5 years ago. I just don't trust anyone.

If people dont want to earn trust I'm not going waste my time or risk my safety they need to prove their worth for the effort and anxiety I have to go through.

If it weren't for the fact I love sex, lots of it and being polygamous I wouldn't be here. Now I just need to find the right people."
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This is the kinda response I was after it’s like when some (I’d say vast majority) of members are shifty in one way or another but that’s the nature of the beast isn’t it. I think meeting people this way for casual sex hookups is a lot like repetitive porn use. Desensitised and often over expecting because the actor / actress make it look effortless—— that’s after all the injections and performance supplements... I hope trusting people gets easier. We forget that at the time of the disaster or what ever it is.... it’s these things that are the most valuable but not a physical thing we have. Like the Phoenix from the ashes of devastation .. you can’t live life never allowing yourself to take a risk! We need risks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I always say the same rules about meeting strangers in secluded places should apply to adults as much as to kids, including if you've been chatting to them for some time on the internet and they've been flattering you and bigging themselves up.

The risks some people take leave me open mouthed at times.

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