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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so guys im 20 and a single male and looking for a couple to experiment with but most people reply with me being too young is this the case lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no if,you are hot nik would fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not to young. Attitude is more important. We come across 50 year old guys on here with childish attitudes. You wont be everyones cup of tea, but stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not to young. Attitude is more important. We come across 50 year old guys on here with childish attitudes. You wont be everyones cup of tea, but stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers guys

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"so guys im 20 and a single male and looking for a couple to experiment with but most people reply with me being too young is this the case lol "

see.. again age is an easy excuse... have you done the best to "sell yourself" so to speak....

think of it like this... you have written more words about yourself in your opening post here, than you bothered to write in your profile...

an observation so to speak....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"so guys im 20 and a single male and looking for a couple to experiment with but most people reply with me being too young is this the case lol

see.. again age is an easy excuse... have you done the best to "sell yourself" so to speak....

think of it like this... you have written more words about yourself in your opening post here, than you bothered to write in your profile...

an observation so to speak...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it wrong for me to fuck a 20yr old woman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the help guys ur right i will work on the profile and no mate not if shes up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i have met a couple of 20 year olds, and i am 50, very old.

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Not too young for gee if you ever travel to glasgow nd u fit what shes looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no mate, age is a number, attitude and personality is more important

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"no mate, age is a number, attitude and personality is more important"

Definetly agree with this...

There's some great advice on sites like this. Read it and decide who you think makes sense and has the right attitude... That'll help show you the way. Then get out there and show people you may be young but you have all the things mentioned above...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You're on the right track - improve your profile, add a variety of photos, so that people can tell how sexually attracted they are to you etc.

Get to know others, even if it's not for sex - getting to know others, through who you know, is a good thing, and personal recommendations go a long way.

Overall, you'll get out of it, largely based on what you put into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so guys im 20 and a single male and looking for a couple to experiment with but most people reply with me being too young is this the case lol

see.. again age is an easy excuse... have you done the best to "sell yourself" so to speak....

think of it like this... you have written more words about yourself in your opening post here, than you bothered to write in your profile...

an observation so to speak...."

erm, i think you will find the op has said he has had REPLIES sayin he is too young!! In what way is that an excuse!! And an excuse of WHAT exactly!

Just an observation of an observation!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You're absolutely not too young to swing, it's just that you've been not the right person for those who've turned you down so far. Good luck!!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

i was about 24 / 25 when i first actively joined the scene a few people thought i was to young...tbh i have had normal relationships in the time from now till then and had swinging experiences as well.....

i would say looking back i was a bit young but it is was it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that really it all comes down to your attitude and how you present yourself. There's a lot of single guys on here, so you have to stand out from the rest. You need to show your personality and your maturity through what you write, in most cases your profile text is more important than what you put in a message. Obviously some people simply have a preference for a certain age range, but overall it all comes down to how you present yourself as people have said, there's a lot of older guys that have the attitude of a 18 year old, and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong for me to fuck a 20yr old woman? "

YES! ...now if you'd said 47

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so guys im 20 and a single male and looking for a couple to experiment with but most people reply with me being too young is this the case lol "

If people reply with the answer that you're too young, you are clearly messaging people whose age criteria you don't meet...other than updating your own profile, our only advice to you is to read read and read profile again before messaging-it may not always have the desired outcome, but it will surely increase your chances...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong for me to fuck a 20yr old woman? "

deffo not...im 24 and chris is 46...similar age diff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your only as young as you feel like!

And i feel like a 21yr old! Any takers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your only as young as you feel like!

And i feel like a 21yr old! Any takers? "

does that make me 46 then lol x

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

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I have not been on this site long but from what i see 20 is not too young. 22 myself and i have had a fair few older couples message me. I even had some women who was like 65..

This might sound really shallow but i think it is more to do with how good looking you are rather than age. Obviously people say personality but how much are you actually gonna get to know each other? I think most people have the social skills to atleast come across half decent lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"...This might sound really shallow but i think it is more to do with how good looking you are rather than age. Obviously people say personality but how much are you actually gonna get to know each other? I think most people have the social skills to atleast come across half decent lol"

You'd be totally amazed then how many people fail on that last count Dan. There are tons of people who fail on the social skills test, whether it's how they communicate on their first message, 'greetings' at clubs, or just meeting/talking in general. There are some major leaps forward that many could do with taking in that area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your only as young as you feel like!

And i feel like a 21yr old! Any takers?

does that make me 46 then lol x"

lol, never thought o it like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy being being young isn't a problem for us,Kas likes them,but it does depnd how you/they come over:if 1st line is something like"fancy a shag" it tends to be a turn off lol

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

????


"...This might sound really shallow but i think it is more to do with how good looking you are rather than age. Obviously people say personality but how much are you actually gonna get to know each other? I think most people have the social skills to atleast come across half decent lol

You'd be totally amazed then how many people fail on that last count Dan. There are tons of people who fail on the social skills test, whether it's how they communicate on their first message, 'greetings' at clubs, or just meeting/talking in general. There are some major leaps forward that many could do with taking in that area."

I see what you mean. Not trying to be a billy big bollocks but in general i am a very social guy. All my circle of friends are too. So i am not one of the people who are on here because i can't get laid or form relationships in day to day life.

I have never been to a swingers club deffo wanna go though just to try it out. But anyway i have heard of couples saying that single men follow women around and just stare like deranged sex offenders. This puts me off abit tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your only as young as you feel like!

And i feel like a 21yr old! Any takers?

does that make me 46 then lol x

lol, never thought o it like that! "

good job im thick skinned lol xxx

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By *annWoman
over a year ago

London


"so guys im 20 and a single male and looking for a couple to experiment with but most people reply with me being too young is this the case lol

If people reply with the answer that you're too young, you are clearly messaging people whose age criteria you don't meet...other than updating your own profile, our only advice to you is to read read and read profile again before messaging-it may not always have the desired outcome, but it will surely increase your chances..."

I couldnt agree more, people should READ the profile requirements not just look at pictures before getting in touch.... I personally find it really irritating when i get a message and its obvious they didnt read the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers for the advise guys i think its just time tbh ive only been actively looking for a week or 2 have had 1 or 2 arranged meets but turned out to be fake or bottled it last min im always polite and always read and only ask people with the same interests im sure its not the looks im not a model but im not uncle fester if you get me lol

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

for us; yes - for others ...

depends on own preference !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not been on this site long but from what i see 20 is not too young. 22 myself and i have had a fair few older couples message me. I even had some women who was like 65..

This might sound really shallow but i think it is more to do with how good looking you are rather than age. Obviously people say personality but how much are you actually gonna get to know each other? I think most people have the social skills to atleast come across half decent lol"

Rubbish, for me its age first as I prefer my own age group, then looks ie face picture, if I don't fancy them, I won't be meeting them. And personality goes a very long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so guys im 20 and a single male and looking for a couple to experiment with but most people reply with me being too young is this the case lol "

I'm 21 and I have had meets you just got to stick with it just takes time that's all and be prepared to travel

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By *herry n JonesyCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Leicester


"I have not been on this site long but from what i see 20 is not too young. 22 myself and i have had a fair few older couples message me. I even had some women who was like 65..

This might sound really shallow but i think it is more to do with how good looking you are rather than age. Obviously people say personality but how much are you actually gonna get to know each other? I think most people have the social skills to atleast come across half decent lol

Rubbish, for me its age first as I prefer my own age group, then looks ie face picture, if I don't fancy them, I won't be meeting them. And personality goes a very long way."

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I have never been to a swingers club deffo wanna go though just to try it out. But anyway i have heard of couples saying that single men follow women around and just stare like deranged sex offenders. This puts me off abit tbh. "

Now if I were a single guy there would be a massive clue there...

Don't be one of those guys be the sociable guy that is happy to talk to both partners in any couple.

Don't blank the guy! You are not getting anywhere with someone's wife/partner if you ignore him.

Be honest and have a laugh.

Those are the guys that get invited to play. In actual fact all the wanking zombies give you an advantage because they enable you to show that you are different and worth taking to.

That's our take on it anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure clubs have a 21 rule so realistically you wouldn't be allowed in but socials would be fine, just take your ID

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 is not to young if your parents told they enjoy swapping and sharing partners.

So obviously you too want to enjoy that life style. Enjoy.

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