FabSwingers.com forum: Finding out your bi later in life

By *itguy21066 OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

So how many of us bi people thought we were 100% straight till later in life? How did you discover you were bi? I think I was in my mid 30s and used to go on cam a fair bit, I used to get other men talking dirty to me, so I would wank for them, eventually leading to one of many guy on guy meets.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

"So how many of us bi people thought we were 100% straight till later in life? How did you discover you were bi? I think I was in my mid 30s and used to go on cam a fair bit, I used to get other men talking dirty to me, so I would wank for them, eventually leading to one of many guy on guy meets."

Now only enjoying my bi side. First try was at school many years ago.

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By *itguy21066 OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

No others like to share how they discovered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my teens, picked up by an older guy. Taught the pleasures of subbing.

I then joined the RAF and led a very non-bi life for over 25 years only to rekindle it on my retirement.

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I always liked girls but only tried it out in the last couple of years. Turned out Im quite talented and making girls go weak in the knees. Of course ,my hubby will maintain that he taught me everything I know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had fantasies for years finally acted on it when I turned 40 and never looked back. Wished I'd started younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggled with my sexuality from an early age, and didn't accept it until about 5 years ago and even now I'm not fully out as such.

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By *oupleseekingCouple
over a year ago

nearby…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went through quite a prolonged bi phase, but then woke up one day thinking that it wasn't doing it for me any more. Meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have known since I was 18. My now hubby noticed that girl on girl porn got me soaking wet and persuaded me to try it out for real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 100% straight, never crossed my mind to be with a guy. As I got older and examined my sex life, I got to thinking what else was there. The idea of experimenting with a guy was something I'd never done, and because it was new I found it a turn on, maybe there were sensations I'd never tried and might enjoy.

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Ruth had bi experiences at a all girls boarding school in her teens , but never resurfaced till late 30`s . Myself only dabbled in my early 40`s when Ruth wanted to see me sucked off by another guy as she watched . Well I`ve seen her with plenty of women so why not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 100% straight, never crossed my mind to be with a guy. As I got older and examined my sex life, I got to thinking what else was there. The idea of experimenting with a guy was something I'd never done, and because it was new I found it a turn on, maybe there were sensations I'd never tried and might enjoy."

Exactly how I felt, I didn't want to leave it till I was too old to enjoy myself then have a lot of "What ifs".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was... let’s just say in denial about my sexuality until my early 30s. I was raised in a family that was not exactly progressive, and internalised a lot of self-loathing. Marrying a very straight and religious woman didn’t help. It took meeting and entering a relationship with a bi woman to be able to talk openly about my desires, and finally to start pursuing them.

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

I was 100% straight, never thought of bi sex, then a couple I was meeting in 3sum asked me to suck her hubby to fulfil fantasy. Realise I enjoyed the thrill and the bi sex built up from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom here.... I was a little d*unk and went to a sauna

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

This was similar me. I was on cam and a local guy said he wanted to suck me..... I told him to get over here. And we both sucked and swallows each other’s cum.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

We love bi play.

Twice the fun

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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I was mid 20s married to first wife,curious and used the gay chat lines secretly,phoned a number in local paper,bi & gay support and advice etc,explained to the guy about my curiosity and thoughts,he invited me to his home,put on gay porn,old vhs ,sucked and wanked me,told me I was def bi ,100% true

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I suppose it was in my late 30s that it dawned on me that I was sexually attracted to women.

In retrospect it shouldn't have taken so long. I have always found women physically attractive but because I never felt romantically attracted I assumed that I was straight.

As I got older, I started to wonder what it would be like to have sex with a woman. I actually acted on in when I was 40 and haven't looked back

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I said to my wife I would love to see her with another woman.And she said ok if I get to see you with a guy.She has now seen me with a guy and I am still waiting to see her with a woman.But my time with a guy I found to be quite exciting

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Engaged in mutual masturbation in my very early teens, then straight until my 50s. So many years wasted. Now making up for lost time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was about 30 when I saw a mate getting sucked off by a bloke whilst out cycling. I couldn’t stop thinking about it. Then had to have a go. Never looked back.....

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I was about 32 when I had my first bi experience, but was after a few years of getting more and more turned on by chatting to guys online/gay or bi porn etc.

I'd never really considered myself as anything other than straight before then, but now often wonder if I could/would have acted on that bi-instinct had the chance come along when I was younger...who knows.

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By *olinservingMan
over a year ago

wallasey

"In my teens, picked up by an older guy. Taught the pleasures of subbing.

I then joined the RAF and led a very non-bi life for over 25 years only to rekindle it on my retirement.

Snap!!!!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I got chatting to and then met a very genuine and hot TV.. it went from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my formative experiences at an early age with the last one at the age of 21. I then didn’t consider it again until my 40s, when I conducted a couple of experiments, and resumed assuming I was straight. I only stopped denying my bisexuality when I reached 50, but only had my first bisexual contact in 8 years last week.

Never let it be said that I’m in a rush

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

While watching porn with a t-girlfriend, she started to stroke my legs, gradually working her way up under my skirt. The she told me to take down my tights and panties.......It made me feel so feminine and girly. I've never looked back and have gone on to be fully bi now.

It's lovely! XX

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

Ealing

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I have never been homophobic. Did a bit of exabitionist wanking as a lad but no more than that.

I was on Rios one very late night semi sleeping in a hot tub when i felt a hand gently wanking my Cock very nicely. I jumped it was the AirFrance cabin attendent sitting next to me.

I made my excusses and got out with my dick rock hard. He followed me to the steam room and when he asked to suck my cock in that french accent i just thought what the hell. He was so GOOD at it deep slow and wet just how i loke it. His tounge rolled around the head firm but slow. By the time i shot my large load down his throat i was hooked and did not know it. Now girls or boys or better still both. Hot times all round.

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

Ealing

Very similar to this, lots of fun on cam and phone before finally deciding to go though with a real meet last year. It’s still just a one off so far, and I wouldn’t label myself bi yet, but definitely curious and open minded, and hoping to have more fun

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Dressed in a club a guy started chatting, I realised I was starting to get 'ahem' excited down below. Then he kissed me and ....bi ever since when dressed

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By *aul-in-EssexMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford Area

Always had feelings but was scared to go any further. Bumped into a guy in Costa 5 years ago I was aged 45. We shared a table as it was so busy, later that day I shared his bed !!! Not looked back since. Told my Wife and she is cool with it, as long as I am careful.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Always known myself, played with quite a few older men before I had a steady GF and got to lose my other virginity. hid it quite well when I joined the army, as it was illegal in those days but still played around.

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By *olinservingMan
over a year ago

wallasey

"Always known myself, played with quite a few older men before I had a steady GF and got to lose my other virginity. hid it quite well when I joined the army, as it was illegal in those days but still played around."

Yes, being in the forces certainly put a stop to my playing.....

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

An interesting and informative thread x

Never considered myself bi until early 20’s

Then discovered dressing x canal street x and the joys of TV fun x

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By *olinservingMan
over a year ago

wallasey

"An interesting and informative thread x

Never considered myself bi until early 20’s

Then discovered dressing x canal street x and the joys of TV fun x"

Seems like you’ve made up for lost time!

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By *eesside lingerie wearerMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Played with friends at school, tried to convince myself it was a phase but it certainly wasn't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never even thought about being bisexual until I got married. Mrs brought me into the world of bisexuality started playing with my arse,licking,sliding in fingers,until I tried a real cock. Amazing! But now she's not in to that any more and I'm struggling to meet guys in secret...

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Also in my 30s. Meet a couple, guy started to suck me while I was down on her, it felt good so I just went with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I feel I wrote too much on here??!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d always been straight until I met a couple at a pub. I didn’t know he was bi until later. I joined fan a couple of weeks later to try it again. I really don’t know why I’m bisexual. I was 42.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I was always curious but too nervous to do anything about it. I enjoyed seeing hard cocks in porn films etc and particularly enjoyed the cum shots. Eventually I decided that the nerves were holding me back so I went to a porn cinema in Birmingham and some kind soul sucked my cock.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have received messages and winks from bi guys and bi couples asking me if I would be interested in meeting them and I have been asked to play bi guys and bi couples at Rios each time I have politely declined as it’s a line I don’t want to cross as I am just not comfortable with the idea.I do wonder what it is about my pictures or is it the fact that I am hairy that make people think I would be interested in in playing with a guy.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Mid 40s before I sucked a dick more I discovered I enjoy being with men sexually than an attraction I don't find men attractive like I do woman but do enjoy being with them sexually

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Visting Slough

Started with meeting a Transvestite about 15 yes ago. First time she asked if another guy could join insaid ok then she wanted to useca double ended dildoe on us both, to much for me, wanked over her boots and "ran" out of her apartment met her several times after that and gradually developed a taste for cock. Now love cock and pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jane has been bi since her teens but I really only got started in my early 40s when I realised I was enjoying guys cumming more than women when watching porn.

So I dabbled a little bit with chat but nothing serious and then when we started going out, she actively encouraged me to explore and it's gone from there.

I'm incredibly lucky to have her, I'd never had done this had I still been in my previous marriage.

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

"Jane has been bi since her teens but I really only got started in my early 40s when I realised I was enjoying guys cumming more than women when watching porn.

So I dabbled a little bit with chat but nothing serious and then when we started going out, she actively encouraged me to explore and it's gone from there.

I'm incredibly lucky to have her, I'd never had done this had I still been in my previous marriage."
. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, your a lucky guy

. As for me it al started with me dressing up... and then wondering what it would be like having the attention of another guy and a lady... I’ve never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well when i was a teenager me and my best mate stayed over mine for the night and shared a bed, next morning we both woke up with morning glory and we started to masturbate next to eachother i remember he was really big and i was kinda memmerized by it and sort of turned on which confused me but after we were done i didnt think muvh of it

anyway a few months after i was at a house party and a girl i really liked was there, a few hours later after a few drinks i walked into the bathroom and found her on her knees giving my best mate head, i was gutted and she later told her friends how nice amd big his cock was which made me feel really crap, after that i found myself getting turned on by the situation and then feeling like i wanted to suck his dick ? I started getting turned on by big dicks after 5hat and watching porn videos just of guys with big dicks getting head or something, then i started meeting guys and giving them head lol weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in my teens I was on a steep over at my best mates and she started stroking my arms and legs, calling me her bf’s name, claiming she was asleep. I woke her and said you’re dreaming. I wasn’t confused at all as I knew I was straight and only into lads then, I was also a practicing Catholic and followed the teachings, so would never be something I’d think of.

When I met Inked I admitted to him that I found some of the women on the site attractive. As I’d gotten older I noticed women more, but was never allowed to act on it as my two exes were very closed minded about anything like that- I wouldn’t even approach the issue.

He set up a meet for us, so I could meet experience a bi meet- we realised that I was definitely more than curious as it felt so natural. It’s one of the reasons he’s everything to me, he so caring and non judgemental, he lets me be me, and we embrace that together.

Now I meet women on my own, but sadly, I can’t tell anyone in my family as it’s not something they’d understand x

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mid 40s before I sucked a dick more I discovered I enjoy being with men sexually than an attraction I don't find men attractive like I do woman but do enjoy being with them sexually "

This

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By *wingersimonMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I almost had a bi encounter as a teen (mate asked me to wank him off during a sleepover but I declined) but it wasn’t until my late 20s that I actively sought out a bi experience. I just had a feeling I wanted to play with a guy. Met a bi guy via a phone chat line and went to his house. Had some wank/suck fun which I enjoyed. Met a couple more guys like that before I discovered the swinging scene and found that bi threesomes were a thing. Never looked back since! Still enjoy single bi guy meets but love being with a couple and being able to please (and have attention from) both partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be keen to explore this. Since we’ve starting swinging, it’s been hard not to notice some nice cocks. Sucking a cock, getting it ready for the Mrs, is something I want to do. And get my cock sucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting and diverse experiences. Had my first ‘in the flesh’ bi experience in 40s. Was curious for a long time before.

Loved man on man play and also make female plAy. Guess I am bi but not bothered with labels. I am sexually open and like horny encounters with anyone!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I realised I was bi as a teenager. Got show a porno movie and couldnt stop thinking about a scene with two women. Decided to explore it with my now husband a few years later and the rest is history

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

After years and years and years of telling husbands NO you can't suck my cock too. I finally let one lick the sides of my cock

"as long as you don't put my head in your mouth" is what I said to him.

Oh how I laugh at that memory now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After years and years and years of telling husbands NO you can't suck my cock too. I finally let one lick the sides of my cock

"as long as you don't put my head in your mouth" is what I said to him.

Oh how I laugh at that memory now

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Imagine being hung and fuckin hot married wifes, so jelous

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

"After years and years and years of telling husbands NO you can't suck my cock too. I finally let one lick the sides of my cock

"as long as you don't put my head in your mouth" is what I said to him.

Oh how I laugh at that memory now

Imagine being hung and fuckin hot married wifes, so jelous

I'm just your average guy next door.....but yes some delicious wives do enjoy my company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had thought about it for years but finally decided to try it 2 years ago by meeting someone of the sister site. enjoyed it but unfortunately don't seem to get the opportunity enough.

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

I explored it in my late teens but then found girls more interesting. Started to get urges to meet more men in the past year or so. Very odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About ten years ago I inexplicably started wondering what it was like to give a blow job, to find out what my wife tasted and felt.

Well, only one way to find out and enjoyed it enough after the first time to do it several times over the years.

Amazing how many ladies like the idea of their man with another guy.

Don’t do it often but it’s still very sexy and enjoyable.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"When I was in my teens I was on a steep over at my best mates and she started stroking my arms and legs, calling me her bf’s name, claiming she was asleep. I woke her and said you’re dreaming. I wasn’t confused at all as I knew I was straight and only into lads then, I was also a practicing Catholic and followed the teachings, so would never be something I’d think of.

Now I meet women on my own, but sadly, I can’t tell anyone in my family as it’s not something they’d understand x

Viv xx"

Never met Inked but your post has won him my respect. Dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always admired an athletic handsome man,but since joining fab now want to try a little man love,just looking for right man or couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early 30s for me. Hadn’t considered being bi until a tour of Afghan. A late night gym session, then went to shower I the communal shower tent, where a fellow late gym user was already.

We chatted while showering, chat turned to sex with ex gfs. I realised he was aroused , I enjoyed watching his hands linger while he washed and soaped his errection. Next thing I knew we were stood close to each other, hands touching and exploring .

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I think for me a combination of things, in my late 40s, having done most straight things, i wanted more, I also enjoy anal play.

The chatrooms on here, opened my up further , enjoyed guys commenting on my cock, it also fulfilled my exhibitionist streak, my gf wants to have me with another bi guy. I never look at guys as I do women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always suspected i was at the very least bi curious right from when i was about 18, then I went on holiday with a friend of mine who had just come out, and one d*unken evening we got chatting in our hotel room and it soon came round to him being gay and what he got put of it! The conversation certainly got me feeling very horney, and so it wasnt long before he was offering to suck my cock so that i could compare it to how my girlfriend did it. I didnt even give it a second thought, and before long i was naked and he was crouching over me and giving me the most amazing oral sex, and it was most definitely far better than anything i had ever had.

So that was the turning point, but I have always managed to suppress the urges until i was about 45 ish when i had a serious cancer scare, and that definitely changes your ideas on life, so now I live life as though every day could be the last, and that has included bi sex, and I realise that I have a lot of time to make up and things to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tom here.... I was a little d*unk and went to a sauna "

Hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came to me later. Could say a late starter. There is nothing hornier than mutual sharing pussy and cock.

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

Probably about 10 years ago, started when dogging, lots of guys about, asked one if he wanted sucking off and start from there. Enjoyed it ever since

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

what no one has mentioned is it is more acceptable to be bi now even going back to when we started swinging mid nineties there were no bi nights now every club has them at least once a month

also i thing men get more away from the macho image as they get older probably a hormonal thing or maybe just we become more accepting of peoples differences

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

About 4 years ago a girl (who is a close friend for over 15 years) were at a party. We went back to hers and carried on with no intention of doing anything despite us both being quite open in general. We were in her living room and she said “what would you usually be doing now”. Without hesitation I said watching some porn. She laughed and agreed. She told me that she likes to see 2 men and I didn’t know what to make of it. But didn’t feel uncomfortable. We did end up playing and having sex..... after some time she had her toys out and she was also pleasuring me. Out of nowhere her fingers sliced into me. I loved it. We are still friends but she triggered something in me. The first was that something inside me feels amazing. The second was if a woman likes to see bi men then surely it’s ok??

A few years past. Most girls I was with loved using toys on me and knew I was curious. I met a guy about 8 months ago and we went from playing to having sex. It feels so good and I love it but still haven’t been able to kiss just yet

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I think I've been Bi all my life, from a young lad with another lad, experimenting. To being seduced at 19, to finally deciding to live the Bi life at 62. It's not been an easy journey, and I'm sure I have more problems to deal with, but I'm such happier in my life.

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

And me, and even when I left and joined the prison service, it was a mans world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I class as bi by saying this I'm not sure but I've never done anything with a man but I don't squirm at the site of a cock but I don't want to do anything with it either I go dogging now and again and its predominantly males regardless of where I go and what time but I don't mind I'll just hang about in my car until I'm board of waiting and end up jacking off knowing full well I'm being watched it's a slight turn on for me

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By *rent100Man
over a year ago

Warwick

Found this while browsing through stories and I suppose yes as I’ve got older I have drifted in the direction of BI.

Maybe I should have expected it as I do remember when very young dressing in girls clothes for a short while, but then, nothing, absolutely straight. Then, although not being remotely interested in BI the idea/urge and interest to dress resurfaced but after a short dabble I managed to shake this off. It continued to resurface several times more, often with years in between. After that, about 7 years ago, I finally accepted it is part of me and I should enjoy it when it happens. Then of course I found myself on swinging sites and using the chat/cam rooms and found I was turned on and turning on guys, women, couples, CDs and TVs. They were complimenting me and saying how I should play. To bring it right up to today I do spend time on cam when I can. I have met mainly couples and only had my first BJ 5 years ago when with a bi couple and she wanted to see her hubby and me play while she watched (they told me to dress, I couldn’t say no, lol) it opened up a whole new world

couldn’t remember ever being so hard and horny. So late on as well. Better late than never I guess but I still love women as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my mid 30s, I just had to know. I met a very cute gay guy and we got it on and I have not been straight ever since

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS
over a year ago

North West

I don't know if I'm bi yet but I'm bi-curious and I was convinced I was straight for most of my life. Still not sure if I'll ever go through with an experience with a man.

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over a year ago

I was in my 40’s, with a girl I met in another site. She was very open to experimenting and introduced me to lots of new things, one of which was using her toys in my ass. That felt good, but then when we were having sex later and she whispered in my ear “imagine a real cock in your ass as you’re fucking me” well I just exploded right away! So I decided this needed to be embraced, and it has been a huge liberation. Life is better with an open mind

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By *trangeBrew75Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Not sure if it’s finding out later in life more like becoming more comfortable with it as I age, as opposed to satisfying the urge now and again then going into the noooo I’m straight shame thing. But I think that’s a generational thing where now it’s starting to become not such a taboo for men to be bi. I do consider myself to be hetero-flexible rather than truly bi as I have no interest in dating a guy as I would a woman.

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I was in my 40’s, with a girl I met in another site. She was very open to experimenting and introduced me to lots of new things, one of which was using her toys in my ass. That felt good, but then when we were having sex later and she whispered in my ear “imagine a real cock in your ass as you’re fucking me” well I just exploded right away! So I decided this needed to be embraced, and it has been a huge liberation. Life is better with an open mind

That is really hot.

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By *appy but hornyMan
over a year ago

wakefield

i was young tbh truly converted lol loved it since

told both my wives lol ..who loved the idea

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I had a dabble at 13.

Then nothing until 40s. Wish I had more beforehand.

I tell all my gfs now. Some love it.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

It’s so true

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I remember experimenting with my cousins in my early teens at sleep overs. We'd just play with each others cocks under the covers. It didn't feel sexual at the time - just something fun to do that felt nice.

I've always known I was curious at least from an early age but it was always something I'd been raised to see as dirty and wrong to think about so I suppressed it. It's not until the last 5 years or so that it's been something I've actively persued

- Rob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know iv been bi for yrs, only recently decided to get more experienced, iv had some and loved it

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

L was 49 when she explored her bi side, think we still have the verification.

Me? I’m like L, love the ladies too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer women but love sucking cok

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

Ealing

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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I say I am bi curious, I am a older guy and a couples of years ago I was with a lovely Indian couples at there place and the wife was sucking my cock and she called her hubby over and told him to get on his knees and she just pushed his head down and he started to suck my cock while she held his head onto my cock , but since then I been to clubs and the sex cinema and again both took my cock into their mouths and to be honest I just let it happen because I could see the couple was enjoying themselves and that’s what it’s all about. I have had lots of messages off guys to suck my cock but not interested unless it’s a male/ female couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple of experiences as a teen, not really knowing what was going on but curious to see what happened. It was some ‘games’ with a group of guys at school. And then thought nothing more about it until about 5 years ago when, looking for ‘other’ porn to watch, started watching bi MMF and getting so turned on I explored guy on guy porn.

I was with my ex at the time and we’d watch porn together, she was open to watching bi MMF with me but not ready to invite a guy to join us.

So, I started looking at Craigslist (when they had the encounters catagory), chat rooms and kik to chat with other guys. I got quite d*unk one evening and invited a guy over. I met him in the garden and we mutually sucked. Did it again with another guy a few weeks later but this time, I invited him in and we mutually sucked.

Since then, I haven’t met with anyone (probably more to do with my circumstances then my want to) but I regularly watch bi porn and chat with other guys on a few sites and forums, including here, plucking up the courage to meet up with a guy, a MF couple, a group or a MM couple to explore my bi side more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggled with my sexuality from an early age, and didn't accept it until about 5 years ago and even now I'm not fully out as such."

It’s a journey buddy.

Be gentle with yourself.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

folkstone

Well it probably started when a gorgeous but dominant partner decided that she’d like to give me a strap on pegging, really blew my mind but then again she was gorgeous and female.

Next step was a quiet day in the swingers club/spa when like a few others I had given up on female company and was watching porn in the tv room (television in this context).

To my right there was a tall, silver haired, tanned guy in good shape. It was evidently good porn as my erection sprouted like a magic beanstalk under my towel and I started to touch it discreetly. As I glanced across I saw a similar effect on my porn mate, Silver.

This continued for a while and we were both furtively glancing at each other’s tackle.

I was quite enjoying having a mate as we each played with ourselves and was actually disappointed when he got up and left. Ah well.

As he left the room he headed across to the dark room opposite, I noticed he was “pointing”that way.

After what seems like ages but was probably less than five minutes I decided to go and explore as well. It seemed rude not to start with the dark room and as I entered it was actually pitch black. I fumbled around and found a bench and took a seat.

In no time at all I felt a hand on my thigh, then my chest hair and then it moved down to my cock and slowly started to wank it. It was fucking heavenly, I really didnt care who it was but I suspect it was the silver fox himself.

I reached around and found a cock (must have been his) and we pulled at each other quite breathlessly. Well it was too much for me and I soon shot my load noisily into the air pulling at his cock as I did. That seemed to have the desired effect and he also came with a shudder.

In a bit the curtain opened and someone left. I left the dark room a couple of minutes later and no one was around. Now it may have been a female but I think not, and that’s when I felt that I may have some bi tendencies.

The journey continues

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

Some great true stories here. I wish they were compulsory reading for those guys who post ignorant things like "I don't want my gf to peg me because it would make me gay". It's not a binary thing!

My first time was when Mrs K was sucking a man and asked me to help. I didn't have a good answer to "why not" so I did it. Gone a lot further since, but only ever with her present (and cheering me on). Have fantasised about purely gay meets- I love the attitude of many gay men to truly anonymous sex. But I have not acted on it, mainly because I love playing with her.

If she wasn't in my life I don't think I would date blokes - I tend to get on with women better as people. But who knows if Mr Right would come along? And I'm pretty sure I'd fuck both sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to the best of us. Pussy on my cock and cock in my mouth-can’t beat it. Well, you can, but you get the picture

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

Life is a journey isn’t it. And no more so than on Fab.

I started straight and dominant and am loving enjoying bisexual fun and exploring with Dom/sub switch games.

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By *he incognito twoCouple
over a year ago

near you

we dont think you need to put a label on what you enjoy...we are trysexual ...trty anything once

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

I was very young when I first had bisexual sex, which wasn't entirely consensual. That progressed into being part of a group, male and female and all older than me by a number of years. Nowadays it would be classed as abuse but I have always regarded it as an education.

I have had several periods in my life when I have been bisexual, sometimes I have had years of being entirely hetro.

I differentiate between enjoying sex, with lots of people, and loving only select people. I have only ever been in love with someone of the same sex once, and that is someone very very special.

I enjoy the fact that I am bisexual and I am glad that someone used something against me to get me into the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we dont think you need to put a label on what you enjoy...we are trysexual ...trty anything once

I love that!! Trysexual- that should get into the dictionary!!!!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I wish I would meet another woman to see if I'm bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my late forty’s and my bi side is coming out more and more, just trying to find the right person to have my first experience

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