FabSwingers.com forum: Escort hate?

By *penbicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Why are escorts so routinely jabbed at here?

Have I missed something? Some people complain that they are always encountering profiles asking for payment, yet I have been here in various guises for 7 years and never personally been asked to pay.

As I see it, an Escort is as entitled to a sex-life as anyone else. They have a job, sure. Yet, can they not swing too?

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

There was a profile not to far away from me that I chatted to for around a month... agreed a date for a social then got messaged a price list of services offered.

A little disingenuous as this felt really underhand being played for that amount of time.

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By *penbicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

"There was a profile not to far away from me that I chatted to for around a month... agreed a date for a social then got messaged a price list of services offered.

A little disingenuous as this felt really underhand being played for that amount of time."

Thanks for your reply. I have never experienced that, but you have at least verified that it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your reply. I have never experienced that, but you have at least verified that it happens. "

I’d venture a guess and suggest that’s because you’re not a single male... I doubt anyone actively hates escorts but what I personally resent is women using Fab as a marketplace to attempt to sell sexual services when it is not the purpose of this place and there are clearly alternatives where that’s acceptable.

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If an escort is honest and upfront then I do not see a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your reply. I have never experienced that, but you have at least verified that it happens.

But it works both ways.

Iv had several messages from men offering money or gifts and lots of other women have two.

Asking or offering money is rightly against site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If an escort is honest and upfront then I do not see a problem."

There isn't one but not on here. There are plenty of other sites for that.

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By *penbicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

"But it works both ways.

Iv had several messages from men offering money or gifts and lots of other women have two.

Asking or offering money is rightly against site rules. "

Yet, presumably you'd agree that someone working as an Escort should be free to seek free hook-ups here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But it works both ways.

Iv had several messages from men offering money or gifts and lots of other women have two.

Asking or offering money is rightly against site rules.

Yet, presumably you'd agree that someone working as an Escort should be free to seek free hook-ups here? "

Yes but then if its not business then there would be no need to mention it.

I don't tell people what I do for a living and most people on this site don't either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let them crack on, yeah probably annoying just ingore and block if your not interested. Id say they can get a fair bit of business from here thats still harmless.. not for me but hey i dont get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn it, I thought this thread was about cars! Used to love the old Escort Cossie.

Feel cheated now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've the RS Turbo in race red, F reg. Great car but so low to the ground that going over speed bumps used to scrape the bottom of the exhaust.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’ve never found an escort profile on here, Am I missing out?

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

Just keep your eye on 'meet now' for mentions of ££'s, skint, need phone credit and you'll soon find one.

Met a female here once who got in my car and a mile down the road informed me of a £60 fee or she'd report me for soliciting.

It very quickly turned sour where I was then threatened with a beating from her 'boyfriend'.

Rather than take her back home aftee she had called said boyfriend.

I drove to the nearest policestation where she decided best to get out the car before I started getting attention using the horn as previously had refused to leave and starting claiming I had abducted her.

Glad I had dashcam recording audio in the car at the time.

The profile was still active a couple of months ago and as far as I am aware, still active today.

The couple above who are or have been escorts, that is not a problem as long as when here - it is fun only and not for any reward.

There are a couple of females I've met on here over the years that are escorts but here for fun only not anything more which is within the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve owned three mk2, one mk3 and a mk4.

Wish I still had the mk2’s.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

Never used an escort...started on H&E but then found Club International to be my mag of choice.

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By *uppeteerMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Why are escorts so routinely jabbed at here?

Have I missed something? Some people complain that they are always encountering profiles asking for payment, yet I have been here in various guises for 7 years and never personally been asked to pay.

As I see it, an Escort is as entitled to a sex-life as anyone else. They have a job, sure. Yet, can they not swing too? "

Once you’ve accepted payment and you get the bug, its not easy not to have unpaid sex after. You seek the pleasure but try to get the money too in one way or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been asked for money or been approached by an escort and i don't hate anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean - I’ve always been intrigued by them.. & never used one yet... open minded though!

But, if approached on here for it. I normally report the profile, as quite frankly. This isn’t what I use the site for if I was on the search for a paid service I’m sure there’s websites for that

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

If they are upfront about their job no problem. You can make your decision. There are some lovely escorts out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are escorts so routinely jabbed at here?

Have I missed something? Some people complain that they are always encountering profiles asking for payment, yet I have been here in various guises for 7 years and never personally been asked to pay.

As I see it, an Escort is as entitled to a sex-life as anyone else. They have a job, sure. Yet, can they not swing too? "

You are a couple? It is unlikely an escort will your for business with you. If an escort is in here for fun then there is no problem, if they are on here fir business then they should be banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just keep your eye on 'meet now' for mentions of ££'s, skint, need phone credit and you'll soon find one.

Met a female here once who got in my car and a mile down the road informed me of a £60 fee or she'd report me for soliciting.

It very quickly turned sour where I was then threatened with a beating from her 'boyfriend'.

Rather than take her back home aftee she had called said boyfriend.

Glad I had dashcam recording audio in the car at the time.

The profile was still active a couple of months ago and as far as I am aware, still active today.

The couple above who are or have been escorts, that is not a problem as long as when here - it is fun only and not for any reward.

There are a couple of females I've met on here over the years that are escorts but here for fun only not anything more which is within the rules."

She sounds like a right tramp!!

It's like when they ask you to buy a site pass, aren't they like a fiver?

Hows about get a job!

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"If an escort is honest and upfront then I do not see a problem."
apart from the fact its not allowed on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody's ever offered me gifts gutted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The part I find interesting is peoples attitude toward sex workers. Seeing them as a high risk, despite them probably having the strictest health and hygiene regime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an escort once......

An xr3i loved it...

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By *penbicouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

The part I find interesting is peoples attitude toward sex workers. Seeing them as a high risk, despite them probably having the strictest health and hygiene regime."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve owned three mk2, one mk3 and a mk4.

Wish I still had the mk2’s.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Escorts have vanilla sex lives too.

There is a difference between "being paid for a service" and actively seeking out someone you are attracted to and want to meet leisurely.

If they are up front about it, I don't see what the problem is. Many professional escorts are actually a lot more health conscious, and get tested more regularly than your average Joe.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Why are escorts so routinely jabbed at here?

Have I missed something? Some people complain that they are always encountering profiles asking for payment, yet I have been here in various guises for 7 years and never personally been asked to pay.

As I see it, an Escort is as entitled to a sex-life as anyone else. They have a job, sure. Yet, can they not swing too? "

They can swing, unfortunately a lot of them want payment for it on here. Flip side of that are non escorts like myself being offered payment as well. Both are against site rules. I report profiles asking for payment and also those that offer me payment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If an escort is honest and upfront then I do not see a problem."

Me neither. In fact I would welcome such an approach as the ultimate in NSA.

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By *ustJohnnoMan
over a year ago

Rowlands Castle

I met a woman once and then found out she was an escort days later. I wasn't sure whether I should be pissed off or pleased that she didn't charge lol. Funny cos at the time I thought the meet felt a little 'distant' and 'escort like'.

But I guess the moral is that escorts are ppl too and not always on the clock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They will only ask you for money if your ugly, if you’re decent looking its all on the house...is what a friend told me!

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By *ustJohnnoMan
over a year ago

Rowlands Castle

"They will only ask you for money if your ugly, if you’re decent looking its all on the house...is what a friend told me!

haha not sure how true that is but I'll take it gladly.

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I think alot of its jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked for money and asked by women to buy them things.

I travelled to meet someone once and when I got there I called her and she said...

"which one are you now"

Then she text me her shopping list

Another time I was asked to buy food and drop it off at her house, but she made it clear that I couldn't come in lol.

If men are stupid enough to do it, women will take them for fools.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been asked for money and asked by women to buy them things.

I travelled to meet someone once and when I got there I called her and she said...

"which one are you now"

Then she text me her shopping list

Another time I was asked to buy food and drop it off at her house, but she made it clear that I couldn't come in lol.

If men are stupid enough to do it, women will take them for fools. "

Blimey, i see how you got your name now Mickey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If an escort is honest and upfront then I do not see a problem.

Me neither. In fact I would welcome such an approach as the ultimate in NSA."

Well there are plenty of escorts about. Nothing stopping you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been asked for money and asked by women to buy them things.

I travelled to meet someone once and when I got there I called her and she said...

"which one are you now"

Then she text me her shopping list

Another time I was asked to buy food and drop it off at her house, but she made it clear that I couldn't come in lol.

If men are stupid enough to do it, women will take them for fools.

Blimey, i see how you got your name now Mickey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are escorts so routinely jabbed at here?

Have I missed something? Some people complain that they are always encountering profiles asking for payment, yet I have been here in various guises for 7 years and never personally been asked to pay.

As I see it, an Escort is as entitled to a sex-life as anyone else. They have a job, sure. Yet, can they not swing too? "

I think the ones that are "always"encountering escorts here are over exaggerating.

Yes there are escorts on the site

Yes they are as entitled as anyone else to have a sex life,to swing and to enjoy the benefits of fab

What they aren't allowed to do is tout for business,and we having been here over 10 years have never seen any escorts tout for business

We have however been offered money by some to meet,these people were ,of course reported,we blocked and never heard from them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just women on here who want to charge, I like to chat on here with people of all sexual preferences and I find a lot of ( not all ) transgender people what a payment. I have reported people who aks for payment to admin but they dont do anything as the profile are still there

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"It's not just women on here who want to charge, I like to chat on here with people of all sexual preferences and I find a lot of ( not all ) transgender people what a payment. I have reported people who aks for payment to admin but they dont do anything as the profile are still there "

They do, the person may have got a warning and stopped doing what they are doing. They may have done it again and been disabled, which will looks blocked to another person.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Firstly in all the years on here we have never been asked for or been offered money.

As for escorts on here, I'm sure there are some.

Many years ago (before the advent of FAB) I had a brief relationship with a sex worker and we did visit swinger clubs together. She worked when she worked and had fun when we went out. So I've nothing against escorts being on here per se.

Sometimes it was quite funny when we were driving home from a club after she had fucked a few guys and she would reckon up how much she would have made if she had been working.

However escorts/sex workers should never use this site (or any other swinger site) to tout for business and should never ask for payment for a meet from here.

Not only does it break the rules of the site but it goes against the very principle of swinging.

If it did ever happen to us, either way round, we would instantly report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just keep your eye on 'meet now' for mentions of ££'s, skint, need phone credit and you'll soon find one.

Met a female here once who got in my car and a mile down the road informed me of a £60 fee or she'd report me for soliciting.

It very quickly turned sour where I was then threatened with a beating from her 'boyfriend'.

Rather than take her back home aftee she had called said boyfriend.

Glad I had dashcam recording audio in the car at the time.

The profile was still active a couple of months ago and as far as I am aware, still active today.

The couple above who are or have been escorts, that is not a problem as long as when here - it is fun only and not for any reward.

There are a couple of females I've met on here over the years that are escorts but here for fun only not anything more which is within the rules.

She sounds like a right tramp!!

It's like when they ask you to buy a site pass, aren't they like a fiver?

Hows about get a job!"

I've seen guy profiles in local updates asking woman to give them a fiver for the site subscription and if they do they'll upload videos. It's scruffy as f.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just keep your eye on 'meet now' for mentions of ££'s, skint, need phone credit and you'll soon find one.

Met a female here once who got in my car and a mile down the road informed me of a £60 fee or she'd report me for soliciting.

It very quickly turned sour where I was then threatened with a beating from her 'boyfriend'.

Rather than take her back home aftee she had called said boyfriend.

Glad I had dashcam recording audio in the car at the time.

The profile was still active a couple of months ago and as far as I am aware, still active today.

The couple above who are or have been escorts, that is not a problem as long as when here - it is fun only and not for any reward.

There are a couple of females I've met on here over the years that are escorts but here for fun only not anything more which is within the rules.

She sounds like a right tramp!!

It's like when they ask you to buy a site pass, aren't they like a fiver?

Hows about get a job!

I've seen guy profiles in local updates asking woman to give them a fiver for the site subscription and if they do they'll upload videos. It's scruffy as f.

KJ x "

Too right it's embarrassing!!!

A fiver lol some guys probably pay it for them

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I've seen guy profiles in local updates asking woman to give them a fiver for the site subscription and if they do they'll upload videos. It's scruffy as f.

KJ x "

You're probably seeing the same profiles we are then (same area).

Have you seen ones asking for drugs or or pay £50 to shag their girlfriends that pop up from time to time? That really makes our skin crawl.

Never verified accounts though. Report, block and forget if you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If an escort is honest and upfront then I do not see a problem.

Me neither. In fact I would welcome such an approach as the ultimate in NSA.

Well there are plenty of escorts about. Nothing stopping you. "

Actually, not here there aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen guy profiles in local updates asking woman to give them a fiver for the site subscription and if they do they'll upload videos. It's scruffy as f.

KJ x

You're probably seeing the same profiles we are then (same area).

Have you seen ones asking for drugs or or pay £50 to shag their girlfriends that pop up from time to time? That really makes our skin crawl.

Never verified accounts though. Report, block and forget if you can. "

Sound like weird scruffs...surely no one as ever paid them lol x

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