FabSwingers.com forum: Bj problem

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I dont know whether it's me or not but I seem to not be able to cum on a bj I've not had loads but I'm curios as to whether a woman's technique makes a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I dont know whether it's me or not but I seem to not be able to cum on a bj I've not had loads but I'm curios as to whether a woman's technique makes a difference "

maybe

but not as much as your ability to relax under someone elses control

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Am I reading this right as it sounds like you've only ever had a bj off blokes and are wondering if a woman's technique would be different? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am like you mate, find it very difficult to come when GF gives me a BJ. I think its because I need quite a bit of stimulation and she gets jaw ache so doesnt do it for long enough!!

Funny thing is though the guys who have given me BJs dotn seem to have that problem so I can come. Goes to prove the point guys do give better BJ's but maybe thats for another thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I reading this right as it sounds like you've only ever had a bj off blokes and are wondering if a woman's technique would be different? Z"

No never by a man but the four women I did get it off were all quite similar should have made myself a bit clearer

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Am I reading this right as it sounds like you've only ever had a bj off blokes and are wondering if a woman's technique would be different? Z

No never by a man but the four women I did get it off were all quite similar should have made myself a bit clearer"

lol - i see what you mean now - steve says that most women haven't got much of a clue - they either bite it or rive it around like it's not actually a body part! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am like you mate, find it very difficult to come when GF gives me a BJ. I think its because I need quite a bit of stimulation and she gets jaw ache so doesnt do it for long enough!!

Funny thing is though the guys who have given me BJs dotn seem to have that problem so I can come. Goes to prove the point guys do give better BJ's but maybe thats for another thread!"

I've never had oral off a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I reading this right as it sounds like you've only ever had a bj off blokes and are wondering if a woman's technique would be different? Z

No never by a man but the four women I did get it off were all quite similar should have made myself a bit clearer

lol - i see what you mean now - steve says that most women haven't got much of a clue - they either bite it or rive it around like it's not actually a body part! Z"

Biting is the main problem for me I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I reading this right as it sounds like you've only ever had a bj off blokes and are wondering if a woman's technique would be different? Z

No never by a man but the four women I did get it off were all quite similar should have made myself a bit clearer

lol - i see what you mean now - steve says that most women haven't got much of a clue - they either bite it or rive it around like it's not actually a body part! Z"

Biting is the main problem for me I think

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By *idlifecrisis40Man
over a year ago

Manchester (North)

Of course the technique is important, all cocks and the guys attached to them are different. There is no one technique that will work on everyone, if a certain way of being touched works for you then you need to communicate that to your partner.

You can tell a lot about how a guy likes to be touched by watching him wank himself, but I suppose as you're asking from the receiving end rather than giving that isn't necessarily a huge help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am like you mate, find it very difficult to come when GF gives me a BJ. I think its because I need quite a bit of stimulation and she gets jaw ache so doesnt do it for long enough!!

Funny thing is though the guys who have given me BJs dotn seem to have that problem so I can come. Goes to prove the point guys do give better BJ's but maybe thats for another thread!

I've never had oral off a man"

Then I suggest you do... then you can tell your GF how to do it properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am like you mate, find it very difficult to come when GF gives me a BJ. I think its because I need quite a bit of stimulation and she gets jaw ache so doesnt do it for long enough!!

Funny thing is though the guys who have given me BJs dotn seem to have that problem so I can come. Goes to prove the point guys do give better BJ's but maybe thats for another thread!

I've never had oral off a man"

you do realise how many offers ur gonna get to change that now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-ones ever made me cum by giving me a bj either, I wouldn't worry about it, it gives the girls you go with a bit of a challenge and makes for some fun times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

talk to her and tell her whats good and is working for you and what dont.

im the same i try really to cum alot of the time to make it happen, but if someones not doing what works for you then you might as well give up if your not going to talk to them and let them know whats good and what isnt. ya always have better sex if you game to communicate properly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No-ones ever made me cum by giving me a bj either, I wouldn't worry about it, it gives the girls you go with a bit of a challenge and makes for some fun times

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never thought of it that way before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am like you mate, find it very difficult to come when GF gives me a BJ. I think its because I need quite a bit of stimulation and she gets jaw ache so doesnt do it for long enough!!

Funny thing is though the guys who have given me BJs dotn seem to have that problem so I can come. Goes to prove the point guys do give better BJ's but maybe thats for another thread!

I've never had oral off a man

you do realise how many offers ur gonna get to change that now ?

I don't want them and no will be the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trust me its great fun, some girls like a challenge lol

i see one girl who can get me close, she does a mean deepthroat, but bj's are overrated anyway, i get off more on pleasuring the lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am like you mate, find it very difficult to come when GF gives me a BJ. I think its because I need quite a bit of stimulation and she gets jaw ache so doesnt do it for long enough!!

Funny thing is though the guys who have given me BJs dotn seem to have that problem so I can come. Goes to prove the point guys do give better BJ's but maybe thats for another thread!

I've never had oral off a man

you do realise how many offers ur gonna get to change that now ?

I don't want them and no will be the answer"

likes that's ever stopped um

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Every woman has a different technique, the same as every guy has when going down on a woman, some guys can make me cum from a good licking and some guys can't, everyone is different. I've met guys like you who have told me they can't cum from oral, and half an hour or so later, hey presto... lots of gooey stuff in me gob.. lol... so don't give up and DON'T let anyone pressure you into getting oral from a guy if you ain't that way inclined.

Devil

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every woman has a different technique, the same as every guy has when going down on a woman, some guys can make me cum from a good licking and some guys can't, everyone is different. I've met guys like you who have told me they can't cum from oral, and half an hour or so later, hey presto... lots of gooey stuff in me gob.. lol... so don't give up and DON'T let anyone pressure you into getting oral from a guy if you ain't that way inclined.

Devil

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Yh I suppose I'll just have to wait till she comes along and there is no way I'll be pressured into that ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wants to meet Devil now hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"wants to meet Devil now hehehehe

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agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i watched a man give another a blow hob and his technique was so different to what women do.

yet i love giving a good blow job and i enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i watched a man give another a blow hob and his technique was so different to what women do.

yet i love giving a good blow job and i enjoy it

Well you know where I am

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Well I dont know whether it's me or not but I seem to not be able to cum on a bj I've not had loads but I'm curios as to whether a woman's technique makes a difference "

yes...just as a mans technique makes a difference to a womans orgasm. As does being relaxed, horny, not d*unk and any other number of things.

One of my faves veris is from a guy who had never come from a bj, turned out he liked face fucking and v sloppy bjs...we are all different.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i watched a man give another a blow hob and his technique was so different to what women do.

yet i love giving a good blow job and i enjoy it

Hmm, kevs had more bad bjs than u can shake a stick at off men...they tend to be too rough for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i watched a man give another a blow hob and his technique was so different to what women do.

yet i love giving a good blow job and i enjoy it

Well you know where I am

thanks but you are too young x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i watched a man give another a blow hob and his technique was so different to what women do.

yet i love giving a good blow job and i enjoy it

Well you know where I am

thanks but you are too young x"

Ok x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've personally never tried face fucking and sloppy bj before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so don't give up and DON'T let anyone pressure you into getting oral from a guy if you ain't that way inclined.

Devil

i hope that bit ain't aimed at my good good self

you know i like a tease

i would never PM a guy who's profile stated 'straight' unless they messaged me first

am not one of them predatory bi guys that think every straight guy can be turned

if it wasn't aimed at me, i apologise

and the OP can breathe a sigh of relief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've personally never tried face fucking and sloppy bj before"

u need to

great fun if the lady likes being face fucked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've personally never tried face fucking and sloppy bj before

u need to

great fun if the lady likes being face fucked "

Well looks like I'm gonna have to go find myself a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course technique can make the diffeence? doh.

There are techniques to giving a blowie as every male is different. Depends if they enjoy wanking as well, hard firm wank, soft wank. Tip of the head, gentle soft or harder. Ever male is totally different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can count on one hand the times i've come due to a blowjob. I take a lot of stimulation to come so most women get fed up and sore jawed before i pop. But when i have blown its due to the good lady in question following my instruction. 1. No hands until i ask, 2. No teeth (instant floppy if teeth touch me), 3. Lots of saliva, 4. Eye contact (very important) 5. Licking up and down my lenghth and tongue my balls ocassionally. If that tall order is followed they will be covered in my gentlemans relish quicker than you can say "painters radio".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No-ones ever made me cum by giving me a bj either, I wouldn't worry about it, it gives the girls you go with a bit of a challenge and makes for some fun times

never thought of it that way before"

Or maybe not. I find they get bored a lot quicker than a guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"talk to her and tell her whats good and is working for you and what dont.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i watched a man give another a blow hob and his technique was so different to what women do.

yet i love giving a good blow job and i enjoy it

Hmm, kevs had more bad bjs than u can shake a stick at off men...they tend to be too rough for him."

Would agree with that. Most are too rough (& crap), and when they stat wanking you too, Jesus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm different wish I was more like OP, as I cum far two quick only takes maybe 2mins and that's it

wish it could last longer it feels so good!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit that guys seem to suck better than girls, but I'm also told girls lick girls better than guys!

I guess it's technique, knowing what each person likes and being plain horny!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"so don't give up and DON'T let anyone pressure you into getting oral from a guy if you ain't that way inclined.

Devil

i hope that bit ain't aimed at my good good self

you know i like a tease

i would never PM a guy who's profile stated 'straight' unless they messaged me first

am not one of them predatory bi guys that think every straight guy can be turned

if it wasn't aimed at me, i apologise

and the OP can breathe a sigh of relief

Heaven forbid bussy... lol..of course it isn't, just didn't want the lad doing summat he don't wanna do.. O:-

Devil

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I can count on one hand the times i've come due to a blowjob. I take a lot of stimulation to come so most women get fed up and sore jawed before i pop. But when i have blown its due to the good lady in question following my instruction. 1. No hands until i ask, 2. No teeth (instant floppy if teeth touch me), 3. Lots of saliva, 4. Eye contact (very important) 5. Licking up and down my lenghth and tongue my balls ocassionally. If that tall order is followed they will be covered in my gentlemans relish quicker than you can say "painters radio".

I have never needed any instruction lol... I do all that anyway..

Devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never needed any instruction lol... I do all that anyway..

Devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn my wife is so good at BJs she just gets me where i need every time. When giving head to another guy she never misses so maybe yeah its what people do.

Just like to say i do not hire her out for stag nights or anything lol but maybe i should hahahha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dev you'll end up with a queue now...

Don't forget to gargle and floss

Wolf

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Am I reading this right as it sounds like you've only ever had a bj off blokes and are wondering if a woman's technique would be different? Z

No never by a man but the four women I did get it off were all quite similar should have made myself a bit clearer"
So you've only had four women suck your cock???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No never by a man but the four women I did get it off were all quite similar should have made myself a bit clearerSo you've only had four women suck your cock???

The lads only 21, I know I'd only suck 1 cock by the time I was that age.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

"I've personally never tried face fucking and sloppy bj before"

Blowjobs have got to be very wet for me, lots of wanking too. Face fucking is one of my favourites though, its hard not to cum too quick doing that.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i watched a man give another a blow hob and his technique was so different to what women do.

yet i love giving a good blow job and i enjoy it

Hmm, kevs had more bad bjs than u can shake a stick at off men...they tend to be too rough for him.

Would agree with that. Most are too rough (& crap), and when they stat wanking you too, Jesus!"

and the ball squeezing...what the feck is that about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I reading this right as it sounds like you've only ever had a bj off blokes and are wondering if a woman's technique would be different? Z

No never by a man but the four women I did get it off were all quite similar should have made myself a bit clearerSo you've only had four women suck your cock???

Yep

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