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Eyes wide open or shut

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

What do you think about eyes open during sex rather than the natural inclination to close them? What do you prefer and do you even care?

Personally, I find it's a waste of experience having your eyes shut during sex. I like to have mine wide open so that I can make eye contact (which I find a huge turn on) as well as visually savour the experience.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Its nice to stare into the eyes of your partner when getting intimate, but its also nice to close your eyes and enjoy the moment, both are have have their own place when it comes to it but again everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love having my eyes shut and in my own bubble of pleasure when I'm fucked from behind, unless theres a mirror to watch in.

Getting punishment or facing each other I like to watch Sirs reactions and see that glint in his eyes.

F.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford


"What do you think about eyes open during sex rather than the natural inclination to close them? What do you prefer and do you even care?

Personally, I find it's a waste of experience having your eyes shut during sex. I like to have mine wide open so that I can make eye contact (which I find a huge turn on) as well as visually savour the experience.

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Eyes open for me. Might close when kissing. Or the odd wince if something huge is coming my way. That's when I should have worn my specsavers.

Done the blind fold thing discovered it set off my claustrophobia.

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Bit of both lol. Depends on the relationship I have with the woman

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

You might look abit weird if your eyes are wide open

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Eyes shut I like to feel and enhance the feeling by closing my eyes.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"You might look abit weird if your eyes are wide open "

Lmao. You mean like a startled look? Haha

Ok, you know what I meant. I was using a turn of phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to mix it up but ultimately the view of my partner in the various positions we’ll end up in, usually mean I can’t help but look & admire my achievements

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By *illbilly47Man
over a year ago

Faversham

Sometimes it heightens the senses having your eyes closed.

It’s the same when having sex in a pitch black room. You have to rely so much more on touch and sound of your partner.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

It's nice to be blindfolded so all your other senses become more heightened , makes the heart race and the pleasure more intense but I also love eye contact, to see the pure pleasure in each others eyes especially at the crucial moment..

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"You might look abit weird if your eyes are wide open

Lmao. You mean like a startled look? Haha

Ok, you know what I meant. I was using a turn of phrase."

I mean like when cats see something they want to attack and their eyes get huge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes open for me very important to look at one another you can tell so much from eye contact!

But at time they do happen to close

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

near Chesterfield

Oh yes. Definitely eyes wide open.

Seeing their reaction to your touch on their faces in in their eyes.

Only close during kissing.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Would say a bit of both, depends on the position, the person, the relationship.

I do enjoy a bit of sensory play so being blindfolded takes the option away but heightens the other senses.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"You might look abit weird if your eyes are wide open

Lmao. You mean like a startled look? Haha

Ok, you know what I meant. I was using a turn of phrase.

I mean like when cats see something they want to attack and their eyes get huge "

Oh Keeley. Typical! Always take the conversation back to pussies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some things I like to see

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Eyes open for me very important to look at one another you can tell so much from eye contact!

But at time they do happen to close "

Yup. Just turns me on so much to enjoy what's hapoening. That's why one of my things is to fuck in front of a mirror. So even in doggy you can see each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both for me however I do struggle to look at any guy but my fella whilst fucking I think cause I might laugh at their sex face

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"A bit of both for me however I do struggle to look at any guy but my fella whilst fucking I think cause I might laugh at their sex face "

Lol. That's pretty funny

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Eyes wide open definitely. Absolutely love seeing Lou’s face as she’s cumming hard on my cock. Such a turn on.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes closed so I can imagine I'm somewhere else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes open of course for me

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

Closed for kissing, but absolutely love keeping eye contact as a guy cums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Closed for kissing, but absolutely love keeping eye contact as a guy cums"

I agree closed for kissing, open for f**king especially for cowgirl position

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By *iFi19Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I’m told I’m like a shark when kissing that goes in for attack and shuts their eyes otherwise, I love eyes open looking right into someone’s eyes guaging their reactions and responding to you and your pleasure. Also always good to catch the mirror and my /their expressions in that, when getting pounded from behind! A bit of both really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closed when breathing in and feeling it, but open if I notice the other person keeps them open, looking directly into each others eyes can be intense =)

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Closed for kissing, but absolutely love keeping eye contact as a guy cums"

Love it!

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I’m told I’m like a shark when kissing that goes in for attack and shuts their eyes otherwise, I love eyes open looking right into someone’s eyes guaging their reactions and responding to you and your pleasure. Also always good to catch the mirror and my /their expressions in that, when getting pounded from behind! A bit of both really "

Perfect!

My thinking exactly. That's why I like mirrors - never lose a moment of each other's pleasure as it feeds your own too.

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