FabSwingers.com forum: How has fab changed you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has Fab changed you even??

Has it changed you for the better? More open minded? Body confident? Do you feel more supported being in touch with others in the swinging world?

Has it changed you for worse?

Imho fab has certainly made me more sexually confident, i’ve learned so much about sex, sexuality, sensuality etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More sexually open to new things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has definitely given me a lot of confidence and has helped me not get to attached to people especially as most are honest and open about what they want. Before joining fab I was very much put all my eggs in one basket and would get too attached and would always get let down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has made me finally feel like I am being true to myself, and fit in.

I never fit in before as I am too "straight to the point" for a woman in society,but in swinging clubs and on here, it seems to be what people like about me.

Body confidence and general wellbeing has improved massively too x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Its changed me in a lot of ways. I've learnt to accept my imperfections and have gained body confidence a lot more than I did have.

I've also learnt that there are a lot more good people about than there are not so nice people.

Friends can be made online with people I've never met and support given from people I've never spoke to.

I've also learnt, and this is the biggest achievement for me, that I'm a stronger person than I thought x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It brought us two much closer to each other .

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By *ork10Man
over a year ago

York

"It has made me finally feel like I am being true to myself, and fit in.

I never fit in before as I am too "straight to the point" for a woman in society,but in swinging clubs and on here, it seems to be what people like about me.

Body confidence and general wellbeing has improved massively too x"

Your body is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's made me question everything, confidence dropped, feel like my inbox...empty

Nah not really, I find lots of joy from Fab but I'm certain the above is the case for many as well...it can be tough to deal with if your not thick skinned, mentally prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like it’s definitely made me less confident in how I look but meets I have had have made me more confident sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience hasnt been great and I am sceptical and suspicious when entering any conversation with a man. I haven't changed but I know myself and what I want more.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Oh I was going to ask this soon...

Mentally I don't know. Calmer and more comfortable knowing i can succeed in this worod I guess.

But physically... Lost 1.5 stone, fitter than I've been since my teens. Dressing smarter everyday by default (hello shirts and shoes, goodbye tshirts and trainers). More frequent haircuts and a new style... Hope it all sticks whatever the future holds!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I feel confident, happy and at home. This is the part of my life that was always missing for so many years. So glad i started swinging and so glad i joined fab .

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By *exyman0113Man
over a year ago

leeds

I'd have to say mentally as a single guy it's hard coping with the rejection. I would say I definitely question myself a lot more and am less confident on here than in the everyday world. It's not FAB I find the issue with but the fakes and timewasters that arrange meets then cancel them. After so long you really start to doubt yourself.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

Has been both good and bad

Had a lot of fun sex - i was a late developer..and was quite a good boy when younger. So it has made given me a range of new experiences

However, it has over time , I realise it can make you addictive to living for the next sexual high. And that can be bad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boosted confidence

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By *estthewateragainCouple
over a year ago

Chester Area

"Oh I was going to ask this soon...

Mentally I don't know. Calmer and more comfortable knowing i can succeed in this worod I guess.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Made me feel invisible... slightly superfluous... plankton.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Hasn't changed me. Maybe being stood up and ghosted as often as I am on here has made me a little more cynical.

Otherwise... I've stepped up my selfie game sure, but I've been doing the online thing on various sites for over a decade now, so all the liberation and what confidence I have came much earlier than this site did for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's made me realize how attractive a lot of gay men find me, but unfortunately I'm not gay myself.

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

Got curious. Trying curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's helped me realise that being fat is still attractive to many.

It has also made me far less trusting of people - I expected the nature of this site to mean that people were up front and honest, in fact I've found the opposite to be true.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Not changed me that much but helped me have loads of fun and let me meet find minded people. Was years of wanting to have bi fun and it wouldn’t of happened with out fab.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Been great. A boost to confidence and opened my eyes so much.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Oh and improved my acceptance of rejection no end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the better

Helped me to get in shape

Which in turn gave me a little of my

Old confidence back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own experiences of fab have made me less trusting of men and given me more respect for myself. For me the diamonds in the rough on fab are few and far between. I've learned that if you give a man an inch he will only want 4 more and revert straight back to the playground if I decline.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’ve been on and off here for over 10 years ..

Everything has changed in that time including me ..

Once you’ve opened this can of worms, you can’t put it back ..

You can’t go back to vanilla world and try to settle down as that wouldn’t fulfill me ..

I wish I’d stayed innocent tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely boosted confidence, but also opens up the questioning of other aspects of life away from fab.

I'm in my happy place now and have absolutely no regrets about doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s made me more confident in how I look, I used to hate my body.

I have made some amazing friends who I might never meet, but value them anyway, and some who I have met and now adore.

It’s made me more cynical and definitely guarded, but for those who mean something to me, it’s taught me that I can trust, I can open up and that I’m worth more than I thought I was in the past. It’s also given me something precious, that I am so grateful for x

Viv xx

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Having mild autism its definitely helped. Still not into long term steady relationships, but not botherd in that respect. No major negative issues.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"It brought us two much closer to each other . "

This....

It makes us stronger and stronger as a couple everytime we play, whether it's a club or private meet/party we always leave knowing we are going home together and madly in love with each other. It just works perfectly for us it allows us to explore our boundaries and live out our fantasies, we do it for our pleasure its just fortunate that others that we involve get pleasure out of it as well, win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has Fab changed you even??

Has it changed you for the better? More open minded? Body confident? Do you feel more supported being in touch with others in the swinging world?

Has it changed you for worse?

Imho fab has certainly made me more sexually confident, i’ve learned so much about sex, sexuality, sensuality etc.

Discuss.... kindly with love and respect

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made me realise there is others as kinky minded as me and let me explore and expand my fantasies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s made a good few positive impacts and let the good times continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me more confident even though you do get a few knock backs

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s made me wary of men and made me realise what they are really like.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

It's made me slightly more intolerant to time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say fab changed me but it's a good platform to practice saying "no thanks" without feeling guilty.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its an internet domain it hasn't changed me but have i changed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s made me wary of men and made me realise what they are really like.

This

In spite of the protests regularly dished out by middle aged angsty men, I genuinely believe men will do and say anything to secure sex or the promise of sex. This is the belief I have after speaking with men on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm now a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has given me the confidence that I've lacked over many years wouldn't dream of taking photographs of myself like I do now! Has taught me to love my own body and appreciate what I have!!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Not changed me was always confident and sexually adventurous ... maybe I’ve realised how men are sexually and what they will say and do to achieve sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has given me the confidence that I've lacked over many years wouldn't dream of taking photographs of myself like I do now! Has taught me to love my own body and appreciate what I have!!

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you have an amazing body for a lezzer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has made me finally feel like I am being true to myself, and fit in.

I never fit in before as I am too "straight to the point" for a woman in society,but in swinging clubs and on here, it seems to be what people like about me.

Body confidence and general wellbeing has improved massively too x"

This is our problem being straight to the point also, although we aren't on the forums as it's clearly frowned upon and we always end up on the naughty step

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

It’s made me better at rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me less trusting of people more cautious in general and more cynical I'm sure there's so.e good stuff too just can't think of any right now

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By *lick9Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I thought I was OK in the sack but soon realised I was so niave when I joined. I have learnt to become a far better meet and more confident. I have also learnt that there is more than one body type that turns me on and now realise its confidence that is the biggest attraction in the opposite sex. So I now know not to worry about what I look like and if someone likes me, then great and if they don't I am not offended any more as each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn't changed my life a single bit

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's been part of my ongoing personal growth. I've become more open minded and adventurous, confident and less people pleasing. Much more cynical, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My experience hasnt been great and I am sceptical and suspicious when entering any conversation with a man. I haven't changed but I know myself and what I want more. "

Kinda sums me up too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its got me doing things sexually i wouldnt have done otherwise, so a real positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now a owned sissy eager to please master and become so very submissive

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