FabSwingers.com forum: Punching

By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

So we all know there’s a lot of people on here that are way more attractive than ourselves. But would that stop you messaging someone because you thought you were punching above your weight

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Guess not then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woukdnt put me off messaging. You never know, you might get a decent response. It's always worth it. What's the worst that could happen?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No it wouldn't stop me, it's all subjective anyway isn't it? The worst that can happen is they block me

What about you OP?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

For me yes and I always look at previous meets,so if they are all the opposite to me ,i wouldn't message them and would prob say no if they got in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess not then lol"

Hell no. I keep striking out with people I think should be playing in my division as it is - so how much worse could it be?

Nothing ventured...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest, regret is a lot worse than rejection.

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby

Can't lie lad most messages I send on here I feel like I'm punching as a single guy there are tons of us compared to the lasses so to get even a reply I'm rather happy

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Wouldn't stop me, everyone's tastes are different

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"No it wouldn't stop me, it's all subjective anyway isn't it? The worst that can happen is they block me

What about you OP? "

I think it’s worth a chance for some

Who knows the might strangely like me lol

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I'd be hesitant but I'd probably do it.

We can't all like everyone and you never know someone's type.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not at all. They can only say no which will not kill me cos im a tough cookie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it wouldn't stop me, it's all subjective anyway isn't it? The worst that can happen is they block me

What about you OP? "

I think I even messaged you a few weeks ago - I'm plainly not shy about aiming high

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

If you don’t buy a ticket... plus you can be a 10/10 but once you get talking that view can quickly change lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how confident you are in yourself. I think I'm amazing and anyone would be lucky to be with me x

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Not at all we will still let the person know we are interested, if they are not attracted to us then so be it

that's 100% there choice, unfortunately we can't be everyones cup of tea

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Nope, if you don't ask you don't get, so we'll give it a bash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident in the WHO I am, but not in the how I look, so I'm not that great at messaging. Daft really coz I know everyone is attracted to different things, people and and personalities.

B isn't self conscious like I am tho.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I never feel I'm punching above my weight. Either I'm attractive to someone or I'm not, they'll soon let me know either way. But the way someone looks doesn't make them better or worse than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really.

There's profiles that I'll read & come to the conclusion that I'm definitely not their cup of tea.

So I won't bother them.

(But it's not because I think they're too attractive, or I'm not attractive enough.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don’t buy a ticket... plus you can be a 10/10 but once you get talking that view can quickly change lol

Very true.. A connection is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it wouldn't put me off because everyone likes what they like this whole out of your league stuff is a confidence knock. Just message them you will only find out if they are interested if you at least try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm confident in the WHO I am, but not in the how I look, so I'm not that great at messaging. Daft really coz I know everyone is attracted to different things, people and and personalities.

B isn't self conscious like I am tho.

Not in the slightest, I couldn't give a monkeys.

Which is why we meet who we like, provided both of us and our prospective conspirators in shenanigans find the prospect of doing so tickles all our pickles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm confident in the WHO I am, but not in the how I look, so I'm not that great at messaging. Daft really coz I know everyone is attracted to different things, people and and personalities.

B isn't self conscious like I am tho.

Not in the slightest, I couldn't give a monkeys.

Which is why we meet who we like, provided both of us and our prospective conspirators in shenanigans find the prospect of doing so tickles all our pickles...

(B, btw...

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Would put me off, some sexy looking fellas I wouldn’t dream of messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess not then lol"
i punch above my weight

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've said it before on these threads, I really don't understand why people think in terms of punching above their weight when it comes to physical attraction.

Punching above your weight intellectually I can understand. I'd never enter an argument about nuclear physics with a nuclear physicist for example.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It used to put me off but now I just think why not. As a previous poster said, the worst that can happen is they block you. Life is all about taking risks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would put me off, some sexy looking fellas I wouldn’t dream of messaging

Now that is highly illogical. For one you look rather appealing as opposed to a beast and for another your profile is clearly written by one with a brain larger than an olive?

So dig those gloves out and start twatting things like Mr Fury....

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

If I fit their preferences and found them attractive then I'd message...they either say yes or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I've had messages from men who were far too hot for me or they have met women far more attractive than me. It instantly puts me off. I can't be what they want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes.

I've had messages from men who were far too hot for me or they have met women far more attractive than me. It instantly puts me off. I can't be what they want. "
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How do you know what they want? Genuine question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no such thing, people either find you attractive or not, it has bugger all to do with how attractive they, or you, are to others

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Nope, I'm a hot bitch and I only want fellow hotties to shag

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"So we all know there’s a lot of people on here that are way more attractive than ourselves. But would that stop you messaging someone because you thought you were punching above your weight "
yes. I often dont approach guys or message them . I'm aware though that I often am punching lol and think go me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I'm a hot bitch and I only want fellow hotties to shag

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Honesty is the best policy

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Yes I do / have

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"So we all know there’s a lot of people on here that are way more attractive than ourselves. But would that stop you messaging someone because you thought you were punching above your weight "

Absolutely not, you've got to be in it to win it and I've punched a few times on nights out, mind you I've been knocked back far more times !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

I've had messages from men who were far too hot for me or they have met women far more attractive than me. It instantly puts me off. I can't be what they want. "

But these folk might have varying tastes. You cant just sign yourself off because of other folk. If they messaged you, they are clearly interested.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Nope, I'm a hot bitch and I only want fellow hotties to shag

Honesty is the best policy

Indeed, you have to know your own worth

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

And that is why we love a natter on here and then a social meet. Actually meeting them before any play time is essential. You may look awesome but if your attitude stinks and you have zero personality, we’re not interested. We may not be everyone’s cup of tea either. That’s life.

Ed x

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby

"So we all know there’s a lot of people on here that are way more attractive than ourselves. But would that stop you messaging someone because you thought you were punching above your weight "

I wish ppl would chat more. I’ve fancied very very few based on looks. More on personality and sense of fun.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I don't see why not as I am punching above my weight anyway with the hubby

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Yes.

I've had messages from men who were far too hot for me or they have met women far more attractive than me. It instantly puts me off. I can't be what they want. "

If they're messaging you they obviously want you.

I think what a lot of women don't get is that most blokes would cheerfully shag 90% of the women on here, given the opportunity. Hence the fact that a bloke has shagged someone you consider hotter than you is irrelevant to whether he fancies you or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in trying

Just like to add

NSAchick your hot

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Stops me (Mrs) all the time.

Mr couldn't care less and would message anyone he liked the look of (if I let him) and wouldn't care if he got a no thanks.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Never think your punching above your weight as you don’t know what that persons tastes are, if you take a liking to someone go for it, what’s the worst that can happen?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Yes.

I've had messages from men who were far too hot for me or they have met women far more attractive than me. It instantly puts me off. I can't be what they want.

But these folk might have varying tastes. You cant just sign yourself off because of other folk. If they messaged you, they are clearly interested."

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it stops me however I do get enough courage to make a move sometimes with mixed results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don’t buy a ticket... plus you can be a 10/10 but once you get talking that view can quickly change lol

Definitely agree with this 10/10 looks and body does not mean a 10/10 connection xx

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"For me yes and I always look at previous meets,so if they are all the opposite to me ,i wouldn't message them and would prob say no if they got in touch."

^^ Absolutely this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we all know there’s a lot of people on here that are way more attractive than ourselves. But would that stop you messaging someone because you thought you were punching above your weight "

Yeah I think it would.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"No harm in trying

Just like to add

NSAchick your hot

Thank you

I think it's a shame that people wouldn't contact those they deem "too hot", seems like a lot of missed opportunities out there.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We've been happily surprised by several couples

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Our hotlist is full of women and couples we'll never message as we consider them too hot so the answer is yes I guess.

In fact I even get in trouble with the mrs for winking couples who are too hot

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

It shouldn't but it does . X storm x

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By *arkhorse66Man
over a year ago

bristol

I would still message, in a complimentary way and without expectation. This has resulted in some pleasant message exchanges.

And in one case I’ve been very lucky to meet such a lady and I continue to do so, pinching myself each time we meet just to make sure it’s real!! ??

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

For those who wouldn't... how do you think the people you have met would feel, to see you say you wouldn't contact or meet anyone too hot?

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"For those who wouldn't... how do you think the people you have met would feel, to see you say you wouldn't contact or meet anyone too hot? "

That's a very good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I'm afraid pretty heavy guy so not many of you would be above my weight.

But I look at the picture, think 'she's hot', read the profile to see what she/they are looking for, and if it matches up then I message (sometimes I miss the age range but Fab catches that for me).

I don't worry about too hot for me because I get so few messages directly to me. I can literally count them on one hand.

It's not worth worrying about and limiting chances further

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By *rofessJayWoman
over a year ago

wherever

When someone messages me, I always look at

Their other meets and if they look hotter than me (thats bodywise) as I know I’m not bad looking, I don’t message them back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's really insulting when people say they won't meet those they deem to be out of their league etc. So glad I haven't met any of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's really insulting when people say they won't meet those they deem to be out of their league etc. So glad I haven't met any of you!"

Cracking pictures on your profile and I was gonna message you to say so but then I read your profile and thought, what's the point....you only want people to message you if they're black! So your own profile puts people off from attempting to message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's really insulting when people say they won't meet those they deem to be out of their league etc. So glad I haven't met any of you!

Yep. It works then!

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

We take looks as a gift given at birth. We have met with some amazing couples that we would consider "out of our league" but looks would never stop us approaching a hot couple or female in a club, personality is more important than looks. 9 times out of 10 they are just a normal person looking for the same as everyone else and as long as people contact with a good personality thats all that matters. Once the ice is broken the rest is easy x

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"No it wouldn't stop me, it's all subjective anyway isn't it? The worst that can happen is they block me

What about you OP? "

Why would anyone want to block you :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we all know there’s a lot of people on here that are way more attractive than ourselves. But would that stop you messaging someone because you thought you were punching above your weight "

Lmao yes!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

As much as people say it doesn't exist......it really does.

I know for a fact that most guys who message me on fabs wouldn't give me the time of day out in the real world.

So I am a firm believer that there are people who are out of my league.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Absolutely, I'm terrified of it half the time. Best avoided according to my self doubts!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I can't believe the amount of people that wouldn't do it. Are you all terrified of rejection? From a complete stranger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As much as people say it doesn't exist......it really does.

I know for a fact that most guys who message me on fabs wouldn't give me the time of day out in the real world.

So I am a firm believer that there are people who are out of my league."

Don’t be so sure xx

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"As much as people say it doesn't exist......it really does.

I know for a fact that most guys who message me on fabs wouldn't give me the time of day out in the real world.

So I am a firm believer that there are people who are out of my league."

I guess the league just works to different rules. But for guys, thinking they can cut out 95% of the preamble is very appealing!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"As much as people say it doesn't exist......it really does.

I know for a fact that most guys who message me on fabs wouldn't give me the time of day out in the real world.

So I am a firm believer that there are people who are out of my league.

Don’t be so sure xx"

I am pretty damn sure!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"As much as people say it doesn't exist......it really does.

I know for a fact that most guys who message me on fabs wouldn't give me the time of day out in the real world.

So I am a firm believer that there are people who are out of my league.

Don’t be so sure xx

I am pretty damn sure!"

Without the face pics, I'd guess if I were single I wouldnt think you'd be the sort of woman I'd class as "like me" or something. But as it's a different landscape here, I'd be very interested in you at a club at a very real level. You probably wouldn't think I'm out of your league though!

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"For those who wouldn't... how do you think the people you have met would feel, to see you say you wouldn't contact or meet anyone too hot? "

Not messaging people who you consider "too hot" doesn't mean you don't consider the people you've met hot, we've met and played with some stunning couples, some of who we'd never have messaged first some we've never spoken to on fab at all but I don't think any of them would believe there aren't people hotter out there, who'd be that arrogant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's really insulting when people say they won't meet those they deem to be out of their league etc. So glad I haven't met any of you!

Yep. It works then!

My point was that your post contradicts your profile.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"As much as people say it doesn't exist......it really does.

I know for a fact that most guys who message me on fabs wouldn't give me the time of day out in the real world.

So I am a firm believer that there are people who are out of my league.

Don’t be so sure xx

I am pretty damn sure!"

Well from what we see, I'm surprised you don't have the pic of the bunch? Would you say its more a self confidence thing? You look great from where we are standing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't believe the amount of people that wouldn't do it. Are you all terrified of rejection? From a complete stranger?"

Yes.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I'm already punching waaaay above my weight with rhiannon as you can see in our pics

. I do have an issue with self image and confidence since I put on weight through illness. When people actually meet me they are surprised by that as I'm really chatty and love to engage with everyone but can never see people actually finding me attractive.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm friends with some of the most beautiful ladies on this site (IMO) and I was glad to find them beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I'm friends with some of the most beautiful ladies on this site (IMO) and I was glad to find them beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.

Thanks

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm friends with some of the most beautiful ladies on this site (IMO) and I was glad to find them beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.

Thanks

Excuse me miss.....

You won't let me on your friends list, but you know I think you're amazing

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I'm friends with some of the most beautiful ladies on this site (IMO) and I was glad to find them beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.

Thanks

Excuse me miss.....

You won't let me on your friends list, but you know I think you're amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the equivalent of Amir Khan taking on Tyson Fury when it comes to punching above my own weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel like I'm punching! But I still go for it anyway usually.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I always feel like I'm punching! But I still go for it anyway usually. "

Behave you.

You're absolutely gorgeous and sexy as sexy gets. Xxx

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

"I always feel like I'm punching! But I still go for it anyway usually.

Behave you.

You're absolutely gorgeous and sexy as sexy gets. Xxx

I couldn't agree more

This man speaks sense

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Feint heart never won fair maiden. I learned that the hard way as a teenager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always feel like I'm punching! But I still go for it anyway usually.

Behave you.

You're absolutely gorgeous and sexy as sexy gets. Xxx

I couldn't agree more

This man speaks sense"

Well thank you very much both of you!

I'm fine with it though, I'm a big fan of faking it til you make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel like I'm punching on here I'm a 40 year old man with a dad bod

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I always feel like I'm punching! But I still go for it anyway usually.

Behave you.

You're absolutely gorgeous and sexy as sexy gets. Xxx

I couldn't agree more

This man speaks sense

Well thank you very much both of you!

I'm fine with it though, I'm a big fan of faking it til you make it

I'd love to make it with you.

Just saying. Xxx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I always feel like I'm punching on here I'm a 40 year old man with a dad bod"

But you get offers though, right?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always feel like I'm punching on here I'm a 40 year old man with a dad bod

But you get offers though, right?! "

Sometimes but sometimes life gets in the way

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I always feel like I'm punching on here I'm a 40 year old man with a dad bod

But you get offers though, right?!

Sometimes but sometimes life gets in the way"

Understandable.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel like I'm punching any advice?

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I'm always punching. Usually fail. But if you don't try you don't get.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

"I always feel like I'm punching on here I'm a 40 year old man with a dad bod"

Nothing wrong with a dad bod unless it's like mine. I've put on so much weight my belly button has its own echo

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I always feel like I'm punching any advice? "

Yeah. Most people want equality in a relationship, they don't want the other person to feel inferior to them in any way, not if they have any regard for them anyway.

Believe in your own worth

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over a year ago

"I always feel like I'm punching any advice?

Yeah. Most people want equality in a relationship, they don't want the other person to feel inferior to them in any way, not if they have any regard for them anyway.

Believe in your own worth"
oh i do i do i do i do i do i do

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over a year ago

"I'm friends with some of the most beautiful ladies on this site (IMO) and I was glad to find them beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.

Thanks

Excuse me miss.....

You won't let me on your friends list, but you know I think you're amazing

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Fab hubby no 2 in the making

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I make a point of messaging the hottest girls on the most fabbed list, at least one a week. They've never replied but it's nice to give complements too.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

This weekend I have punched so far above my weight that Tyson would be scared !!!

Still waiting for someone to pinch me and tell me it was just a dream.

I ended up in an orgy with women that Easley fall into the "model" page one of the HOT list.

Got taken into a room with two men that was so hot and lush beyond belief.

Got used by a rather hot "dom" lady.

Pegged by a lady that wanted to "try it".

The rest was just a daze .

A weekend that I will rem_mber for a long time.x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Our very first night swinging 8months ago we went to a club, had a look around , found the most attractive girl in the club chatted at the bar and then asked her to join us upstairs. It’s not punching above your weight it’s just being confident and going for what you want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I always feel like I'm punching any advice?

Yeah. Most people want equality in a relationship, they don't want the other person to feel inferior to them in any way, not if they have any regard for them anyway.

Believe in your own worthoh i do i do i do i do i do i do

Me too. It's a height thing

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm friends with some of the most beautiful ladies on this site (IMO) and I was glad to find them beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.

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Excuse me miss.....

You won't let me on your friends list, but you know I think you're amazing

Fab hubby no 2 in the making

It's taken 5 months just to get on her friends list.

It could be a long engagement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being an ugly lad I’ve learned to use humour

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I make a point of messaging the hottest girls on the most fabbed list, at least one a week. They've never replied but it's nice to give complements too."

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over a year ago

"So we all know there’s a lot of people on here that are way more attractive than ourselves. But would that stop you messaging someone because you thought you were punching above your weight "

I rarely if ever message anyone who I believe to be out of my league. Anyone in the most dabbed never get a message from me.

I just think ‘what’s the point, they’d be sitting on an inbox already bursting, my message would have no chance of getting through.’

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over a year ago

"So we all know there’s a lot of people on here that are way more attractive than ourselves. But would that stop you messaging someone because you thought you were punching above your weight "

Yes it stops me messaging some guys.

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

I'd not message them, purely because the last time I did,which was a long time ago now, I got ghosted...One thing that really grinds my gears is that shit, a simple " your not my type" or " sorry I'm not interested" would be fine....So now when I do send messages I always state that I'm no porn star,i ain't a size zero and I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea....Sad I know but it's out there then.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish i was punching

i'm more like on the floor taking a 10 count

mind you for an obvious 10/10 like me its hard to punch above your weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be brave enough to ask the question you never know what somebody else is thinking. confidence is key

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