FabSwingers.com forum: No meets explained

By *uncpl187 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

So many posts about people asking why they don't have any luck.Well for us we know why we don't.But we still love being on here chatting and making friends even if nothing happens.

Our reasons for not having any luck are...

We bigger than most are looking for.(Ok we are fat) lol

We can't accom as we have Family living with us.

I am not well endowed like some pics I have seen on here lol

We don't do full swap.

We are Bi.

I think that is us covered.

So now you know why we have no luck.Anyone like to add anything???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ugly and shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking to meet, plus I live the other side of the World from most people on here

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because I want to watch my husband and only play with the female of the cpl and single girls are so hard to find

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

I think you're being way too self critical.

If you were closer I'd happily meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not looking to meet, plus I live the other side of the World from most people on here

And my photos look far more inviting than the full package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you're being way too self critical.

If you were closer I'd happily meet up. "

I'd second that

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By *uncpl187 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

No one is ugly.Appearance is just a matter of opinion.Shyness can be a good thing.Much better to be shy than over confident and turn into a disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one is ugly.Appearance is just a matter of opinion.Shyness can be a good thing.Much better to be shy than over confident and turn into a disappointment."

But I am ugly

my face looks like it's been set on fire and put out with a fork. I'm under confident, and always put in the extra effort because of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because i am idiot and make bad choices

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By *uncpl187 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"Because i am idiot and make bad choices "

I think we have all done that sometime in our lives lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm a Glaswegian scumbag and look older that 33 supposedly

Don't say you're fat

hit the tarmac and change it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because my meets and verifications were on an old profile. When I rejoined I wasn't bothered about meets, now I am no one will as no verifications. Plus I don't accommodate as I have a vunerable child so only people I know and trust allowed in my house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm a fat, ugly cunt with chronic depression, crippling social and performance anxiety and the charm of a socket wrench.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we won't "meet now"

We want a bi man (a real one not one who will let my husband suck his cock so he can fuck me)

We want an unhurried evening meet (the 'single' men have to get home to there wives though so can only do tues/weds morn at 10 for an hour)

We don't accommodate because of family at home although do pay for hotels.

We want a chat first (it's only polite if we are potentially going to fuck after all)

Apparently this is too much to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I hate myself and want to die?

I think my pic and profile is all the information you guys need x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because we won't "meet now"

We want a bi man (a real one not one who will let my husband suck his cock so he can fuck me)

We want an unhurried evening meet (the 'single' men have to get home to there wives though so can only do tues/weds morn at 10 for an hour)

We don't accommodate because of family at home although do pay for hotels.

We want a chat first (it's only polite if we are potentially going to fuck after all)

Apparently this is too much to ask

If you ever fancy a trip to Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because we won't "meet now"

We want a bi man (a real one not one who will let my husband suck his cock so he can fuck me)

We want an unhurried evening meet (the 'single' men have to get home to there wives though so can only do tues/weds morn at 10 for an hour)

We don't accommodate because of family at home although do pay for hotels.

We want a chat first (it's only polite if we are potentially going to fuck after all)

Apparently this is too much to ask

If you ever fancy a trip to Yorkshire

You could pop down to Kent the motorway goes both ways

great profile by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because we won't "meet now"

We want a bi man (a real one not one who will let my husband suck his cock so he can fuck me)

We want an unhurried evening meet (the 'single' men have to get home to there wives though so can only do tues/weds morn at 10 for an hour)

We don't accommodate because of family at home although do pay for hotels.

We want a chat first (it's only polite if we are potentially going to fuck after all)

Apparently this is too much to ask

If you ever fancy a trip to Yorkshire

You could pop down to Kent the motorway goes both ways

great profile by the way "

I could, I only suggested you come up here because you say you cant accommodate, we should chat and see if we click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't currently accommodate or travel, which kind of limits options!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have much luck meeting women through this site who I am attracted too.

If I was a any holes a goal type of man, then I could of had plenty of sex.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because men treat me like an item in the argos catalogue and my wants and needs are non-consequential to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because we won't "meet now"

We want a bi man (a real one not one who will let my husband suck his cock so he can fuck me)

We want an unhurried evening meet (the 'single' men have to get home to there wives though so can only do tues/weds morn at 10 for an hour)

We don't accommodate because of family at home although do pay for hotels.

We want a chat first (it's only polite if we are potentially going to fuck after all)

Apparently this is too much to ask

If you ever fancy a trip to Yorkshire

You could pop down to Kent the motorway goes both ways

great profile by the way

I could, I only suggested you come up here because you say you cant accommodate, we should chat and see if we click

You say you can accommodate but it don't mean you will so we don't want to be presumptuous lol check you inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one is ugly.Appearance is just a matter of opinion.Shyness can be a good thing.Much better to be shy than over confident and turn into a disappointment.

But I am ugly

my face looks like it's been set on fire and put out with a fork. I'm under confident, and always put in the extra effort because of this."

I used to think that. Women generally like guys personality, if they give him chance to show it. Personally I think that's the biggest reason people can't get meets.

Plus everyone seems nuts. (Mostly the good fun nuts variety.)

Depends what people expect from this site. If you sign up thinking because your online and have put a dick n body pic up you are going to instantly have women wanting to ride you til dawn then it doesnt work like that.

Try going to a club, I don't. It's not my thing. But your chances will improve in person. Mainly as then you get to show your personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of people on here never get a single meet, it's the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves for me. Chatted to some lovely people but my brain always overthinks things and then I get nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one is ugly.Appearance is just a matter of opinion.Shyness can be a good thing.Much better to be shy than over confident and turn into a disappointment.

But I am ugly

my face looks like it's been set on fire and put out with a fork. I'm under confident, and always put in the extra effort because of this.

I used to think that. Women generally like guys personality, if they give him chance to show it. Personally I think that's the biggest reason people can't get meets.

Plus everyone seems nuts. (Mostly the good fun nuts variety.)

Try going to a club, I don't. It's not my thing. But your chances will improve in person. Mainly as then you get to show your personality."

I used to be on here as ½ of a couple I know what this site is like from the other angle, done clubs as a couple and enjoyed them, done clubs as a single and it quickly became apparent that it was the ex that attracted the attention, the main reason I'm back on here is because I missed the social aspect of swinging more than the sexual encounters, theres liberated freedom attached to this lifestyle that suits me just fine, I cant sit in a pub or coffee shop with my vanilla friends who are all married off and talk about pegging, cuckholding or ruined orgasms, they simply dont get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one is ugly.Appearance is just a matter of opinion.Shyness can be a good thing.Much better to be shy than over confident and turn into a disappointment.

But I am ugly

my face looks like it's been set on fire and put out with a fork. I'm under confident, and always put in the extra effort because of this.

I used to think that. Women generally like guys personality, if they give him chance to show it. Personally I think that's the biggest reason people can't get meets.

Plus everyone seems nuts. (Mostly the good fun nuts variety.)

Try going to a club, I don't. It's not my thing. But your chances will improve in person. Mainly as then you get to show your personality.

Confirms why clubs don't interest me really. Plus I'm not on here to have sex with everyone I can, I came to find a fwb, which i have. So I can't complain.

And yes, if another hot woman and I meet and they become regular too or I meet with a couple then cool, but I don't really search for anyone on here at the moment that often.

I just want to find a small group of people I click with and make friends. So far so good.

But it's about patient, luck of messaging the right thing to the right person and most of all and narrowing down the ones who aren't compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one is ugly.Appearance is just a matter of opinion.Shyness can be a good thing.Much better to be shy than over confident and turn into a disappointment.

But I am ugly

my face looks like it's been set on fire and put out with a fork. I'm under confident, and always put in the extra effort because of this.

I used to think that. Women generally like guys personality, if they give him chance to show it. Personally I think that's the biggest reason people can't get meets.

Plus everyone seems nuts. (Mostly the good fun nuts variety.)

Try going to a club, I don't. It's not my thing. But your chances will improve in person. Mainly as then you get to show your personality.

Confirms why clubs don't interest me really. Plus I'm not on here to have sex with everyone I can, I came to find a fwb, which i have. So I can't complain.

And yes, if another hot woman and I meet and they become regular too or I meet with a couple then cool, but I don't really search for anyone on here at the moment that often.

I just want to find a small group of people I click with and make friends. So far so good.

But it's about patient, luck of messaging the right thing to the right person and most of all and narrowing down the ones who aren't compatible "

Indeed, and patience is a virtue

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

I meet 1 person regularly but I haven't met anyone new for a couple of years. Mainly because I can't be bothered with chatting and then being disappointed with being let down , being fed a load of bull just to get in my pants or being ghosted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a hectic schedule with work, if I’m not working I’m usually taken up by family (babysitting nephew) or have appointments so I rarely have chance to even use the site. I’d love to do more and get to clubs again but with how my schedule has been recently I can’t even find the time to have to myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for something quite specific.

I'm not prepared to travel 100 miles.

I'm not into swinging or swinging clubs.

I can't be bothered with passive women who don't bother to tell me what they like or what they are looking for. (Last few messages I've received were from women who had empty profiles. They just said they liked my profile and were interested. Other than that they were closed books and unless I carried the conversation they wouldn't chat. These were women who messaged me first )

Oh, and I'm also a single man which means I have a 1% chance of meeting anyone off fab (please save me the "effort=meets" rubbish

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Because I don't know what I want so can't look for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because we won't "meet now"

We want a bi man (a real one not one who will let my husband suck his cock so he can fuck me)

We want an unhurried evening meet (the 'single' men have to get home to there wives though so can only do tues/weds morn at 10 for an hour)

We don't accommodate because of family at home although do pay for hotels.

We want a chat first (it's only polite if we are potentially going to fuck after all)

Apparently this is too much to ask

this this this everytime and always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one wants to meet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm intolerant of others bullshit

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Because we won't "meet now"

We want a bi man (a real one not one who will let my husband suck his cock so he can fuck me)

We want an unhurried evening meet (the 'single' men have to get home to there wives though so can only do tues/weds morn at 10 for an hour)

We don't accommodate because of family at home although do pay for hotels.

We want a chat first (it's only polite if we are potentially going to fuck after all)

Apparently this is too much to ask

Huh yes, sounds familiar!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"No one wants to meet now

People do, but our main obstacles are

1) We're fussy and want someone who is not only attractive to us, but also intelligent. So we don't just jump at every guy who calls.

2) We can't accommodate (kids) and have to arrange childcare in advance to meet. We can't drop everything and run (well, I can't run, period!)

3) Some people are put off by a wheelchair user, even though I can walk and am sexually unaffected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People just want to talk, we can talk after ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quickly hopping on a plane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many posts about people asking why they don't have any luck.Well for us we know why we don't.But we still love being on here chatting and making friends even if nothing happens.

Our reasons for not having any luck are...

We bigger than most are looking for.(Ok we are fat) lol

We can't accom as we have Family living with us.

I am not well endowed like some pics I have seen on here lol

We don't do full swap.

We are Bi.

I think that is us covered.

So now you know why we have no luck.Anyone like to add anything???

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would love to meet up with you guys

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"People just want to talk, we can talk after ffs

Depends what people are looking for. A one off? Talking may not be necessary. A regular thing? I definitely want to be able to talk to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get knocked back a lot because I'm bi , I've actually been called disgusting for being a bi guy by a married lady who is bi herself. Oh and I've got a small cock .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather put my money towards taking a girl out than the extortionate fees charged to single males by clubs

Before anyone says ‘you should go to a club’

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By *uncpl187 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Don't you just love it when you always get messages from guys that says they are straight on their profile,but say they want fun with us.Even though on our profile it says no single guys and looking for bi couples lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because I wont "meet now"

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I'm intolerant of others bullshit "

Yep. It's quite a stumbling block on here.

I also know what I want and it's not something fabsingle men can provide - not many can do an overnight on a Saturday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very old, and very very far away.

The second point there of course also explains why my cock looks so tiny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am a nice guy with restrictions and that isn't what others are looking for lol

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I don't have much luck meeting women through this site who I am attracted too.

If I was a any holes a goal type of man, then I could of had plenty of sex. "

Hmmm really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm intolerant of others bullshit

Yep. It's quite a stumbling block on here.

I also know what I want and it's not something fabsingle men can provide - not many can do an overnight on a Saturday!"

I need to quit smoking again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because i was talking to two at a time & i confused their names in a message then they both blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because i was talking to two at a time & i confused their names in a message then they both blocked me

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm intolerant of others bullshit

Yep. It's quite a stumbling block on here.

I also know what I want and it's not something fabsingle men can provide - not many can do an overnight on a Saturday!"

Yeah,but I'm sure many will bullshit you they can,just to get some sort of response.

That's what I mean by bullshit,some of them will say anything in a desperate attempt for attention.

Sad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have a beard? Because i'm too short? Because I'm married - yeah that's the one I think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I have a beard? Because i'm too short? Because I'm married - yeah that's the one I think?"

Shave your beard, wear cuban heels and get divorced. You'll be drowning in loving then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I have a beard? Because i'm too short? Because I'm married - yeah that's the one I think?"

I feel your pain. I have all the same afflictions, providing, of course, that short refers to cock length

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Because i was talking to two at a time & i confused their names in a message then they both blocked me

School boy error

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're too old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm a shorty, (its just height, not really small in frame or in the other area) and I guess I'm not to some peoples taste where my Uni is, in London I'd maybe have better chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're too old.

Old is a state of mind no matter your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're too old.

Hell no. Mrs looks great

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We're too old.

Old is a state of mind no matter your age."

Agreed. It's about how others perceive us rather than how we perceive ourselves. That isn’t something we can change so we don't let it bother us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We're too old.

Hell no. Mrs looks great

Ta! Mr looks pretty good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're too old.

Hell no. Mrs looks great

Ta! Mr looks pretty good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're too old.

Old is a state of mind no matter your age.

Agreed. It's about how others perceive us rather than how we perceive ourselves. That isn’t something we can change so we don't let it bother us

That's the spirit

For the record I think you both look fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet as they all just want to steal my precious seed and ride my stunning body like a stolen hire bike.They never think about my feelings and how I cry myself to sleep after being used for amazing mind blowing sex.So I don't meet to protect myself from the sexual users on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We're too old.

Old is a state of mind no matter your age.

Agreed. It's about how others perceive us rather than how we perceive ourselves. That isn’t something we can change so we don't let it bother us

That's the spirit

For the record I think you both look fab

Thanks

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Because we won't "meet now"

We want a bi man (a real one not one who will let my husband suck his cock so he can fuck me)

We want an unhurried evening meet (the 'single' men have to get home to there wives though so can only do tues/weds morn at 10 for an hour)

We don't accommodate because of family at home although do pay for hotels.

We want a chat first (it's only polite if we are potentially going to fuck after all)

Apparently this is too much to ask

I know I’m far too far away, but if you ever make it out to Seattle, l would love to show you the sights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously I am extremely undesirable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’m only looking for a female to play with. Not interested in full swap or fucking another man, and my partner has no desire to play with anyone else either. I’m like a lightening rod for fakers and gobshites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very average! and can’t alway meet or make plans in advance

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over a year ago

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

My location, my situation and the fact I can be a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have muscles

Not blathered in shit tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I want my brain stimulated before my body can be. And because I am immune to all puppy-eyed mutes in clubs.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Because I’m only looking for a female to play with. Not interested in full swap or fucking another man, and my partner has no desire to play with anyone else either. I’m like a lightening rod for fakers and gobshites"

If only you were more local

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

Best place is going to clubs and parties, getting meet off here is impossible, it’s better to use this platform to see what events are happening around you.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Ours is

We dont do full swaps

We dont accommodate

And probably other reasons we dont no about

Not saying we haven't had any meets though

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

This is exactly the same as us

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We insist on a social first.

Because I (Mrs), now show as straight on our profile after several couples wanted guaranteed female play and had the “put a show on for my man” mentality. I’m not a performing monkey!

We can only meet week day evenings

Yep we sound like a right catch

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"We insist on a social first.

Because I (Mrs), now show as straight on our profile after several couples wanted guaranteed female play and had the “put a show on for my man” mentality. I’m not a performing monkey!

We can only meet week day evenings

Yep we sound like a right catch

We should talk... Oh we have! :D xx

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By *lliedomMan
over a year ago

Near Beaconsfield

"I'm not looking to meet, plus I live the other side of the World from most people on here

And my photos look far more inviting than the full package

I think your pics are lovely, too bad you’re not our side of the world x

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

"We insist on a social first.

Because I (Mrs), now show as straight on our profile after several couples wanted guaranteed female play and had the “put a show on for my man” mentality. I’m not a performing monkey!

We can only meet week day evenings

Yep we sound like a right catch

We should talk... Oh we have! :D xx"

I remember us doing more than talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nobody on here that's in my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you just love it when you always get messages from guys that says they are straight on their profile,but say they want fun with us.Even though on our profile it says no single guys and looking for bi couples lol"

Now that is the norm on Fab as over the years (Yes years been here before under different name) found that singles and many couples ignore profiles and prefer to forget the word "read".

Messages like "we are free now and can travel" get a standard reply "read pls profile". The usual is abuse and nasty others.

The other is I don't swing and it's all about "me" sorry messenger but it doesn't work like that. We are all here for not only Panda Sex (Cum, shoot and go) but also the social side a laugh shared, and much more.

That is why next to my shit health and ugly us we don't get many meets. This reason for nice, clean, warm swinger clubs ??

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Call us old fashioned but we like to get to know people, build a flirty rapport per se. Not looking for romance, just a mutual dirty little secret away from the vanilla friendship circle from time to time. A couple on the same wavelength without the drama and bullshit bravado. Are we too fussy? Probably but we’re in no rush whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged a meet but my battery ran out on the way there while I was posting silly posts on the forum so i couldn't let her know I was there

You might of seen her post about being stood up then another about silly excuses for not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fugly with both high standards and many hangups

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By *foroneCouple
over a year ago

Thirsk

Because we are picky, don’t have much free time. Because full swap isn’t an option. Because nobody wants to meet us. Or maybe because there are so many fakes/time wasters

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Because we don’t want Hook Ups with Horny 20 Something’s at 3am when they expect us to drive to pick them up, just so they can unload their bollocks.

Also. Because of the Fake Bi Guys who “Want us to Teach them” so they can do what’s mentioned above with the Fem.

Oh. And we have Standards and if truth be known, there are a lot of people on this site who we would describe as Scutters.

We want proper Swinging where the other party knows what that statement means

xxxxxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m a bisexual, married, non accommodating, 49 year old man. So plenty of reasons for not meeting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only you were more local

Get to no3 a bit. That’s localish

And been known to pop into Cupid’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bisexual, married, non accommodating, 49 year old man. So plenty of reasons for not meeting me. "

You just gave me four reasons not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're too old.

You look fantastic for your age Mrs

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I arranged a meet but my battery ran out on the way there while I was posting silly posts on the forum so i couldn't let her know I was there

You might of seen her post about being stood up then another about silly excuses for not meeting

Bit harsh

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

If only you were more local

Get to no3 a bit. That’s localish

And been known to pop into Cupid’s

Funny you should mention cupids ... thinking of going Friday

No3 has been reccomend to us. May get chance to meet in the future

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By *lowHands84Man
over a year ago

Holbeach

Because I’m not attractive enough and don’t always know how to talk to people on a site like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm not good looking, am bi and no one is willing to take a gamble. Plus I'm not very confident

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I’m a bisexual, married, non accommodating, 49 year old man. So plenty of reasons for not meeting me.

You just gave me four reasons not to

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you’re not my target audience though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’m nice, sweet & too much of s gentleman...all the fit birds just want to fuck the dickheads then moan about why they fucked that dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I knew, own house so can accommodate and wash with lynx shower gel, I'm baffled!

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By *lowHands84Man
over a year ago

Holbeach

"Because I’m nice, sweet & too much of s gentleman...all the fit birds just want to fuck the dickheads then moan about why they fucked that dickhead

I agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That lady that tried to touch my private parts totally put me off meeting anyone else on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is too intimidated by my good looks

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By *hilleddevilMan
over a year ago

north Manchester

Probably because I'm a bloke. No other reason needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People think I am a meathead or narcissistic? Or maybe my personality just sucks and I've the charisma of a bag of potatoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they see the 6pack & think i’ve already got a whole host of options to choose from so they never take me seriously when i tell them they’re gorgeous because they got one picture of a pair of shoes on their profile!

I might leave soon

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"People think I am a meathead or narcissistic? Or maybe my personality just sucks and I've the charisma of a bag of potatoes "

JakDexter, your profile says you'd be OK meeting straight couples but couples seem to be blocked

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By *andVCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Our biggest issue is impatient people lol were on the site because want to have fun and meet people but we have to feel comfortable if we are going to meet up, and not all, but a lot don't get that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People think I am a meathead or narcissistic? Or maybe my personality just sucks and I've the charisma of a bag of potatoes

JakDexter, your profile says you'd be OK meeting straight couples but couples seem to be blocked

I wasn't aware of that. Thank you for informing me

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