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Married with permission. Is it that rare?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m in a very unusual position, have an amazing missus and love life, we aren’t hardened swingers at all. Just like to be naughty.

We both work across the country and allow to play separately, she’s a member on a different site, we love to tell each other our stories and fun. We love that a lot, have total trust and ensure we are safe.

Occasionally we play mff mainly, but this is always spontaneous, when we are out. Occasional london club.

Is it that rare to have my set up?

T

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, lots of people do.

There are quite a few couples on fab who play separately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely fine with permission, totally wrong without permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to play alone but would love my hubby to go on solo meets, he's got a free pass but hasn't used it as yet.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I’ve got permission, to satisfy a certain need.

Also it is a bit of a safety net if both of us know what’s happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a good arrangement, my hubby and are similar. Shame your hidden though OP, Id have liked to perv

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

We both have free hall pass at all times. Sasha definitely uses hers more lol, and usually on holiday. Too many people know us at home. And our deal is we tell each other everything.

When Sasha plays without me, she usually tells me with my cock in her hand, or even with me inside her.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Hubby and i both play solo, but we always let the other know before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play separately and together x but both know at all times x

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By *exnPaul17Couple
over a year ago

Poole

We have played solo. It's not something we advertise it's something we do when we want to do it. We always discuss with each other in advance and we love hearing about each others experiences afterwards usually in bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

??????

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd

We play separately and together, there’s no secrets, we don’t like to put limits on ourselves, life’s way to short!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool - my missus encourages it x lucky I guess - I’d never cheat on her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol unhidden x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Same for us - openness and trust is absolutely key

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

I play solo.. As does my partner.. We find meeting couples that match us both is hard to find.. Also different shifts means we both have free time at separate times. So it works for us.. But we both know who we are meeting where and when..

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I’m in a very unusual position, have an amazing missus and love life, we aren’t hardened swingers at all. Just like to be naughty.

We both work across the country and allow to play separately, she’s a member on a different site, we love to tell each other our stories and fun. We love that a lot, have total trust and ensure we are safe.

Occasionally we play mff mainly, but this is always spontaneous, when we are out. Occasional london club.

Is it that rare to have my set up?

T

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Beautiful.. be grateful. You set each other free. It's rare in the scheme of things. I'm constantly in awe of couples who manage this with all the ups and downs it must sometimes bring.

Hats off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm allowed to play, but my wife knows what I'm looking for is beyond plain sex, and she trusts me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play separately and together, there’s no secrets, we don’t like to put limits on ourselves..."

What a wonderful profile and picture selection

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

I play alone with permission, but only with one guy, hence it's not on the profile. Hubby has full permission to play when he's away with work if he gets the opportunity x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Too right

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By *m6469Couple
over a year ago

Northwich

We both let each other play solo but we let each other know if we are meeting someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we play soft swing which is amazing but occasionally I want more, so I have the wifes blessing to do as I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both used to play seperately,but my wife has decided its not for her,but is happy for me to play solo,not that I've had much sucess lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play separately while hubby is at home.

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By *ne Speak and SpellMan
over a year ago

Greenwich

Yes, I have full permission. I've spun up a separate profile as our couples one seems to mostly attract single guys/couples. However, I'm very clear that I am married, and she can be contacted to confirm I'm not cheating (if that is a concern)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have permission, we have played together before, now exploring separately....wife has own profile on here...

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd


"We play separately and together, there’s no secrets, we don’t like to put limits on ourselves...

What a wonderful profile and picture selection "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play separately while hubby is at home."

Very naughty dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I play as a single female, with my husband's permission. He's not into swinging so he doesn't play at all, but he likes me to play at my local club and then tell him about it later while we have 'reclaim sex'.

Like a stag/vixen thing except he doesn't like to be there.

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

I actively encourage M to play alone if/when the opportunity is there.

I’m (c) am quite happy just to play as a couple although if I wanted to play alone M would be happy for me to.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

My wife's told me she has no problem with me playing as she's not got any real interest in sex any more and only does it to please me. Not entirely sure whether i should be grateful for the freedom or sad that she no longer cares. Its a bit of both I suppose. Anyway, nothing serious has come up yet so I've still to find out how i feel. That's why I'd like to sit and watch first before deciding whether it feels right to join in.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nor married but Jack and I meet separately too

I love hearing about Jacks meets

Its a good set up to have

Although harder for men as they still get doubted it seems .

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I like playing as a couple but love my hubby playing alone then coming home and telling me about it. It's how we started the lifestyle to begin with. He encourages me to play alone but dont k ow if I will or not.

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By *ink flamingoWoman
over a year ago

essex


"I’m in a very unusual position, have an amazing missus and love life, we aren’t hardened swingers at all. Just like to be naughty.

We both work across the country and allow to play separately, she’s a member on a different site, we love to tell each other our stories and fun. We love that a lot, have total trust and ensure we are safe.

Occasionally we play mff mainly, but this is always spontaneous, when we are out. Occasional london club.

Is it that rare to have my set up?

T

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Nope that’s our set up, separate meet occasionally an MMF that’s about it.

I don’t play at the moment, my choice as I have hubby and a regular fwb/boyfriend and don’t want anyone else at the moment.

Hubby plays when he gets the opportunity, works for us xx

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Hubby gave me a free pass, as long as I tell him all the naughty details when I get home

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Same for us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For us too ????????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair play - that’s a woman that loves and respects you - as I read your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are fully open to play both ways.

As long as we get all the details after.

Works for us

We find the less rules the better. Much more relaxed experience

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alwais with permission

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By *plashwhiCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"We are fully open to play both ways.

As long as we get all the details after.

Works for us

We find the less rules the better. Much more relaxed experience

Xx"

Same for us. We usually meet together and from fab always together, but outside of fab we can occasionally meet with other people and then we share stories. We always have this romantic setup after a meeting, gets us so aroused it's all about trust and being trusted, that's relationship

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"I’m in a very unusual position, have an amazing missus and love life, we aren’t hardened swingers at all. Just like to be naughty.

We both work across the country and allow to play separately, she’s a member on a different site, we love to tell each other our stories and fun. We love that a lot, have total trust and ensure we are safe.

Occasionally we play mff mainly, but this is always spontaneous, when we are out. Occasional london club.

Is it that rare to have my set up?

T

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I play with a couple of husbands and meet socially with their wives, its essentially sharing with friends but I like the clear boundaries and the no risk of clingy jealous feelings from a happily married couple.

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By *ibsonVicMan
over a year ago

Minworth

My wife doesn't give a toss what I do or who I do it with - as long as it doesn't involve her. Not quite the same sort of thing I admit...

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I am allowed to play with guys because I gave myself permission to do so. He knows off course and is happy as long as I am satisfied xx Vixen x

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I am meeting a lady and her and her hubby have a similar situation to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s normal. Hubby let’s me have fun as long as I send him pics x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great way to be isn’t it. Your quite local to me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Hoolie has permission to play separately. Tells archie all about it

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By *ilk and honey 2019Couple
over a year ago

Porthcawl

Jane plays alone most weeks with my permission

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