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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.

The whole idea really turns me on.

Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Bad idea if there was history there imo but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My exes are exes for good reason

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I have one yes, and probably would again. I don’t want him back though

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Ewwwww not something I would do !

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us."

Does he think this is the start of rekindling their relationship ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us.

Does he think this is the start of rekindling their relationship ?"

He moved away and paths are only crossing momentarily, so for us it was a chance to push some boundaries and have some fun with it.

As we see it, having an ex is a bit of a negative and this is a way to turn it into a positive.

We understand everybody would not be comfortable enough to want this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have one yes, and probably would again. I don’t want him back though "

Nice!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.

The whole idea really turns me on.

Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?"

Well the thought of having sex with my ex would be enough to turn celibate lol

However on a serious note please both be very careful. There were feelings before a lot stronger than just lust that could surface on either side without warning or expectation

All swingers know there is always a risk inviting anyone into the bed but they haven’t usually had relationships with them

Anyway , hope it’s as horny as you hope

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"for us it was a chance to push some boundaries and have some fun with it.

"

But is it fair on the ex not to tell him she is in a new relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.

The whole idea really turns me on.

Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?

Well the thought of having sex with my ex would be enough to turn celibate lol

However on a serious note please both be very careful. There were feelings before a lot stronger than just lust that could surface on either side without warning or expectation

All swingers know there is always a risk inviting anyone into the bed but they haven’t usually had relationships with them

Anyway , hope it’s as horny as you hope "

Thanks for the thoughtful message. I probably should have mentioned it was only a 1 year relationship through university so no deep roots being unturfed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What could possibly go wrong? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"for us it was a chance to push some boundaries and have some fun with it.

But is it fair on the ex not to tell him she is in a new relationship?"

That's your decision to make I suppose. In these circumstances we think its fine

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Bit unfair on the ex if he's unaware she's in a relationship. But each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit unfair on the ex if he's unaware she's in a relationship. But each to their own. "

Not often did I think there would be a situation that is unfair on the single guy getting to fuck a hottie when their paths cross but each to their own opinion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.

The whole idea really turns me on.

Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?"

Ex for a reason, massive mistake but just our opinion.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Shockingly poor swinger move lol. But to each their own. He‘ll obviously get a lot from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.

The whole idea really turns me on.

Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?"

Sounds like a car crash waiting to happen.

Also your fucking with the ex's emotions which is pretty shitty.

But each to their own

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

That’s relationship Russian roulette! I hope it ends well for ALL involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Loool loving the feedback. A lot of difference in opinion. Alot of people seem very against it in this thread but a lot of people in favour of it sending private messages. Maybe this says something lol

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loool loving the feedback. A lot of difference in opinion. Alot of people seem very against it in this thread but a lot of people in favour of it sending private messages. Maybe this says something lol

Interesting"

In fairness if I was interested in fucking your partner I'd possibly PM and say it was an excellent idea too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true mike haha

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Never play with other emotions. Swingers should have know better x. It the ex will be aware then fine but otherwise treat others like you would be treated.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion but a few points of note here.

The ex was a short university relationship.

They are now crossing paths momentarily, so no chance to see each other regularly and allow any feelings to be rekindled.

Whether he knows she's in a relationship now or not, I dont think hes looking to fall back in love. Maybe I'm wrong but doubt it, I'm seeing this from a man's pov.

OP you're missus is hot. I look regularly Love the challenge thing you do too

Enjoy and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucked my ex wife 2 years after we split, it was a month of meeting for great sex and we then moved on with no hard feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just my opinion but a few points of note here.

The ex was a short university relationship.

They are now crossing paths momentarily, so no chance to see each other regularly and allow any feelings to be rekindled.

Whether he knows she's in a relationship now or not, I dont think hes looking to fall back in love. Maybe I'm wrong but doubt it, I'm seeing this from a man's pov.

OP you're missus is hot. I look regularly Love the challenge thing you do too

Enjoy and have fun "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are an ex for a reason....leave it at that...plenty of new people to fuck...

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Playing with people’s emotions for kicks, could backfire, big time!

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Exes stay in the past no go back there only going to cause trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the ex knew about your relationship fine, everyone is consenting with all information out there, the fact that he doesn't know makes me say no. You're then potentially toying with his feelings as he doesn't know the whole situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dangerous territory for sure, I’ve had sex with exes but always make stone cold sure they know it’s only sex. First hint of feelings and I’m outa there

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Agreed

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us.

a chance to push some boundaries and have some fun with it.

"

What boundaries are you pushing ? Having your fun without consideration for someone else?

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"Just my opinion but a few points of note here.

The ex was a short university relationship.

They are now crossing paths momentarily, so no chance to see each other regularly and allow any feelings to be rekindled.

Whether he knows she's in a relationship now or not, I dont think hes looking to fall back in love. Maybe I'm wrong but doubt it, I'm seeing this from a man's pov.

OP you're missus is hot. I look regularly Love the challenge thing you do too

Enjoy and have fun "

What he said.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

There’s clearly a reason he’s an ex and as long as you are in control of the whole situation then why not.... an ex won’t have the awkwardness of the first meet when you are feeling your way.... although that is sometimes part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you gonna do if she runs off with him tho?

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich


"My exes are exes for good reason"

true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mrs has a situation arranged to meet her ex. He's not a "fabber" and doesn't know about us. They hadn't spoke for years and we came up with the idea recently.

The whole idea really turns me on.

Just wondering if any of you guys had done anything similar or have any thoughts on it?"

What people do is entirely up to them but the not telling him about her being in a relationship bit is taking away his choice in the matter I would feel, personally, that that is wrong ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I feel like the risk is too high since fun is all well and good but previous emotional connection is still a thing (since they probably didn't break up because of negativity)

I mean if it works out good for you but if I was with someone and swinging I'd probably avoid this kind of situation

Just seems a bit of a rocky slope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I feel like the risk is too high since fun is all well and good but previous emotional connection is still a thing (since they probably didn't break up because of negativity)

I mean if it works out good for you but if I was with someone and swinging I'd probably avoid this kind of situation

Just seems a bit of a rocky slope"

Lol I love how much people can make their own assumptions lol. This forum is funny.

Appreciate everybody's opinions!

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