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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people are far too shy aren't they? I realise ppl struggle with confidence etc but in this world if u don't ask u don't get. Shout out to everyone who has bit the bullet and reached out (not just to me btw I'm talking in general)

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Beryl here.

I’ve found my confidence is just going from strength to strength. I’m not embarrassed by my body anymore and not shy to say what I like and what I want xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good on u beryl. Unfortunately the odd di****ad puts ppl off but a majority of us are good people

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I must admit, I had the complete wrong vision in my head about clubs etc. Thinking it was sleezy and seedy. But now after 2.5 years in the lifestyle, I’d rather spend the evening in a hut tub naked with a load of swingers than sit down the pub!

Xx

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

I think swinging makes you more confident. We frequent clubs as opposed to meets. It shows you that swingers are all ages and sizes. Even gave us the courage to go to a naturist campsite last year.

Mrs x

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I must admit, I had the complete wrong vision in my head about clubs etc. Thinking it was sleezy and seedy. But now after 2.5 years in the lifestyle, I’d rather spend the evening in a hut tub naked with a load of swingers than sit down the pub!

Xx"

Same! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im actually incredibly shy in person especially first meets and only become more body confident in the middle of play when im too turned on to care what I look like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty of being shy about messaging people due to my own current limitations on my profile . I may wink from time to time but seldom get anywhere.

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By *ass and kinkWoman
over a year ago

kinxville

I might have a lack of confidence some days but would never describe myself as shy.... I'm way too gobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite shy naturally and do have a lack of confidence but once i get with the right people i soon forget about it!

It's just getting to that stage that's bloody awkward!!

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve had a lot of body confidence issues in the past however over the past few months I’ve started changing my eating habits and seeing a PT obviously I’ve still got a way to go but I’m definitely starting to feel more confident about my body which hubby loves turns out confidence is sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a lot of body confidence issues in the past however over the past few months I’ve started changing my eating habits and seeing a PT obviously I’ve still got a way to go but I’m definitely starting to feel more confident about my body which hubby loves turns out confidence is sexy "

Just looked at your pics. Hot. You look awesome

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

This lifestyle has certainly improved our confidence x

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve had a lot of body confidence issues in the past however over the past few months I’ve started changing my eating habits and seeing a PT obviously I’ve still got a way to go but I’m definitely starting to feel more confident about my body which hubby loves turns out confidence is sexy

Just looked at your pics. Hot. You look awesome "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a lot of body confidence issues in the past however over the past few months I’ve started changing my eating habits and seeing a PT obviously I’ve still got a way to go but I’m definitely starting to feel more confident about my body which hubby loves turns out confidence is sexy

Just looked at your pics. Hot. You look awesome

Thank you "

Very welcome

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

I have trouble with small talk and end up just standing like a spare part. When play starts more confident because I don't have to talk and can concentrate on being attentive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see people for who they are .. too many people want an Adonis or a beach babe .. give me a nice lady with a mature mind .. mature curvy body and you are putty in my hands

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I’m a little shy I’m so thankful my husband isn’t...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see people for who they are .. too many people want an Adonis or a beach babe .. give me a nice lady with a mature mind .. mature curvy body and you are putty in my hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I haven't actually met anyone, the aspect of being appreciated on here slowly made me more confident in things (the dates on the pictures show it I think)

I also appreciate the different body types on here and people being confident in themselves to show it (like me some thicc girls not gonna lie )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not good at starting a conversation but fine if someone talks to me, can never think of what to say first.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I did have body confidence issues and was very shy for years, not having sex with the lights on or letting a guy look at me when I was completely naked or even playing with myself while they watch..

But these last 4/5 years my confidence as skyrocketed, I don't care if you see my stretch marks, my wobbly belly, my c-section scar or even if I've got a spot on my arse... You want to fuck me then that's what your getting.. Don't like it then move out the queue and let the next guy thru

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel so much better about myself now than I ever have although I wouldn't be too forward unless I know they like curvy women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did have body confidence issues and was very shy for years, not having sex with the lights on or letting a guy look at me when I was completely naked or even playing with myself while they watch..

But these last 4/5 years my confidence as skyrocketed, I don't care if you see my stretch marks, my wobbly belly, my c-section scar or even if I've got a spot on my arse... You want to fuck me then that's what your getting.. Don't like it then move out the queue and let the next guy thru "

That's wonderful, may your queue of men get bigger by the day and keep you overflowing with cum.

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